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This post was very inspiring for me to finally get some diapers. I’ve always loved wetting as is, but I’ve never thought of the mess free option of a diaper especially for a quick relief to go back to sleep in the middle of the night/early morning. Today I finally got some and I’m gonna be wearing one to bed tonight for the first time, can’t wait to see how this goes (:

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6 hours ago, P1ssK1tten said:

This post was very inspiring for me to finally get some diapers. I’ve always loved wetting as is, but I’ve never thought of the mess free option of a diaper especially for a quick relief to go back to sleep in the middle of the night/early morning. Today I finally got some and I’m gonna be wearing one to bed tonight for the first time, can’t wait to see how this goes 🙂


Let us know how you find the experience.

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On 12/16/2023 at 12:03 PM, Kittykiss said:

This I agree with. I have insomnia and part of it is triggered by getting up in the middle of the night to pee because I pee 2 to 3 times at night and everytime I do, I end up staying up till early morning unable to go back to sleep. 

It was actually my bf who suggested I try diapers and ever since that I have been genuinely sleeping alot better and so is my bf lmaoo because he likes how warm my wet diaper makes his crotch feels. The only thing is, I hiss even louder in a diaper so thats that.

However, I dont wear diapers to bed always. I alternate between bedwetting (which we love) and diapers. But during winters, diapers are more preferable because of the warmth. 


Great you found a solution that works for both of you. I would love to hear the sound of you hissing into your diaper.

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Due to my condition i usually sleep with Tena Night. I haven't wet the bed in a long time and i could do without it, but it makes me feel calmer, especially if i sleep at my girlfriend's. If i wet her bed even though she says it wouldn't be a big deal, i would feel too embarrassed. Since I wake up dry I can reuse the diapers for 3/4 nights (also because they are quite expensive), I throw them away when the elastic becomes too loose or if I sweat too much at night, etc.. Unfortunately, i still avoid getting wet on purpose when i have to throw them away, even though i like it, because maybe mum could look in the bin and find a wet diaper, she would ask me if i had an accident in my sleep and this always embarrasses me.  Then he might be angry if he found out that i sometimes pee myself on purpose

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16 hours ago, MRJH22 said:


Let us know how you find the experience.

I loved it! Waking up with the urge to pee and not having to worry about getting up or making a mess was amazing, as well as the warm feeling. I’m wearing one laying in bed now after a night out of drinks and it’s so nice not having to get up while I scroll on my phone. I can definitely see why so many people recommend diapers 

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6 hours ago, P1ssK1tten said:

I loved it! Waking up with the urge to pee and not having to worry about getting up or making a mess was amazing, as well as the warm feeling. I’m wearing one laying in bed now after a night out of drinks and it’s so nice not having to get up while I scroll on my phone. I can definitely see why so many people recommend diapers 


Thanks for the update and glad you enjoyed the experience.

I know what you mean about having to go to the toilet after a night of drinks. Did you wet much in the diaper?

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21 hours ago, Mary Moon said:

Due to my condition i usually sleep with Tena Night. I haven't wet the bed in a long time and i could do without it, but it makes me feel calmer, especially if i sleep at my girlfriend's. If i wet her bed even though she says it wouldn't be a big deal, i would feel too embarrassed. Since I wake up dry I can reuse the diapers for 3/4 nights (also because they are quite expensive), I throw them away when the elastic becomes too loose or if I sweat too much at night, etc.. Unfortunately, i still avoid getting wet on purpose when i have to throw them away, even though i like it, because maybe mum could look in the bin and find a wet diaper, she would ask me if i had an accident in my sleep and this always embarrasses me.  Then he might be angry if he found out that i sometimes pee myself on purpose


It’s good to have the diaper as security and great that you can get more than one night of use from each one before throwing it out. If you do want to wet them before discarding you could wet while at your girlfriend’s place, your mother won’t see any wet diapers in the trash then. That or you could wet at home, bag up the diaper strait after and put it in the trash outside. Perhaps pushing it down a bit so it’s not visible to anyone.

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Some mornings I really want to pee in my diaper in bed, but I'm always too afraid that then mum will start checking the bin, then afterwards it's always very embarrassing if she comes and says "darling, did you have an accident last night?" Also because i haven't had any accidents at night for a long time. My mom sometimes checks my pants or panties to see if I have had accidents, she doesn't mind it, but she wants me to tell her if I have them

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On 5/20/2024 at 8:49 AM, Foobar said:

I don't mean to be that person, but what about the environmental impact?

I don’t wear all the time, only once in a while. I haven’t worn since October. When I do wear it’s usually to bed or lounging around the house. I don’t wear out in public and don’t wear 24/7. I try to pee as much as I can before I change it. There are also cloth diapers than can be reused. But I have heard cloth diapers don’t work that well. But if I became a full time bed wetter on my own or with a partner I would get a mattress protector and embrace leaking once in a while. When I wet my diaper I just want to soak it and let loose without letting the possibility of leaking bother me. 

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On 5/19/2024 at 5:34 AM, Mary Moon said:

Some mornings I really want to pee in my diaper in bed, but I'm always too afraid that then mum will start checking the bin, then afterwards it's always very embarrassing if she comes and says "darling, did you have an accident last night?" Also because i haven't had any accidents at night for a long time. My mom sometimes checks my pants or panties to see if I have had accidents, she doesn't mind it, but she wants me to tell her if I have them

That’s sucks. I would be totally ok with you wetting yourself and preferring to use your diaper since you have a medical condition. But yeah hiding it can become an issue. That’s why I am open  to date a girl who’s into water sports and wetting diapers so we don’t have to hide it from each other. 

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On 5/18/2024 at 11:51 PM, LadyP said:

I'm going to wear a diaper to sleep tonight, so that in the morning I can pee a little into it. It's not a good quality one so it can't hold a full bladder's worth, but it will still be fun to use it a little and feel the warmth. 

How was your morning pee in your diaper? 

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On 5/19/2024 at 5:17 AM, MRJH22 said:


Thanks for the update and glad you enjoyed the experience.

I know what you mean about having to go to the toilet after a night of drinks. Did you wet much in the diaper?

Of course, I couldn’t help but enjoy my morning pee in the comfort of my own bed without having to worry about a mess to clean up. I loved hearing the hissing and feeling the weight of the diaper absorbed with all my pee when I finally got up to take it off. 

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9 hours ago, P1ssK1tten said:

Of course, I couldn’t help but enjoy my morning pee in the comfort of my own bed without having to worry about a mess to clean up. I loved hearing the hissing and feeling the weight of the diaper absorbed with all my pee when I finally got up to take it off. 


Sounds like an enjoyable experience for sure. Did you stay in bed for long after releasing your morning pee?

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18 hours ago, MRJH22 said:


Sounds like an enjoyable experience for sure. Did you stay in bed for long after releasing your morning pee?

Oh yes. I always love to lounge in bed when I can so it’s nice being able to enjoy it more with the help of a diaper. I’m sure I could easily fall back asleep after a morning wetting if I’m tired enough. 

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6 hours ago, P1ssK1tten said:

Oh yes. I always love to lounge in bed when I can so it’s nice being able to enjoy it more with the help of a diaper. I’m sure I could easily fall back asleep after a morning wetting if I’m tired enough. 


You sure can’t beat relaxing in bed when you have the chance.

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I love wearing diapers on week-end.
I pee a lot and when i wake up because i need to go, it's really great to be able to let go without worring about the cleaning.

Sometimes i even fall back asleep even when i'm not done, but it's pretty rare.

 

Most of the time it's even wet before i fall asleep 🤭

 

When i woke up either i pee when i'm still in bed or during my breakfast. Sometimes i keep the diaper after i'm done but most of the time i throw them away because it's too heavy and squishy.

 

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Not into diapers sexually at all, but I do think it's unfair that there's a bit of a stigma against people who actually need to use them for some reason, like incontinence. it's like lowkey ablist almost

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Wearing diapers, for whatever personal reason, should be completely normalized! As in many things: We should just let people be the way they want and judge them a bit less

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Absolutely agree that diapers (nappies, I'm in the UK!) should be normalised.

We are too reserved and private about toilet matters and societal obsession that everything has to be done in a toilet, which ensures they are seen as just something for young kids until they are toilet trained, any older and it's for medical reasons only. Why shouldn't we wear them as a convenience item? Yes that perhaps means having public toilets with more facilities for cleaning up, but why not?

Wearing them in bed is great and I agree with those who suggest you get a better sleep due to not being disturbed so much. Although, I've never had much success in preventing leaks but that is down to body shape and finding the right adult-sized nappy (there aren't too many options because it's not normalised - catch 22!).

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On 7/11/2024 at 6:25 AM, Mojovo said:

Not into diapers sexually at all

My interest tends to be a sexual kink, but mainly due to feeling naughty wetting them and liking the feeling of pee around my groin.

Had I been able to wear them whenever I wanted throughout my life without judgement and they were just a normal, I'm sure the sexual component of wearing them wouldn't exist and they would be just like putting underwear on.

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I have indeed, but I am not convinced. Especially when you intend to hide your towel diapers in your pants, a real diaper works better, since it holds more fluid at a certain thickness of the diaper. With my bladder volume, I always overflow towel diapers

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