Peenicks

38 minutes ago, Takashi96 said:

I don't mind either. I undressed for money many years ago. 

I suspect there might be more and less acceptable variations of this fetish. For example, "I like being peed on" is probably more acceptable than "I want watch you pee."

And funny you should bring up job interviews. Because that's one of those things where if it got spread around maybe an insular community, could be damaging. I want a job at such and such business, but the woman doing the interview casually knows my vindictive ex. And maybe my ex likes to get drunk and complain to her friends, and anyone else who will listen about her exes. So when she gets to me, it's I love watching girls pee. Then later I'm trying to get a job in a place with mostly female employees. And they wouldn't "feel safe" sharing an environment with me. Or what if I were trying to get into an industry where I might have to interact with children? That's a deal breaker there. Or imagine if I became a public figure for some unimaginable reason? Like maybe I ran over Bigfoot, and the footage went viral. Everyone knows me as the guy who was just trying to go to Taco Bell, then bam, I flattened Bigfoot. Then people are like "I bet if Bigfoot was a girl peeing in the road he would've stopped!" I wouldn't want all kinds of strangers knowing what gets me off. 

I think you're correct in that sense, also a lot of it relies on presentation and timing. Also helps your chances if the person is aware of or also into some kinky stuff.

Fair point, although I think if your only sin was enjoying legal porn of a certain variety there wouldn't be grounds to bar you from interacting with women or children. There's a number of public figures who have been found out to have piss kinks and unless they committed some other kind of crime (hell, even after they've committed a crime) people have been, if not charitable, at least complacent in allowing them to continue getting work and having a life. I can definitely understand your concerns tho, people on and offline really need to understand that unless someone is causing/could cause harm or you're trying to date them, what they're into or do in the bedroom isn't anyone's business but their own.

Personally, I don't mind being the subject of others' sexual fantasies, even if I may not be interested in them sexually. Mostly because I've had an issue with feeling unattractive or out of shape.

As for my fetish, I end up sharing it with all my friends and partners at some point mostly because I like talking about sexual experiences and I tend to attract and make friends with people who are cool with that kinda stuff. Obviously I use discretion on whether or not my friends would be okay with hearing about my fantasies but it's not like I try to pretend they don't exist. Could never talk about that kinda stuff with family tho, but that's a whole nother can of worms. 

I think it has changed a lot of people's perception of me and probably drove atleast one of my past partner or friends away, but no one's been outright disgusted or unaccepting of it. My philosophy is if they're not willing to accept that part of my identity, then it's probably for the best that we stay distant. I don't wanna try and be secretive or someone I'm not around my friends, if I wanted to lie and pretend to be a perfectly pristine and obedient cog in a machine I'd go to a job interview.

On 10/18/2022 at 7:27 PM, Bacardi said:

This is one of those things that turns me on a lot, but I'll never have the courage to do. I would find it so hot if a friend of mine peed on my carpet without me knowing lol. I would equally think it's hot for me to have a sneaky pee on my friend's floor, but unfortunately it has to stay a fantasy since I don't want to offend my friends and have them cut ties. 

This also sort of leads into my house party fantasy. Sneaking off to have a pee in a bedroom or hallway. I love it so much! One of my biggest fantasies!

Uhhh... hey B, wanna come to my house party? 👀❤️

Yeah, I've got the same fantasies more or less. I've yet to act on any of them tho. It's probably for the best since most of my friends know about my fetish anyway 😂

Oh my god, you two! You're gonna make me orgasm just reading this 🤤

Brb, changing my panties and Googling how much tickets to Sweden cost 👀

Just now, Bacardi said:

I would love to know how you accidentally back your car up with that much force. That's wild.

I mean it is 700 years old so it probably wouldn't take much force. I agree tho, the man backed up pretty far before stopping, lol

56 minutes ago, Ms. Tito said:

They're a 10 but they are interested in what peeing feels like with the opposite genitals.

Me too, partner. That's an 11 for me

25 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

They are a 400.

They're a 10, but every time it snows they always write your name in the snow with their pee 😊

20! 30 if they can pull it off with a vulva, I'd be impressed watching them cuz even with a dick I don't have the best penmanship 🤣

Might be troublesome if I have to speak with the neighbors tho 👀

6 hours ago, MaxWasTaken said:

Hes a 10 but he likes to pee on your underwear before you put it on. 

Not big on wet underwear but I guess that depends on how much he has to pee in the morning. Still, I'd probably bump it to a 6 or 7

They're a 10 but if you miss your alarm clock, they wake you up with a golden shower (they won't change the sheets when they're done)

April or May if I recall. Had to part with a gal I met in college amicably and I haven't done it since.

And to answer your question @will57, no it's not all that great. Maybe I'm just outing myself as bad at sex but even if I and my partner/partners were the absolute best at it, it doesn't really rank all that high in terms of fulfilling life experiences and I think the undue weight put on it by a lot of people (myself included a lot of the time) leads to a lot of problems for people mentally and develops weird hang-ups and unrealistic expectations for many (again, including me)

Y'know Estradiol is supposed to decrease libido, but today I got turned on by someone posting this video on Twitter. Lord help me, lol

5 hours ago, Gotah said:

I also spend alot of time daydreaming about random stuff and when those dreams are especially intense or entertaining I start to act them out irl. It's fun to do when I'm all by myself but once it happens at work or in a place where there's people around it's a bit embarassing. I've been caught several times moving my lips in silence, randomly smiling or laughing out of nowhere just because I was having funny thoughts.

Oh my God, I do this too! It's mostly when I'm writing something and I'll sort of go through the motions. Couldn't tell you why, maybe acting it out helps me describe the physicality of certain actions more clearly

2 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

Omg yes my little mixed race princess Maru! I forgot about her! In my current save I am marrying Abby, but my next one is defintiely going to be with her. 

Abby's a total lesbian magnet, fr. She's rad!

Lol, I've gotta multiplayer farm set up with two of my gal pals. One friend spends all day stalking Abby, I spend all day stalking Maru, and the third does all the actual farming and mining 🤣

This is a great idea! Fingers crossed my girl Maru shows up ❤️

3 hours ago, fourluvclover said:

I will say, as someone who started transitioning in his late 20s, I don't think it's ever too late. I've known trans men and women who started much later than I did and are living very happily as their true selves. I know that's not what this post was about, but I wanted to offer some encouragement nonetheless if that's something you feel like you might want to pursue.

Otherwise, very hot story. Sorry to derail!

Agreed, just starting HRT now and I'm 21. Funny they mentioned diuretics because the hormone suppressants I'm gonna be taking are diuretics as well, lol

1 hour ago, Havelock said:

@Peenicks how did you help your gal pal pee? 

The only stall that was available wouldn't shut properly so she asked me to hold the door closed while she went.

Just now, Ms. Tito said:

You have a butt tho so you can still be a cum dumpster

Oh, I intend to be. Don't you worry! 😘

Invite's open to you too, T 💌

No kidding! I went to the Ren Fair recently too! Didn't pee anywhere naughty but I did wear a skirt and help one of my gal pals pee 🙂

Great experience, thanks for sharing!

4 hours ago, oliver2 said:

(Curiously) what sort of food textures are unappealing? 

Certain kinds of sauces and stews are the main ones. I feel like there's a lot of sauces that I would enjoy if I couldn't feel their texture in my mouth.

Content Warning: Discussion of sexual violence & sexual trauma

The most common conclusion I've found from studies examining fetishes is that because men, on average, tend to have higher sex drives than women that therefore makes them more susceptible to developing kinks or paraphilia in general.

Additionally there's a substantive correlation between sexual trauma and the development of particular fetishes/kinks/etc. later in life. This is not to say that those kinks are a symptom of mental illness but rather that most if not all kinks are informed by interests or events that occured in the developmental stages of one's life, and an event that is impactful or traumatic is likely to inform future sexual development a great deal.

This does, to some degree, explain why certain paraphilia would be more common amongst women, as they are oft disproportionately affected by sexual violence. I myself am not a victim of sexual violence nor trauma so I cannot speak to their experiences, so I encourage the victims to speak up if they feel comfortable and fill in the probably large gaps in my and others' understanding.

16 hours ago, Bacardi said:

Idk how to describe mine. It's like I forget what I'm saying midsentence and completely freeze up. My eyes go all wonky until my brain turns back on and shit. Sometimes I end up saying the previous word multiple times instead. It happens most of the time when I am nervous, and I combat it by just not talking often lol.

My childhood friend had a similar impediment. Also I totally get whatcha mean about pulling hair when you're stressed. I'm always messing with my hair, even on occasions where I've had it cut super short. 

3 hours ago, Alpian said:

It was your question about the story that had disappeared that intrigued me - and I don't regret having gone to look for your writing. Great story - realistic writing. Feels as if it should be in the "Real Pee Encounters and Experiences" section - but likely I'm just daydreaming 😞

Rest assured I'm going to remain attentive to your postings.

Aww, thanks Alp! I like to think my work's improved since this story and I'm glad you enjoyed it ☺️

I have an oral fixation that I'm still not totally over so I end up idly putting stuff in my mouth that I probably shouldn't (here come all the dirty jokes in the replies, lol). Ironically I'm also something of a picky eater. I have a thing about food textures (might be an ASD thing) that makes me apprehensive about trying certain foods.

I crave physical touch for validation, I love hugs, cuddling, backrubs, etc. But I'm also ridiculously ticklish everywhere. I'm like the most literal embodiment of the hedgehog's dilemma other than actual hedgehogs.

I also have a very addictive personality. Only things I've formed an addiction to have been caffeine and possibly pornography (might be over it by now, hard to say). I probably couldn't get hooked on tobacco though, the smell of it alone is enough to give me a horrible headache 🤢

1 hour ago, Sophie said:

If a volume setting is represented by a number it must be a multiple of 5. My TV is on 10, my sound system upstairs is 25. Seeing it set to 12 for example makes me uncomfortable. 

I have a similar habit but I include even numbers. So 25 and 12 are fine settings but odd numbers like 11 make me uncomfortable

I used to be really into Lego building, I'd like to get back into it but shit's expensive. My hobbies nowadays are collecting playing cards and bowling