almost raped. def not a fantasy, an eye opener and psa, if you will

[puddyls 26,306]

so the other night i had a really traumatizing experience. i debated about this being in general chat or here. but ultimately, since i’m sharing a pic, i’m choosing here- sorries to be a buzz kill. 

 

this is me. a few nights ago, while i was still angry and before the feelings of helplessness and despair set in. i have my ankle length skirt in one hand, posing for the camera held in the other. it was chilly so i have a pea coat on over an admitantly fitted top. under my skirt i was only wearing sheer nude nylons, surprisingly without panties.

so i decided to take the skirt off after i had been caught squatting and peeing myself. a car happened to drive by and its occupants cheered me on as my tipsy bladder emptied itself in basically plain view. for some reason that excited me. i had walked 4 blocks with nary an incident, skirt in hand very well knowing the shadow of my bush and butt cheeks were obviously showing through my “leggings”. i did have a passerby catcall me from across the street, and another driver honk and wave as he passed. while sometimes degrading, i totally get it. and my mood that night sorta cherished the attention. guys, though, despite my obvious exhibition, the act is more for my enjoyment than for yours. and while i am totally ok with you acknowledging me, and that you may find pleasure in this, it is not a free for all for you to take advantage of me, or frankly any woman without her consent.

out of nowhere a different car pulled up next to me, eerily following me super slow. he eventually rolled down his window and started catting me, but that quickly became him asking me how i was: cold? working? need a ride? in trouble?  all kinda valid questions except when i explicitly said no, no, no, no; and he continued following me, escalating to you need to get in babe. when i replied “i don’t,” he cut me off by pulling his car in front my path, getting out and grabbing me. i am soo happy all his hands got ahold of was my coat and i was able to wriggle free as i screamed at him to let me go, getting a nearby dog to bark in the process. he jumped back into the car and as i grabbed my coat and ran down the street, he turned around to follow me again yelling at me to get in his car, so he could allegedly take care of me (though i suspect i know what that means) 😡. i got far enough ahead i was able to stumble back into my skirt without worrying about him getting his filthy hands around me again, but he wouldn’t stop following me until i got back to a busy street and traffic was backing up behind him. i consider myself so lucky. a lot of women aren’t. and of those, most don’t present as a target of sexual aggresion, like i could be said to have been. the sad part is just being a woman is all it takes to be considered a target. clothing really doesn’t matter.

i’m happy to have found this site, and i do adore all of you. i love having a place to share a side of me a generally keep private. and i really can’t recall a negative experience here from anyone. and i sincerely hope no one here would ever find it ok to treat a woman the way i was (which truthfully wasn’t the first time, just the closest). i love being naughty, but just because i have a desire to share it and be that way is not an invitation. no one has the right to take away a person’s safety, well-being, or consent. i am okay, and just working on getting my mind and emotions back.

with that being said, thank you all for being supportive, encourging, fun, and mature. 

hope everyone is safe and blessed this coming year. 

[PissFanOmega 206]

It's absolutely horrible that you went through that. There's no excuse for someone to act like that, and treat you that way. It doesn't matter the situation that led up to it, you deserve to feel safe, and to actually be treated with respect.

Guys like that just piss me the fuck off.

I'm glad that you managed to get away, and wish you the best for the future.

[likesToLick 10,216]

2 hours ago, puddyls said:

 i love being naughty, but just because i have a desire to share it and be that way is not an invitation. no one has the right to take away a person’s safety, well-being, or consent. i am okay, and just working on getting my mind and emotions back.

I am so sorry this happened to you puddyls.  You are absolutely right in what you say.  No one has the right to treat you like that, ever.

You did nothing wrong.  None of what happened is your fault.  It is your right to be treated with respect always.  No man has the right to grab you without consent. Not ever.

In a fully civilized world, these things would not happen.  We are slowly getting there,  but have a long way to go.  That guy is a criminal for treating you as he did.  I hope that the majority of men would never do that.  Certainly I would not.

I hope you can recover from the shock of this and not be left feeling fear or anxiety. 

Love and good wishes to you.

[Pissdrinker 874]

What is wrong with people! 😡

Glad you escaped physically unscathed. Obviously a very scary experience - hope you are mentally coming to terms but might take some time. 

(((HUGS)))

[steve25805 126,156]

@puddyls, I am shocked and saddened to hear of this terrifying experience.

Men like that are total scumbags.

I do hope you have not been left too traumatised.

Perhaps keep some pepper spray handy in case some other low grade turd fancies his chances?

Our heart goes out to you after such a terrifying situation and I think I speak for all of us.

You are amongst friends here.

[Lovetoholdin 17]

Omg I'm so sorry this happened to you puddlys! But I'm also not surprised because of the outfit you were wearing. They obviously thought you were like a call girl or something. Please don't take offense to this as I'm not trying to be offensive I'm just making a observation. I've known your username on many related sites and one that closed. So, let's just say I'm a casual fan of yours. I really am very sorry this happened to you and let it be a lesson to all females partaking in this topic in public and at night.

[gldenwetgoose 21,498]

Hi @puddyls - I hope I share the views of most guys on here when I say I'm actually angry that some waste of breath has thought that sort of behaviour was in any way acceptable or justified.

Why should what you wear or for that matter whether you get spotted peeing on the sidewalk be treated as some sort of invitation.   I get that (and with all the tender respect in the world) I can see he may have jumped to conclusions based on seeing you with skirt off, peeing - behaviours that aren't an everyday occurrence.

But at the end of the day, 'No' means NO.  No maybes, no ifs and no buts. Just no.   If a girl were incapacitated - perhaps a drink spiked or any other reason that's even more of a reason to assume no.  And grabbing your wrists - he's lucky he's not singing soprano now.

Anyway - as you well know, most of us wouldn't dream of treating you or any other person that way - hope you haven't lost too much sleep over it.

[Chicklover99 566]

Sorry you had such a traumatic experience. Always remember you are amongst friends on here. 

[Peefreak99 3,722]

That "man" should have a bullet straight trough his head. I am happy you are alive and if you ever need a friend or someone to talk to we are all here. 

[1badboy 581]

Damn, sorry that happened to you.  There are some dangerous people down here.  You were probably in more danger than just rape.  Be careful!