Jayne78

Great post made me very thoughtful xx

Happy to answer. Also on self examination and say when inserting a tampon I personally have not noticed a change.

I have two children. It looks no difference though have to admit you can't see that much detail of mine as I don't shave. As for size feel etc my husband has never complained or mentioned any changes. I'm sure that after a few months everything down there is meant to be back as it was. Clearly when it comes to a muscular discussion (pelvic floor) this is not always the case and exercises are needed to regain strength and some women such as myself seem never to regain full control.

Pregnancy definitely changes the way you pee. My stream for one is weaker, it takes me longer to start once I'm sat on the toilet and once in full flow I can no longer stop the stream. That said I have always struggled to stop mid flow even in my teens.

I often find that pubic hair can get in the way and divert the flow especially if like me you have a week stream. It has on many occasion diverted along my bottom to drip from my cheeks. Ok if sat on the toilet but if squatting because the e toilet is filthy can lead to issues. Also sometimes diverts onto thighs. And at times randomly an issue again if not sitting this has led on occasions to me wetting my knickers and tights. Very annoying if like me you are accident prone and you get to the toilet ok only to wet yourself anyway. Also you do get lots of drips and the drying time and

Thank you very much for the compliments with regards my legs I am very flattered.

That's interesting care to name any celebs?

Do you ever imagine any of your co-workers to be accident prone?

Questions for the men (though could be answered by the ladies). When you see a women while socialising or even maybe a work colleague do you ever fantasise about them on the toilet. If so are they doing a normal pee, having an accident changing a pad etc? Do you envisage if they are shaven etc (if so how do you come to your decision)? If you saw me out and about what would you envisage about me? Would your thoughts have been correct?

Thanks for The compliments about my bag

I think you also need to name the holes!

In order to fit my personal items in I have to be very strict on other things.

Have you men ever wondered just what we ladies keep in our handbags. Well I was clearing mine out. Ok so I'm probably not the average women with pads and spare underwear but would be nice to compare

Having peed on both unintentionally I prefer the hard floor as I am the one who has to clean my mess up. Hard surface is both easier and quicker making it easier to hide an accident.

The fuller the better not sure why x

Omg I can remember having my ultra sound for both my kids and having to have a full bladder. With the 2nd one I took a spare pair of knickers and I needed them.

Maybe !

I worried for hours how to bring the subject up well I didn't need to. We were sat chatting in the pub when Chloe (aged 30ish) comes in and sprints straight to the ladies. She came out minutes later saying that was a close call. I grabbed the bull by the horns and said that I had had a few issues in that department since having the kids. There were a few nods around the room before Angela admitted to wetting herself when her daughter was 6 months old. Badly i asked, my hubby had to get the mop out she giggled.

Firstly yes i enjoy the thrill of sharing my pictures and i hope the forum members like to see me either post accident or on the toilet. Yes I have shared stories about my accidents but this is on my terms and i am in control. When i have an accident clearly i am not in control and yes i do feel humiliated. I can only thank the members for the support they have given, it has been unbelievable. So yes when i wet i do stilll consider it embarrassing and yes i am ashamed that at 40 sometimes wet myself. My attitude has changed in the fact that i now realise some people find this a

As you will now I have had an accident in the past when coming home from a mums get together. Well this afternoon we have another get together if my bottle does not go I am going to bring the subject up. Watch this space.

4) for me though if public toilet it would be 5) And yes I often wet the seat, I think my.bush gets in the way sometimes

I have peed on my hand on numerous occasions usually when its clamped between the top of my legs as I try in vain to hang on.

I don't find having lots of hair at all itchy. Now when you shave and its growing back that's a different matter.

Drinking plenty of water is a good thing there is no doubt about that. Do I drink a gallon a day no way. If I drank that much I would have to have a toilet permanently to hand and the chances of me not having at least a minor accident in the day would be slim. As you know I carry spare underwear in my handbag I would certainly need a bigger bag.