Hi! Need some easing into this kink and website

[chubbybunny 296]

Hi, I'm new here 🙂

This kink isn't entirely new to me, but sharing it with others is! Is there a way for me to feel less embarrassed about it?

[Hamster245 566]

52 minutes ago, chubbybunny said:

Hi, I'm new here 🙂

This kink isn't entirely new to me, but sharing it with others is! Is there a way for me to feel less embarrassed about it?

Well discussing what you like with like-minded individuals is definitely a great start. Before I discovered that pee play was a kink, I kept it to myself and felt a lot of shame because I thought I was alone.

I'm grateful to discover that I was amongst like minded folk.

[gldenwetgoose 21,259]

Just browsing around here is probably a start - take your time and appreciate the number of people all into exactly the same things as you. 

Over time things will feel a lot more ‘normal’ and rational. 

[chubbybunny 296]

4 hours ago, Hamster245 said:

Well discussing what you like with like-minded individuals is definitely a great start. Before I discovered that pee play was a kink, I kept it to myself and felt a lot of shame because I thought I was alone.

I'm grateful to discover that I was amongst like minded folk.

Thank you! 🙂

[chubbybunny 296]

4 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Just browsing around here is probably a start - take your time and appreciate the number of people all into exactly the same things as you. 

Over time things will feel a lot more ‘normal’ and rational. 

Thank you too! 😆 it's really nice to see so many people into the same thing as I am

[anonymous_gm 118]

Hi! Would you like to share what things do you enjoy about pee?

[gldenwetgoose 21,259]

To answer your question BTW - a way to feel less embarrassed about talking to others and opening up about our kink...

The answer I gave of browsing around will certainly help you to realise just how many people share our kink.   Also if you read through some of the discussions you'll see that it's almost a genetic thing - like maybe realising you're actually attracted to a different gender than you initially thought, having a love of rhubarb or being the only person you know who loves history.

There are many discussions on telling others - buried mostly in the pee talk section - where the topic gets discussed from time to time.   Different people have different views of course - some will say "F*** it - Just tell 'em" which isn't always easy when you're worried about loosing friends or someone close, and being alienated from work colleagues.

My take on it is with friends to gently touch on it, where the subject crops up. Gently as in leaving yourself room to back out of a conversation if it doesn't pan out the way you'd hoped.

So if a friend on a night out comments 'they really need a wee', you could maybe confess 'maybe I'm a bit weird, but actually I don't mind that feeling".   And if wetting was mentioned, your opportunity is to express that it's not the worst feeling - and maybe discuss the places people have had emergency wees.  You can guarantee some will be more unusual than you imagine.

If it's a partner and you're introducing your interest, they don't need to know that it's a longstanding thing.   So for example pillow talk along the lines -  You won't believe what happened to me last week...   (story about arriving home bursting, having to wee in the garden / wetting yourself) but actually you keep thinking how naughty it felt and that naughtiness is a bit of a turn on.   You can tailor of course to your kink, keeping it fairly tame and in a way if they dismiss it then you can let the subject drop.   They may not react immediately, but you've planted a seed of thought.

Good luck !

[Jar582 22]

Posting comments or questions definately a good way to go, and any experiences you have.  Although we each are turned on by different aspects of the kink, we are here because of our common love of pee

[Kathleen 82]

I can relate. Right now I'm just getting more comfortable with exploring different topics and sharing bits and pieces in related pre-existing topics 😄

[randomiser 135]

Everyone here could tell their own story about how they came to enjoy whatever aspect of the kink they indulge in.  For some of us (myself included) it started young, for others it started later.  Some found it on their own, others were introduced by a friend, relative or partner.  It's a different journey every time.

The thing I like most about this site is that, whatever behaviours your personal kink includes, there's probably someone here who shares that interest.  At a minimum, it's a non-judgemental, open and friendly environment to discuss, explore and discover.  Whatever path you take, just don't let anyone push you in a direction you'd rather not go.  Engage in the conversations and, hopefully, find inspiration to take the next step, whatever form that takes.

[puddyls 25,661]

embarrassment is a very personal emotion; in that i feel like one can have exposure to the kink, but still have reservations about putting themselves out there. so the most important thing is to be true to yourself- as in don't feel pressured to share more than you're willing. and its ok to defend your feelings and dignity. 

i started toying around with pee stuff before the internet was really a thing. and it always made me feel like a weirdo and broken. i did date a couple of fellow fans of so called watersports. which was enlightening, but that wasn't really my thing. and it really wasn't until i joined this place that i kinda began to understand and feel comfortable about my own quirks. a lot of that was from realizing i wasn't alone in the world. at first i spent a lot of time just looking and reading about others' experiences. eventually i felt comfortable enough to comment with questions or supporting dialogue. and then even replying to PMs being sent to me. admittedly i was shy about opening up to men, but now am an equal opportunity participant. of course that won't be everyone's journey. i think there are plenty of members who sit on the sidelines. and many who only participate in a handful of forums. like i don't follow the fiction section, but there are some quite talented writers/imaginations here, and that's all they might do. some of us love to share our personal adventures, if only in words. some are comfortable with sharing their arousal, some aren't. one of the best parts of this site, i feel, is that there is a community forum that has nothing to do with potty stuff. like for me, in the beginning, it was nice to just 'be around' like minded people, but not have pee being the focus of any of the topics. it was comforting realizing that members here are normal people with normal lives and interests, too. the chatroom can also be a place where the topic doesn't focus on peeing. but then again you might be in a conversation about gardening, when suddenly someone blurts out they're having a wee. lol. and that can be a fun way to ease into the revelation, that everyone else is bursting to go too. 

best wishes! and welcome to the rabbit hole. 💕

[chubbybunny 296]

Thank you all for the welcoming messages, you're all so nice🤗

[Adyguy6970 853]

There's no need to feel anxious.  Everyone here will understand your kink.  However I think it's important that you participate in whatever way is right and comfortable for you.  

[Megaman 80]

I'll second this! Welcome to the forum. Nobody here will judge you for your kink - we are all like minded and it's a good community! I've found over the years that I can tell which of my friends are into this kink by gauging their reaction whenever I mention pee in conversation. I'm pretty sure some of them have figured out my kink too

[1boy 41]

I love to share my love of pee! I am getting ready as I write this to pee in my briefs in bed! 🥰🥰🥰 

[dykepiss 82]

glad to have you! i am also new to opening up about my kinks, it can be a bit intimidating! talking with people over the internet has been a good way to dip my toes into it. sometimes just verbalizing your desires and putting it to words can help it feel a bit more "normal" in your head. i have been posting my art and writing and the positive feedback from people has helped too!

[Kathleen 82]

I do find that when I do need to pee and aroused I'm more inclined to entertain the thought, though when I'm not needing to pee or aroused, I typically don't think much about it.

[Jar582 22]

Welcome aborad the SS Peefans.  You are not alone @Kathleen @chubbybunny we all have similar expereinces but what matters is we are all here together supporting one another

[weteric 1,357]

Come on in, the water 's lovely

I hope you enjoy this community. Admin are always around if needed, and most people are friendly

[steamlover6 750]

On 10/19/2024 at 5:27 PM, Kathleen said:

do find that when I do need to pee and aroused I'm more inclined to entertain the thought,

Kathleen, you are so delightfully honest in what you say. Your quote reminds me of a chat up line I used to use when I went to 'gentlemen's clubs and chatted to ladies-"Is it a nuisance, or is it possibly a little bit pleasurable, when you have that feeling of needing to pee?" Without exception the girls admitted to being turned on a little when they felt the sensation of needing to pee... and invariably from that moment led to amazing and really exciting conversations, and even actions, on the subject within the club! Every girl I spoke to was really turned on by sharing this experience with me.....happy memories!

[on the porch 543]

On 10/17/2024 at 7:14 PM, chubbybunny said:

Hi, I'm new here 🙂

This kink isn't entirely new to me, but sharing it with others is! Is there a way for me to feel less embarrassed about it?

Bunny , I'm also new to the whole Idea of all this , maybe together we can find it's easier , My husband is so wonderful to me ,I'm only married 2 days now , we are in a hotel in Florence ,Italy  now  its late .I saw your photo's and applaud you for posting them ,I put only one up and was embarrassed to no end , I am ,with his help working slow into it all . I have a life time of very strict up bringing. Everything about any kind of sex was taboo . all I can say is do what your doing .members of the site will help you all they can .No one will say anything bad .kisses  Ruth 

Edited Sunday at 10:13 PM by on the porch

[on the porch 543]

On 10/20/2024 at 8:31 AM, Jar582 said:

Welcome aborad the SS Peefans.  You are not alone @Kathleen @chubbybunny we all have similar expereinces but what matters is we are all here together supporting one another

Ruth here , GIRL POWER !!!!