The role of pee in your life: limited to internet forums, or present outside websites?

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On 4/20/2021 at 11:28 PM, Bacardi said:

He would make these dumbass jokes about peeing inside of me while we were having sex and asked if it was wetting my pants as a kid that did it for me. It hurt a lot. So much so that I don't think I did much or any pee stuff in my head when I masturbated because I was just so ashamed of myself.

What a cruel asshole.  I hope you dumped him. I'm so sorry that you went through an experience like that.

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It's been a part of my real life for the last 20 years,  though before that it was only fantasy and porn.  My close friends know,  and also my last two girlfriends.   I haven't had any problems as a result, in fact both girlfriends enjoyed it and found it exciting to pee on me.

For various reasons I avoid relationships now,  but wet fun is often available as part of casual sex.

 

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On 4/19/2021 at 2:02 PM, Abyz said:

Just curious. I realized that I tend to be a more reserved and quiet person, someone who you'd probably not assume to be into pee, so I was wondering if anyone is open about their fetish in real life (with a partner, close friend, etc.) to any extent.

- If not, what is holding you back? Would you ever tell?

- If so, with who? How do you feel about someone or multiple people knowing, and how did it go telling them?

I myself will probably never tell anyone since this is a personal thing for me. I prefer to be "open" with my fetish behind a screen, lol.

I, too, am a somewhat reserved person, though not necessarily quiet. I've often been mistaken for a college professor (though a kinda hunky professor, if you asked me) that, if I didn't prefer the outdoors much more than the classroom, I probably would have been.

Needless to say, I come across as serious on first impression and not one you'd assume to be into pee. But, if you get to know me, you'll likely see my fun side and maybe I'll reveal a bit more of me.

While I may never openly admit to a fetish, I might drop subtle hints. I tend to favor the kind of activities (hiking, biking and the like) that keep me away from toilet facilities for much of a day. So, if you spent much time with me, you'd probably notice I'm not shy about answering nature's call. I get a variety of reactions, from none at all to enthusiastic support. Many, if not most, drop their guard around me very quickly, often some of their clothing, too.

Occasionally these situations lead to lengthy conversations discussing our likes, though more often there's just silent acknowledgement. In the end, we're better known for what we do than what we say.

 

 

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5 hours ago, blankfuse said:

What I might do one day is test my luck. I think I can get away with telling my SO I think it's hot when he pees with a boner because I can play innocent if he reacts weirdly. What I'm telling him is honest and he has no way of telling when I formed my opinion, right? 

 

Sometimes I have to wonder if he's dropping hints that I'm refusing to pick up on, though. He playfully "forbids" me to use the bathroom pretty regularly and he'll make up excuses to keep me talking until I squirm lightly when I try to leave the room. He also regularly pokes fun at how often I have to pee. I don't let myself read into those things too heavily because it could very easily be a matter of seeing the situation the way I want to see it rather than the way it actually is.

It sounds like the two of you have a great relationship - and definitely sounds a good plan to let him know the effect his erection pee has on you.  I totally agree that whole 'being able to laugh it off' scenario is a great way to test the waters (no pun intended).

In terms of his teasing you, I guess it could be a generic male dominance thing, but there'd I guess be hints of bullying in other aspects of your life. Hopefully though it is mild pee-play and again there's the perfect opening for a bit of exploration.  "But what if I wet myself..."  Again it can all be laughed off if you don't get the reaction you're anticipating.

[urlocalpissbby 55]

i’m super sleepy so i’m probably gonna touch up on this more later on, but i am gonna say that my partner knows & they actually got into it too. they aren’t as naughty as me though which is totally okay. 

i’ve also opened to some of my friends, especially ones in the industry because i wanted to buy pee content off of them to support & i know they don’t judge w kinks & such. ahaha. turns out a couple of them were into it too! 

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My girlfriend knows and she is the only one. It took me quite a while to tell her and when I did, I actually accidentally blurted it out to her. At the time, we cuddling while swimming in the sea and she peed during the cuddle, which I obviously felt. 

My girlfriend is not into peeing, but she happily indulges me. However, there might be two factors that contribute to that.

First is that she never has had any inhibitions about peeing, also not with her exes. She was raised in the country side and feels like "when you gotta go, you gotta go" so when outdoors she just pees on parking lots, in parking garages, in alleys, in bushes etc whenever she needs to go and no toilet is available or if there only is a very dirty one. Also when she was with her ex she did that, even though he found it very unladylike and he actively tried to discourage her to pee outside and encouraged her to wait for a toilet. She never really listened to him though! She also has fun doing so, but no sexual fun. It is more like someone else posted in this topic, some people like fishing, she likes peeing outside. 

Second is that my sexual interest in pee is very mild. It really turns me on when my gf pees outside (which as I described she does quite often) and I have masturbated quite a lot to some of her pees. Especially when I see her stream shooting out of her and when she is peeing on a hard surface like tarmac or concrete instead of on grass I get hard immediately. However, that's where it stops for me. I am not into holding, wetting, vandalizing stuff with pee and I am definitely not into drinking pee or pee play during sex. So basically all my gf has to do is keep peeing with the same attitude as she has done her whole life and my fetish is more than satisfied. I don't think she would indulge in those things I am not into. She for sure she would never have started to pee during sex for instance, so if I'd have been into that my kink would not have been satisfied. 

In short, my gf is the only one who knows and she happily indulges me, but I am also lucky in the sense that my kink is very mild and she doesn't have to do much to reach that level of satisfaction. 

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1 hour ago, JDG said:

My girlfriend knows and she is the only one. It took me quite a while to tell her and when I did, I actually accidentally blurted it out to her. At the time, we cuddling while swimming in the sea and she peed during the cuddle, which I obviously felt. 

My girlfriend is not into peeing, but she happily indulges me. However, there might be two factors that contribute to that.

First is that she never has had any inhibitions about peeing, also not with her exes. She was raised in the country side and feels like "when you gotta go, you gotta go" so when outdoors she just pees on parking lots, in parking garages, in alleys, in bushes etc whenever she needs to go and no toilet is available or if there only is a very dirty one. Also when she was with her ex she did that, even though he found it very unladylike and he actively tried to discourage her to pee outside and encouraged her to wait for a toilet. She never really listened to him though! She also has fun doing so, but no sexual fun. It is more like someone else posted in this topic, some people like fishing, she likes peeing outside. 

Second is that my sexual interest in pee is very mild. It really turns me on when my gf pees outside (which as I described she does quite often) and I have masturbated quite a lot to some of her pees. Especially when I see her stream shooting out of her and when she is peeing on a hard surface like tarmac or concrete instead of on grass I get hard immediately. However, that's where it stops for me. I am not into holding, wetting, vandalizing stuff with pee and I am definitely not into drinking pee or pee play during sex. So basically all my gf has to do is keep peeing with the same attitude as she has done her whole life and my fetish is more than satisfied. I don't think she would indulge in those things I am not into. She for sure she would never have started to pee during sex for instance, so if I'd have been into that my kink would not have been satisfied. 

In short, my gf is the only one who knows and she happily indulges me, but I am also lucky in the sense that my kink is very mild and she doesn't have to do much to reach that level of satisfaction. 

It's lovely that you and your gf seem so well matched - thanks for telling us about it 🙂 

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1 hour ago, Kupar said:

It's lovely that you and your gf seem so well matched - thanks for telling us about it 🙂 

More than happy to share with you all! I am very happy it turned out like this with my current gf. For me, the more natural the pee, the more exciting. I don't like it when girls make peeing sexy, by pulling out her tits and everything. The most sexy thing for me is when a girl needs to pee, pulls down her pants, squats, pees and goes on. My gf ticks all those boxes. 

To add another experience by the way, I was very very close to tell my ex about it. She was however very peeshy. When we were showering for instance, she would even get out the shower and walk to the toilet to pee, dripping water all over the house. However, one time we were having sex in my room, but we were disturbed by my mom so didn't finish. We planned on going to the pub that evening and her fantasy was to have sex in a car, so she promised me we would finish in the car after the pub. 

Long story short, I was horny the entire night because of the prospect of having sex later. When we reached a dark parking lot where we were going to do it, she told me she had to pee and she would go in a bush. That was making me so much more horny than I already was (as I never saw her pee before) and I was on the brink of asking her if I could watch as it was making me incredibly horny. However before I got that chance, she immediately told me she was very embarrassed, I should stay in the car and under no circumstance I was allowed to sneak a peek. So I didn't ask or tell her, it just didn't feel right and it never came up later. 

In hindsight, I think it just didn't feel comfortable with her at all. She was my first girlfriend, but I was already 26 or something. So I was quite late with these kind of things, also losing my virginity at age 26, to this girl. I now think my relationship with her was more based on "finally, someone wants to fuck me!! Quick, let's grab this chance!".

Now that I am well in my 30s and together with my current gf for quite some years, I finally know what love feels like and how different my feelings are now as compared to that ex (actually it's the only ex that I have). And that's not because of the peeing! 

My current gf and this ex are also the only 2 girls I have had sex with, so I never came close to telling anyone else. I don't discuss sex with my parents and with my friends just very basic things like the last time we did it and those kind of things. Not really about positions or any other details. 

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4 minutes ago, JDG said:

I don't discuss sex with my parents and with my friends just very basic things like the last time we did it and those kind of things. Not really about positions or any other details. 

That's the beauty of forums like this - you can talk openly about things that you don't feel comfortable talking to people irl. I for one really appreciate your openness, and you'll always find a supportive audience here 🙂 

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On 6/14/2021 at 2:37 AM, blankfuse said:

Sometimes I have to wonder if he's dropping hints that I'm refusing to pick up on, though. He playfully "forbids" me to use the bathroom pretty regularly and he'll make up excuses to keep me talking until I squirm lightly when I try to leave the room. He also regularly pokes fun at how often I have to pee.

I think he probably is dropping little hints and although he might not be fully into it, it certainly sounds like it is not going to cause any great offence if you mention that you like pee.  Maybe start off with a reverse tease to him - like when he keeps you talking say "Look, can't you see I'm desperate here.... Are you trying to get me to wet myself?" or "Do you enjoy delaying me whilst I'm trying to get to the toilet?"   See if he responds positively or even gets tongue tied or embarrassed if so, you have him rumbled.

Edited June 15, 2021 by Alfresco

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17 hours ago, Kupar said:

That's the beauty of forums like this - you can talk openly about things that you don't feel comfortable talking to people irl. I for one really appreciate your openness, and you'll always find a supportive audience here 🙂 

No shame in admitting to lose your virginity aged 26 is there?

But in general I've always been quite open with the suitable people. My current gf knows all of the sexual escapades I had with my ex and I know hers. But my parents are my parents, I don't wanna know about their sex lives either so I assume they don't wanna know about mine! Even though they always were quite open as well and have given me the perfect sex ed. 

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5 minutes ago, JDG said:

No shame in admitting to lose your virginity aged 26 is there?

Absolutely not 🙂 

6 minutes ago, JDG said:

But my parents are my parents, I don't wanna know about their sex lives either so I assume they don't wanna know about mine!

Agreed. My children definitely don't want to know about the sex we have lol.

[WendyMarty 334]

A few people know about my pee interests

I have an ex on this site. 
my hubby knows and will play occasionally  and a couple of female friends know but they just except it’s me being weird and one did join in after a lot of alcohol while we were on holiday together. 
 

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On 6/14/2021 at 2:17 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

It sounds like the two of you have a great relationship - and definitely sounds a good plan to let him know the effect his erection pee has on you.  I totally agree that whole 'being able to laugh it off' scenario is a great way to test the waters (no pun intended).

In terms of his teasing you, I guess it could be a generic male dominance thing, but there'd I guess be hints of bullying in other aspects of your life. Hopefully though it is mild pee-play and again there's the perfect opening for a bit of exploration.  "But what if I wet myself..."  Again it can all be laughed off if you don't get the reaction you're anticipating.

We definitely do, and that's something I'm grateful for. He's one for a lot of teasing and banter but luckily no bullying--I wouldn't tolerate bullying. I'm sure it's a dominance thing on some level but he insists it's a matter of being playful and he gives me no reason to doubt that. Besides, he always hopes to get as good as he gives. 

I'll try both options and see where they get me. What's funny is that I've tried a variation of "but what if I wet myself?" before and he was completely unfazed. It's time to push the joke a little further. 😏

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15 hours ago, Alfresco said:

I think he probably is dropping little hints and although he might not be fully into it, it certainly sounds like it is not going to cause any great offence if you mention that you like pee.  Maybe start off with a reverse tease to him - like when he keeps you talking say "Look, can't you see I'm desperate here.... Are you trying to get me to wet myself?" or "Do you enjoy delaying me whilst I'm trying to get to the toilet?"   See if he responds positively or even gets tongue tied or embarrassed if so, you have him rumbled.

You know, @gldenwetgoose made a similar suggestion about broaching the topic and I think you've both got the right idea. I've flatly (in jest, of course) told him before that if I'm not allowed to use the toilet I'll piss on his carpet. He never responds badly; he only laughs and insists that I not do that either and instead "just hold it". What I've got to do is push the joke a little further so it doesn't look like our usual banter. We'll say all kinds of goofy shit to each other when we're messing around so he may see pee jokes as an extension of that right now. It would be cool if he was interested or at least open to it, though...

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6 hours ago, blankfuse said:

You know, @gldenwetgoose made a similar suggestion about broaching the topic and I think you've both got the right idea. I've flatly (in jest, of course) told him before that if I'm not allowed to use the toilet I'll piss on his carpet. He never responds badly; he only laughs and insists that I not do that either and instead "just hold it". What I've got to do is push the joke a little further so it doesn't look like our usual banter. We'll say all kinds of goofy shit to each other when we're messing around so he may see pee jokes as an extension of that right now. It would be cool if he was interested or at least open to it, though...

Or maybe actually follow through.   Agree to hold it, then 10 mins later ask if you can go to the toilet and if he says hold it again, then say you'll try, then after a couple more minutes wet yourself and see what his reaction is.   He will either be delighted or he will not be happy.  If the first, then you have him rumbled.  If the latter then you can get all upset and tell him that it was his fault for making you hold.