Sex and the Internet

[LovesToWet 3,817]

A question possibly for us older folk..

Do you think the Internet changed your sexlife? 

 

Personally it did open my eyes to what people get up to and all the different kinks etc there are out there but it didn't change my actual sex life. It just changed my fantasies, which sadly I don't get to carry out. 

 

Edited October 4 by LovesToWet

[chubbyjack 349]

6 minutes ago, LovesToWet said:

A question possibly for us older folk..

Do you think the Internet changed your sexlife? 

 

Personally it did open my eyes to what people get up to and all the different kinks etc there are out there but it didn't change my actual sex life. It just changed my fantasies, which sadly I don't get to carry out. 

 

Absolutely.   I've been able to meet others for casual sex hook ups and get to follow sites like this.   

[Alpian 707]

I would have guessed that yes, but thinking about it, I can't identify anything... It has become easier and less embarrassing to access porn, given a vast choice, but in real life nothing has changed.

[InOddPlaces 318]

8 hours ago, LovesToWet said:

A question possibly for us older folk..

Do you think the Internet changed your sexlife? 

Personally it did open my eyes to what people get up to and all the different kinks etc there are out there but it didn't change my actual sex life. It just changed my fantasies, which sadly I don't get to carry out. 

 

Exactly my experience.

Hasn't altered my sex life, which (sadly) is pretty vanilla. It did give me ideas of how to broach kink subjects which might have changed things, but my partner isn't interested.

The internet offered me access to view all manner of different kinks, and realising those I have are mainstream, plus ideas on how to indulge in them on my own.

[Bacardi 10,148]

It's made me feel more accepted. Three major things surround my sex life: my piss fetish, assxuality, and the hammering of purity culture into my head from my strict religious upbringing. These three things are the foundational blocks of my sexuality and they each have a bit of influence on one another.

Each one has made me feel like an "other" in some capacity and often left me feeling confused. Like why the other kids in my high-school were all about sex and having as much of it as they could when I cared very little about it and was even scared of it for the longest time since "God wants women to save themselves for their husbands."

Once I discovered the internet I learned through Peefans that people with pee fetishes are normal people just like I am, and a lot of them hide their fetishes for the same reason I do. I also discovered that there are people healing from religious trauma just like I am and it changed their sexualities severely. And, of course, people who are not so much into sex like I am have a whole label lol. Getting to mingle with all these people, hear their stories, and make meaningful connections with them made me realize that im not broken. I'm normal.

Sexuality isn't black and white and it's okay to not like traditional sex. Without the internet I'm sure I'd still be depressed af thinking my body or my mind were broken beyond repair. 

[Kupar 13,454]

2 hours ago, Bacardi said:

It's made me feel more accepted. Three major things surround my sex life: my piss fetish, assxuality, and the hammering of purity culture into my head from my strict religious upbringing. These three things are the foundational blocks of my sexuality and they each have a bit of influence on one another.

Each one has made me feel like an "other" in some capacity and often left me feeling confused. Like why the other kids in my high-school were all about sex and having as much of it as they could when I cared very little about it and was even scared of it for the longest time since "God wants women to save themselves for their husbands."

Once I discovered the internet I learned through Peefans that people with pee fetishes are normal people just like I am, and a lot of them hide their fetishes for the same reason I do. I also discovered that there are people healing from religious trauma just like I am and it changed their sexualities severely. And, of course, people who are not so much into sex like I am have a whole label lol. Getting to mingle with all these people, hear their stories, and make meaningful connections with them made me realize that im not broken. I'm normal.

Sexuality isn't black and white and it's okay to not like traditional sex. Without the internet I'm sure I'd still be depressed af thinking my body or my mind were broken beyond repair. 

You are a remarkable person @Bacardi xx

[MidoriLemonade85 2,424]

On 10/4/2024 at 10:14 PM, LovesToWet said:

A question possibly for us older folk..

Do you think the Internet changed your sexlife? 

 

Personally it did open my eyes to what people get up to and all the different kinks etc there are out there but it didn't change my actual sex life. It just changed my fantasies, which sadly I don't get to carry out. 

 

Yeah. I mean it opened my eyes to pee porn, which inspired my fantasies and my sex life. It helped me learn about all my curiosities…other fetishes, m/m sex, orgies, and some things I’d prefer not to have seen. Also the cool clothes people wear to sex parties and stuff. It helped me learn about toys like vibrators and cock rings too. It has been helpful in opening my mind to a world of possibilities. Before the internet we had to learn from friends or magazines or TV and movies or sex toy shops. Alternative lifestyles like pee kinks were more hidden away from the mainstream. 

[puddyls 26,809]

i don't feel like it changed my sex life really. but i also know that i wouldn't be answering this question if it weren't for the internet. lol. like i think this site, in its previous form, was the first place i could open up about being the weird girl who secretly kept wanting to wet herself. and discovering that there were other people like me, or even just people who found it desirable, helped me overcome the stigma of it. like without the encouragement and advice i received in those early years, i doubt i would have ever truly embraced the lifestyle. and even so, like who would i end up sharing it with? even when i've dated guys that wanted to include pee in our relations, the topic often seemed taboo, and discussed much too late. but like i really do think its fascinating that we can commune over a common interest in one place despite hailing from all over the world. 💕

Edited October 6 by puddyls

[goldmund50 133]

The internet is  certainly a part of my erotic experience and I think it's an enhancement. I've played on social media sites for about ten years or so and I've had some amazing encounters.  On sites like PeeFans I find some really creative, thoughtful, joyful and above all nasty kinky fun people to read and view and stroke and edge to every morning.

    I'm an old kinkster......Somewhere around 1962 was the first time I got my hands on a "dirty mag" and jacked off looking at the  "dirty" pictures....what a long strange trip it's been.  These days I find my morning surf sessions to be meditative.....................also hot and nasty!.......

[wjimmy 1,122]

Yes absolutely - the Internet had a profound affect on my sex life. I'd used sex shops and 'peep shows' in Europe for many years, but suddenly, in the 1990s, I could look at porn in my own bedroom and, even more importantly, discuss porn and sex fetishes with other people online. It was - and still is - wonderful. As I think somebody said above, I no longer felt isolated in my porn addiction. In fact, I increasingly believe that the whole world is addicted to porn.

PS: Another major revelation was that many women also masturbate to online porn. That allowed me to feel I'd rejoined the human race.