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I've reached an interesting juncture in my relationship and I'm looking for input. Have any of you who keep your fetish a secret been found out by an SO? What gave it away? Speaking more generally, how easy is it to spot the signs? My SO has me convinced he knows, and he's just trying to coax a confession out of me at this point. I've talked with a few members elsewhere on the site about using jokes to test the waters and I went ahead and did that. His immediate reaction came across as a playful negative, but ever since then he's brought up the subject of pee more often. Most of it is so

Professionally produced content and all that entails (bad acting, barely any urine, stupid outfits, cameraman chatter). Any talking at all once the peeing begins. Slow-mo videos. Videos that are too short. Videos that are 90% something else and 10% peeing. Urine drinking. Obvious, genuine pee vandalism even if it's easy to clean up. Music. Complete silence. Humiliation, whether the one peeing is humiliated or someone's being peed on to humiliate them. Degrading language, whether in the video title or dialogue. I could go on and on. In a nutshell, nothing too fake or extreme. Peeing is f

Looks like so much fun. 😃

You know, @gldenwetgoose made a similar suggestion about broaching the topic and I think you've both got the right idea. I've flatly (in jest, of course) told him before that if I'm not allowed to use the toilet I'll piss on his carpet. He never responds badly; he only laughs and insists that I not do that either and instead "just hold it". What I've got to do is push the joke a little further so it doesn't look like our usual banter. We'll say all kinds of goofy shit to each other when we're messing around so he may see pee jokes as an extension of that right now. It would be cool if he was i

We definitely do, and that's something I'm grateful for. He's one for a lot of teasing and banter but luckily no bullying--I wouldn't tolerate bullying. I'm sure it's a dominance thing on some level but he insists it's a matter of being playful and he gives me no reason to doubt that. Besides, he always hopes to get as good as he gives. I'll try both options and see where they get me. What's funny is that I've tried a variation of "but what if I wet myself?" before and he was completely unfazed. It's time to push the joke a little further. 😏

What I might do one day is test my luck. I think I can get away with telling my SO I think it's hot when he pees with a boner because I can play innocent if he reacts weirdly. What I'm telling him is honest and he has no way of telling when I formed my opinion, right? Sometimes I have to wonder if he's dropping hints that I'm refusing to pick up on, though. He playfully "forbids" me to use the bathroom pretty regularly and he'll make up excuses to keep me talking until I squirm lightly when I try to leave the room. He also regularly pokes fun at how often I have to pee. I don't le

You're probably braver than me because I've never brought it up with my SO at all. Sometimes I toy with the idea of sharing because the worst I'd get out of him is good-natured laughter, but we'll see. If your pee is light yellow then you're drinking enough water whether your SO thinks so or not! Lol. It does seem like a guy thing to underconsume liquids, though, if the men in my life are any indication. It's fair to say I drink more water than I need to but most of the men I know are never properly hydrated. I have to be careful not to be too intentional with my holding in public,

Sometimes, yeah. It's not the norm but it happens occasionally. What I like to do that gets me that wet is to edge for as long as I can. It's either as long as I can stand it or as long as I can before I have to be somewhere. That can be up to a few hours at a time.

It's rare these days but I've had those moments before. They're most common when I'm ovulating. The two most prominent examples I can think of are one from a few years ago and one from last night. Several years ago, the arousal hit me out of nowhere when I was trying to watch an archaeological documentary, of all things. I tried to ignore it but I couldn't focus so I I went to take care of it. Thirty seconds and a few strokes of the clit later, I was ready to watch my show. Last night was an unusual circumstance because it happened while I was high. It's easy for me to get ho

As long as I'm not wet enough for it to show through my pants, the panties stay on. It definitely is a fun secret to have!

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Still no. I wonder if it's an issue on my end.

The video refuses to play, which is unfortunate.

Online and in the privacy of my own home are it for me. Nobody in my life knows. I think what annoys me the most is that I'd be all set if my SO was into pee play. We're comfortable peeing in front of each other, he can pee with an erection (which gets me going), and he seems to hold frequently as a matter of stubbornness. He doesn't drink nearly enough fluids during the day to make me think he has an interest in peeing, though, so I've never brought it up. I would also say that holding isn't strictly a sexual thing for me. I do it fairly frequently throughout the day for short peri

Basically anywhere, especially anywhere outdoors or any carpeted spaces indoors. Bring back old-style "pee while you're in the middle of a meeting and don't even leave the room to do it" social mores. I'd wear nothing but skirts and dresses for the rest of my life if it was like that.