Jayne78

A number of factors effect position most mentioned. 1 clothing if in a skirt this can be pulled up and a more upright stance can be taken this is more comfortable 2 leg strength guys trying hovering low for a minute or so it's not that easy 3 body some of us may spray more than others in which case the lower the better 4 exposure the lower the squat the less you will expose to the world 5 the most comfortable 6 what you are peeing onto for example concrete is more likely to splash than grass so the lower the the better. For me this was optimal in this c

Finished my run in just under 55 minutes though probs took a couple of minutes to start. I was wet by the end but not soaked and not obvious. Had to stop and squat after 4km behind a skip. Not much cover but had no choice.

Thank you for the info

Update : Job put off until this Friday

Fingers crossed or should I say legs

Thanks for the advice but I am doing this maybe a 100 a day at the moment to try to strengthen my pelvic muscles. I'm hoping to see some improvement soon xx

Yeh it's a lot easier for a bloke x

Dont think my husband would be to pleased. This would most of the time with my track record result in an accident. Seeing me wet is not an issue but getting pee on his pride and joy car would be a step to far.

Thanks for the input. Just under an hour is the aim

I love to go out running and have always leaked a little. Do any other ladies here have this issue? My answer is to wear black leggings which don't show the wetness. Recently it was got worse and my leggings can be completely soaked after a 3 mile run even if I try to empty my bladder before running. I have started to wear a pad but still leak. I am in a 10k fun run next weekend and very worried about embarrassing myself. Anyone any idea? A thicker pad is not really an option as it would rub and cause soreness.

As a 6 year old I remember my mum wetting herself in the car and my dad being furious. My brother would have been one. I guess she had the same issues as I am now experiencing.

Seems to happen to me mainly when outdoors and hubby watching on. This is sods law as the one time I want to get my pee over as quick as possible so I'm not seen squatting by strangers.

I have to pee within 2 minutes of getting up always no matter what time. I could try holding as long as possible but with my control would have to ensure the toilet was very close by else an accident would definitely occur. May try tomorrow morning as hubby at work at 6. I'll let you know how it turns out.

I was in the supermarket today when I literally bumped into my builder. I felt so uncomfortable knowing that he knows I have accidents as he said hello and eyed me up and down. As he was in the area he has arranged to come round Friday morning and finish some snaggings my husband had pointed out (he never saw the pics as I got to them first and deleted them). Fortunately I will be at work but was wondering what I should do. 1 nothing 2 ensure all evidence of accidents is destroyed 3 leave wet Jean's skirt etc for him to find and film him 4. Something else What do

This follows on just as few hours after the set I posted "Home for Lunch" We were having some land scaping work done in the back garden by a local firm. After having my lunch I had gone into town to do some shopping before picking the boys up on the way home. When I saw the pictures I could not believe what had accurred while I was out. My bathroom had had a visitor. The man in question was in his late 20s a bit rough but not unattrative. Unbelievable the workman comes into our ensuite when we have a downstairs toilet. OMG he has picked up my

A warm welcome to a very friendly forum

Anytime I fail to pee in the toilet for me is a bad experience. I do however remembet once at 6th form going out one friday night and being caught seriously short on the high street. I ended up yanking my Jean's down and peeing in a shop doorway in full view of a lot of friends both male and female. After that I had the nickname Kate for a while (after the then popular Kate bush) due to the unkept nature of my pubic region.

Thanks for the suggestion x I do wear panty liners "Always" though not around the house or if Iknow where a toilet is. But will wear a liner at work (most of time) or if exercising

I would say my bladder size is just below average. However despite having accidents when it comes to trying to pee i sometimes have trouble and even then only dribble. Because of this my pees can take up to a minute. This is also why providing the toilet is clean I usually sit rather than squat as a minute is a long time to squat.

I am not about to confront my husband if I choose to do so in a way that will cause damage to our relationship. We may have differing views on the handling of my leaks but we have so much together two boys for starters

Thank you for al your responses I am deeply touched that you show such concern and I will take on board all that has been said. One further update I was home today and had a mini accident in my denim shorts not large but enough to show so I had to change. When my husband came home he spotted them in the utility room by the washer. He seemed genuinely concerned when he asked if I had had an accident and gave me a cuddle. OK it didnt effect his day in any way but maybe things will be better. I was going to talk to him but on the basis of his actions today I decided to sa

Wow thanks for the replies you have all proved once again what lovely people you are and the reason I post. I feel much better for putting it out there and reading your replies. I don't think my husbands attitude has changed that much he does show support and sympathy as long as he is not effected and this is the issue. Yes his comment to my little man was underhand and hopefully a one off. THANK YOU XX

Recently my husband has been less conforting and more intolerant to my mishaps. You would assume that I'm the one who should be annoyed being spyed on in the bathroom and even more annoying spyed on whilst on holiday. He is happy to watch me use the toilet and even happier when I fail to use the toilet when it has no effect on his social life or activities. i will admit to having a larger number of leaks than average over the last few months (I am due to see a urologist next month) and would have therefore hoped for some support, support which only comes on his terms. This came

Hi and welcome. Sorry not great words of wisdom but why not try having an 'accident" in front of one of or a few of your house mates and gauge there reaction. If favourable you maybe able to explore further.

Just sorting out some of pics for my latest post when i came acroos these. Yes i do use the loo paper technique.