At our YMCA After I noticed with many of the older men Not only pee whenever and wherever they want, many of them have no issues with people staring at them a majority of them either get full fledged hard ons or semi's. They even pee in the steam room and you can literally sit right next to each other. And carry on a conversation about about anything. It is a laid back spot where you have to be 18 to be in there. I was talking to an older uncut gentleman who has absolutely no bladder control. I asked him if it bothered him having incontinence. He said absolutely not he only wears white briefs