Pampers... Hot?? .. or Not??

[MiaDarling 700]

Ok, so this just in from the department of redundancy...

I was going thru topics here and someone asked about diaper wearing and wetting. I responded cos most pamper posts that I see I respond to cos I know a lil bit about the subject. But it also got my selfish mind thinking and i was wondering why there isn't a section on this site for pampers/diapers/nappies? It is about peeing so the content fits in with the theme of the site. And there are different sections based on different aspects. ( guys peeing, girls peeing, holding, urinals etc. ) So, why not this aspect? 

Then I was thinking maybe no one.. or very few, people here have any interest in that and feel we should stick to the ab/dl forums. So I figured I'd put up this post to see what people thought about that. Is there any interest in pamper pics, pamper wetting, fun stories, even the embarrassing times? 

If the response is not very favorable then we know a section isn't wanted, but maybe if the response is positive maybe we can get our own lil place on this already excellent site. 

If you took the time to open this and read it ( yea, I know.. I'm wicked long winded ) take 3 extra seconds to leave your 2 cents. Thank you in advance!

Most have seen these from my page but for those who haven't..

Stay wet,

Mia 🤗😘💓💕

[Bacardi 10,136]

If you haven't already, maybe add it to the suggestions board and the Admin team will consider adding a section about diapers.

[FlyingthedreamUK 248]

It's definitely a topic that isn't as popular as others on here, maybe because of the AB connection.

I would only ever encourage people to try them because they just feel amazing and the freedom they give is even more of a reason to try them. Everyone's been caught short at some point in their lives, imagine not having to worry ever again!

Personally I love Goodnites, they're cute and discreet and can be worn under pretty much anything without anyone knowing. The downside being they can only hold one big wee or a few smaller ones.

I also love how open you are @MiaDarlingabout wearing them and also sharing your experiences.

If a DL part of the forum does appear I would like to see a more personal aspect, peoples experiences and the more real aspect of people wetting them, wearing out in public etc, rather than the AB stuff of giant cribs, playrooms etc... that part of it does nothing for me.

[FlyingthedreamUK 248]

What ones have you tried so far @Simpfan ?

[Love2PeeInGoodnites 26]

I would love to see a topic dedicated to diapers and wetting them I think its great as long as it’s just diaper wetting I’m not into the adult baby stuff but of course I’m not judging if that is your thing I would very much like to contribute to this potential topic if it becomes available and I love those diaper pics you shared at the top of this topic

Edited January 18, 2021 by Love2PeeInGoodnites

[Kupar 13,341]

As with many aspects of our kink, Mia, it's endlessly fascinating. I love what you post on here, and  chatting and corresponding with you. I can't see myself getting into diaper wearing for myself, but the way you describe the feelings you get from being wet in your pampers, and what you do when you're feeling happy about that, and what you'd like to do with others, makes me feel good and, yes, excited. I would support a topic here that covers  your interests more closely. ❤️

[gldenwetgoose 21,500]

I'm going to give one of my typically vague answers...  of maybe.

The question for me isn't actually are pampers hot?  It's like the old chestnut, do guns kill - or do the people pulling the trigger do the killing?

I definitely think the subject is under-represented on the site at the moment and I definitely think it's a perfectly valid part of this kink of ours.  Do I personally love it?  Well, the things that float my particular boat are all related to the female side of pee fun.  Emphasis on the fun there - so a lady who enjoys being pampered up and enjoys wearing, wetting etc in them is the starting point. Now clearly there may not be much to see.  A picture of a girl wearing pampers is nice, just like a pic of a girl in a bikini or skinny jeans is nice, but I'm not necessarily getting excited over the jeans, bikini or pampers. It's about the lady - how much she's enjoying it, what she's feeling, how naughty she's being maybe - it's as much the look on her face than seeing a bum covered in pampers.

I'll also make the point that not every aspect is a turn on for me - the last true jeans wetting I saw - was a disabled woman who most definitely wasn't enjoying it, a humiliating experience for her and her companion and couldn't have been any less arousing. Similarly, I personally wouldn't be aroused by someone dependent and hating being dependent on Pampers medically.  Being dependent, strong, proud and sassy with it - now that's different.

So - beauty is in the eye of the beholder - and when it comes to the pee fetish, for me at least it's a lot more about attitude than image. Pampers - well, why not - would love to see more, especially when they're being worn by an enthusiastic, fun and vibrant lady.  It works for me. 

 

[MiaDarling 700]

5 hours ago, Bacardi said:

If you haven't already, maybe add it to the suggestions board and the Admin team will consider adding a section about diapers.

I was not aware there was a suggestion board. I didn't see that. Plus, the idea was to get feedback.. like if all the responses are negative, then I wouldn't want to suggest it. It wouldn't make much sense to. Thank you for your feedback tho.

[MiaDarling 700]

4 hours ago, p1ssputz said:

I'll be frank (because you asked). For me, personally, the answer is no. I don't think it's hot, and it's just not personally my thing.

That said, I don't judge or begrudge anyone else's fetishes. If it's not for me, I generally just kind of stay away from it. I do understand the need to belong to a community of like-minded people, and while AB/DL is not my thing, it is commonly recognized (as far as I know) as a related facet of the general pee fetish. (If I remember correctly, peesearch.net has an AB/DL section on their forum, and I know that I've seen AB/DL stuff in other areas.) While I don't share your specific fetish, I do feel that I can somewhat relate since I too have "niche interests" both related to and unrelated to peeing, and I do understand that it's nice to have the feeling of sharing those things in common with a community instead of feeling like an outsider. I get that.

I can't speculate on why there isn't a section on this site. Perhaps there was never demand for it. Perhaps there was demand for it, but the nature of diapers encroached upon some other specific site rules/bans (as technically, they don't have to be used for just wetting). Perhaps it was thought that the full scope of AB/DL was outside of the scope of the general pee fetish. Or perhaps, simply, nobody ever thought of it. I don't know.

I second what @Bacardi has said regarding the suggestions board for the admins - ultimately, any final decision is theirs. As for the rest....my opinion, honestly, is that all that really matters is that you feel hot and that you like what you're doing. I think that if you are fundamentally comfortable in that regard, then the opinions of others won't really matter. So yeah, it's not my thing at all - and there may be many others for whom diapers aren't a turn-on like they are for you - but at the end of the day, if you're happy, do you care?

Keep feeling good. If staying wet in diapers is what does that for you, I support you and I'm pretty sure that everyone else does as well. Hope this helps.

Thank you for your response. This was the reason I asked. To see how many people did and didn't like this aspect. I am not at all offended that it is not something you like. .. Your feedback is appreciated tho.

[MiaDarling 700]

2 hours ago, Simpfan said:

Well, there's a sponsor banner for a role play that I always see when I'm on here, but although I'm looking for something to contain the IBS-D literal shitstorms, I don't think it's hot or sexy. Maybe it's because I had 5 babies and that was my diaper experience.

Thank you for your response!

[MiaDarling 700]

2 hours ago, FlyingthedreamUK said:

It's definitely a topic that isn't as popular as others on here, maybe because of the AB connection.

I would only ever encourage people to try them because they just feel amazing and the freedom they give is even more of a reason to try them. Everyone's been caught short at some point in their lives, imagine not having to worry ever again!

Personally I love Goodnites, they're cute and discreet and can be worn under pretty much anything without anyone knowing. The downside being they can only hold one big wee or a few smaller ones.

I also love how open you are @MiaDarlingabout wearing them and also sharing your experiences.

If a DL part of the forum does appear I would like to see a more personal aspect, peoples experiences and the more real aspect of people wetting them, wearing out in public etc, rather than the AB stuff of giant cribs, playrooms etc... that part of it does nothing for me.

Thank you for you input.. I'm happy people are giving their opinions.

[MiaDarling 700]

2 hours ago, Love2PeeInGoodnites said:

I would love to see a topic dedicated to diapers and wetting them I think its great as long as it’s just diaper wetting I’m not into the adult baby stuff but of course I’m not judging if that is your thing I would very much like to contribute to this potential topic if it becomes available and I love those diaper pics you shared at the top of this topic

Thank you for your response and thanks for your opinion on my pampers. ( I think they are super cute too!! 😊 )

[MiaDarling 700]

1 hour ago, Kupar said:

As with many aspects of our kink, Mia, it's endlessly fascinating. I love what you post on here, and  chatting and corresponding with you. I can't see myself getting into diaper wearing for myself, but the way you describe the feelings you get from being wet in your pampers, and what you do when you're feeling happy about that, and what you'd like to do with others, makes me feel good and, yes, excited. I would support a topic here that covers  your interests more closely. ❤️

Thank you sweetie! 😊 😘

I know you are super supportive ( along with some of my other friends here ) even tho pampers are not your thing. More pics and content may ( or may not ) be forthcoming. To my count so far there are many more "Nay's" than "Yay's" 

[MiaDarling 700]

1 hour ago, gldenwetgoose said:

I'm going to give one of my typically vague answers...  of maybe.

The question for me isn't actually are pampers hot?  It's like the old chestnut, do guns kill - or do the people pulling the trigger do the killing?

I definitely think the subject is under-represented on the site at the moment and I definitely think it's a perfectly valid part of this kink of ours.  Do I personally love it?  Well, the things that float my particular boat are all related to the female side of pee fun.  Emphasis on the fun there - so a lady who enjoys being pampered up and enjoys wearing, wetting etc in them is the starting point. Now clearly there may not be much to see.  A picture of a girl wearing pampers is nice, just like a pic of a girl in a bikini or skinny jeans is nice, but I'm not necessarily getting excited over the jeans, bikini or pampers. It's about the lady - how much she's enjoying it, what she's feeling, how naughty she's being maybe - it's as much the look on her face than seeing a bum covered in pampers.

I'll also make the point that not every aspect is a turn on for me - the last true jeans wetting I saw - was a disabled woman who most definitely wasn't enjoying it, a humiliating experience for her and her companion and couldn't have been any less arousing. Similarly, I personally wouldn't be aroused by someone dependent and hating being dependent on Pampers medically.  Being dependent, strong, proud and sassy with it - now that's different.

So - beauty is in the eye of the beholder - and when it comes to the pee fetish, for me at least it's a lot more about attitude than image. Pampers - well, why not - would love to see more, especially when they're being worn by an enthusiastic, fun and vibrant lady.  It works for me. 

 

Thanks Goose!! 

It's very interesting cos I know what you are saying about your enjoyment is tied to the person's enjoyment. I know there are people who are inco and hate the fact that they need them, and I do not think that is cute or hot either, I feel sad for them.. but then there are other people.. ( one cute lil one I can think of off the top of my head  😇 ) that is inco and LOVES her pampers.. so it is a completely different perspective. 

[gldenwetgoose 21,500]

Just to pick up further on two points....

Yay's or Nay's - I wouldn't say at all there were more Nay's, by a rough glance there's an equal mix of Yes and No with a few generally interested.  But that doesn't matter. The topic IS within the site rules (as we're talking about adult wearers and we're not talking about pee rather than 'the other waste product'). Our site principle is to not be dismissive and negative of someone else's flavour of the kink.  So, on that count - go for it.

As for where to post anything, well I'd suggest there doesn't need to be a new top level area created.  If we're talking about pampers for the purpose of tinkling into so that fits nicely into the Wet Zone - and then it's just like any other aspect.  So just create topics as necessary...  Pamper pics or videos in the Pee Pics(*) and Pee Videos sections, discussion in the Pee Talk (ie like this) and Real Experiences. Fictional stories right in with all the other fiction, and as and when we get men joining in, well the Men Peeing section is ready and waiting.

(*) Looking at a few samples on Imagefap and obviously it's pretty hard to tell if there's any peeing actually going on, but there's definitely cuteness - so a place in Sex and Porn maybe too.

Tinkling into pampers is just as valid a thing as tinkling into knickers, clothes, carpets, furniture, public places, oneself, each other or any other aspect you can think of.  Some prefer to think of ladies and aren't into the men's section and vice versa.  Anything people don't like they can just trot on past... 

[MiaDarling 700]

29 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Just to pick up further on two points....

Yay's or Nay's - I wouldn't say at all there were more Nay's, by a rough glance there's an equal mix of Yes and No with a few generally interested.  But that doesn't matter. The topic IS within the site rules (as we're talking about adult wearers and we're not talking about pee rather than 'the other waste product'). Our site principle is to not be dismissive and negative of someone else's flavour of the kink.  So, on that count - go for it.

As for where to post anything, well I'd suggest there doesn't need to be a new top level area created.  If we're talking about pampers for the purpose of tinkling into so that fits nicely into the Wet Zone - and then it's just like any other aspect.  So just create topics as necessary...  Pamper pics or videos in the Pee Pics(*) and Pee Videos sections, discussion in the Pee Talk (ie like this) and Real Experiences. Fictional stories right in with all the other fiction, and as and when we get men joining in, well the Men Peeing section is ready and waiting.

(*) Looking at a few samples on Imagefap and obviously it's pretty hard to tell if there's any peeing actually going on, but there's definitely cuteness - so a place in Sex and Porn maybe too.

Tinkling into pampers is just as valid a thing as tinkling into knickers, clothes, carpets, furniture, public places, oneself, each other or any other aspect you can think of.  Some prefer to think of ladies and aren't into the men's section and vice versa.  Anything people don't like they can just trot on past... 

I think the big reason I was asking about if people were interested in that content and if a section for it would be helpful is because most people here do not find it up their ally and if it was in a separate section it's easy to avoid seeing it. Example... if someone is not into men's peeing, they don't bother to click on the link and view the posts. On the other hand, those that do like it have that place where everything is located. 

A few people have said they are not interested in seeing adult baby kind of stuff and I respect that view but at the same time, an adult baby could be a lot of different things. For my tastes, a picture of an adult woman in a cute outfit with a pamper is "adult baby" and I think it can be very cute.. but at the same time a 35 year old woman sitting in a high chair being spoon fed isn't anything I would care to see. So, I think in a pee forum, since the pamper aspect is about the peeing, that fits, but not the videos of someone in a pamper being pushed down the street in an oversized stroller. 

I'm in this middle area place cos between my cute outfits, pampers and my bink ( shush.. I like it!!! 😋 ) I do have "aspects" of ab/dl which is outside of the comfort zone here... but since I am not into the adult cribs and strollers and high chairs I don't really enjoy the content on the ab/dl forums. What's wrong with being an adult female but still having ALOT of lil girl still in you?? I do not think that will ever go away in me... and quite honestly... I don't want it to! 

Stay wet,

Mia 🤗😘💓💕

 

[gldenwetgoose 21,500]

15 minutes ago, MiaDarling said:

I think the big reason I was asking about if people were interested in that content and if a section for it would be helpful is because most people here do not find it up their ally and if it was in a separate section it's easy to avoid seeing it. Example... if someone is not into men's peeing, they don't bother to click on the link and view the posts. On the other hand, those that do like it have that place where everything is located. 

A few people have said they are not interested in seeing adult baby kind of stuff and I respect that view but at the same time, an adult baby could be a lot of different things. For my tastes, a picture of an adult woman in a cute outfit with a pamper is "adult baby" and I think it can be very cute.. but at the same time a 35 year old woman sitting in a high chair being spoon fed isn't anything I would care to see. So, I think in a pee forum, since the pamper aspect is about the peeing, that fits, but not the videos of someone in a pamper being pushed down the street in an oversized stroller. 

I'm in this middle area place cos between my cute outfits, pampers and my bink ( shush.. I like it!!! 😋 ) I do have "aspects" of ab/dl which is outside of the comfort zone here... but since I am not into the adult cribs and strollers and high chairs I don't really enjoy the content on the ab/dl forums. What's wrong with being an adult female but still having ALOT of lil girl still in you?? I do not think that will ever go away in me... and quite honestly... I don't want it to! 

Stay wet,

Mia 🤗😘💓💕

 

Totally agree with your discrimination there @MiaDarling - I think that boundary in your second paragraph is a good one that could work well.

Reading upwards there has been discussion about Sections, Topics and Posts for it to live in.  Also a suggestion for staff to create a new section...   @Admin is responsible for the highest level structure of Sections, but I don't believe this warrants a dedicated Section.  I accept the example of Men Peeing that is a no-go zone for many as a personal choice. But that's a very clear fenced area of men peeing as opposed to ladies, just like fiction is clearly separate from real experiences. If Pampers were to have its own Section alongside these existing sections like Men Peeing then that implies that every sub-genre of pee also should. 

Instead I think having a clearly labelled Topic inside (eg,) Real Pee Experiences or Sex and Porn is quite sufficient - and anyone can create a Topic and add to Posts in a Topic without the need for Staff intervention. Just give it a clear name so people can skip over it and conversely can find it by searching.

For example: https://peefans.com/topic/18273-cute-pampered-girls/?tab=comments#comment-252555

 

[kalle2020 926]

13 hours ago, MiaDarling said:

Ok, so this just in from the department of redundancy...

I was going thru topics here and someone asked about diaper wearing and wetting. I responded cos most pamper posts that I see I respond to cos I know a lil bit about the subject. But it also got my selfish mind thinking and i was wondering why there isn't a section on this site for pampers/diapers/nappies? It is about peeing so the content fits in with the theme of the site. And there are different sections based on different aspects. ( guys peeing, girls peeing, holding, urinals etc. ) So, why not this aspect? 

Then I was thinking maybe no one.. or very few, people here have any interest in that and feel we should stick to the ab/dl forums. So I figured I'd put up this post to see what people thought about that. Is there any interest in pamper pics, pamper wetting, fun stories, even the embarrassing times? 

If the response is not very favorable then we know a section isn't wanted, but maybe if the response is positive maybe we can get our own lil place on this already excellent site. 

If you took the time to open this and read it ( yea, I know.. I'm wicked long winded ) take 3 extra seconds to leave your 2 cents. Thank you in advance!

Most have seen these from my page but for those who haven't..

Stay wet,

Mia 🤗😘💓💕

This will not surprise you, @MiaDarling:My answer is a very clear yes. Yes, I have great interest in this particular aspect of (female) peeing, and I would love to see more about it on peefans. I wouldn't mind if it were in a separate section like "Men peeing", but I don't have a very firm opinion on that - wherever it finds its place, I would be ready to contribute pics (I have a pretty large collection) and whatever else I find on my hdd and in my mind. With respect to the adult baby aspect, I'm very much on the same line as you, @MiaDarling : It's ok when a diaper wearing woman is "girly" and cute, but I am not interested in seeing her in a high chair or a giant stroller.

[Paulypeeps 5,290]

While I would much rather see a picture of you with pee running down your legs from under your skirt, I am not going to ignore what you post just because you are pampered, because what you have to say on the matter comes with genuine feeling and insight and is therefore very educational.

Should there be a separate section for nappy wearers? 

I guess that the answer is yes. Two reasons really, first is that it is a valid form of peeing that sits squarely within our community, and secondly it will create a hook that shows to anyone casually passing that they will be welcome. This is similar to the DL sites that have a wetting section!

[MiaDarling 700]

29 minutes ago, kalle2020 said:

This will not surprise you, @MiaDarling:My answer is a very clear yes. Yes, I have great interest in this particular aspect of (female) peeing, and I would love to see more about it on peefans. I wouldn't mind if it were in a separate section like "Men peeing", but I don't have a very firm opinion on that - wherever it finds its place, I would be ready to contribute pics (I have a pretty large collection) and whatever else I find on my hdd and in my mind. With respect to the adult baby aspect, I'm very much on the same line as you, @MiaDarling : It's ok when a diaper wearing woman is "girly" and cute, but I am not interested in seeing her in a high chair or a giant stroller.

Thank you kalle! 

[MiaDarling 700]

14 minutes ago, Paulypeeps said:

While I would much rather see a picture of you with pee running down your legs from under your skirt, I am not going to ignore what you post just because you are pampered, because what you have to say on the matter comes with genuine feeling and insight and is therefore very educational.

Should there be a separate section for nappy wearers? 

I guess that the answer is yes. Two reasons really, first is that it is a valid form of peeing that sits squarely within our community, and secondly it will create a hook that shows to anyone casually passing that they will be welcome. This is similar to the DL sites that have a wetting section!

Thank you for your response Pauly! I do wait a good amount of time before changing cos I love being in my wet pamper so we may have the best of both worlds... my ready to burst pamper is leaking down my leg from under my skirt. Trust me, that is not a far fetched scenario! 😊

[thisguy20 937]

47 minutes ago, MiaDarling said:

Thank you for your response Pauly! I do wait a good amount of time before changing cos I love being in my wet pamper so we may have the best of both worlds... my ready to burst pamper is leaking down my leg from under my skirt. Trust me, that is not a far fetched scenario! 😊

That is the best of both worlds

[SheCallsMeCosa 35]

I originally wasn't into pampers at all but then I became more familiar with a content producer named Golden Girl Faye, because of her general piss and wetting content. Turns out she's also really into diapers and ABDL overall so I was exposed to some of that also. My conclusion is that I don't hate it but I would rank other kinds of pee content above it. I wouldn't be opposed to a dedicated section. 

[MiaDarling 700]

1 hour ago, SheCallsMeCosa said:

I originally wasn't into pampers at all but then I became more familiar with a content producer named Golden Girl Faye, because of her general piss and wetting content. Turns out she's also really into diapers and ABDL overall so I was exposed to some of that also. My conclusion is that I don't hate it but I would rank other kinds of pee content above it. I wouldn't be opposed to a dedicated section. 

Thank you!!

[blaise 1]

Mia, I almost never post but I wanted to say I for one love hearing about your Pampers and love that you call them “Pampers,” which even though I’m a DL not an AB is still how I like to think of diapers.

I’d love to hear more stories about embarrassment from friends and family finding out you wear Pampers.