Do you think being allowed or not allowed to pee outside as a kid influenced you?

[wettingman 578]

Absolutely yes it certainly did , although not just that. My parents had strict rules about urination. We could only pee in the toilet  never outside, you must be able to hold it. You must quietly control your bladder, no signs of desperation , pee dancing holding myself etc.  And never ever wet your pants, God help you if you did.

So I grew up not wanting to admit I had to pee well  into adulthood. That resulted in numerous long struggles to hold it in and a few wet pants, which they never knew about.

So today I pee outside as often as I can. I pee in other naughty places, as long as I don't damage somebody's  property .Even as a young kid I was interested in pee, especially desperate girls. Once puberty happened the interest morphed into a full blown sexual fetish.  It continues strongly to this day.

So not only did being forbidden to pee outside, likely develop into the need to pee outside or someplace " ínnapropriate ", combined with the other rules probably significantly contributed to my life long pee holding / wetting fetish, which is highly sexual.   I absolutely love holding .you pee as long as possible until I can't hold it and I wet my pants  I also tthroughly enjoy discussing with like minded women .an reading or watching females desperation and wetting. 

So much for your rules mom and dad

 

Edited June 26 by wettingman

[Hidengo 281]

Yes, in the technical sense. I had a rather shy bladder growing up, and as my parents grew up in rural Jamaica, they were used to peeing outside and thought little of it, so it was basically expected that I pee outside in many situations, especially when we were in Jamaica on a car trip (the highway that allows you to cross the island in a few hours was only recently built. It was a 4+ hour drive between Kingston and St. Elizabeth, the two parishes we spent the most time in). But I could never go in public unless it was the most dire of emergencies. 

So I started “practicing” peeing outside. Whenever we were at someone’s house, I wouldn’t pee in the toilet at all, but would try to sneak out and pee on the house wall or in some bushes or hedges in the yard.

I mentioned before about an experience when I was younger, where my female cousin squatted next to me as I was peeing at the side of a Jamaican road at night. When I was at her house where she had an above-ground inflatable pool, she would get out and pee in the grass, and I would usually go to the side of the house where there was a gutter (I still wanted privacy, sue me).

[BGSB86 848]

On 3/16/2024 at 4:22 AM, MrTinkle said:

Do you think whether or not you were allowed to pee outside has influenced your love of naughty pee? 
 

I grew up with two brothers, a sister and my mom and dad. There were 6 of us. We had one bathroom upstairs, it was hard when dad would come home from work and then my sister would get home from dance and both would need to shower so the bathroom was always busy. I mean regardless of that my parents let us all pee outside but because of that situation, in winter if the bathroom was occupied and you were desperate you could go piss over the drain in their basement. I feel like the fact it was normal to pee outside and in the basement made it a part of my life. I don’t know if it made me into it necessarily I think I was just predisposed to be a bisexual man into men and women pissing 

I was in a similar situation. I grew up with my mother, father, and 3 brothers and only one bathroom. My mom was definitely ok with letting me pee wherever when the toilet was occupied. I remember several occasions where she would pee in the backyard whenever she couldn’t wait for the toilet to free up. In the winter she didn’t mind if I peed in the sink or something if I couldn’t hold it, but I tried to limit that as my brothers would ruthlessly tease me if they ever caught me peeing anywhere but the toilet. 

[Coral 634]

Yeah definitely ! My first memory of peeing outside is when I was barely a toddler and I also remember being weened out of diapers before going to pre school at around 2 yrs of age? But yeah peeing outside as a child was normal for me. Like going for picnics literally meant peeing in the middle of the pasture behind some tree or shrub, that also not too far from our spot. 

[Pissfriend 8]

On 3/16/2024 at 9:22 AM, MrTinkle said:

I grew up with two brothers, a sister and my mom and dad. There were 6 of us. We had one bathroom upstairs, it was hard when dad would come home from work and then my sister would get home from dance and both would need to shower so the bathroom was always busy. I mean regardless of that my parents let us all pee outside but because of that situation, in winter if the bathroom was occupied and you were desperate you could go piss over the drain in their basement.

Nice Story.

I'm interested in whether your sister or mom also went into the garden, or whether they just peed in the basement. And was it normal back then for you to be able to watch them?

 

And since I come from a very rural area, it was always normal for us to go outside when we had to. Unfortunately, I very rarely had the chance to see girls doing this.

[Peesfully 237]

I was brought up to pee anywhere outside, but not if someone other than mom or dad could see me. We had a summer place in the country and my father and I often peed outside, but I never saw my mother do it. I had fun taking "pee anywhere" to the limit as I've posted before: from way up climbing trees, from rooftops, into rain gutters, into loose pipes, etc. My mother's diary even mentioned that I peed off of a little climbing structure I had when I was aged 3-4. Nothing was considered "naughty", just fun, so if my childhood influenced me as an adult, it was to instill in me the idea that peeing didn't have to be boring -- it could be fun. Discovering naughty peeing (restaurants, hotels, restroom floors etc.) added excitement to the fun, so now peeing outdoors or into sinks is "boring" and naughty peeing is "fun".

[Mojovo 51]

I was allowed to pee outside in some cases (usually on a tree or smth), like if I really had to go or I would wet myself, but I was usually expected to use the bathroom. which from a parenting perspective is probably the best move if you want to make sure they understand where it's appropriate to pee but also not have a lot of accidents. 

so I had some prior experience peeing but at the same time, I wasn't some kind of free pisser who would just go wherever, and I'm still not. 

[jim fisher 29]

On 6/19/2024 at 6:02 PM, jacob_puddleman said:

Absolutely, but from the opposite side. Peeing outside growing up would have been considered dramatic or perverted in my family growing up, and some of my earliest pee memories are related to holding it until we were somewhere more acceptable. I’ve found that this awareness of social norms vs. physical desperation dynamic is where most of my pee fantasies live.

did you have to hold it a lot growing up as a result??? have you had a lot of pop or water to drink then had to hold it for a long time? did you get really good at holding it even when your bladder contracts so hard that your abs tense up and suck in hard with each round   of bladder contractions? It gets to be an awesome feeling. 

[random name 53]

as a kid, my mum actually encouraged me to pee outside if there was no alternative, but it was me who didn't want to. i think that may have been a sort of trauma and that's where my kink stems from?

[Havelock 1,561]

2 hours ago, random name said:

as a kid, my mum actually encouraged me to pee outside if there was no alternative, but it was me who didn't want to. i think that may have been a sort of trauma and that's where my kink stems from?

@random name where and in what contexts did she encourage you to pee outside?

[Library_Lady 202]

Growing up on a farm we'd usually go into the horse barn and pee in one of the vacant stall. Even to this day teens in the 4H do this at horse events or when camping during a fair or show.  In Amish country it's customary for men to use the barn for peeing and not the house to keep the main bathroom cleaner.
 

[Havelock 1,561]

4 hours ago, Library_Lady said:

Growing up on a farm we'd usually go into the horse barn and pee in one of the vacant stall. Even to this day teens in the 4H do this at horse events or when camping during a fair or show.  In Amish country it's customary for men to use the barn for peeing and not the house to keep the main bathroom cleaner.
 

@Library_Lady there is a whole thread on peeing in horse barns. I'd love to read about any memories you have of peeing in barns and around horses. 

 

[Library_Lady 202]

Cool! Thanks for the tip. I'll be posting a couple of pee tales re: equine piss experiences.

[Alpian 707]

On 5/24/2024 at 2:54 PM, vivi54 said:

No, I just wasn't raised like that

Only once I got into high school and met my bestie who taught me

The world owes your bestie big time! Make sure you keep spreading the love whenever you are with a friend who might be a bit reluctant 😉.

For me, peeing outside has always been normal - it's what you do as a guy growing up in the countryside. Weren't many girls around, though, and it never became something normal for me to witness peeing women.

My love for peeing women likely stems from the fact that those rare cases when a girl would need to pee outside were also the only situations when I'd be able to get a glance of the female sex. I always wanted to know what it looks like, how it works, what it feels like... For the chance of seeing a women pee, I'd have given anything (and let them piss anywhere)! This still transpires in my fantasies and stories, many of which have their roots at an age when I wasn't legaly entitled to have those fantasies 😊.

[naughty_rosie 804]

When I was younger, my mom encouraged me to pee somewhere if there's no bathroom available. She always peed openly in bushes or planted areas while camping or hiking so I did the same. I still remember the first time she told me "I need to water the plants" and peed on the dandelion-like rosette leaves in the parking lot. Now I'm the one who water the plants with pee. I’m pretty sure that a lot of my peeing behavior is from my mom.

[Havelock 1,561]

8 hours ago, naughty_rosie said:

I still remember the first time she told me "I need to water the plants" and peed on the dandelion-like rosette leaves in the parking lot.

@naughty_rosie do you remember what kind of parking lot this happened in?  Did she pee outside in non-nature areas or urban areas? Did she help you pee in urban or suburban areas?

Do you remember her teaching you to pee outside? Did she hold you or teach you to squat?

[MichaelP 22]

Interesting to see how for some of us, being allowed to sparked an interest in pee, and for others it was not being allowed to that did. 

For me, I had no interest in peeing until I went hunting once, where it's normal to go outside. That was a lightswitch moment for me, and it's stuck with me ever since

[naughty_rosie 804]

On 12/16/2024 at 2:26 AM, Havelock said:

@naughty_rosie do you remember what kind of parking lot this happened in?  Did she pee outside in non-nature areas or urban areas? Did she help you pee in urban or suburban areas?

Do you remember her teaching you to pee outside? Did she hold you or teach you to squat?

It happened in the supermarket parking lot faces a busy street. In the back of the lot there was a small dandelion-like plant growing through concrete. Looking back, she thought it was the best target to pee because she loved peeing on the plants just like me.  As far as I remember there was no bathroom so that plant was there to be watered by my mom haha

She taught me pee squating or even standing up lol

[MostlyVanilla69 15]

1 hour ago, naughty_rosie said:

It happened in the supermarket parking lot faces a busy street. In the back of the lot there was a small dandelion-like plant growing through concrete. Looking back, she thought it was the best target to pee because she loved peeing on the plants just like me.  As far as I remember there was no bathroom so that plant was there to be watered by my mom haha

She taught me pee squating or even standing up lol

I think I remember you from Girls Ask Guys.

Did you say that you used to pee on ants too?

If I'm wrong, sorry.