Admin

On 7/7/2019 at 8:46 PM, Admin said:

Let's move on from debating the idea.. After all, I'm sure we all have more enjoyable things to be discussing here.

 

I'm gonna close this thread since the ladies room idea isn't happening now.

Just some final closing thoughts on the 'official' peefans stance from me:

• There will be no sections/areas excluding certain genders/races from any parts of the site (there never was going to be).
• However, people are perfectly allowed to make threads that are about more feminine/masculine topics within 'general chat'. You can talk about what you want, but remember we're here to have fun, there are better suited forums for extensive debates on gender politics. 
• I understand all sides of this argument, and think some fair points have been made. However, blackinksoul has left the site now, and I think let's all just move on.
• No tunnelling - if someone makes a decision to leave the site, they're gone. 
• We will do what we can to encourage more women to join the site (and men too for that matter).
• If any women do feel uncomfortable about anything here, please contact me or one of the mods. Our aim has always been to make a place where everyone feels welcome and safe, but we will always try to keep improving 

Thanks.

There's a podcast 2 girls host called 'guys we fucked' (apparently).

At the beginning, one of them mentions that they pee'd in a janitors closet one night. But then this prompts another quick story which you can hear if you listen from 3.50-5.10 

http://podbay.fm/show/885960517/e/1396031280?autostart=1

11 hours ago, Riley said:

It does make me realize how beautiful the world is

Very glad that you have reached this conclusion Raven. We are all here for you, and hopefully the flood of messages in such a short time shows just how much everyone does care about you. You are loved here and please don't ever think otherwise. I know it's impossible to see right now, but the feelings you were having are temporary, so please please do talk to someone who can fully help you through this.  

Also, a sincerely huge thank you for everyone's kindness in this thread. It is yet another reminder that this is not just a pee site, but a community of incredible people. ❤️ 

I'm sorry but I have to strongly disagree with you. The only 'fact' you listed that I would probably agree with is that the majority of members worship a few active women here. It's true that we are very appreciative of women who are willing to share so much with us, but of course it's exciting that someone of the opposite sex is sharing in your fetish with you. But I''m not sure that's such a bad thing as long as it's respectful and doesn't become too overwhelming. 

As for the other points, I think it's very clear we all want more women here. The feedback survey has already indicated this heavily, as did your thread. Plus it's just common sense - we all want more people here in general, but especially women. 

I think a more accurate analysis is that most members would love more women here, but aren't actively doing anything about it. That doesn't mean they don't want more women, but at the end of the day it's not that easy to just 'get more women here'. Whilst I am hugely appreciative of any members who do help promote the site, I realise it's nobody else's job to do so. And aside from posting the link elsewhere, most members have very little control over how many women are here. I guarantee if it was a yes or no choice of having more women here, it would be an overwhelming yes. I honestly have no doubt about that. Don't be fooled by a couple of mixed reactions to your recent thread - that was absolutely not an indicator that people don't want women on the site. 

But I do believe far less women have this fetish in general, and it is true that generally speaking women are a bit more reserved about sharing things on a site like this. That's true with any kind of adult content though, not just pee. It's sad but true. In fact, on almost every forum I've ever used there seems to have been more men than women.

We do have a lot of women here still though, and a fair few do post and contribute quite regularly. I would love there to be more, and I am going to actively try and help more women find this site. But again, if there were a simple way of doing it, I would have already done it. The best way to get more people to the site is promoting on pee-related content... the majority of which is watched by men.

Although compared to most pee sites I've used in the past, we already have more female users. Perhaps that's why people seem 'ok' with it, just because relatively speaking we are quite lucky already. I agree we can do better though, and we will.

You're right that listening to our current female members is the best approach, and I will try to do more of that. 

1 hour ago, Blackinksoul30 said:

But i feel like any idea/plan etc to help more new ladies join and be more active is going to be met with reluctance and refusal because I think change scares people on here.

I assure you it won't. Perhaps there is an element of change scaring people, but that has never been my philosophy with the site. PeeFans will continue to improve, expand and modernise. We will grow more and get more members. All ideas and plans will be listened to, but it genuinely is hard to make ideas and plans that specifically attract more women. All we can really do is promote the site anywhere possible, and hope some of the people who find it are women, and that they feel welcomed enough to contribute. I'm certainly open to other ideas though, and I am certain almost every other member would be too if they thought it would help attract more women to post here.

Firstly... I think we all need to chill out a little. There is no reason this needs to become a sexism/feminism issue - we're all here purely to have fun. 

I think everyone would like to see more women here. 

Whilst I agree that we don't want to start segregating the site, I certainly see no harm in a lighthearted thread to discuss more feminine topics. Whether women will want to chat about that sort of thing here is another question, but by all means we can give it a go. If it does prompt some other women to post a little more, then it's win-win. I don't see what we're losing by having the option there if any women do want to chat with the other women on the site.

It's not like this is some sort of privilege women are being given - anyone is welcome to make a thread in the general chat. Sure there can be a guys room if guys actually want to chat specifically with other guys about certain topics, but if it's just for the sake of being 'even' it seems a little pointless. I mean do guys honestly feel they're missing out by not talking about make-up and womens clothing etc?

Everyone will be able to access every thread, nobody is getting special treatment, but I see no issue with one thread for specific groups if they want them... it's not affecting anyone else. I made an entire club once called 'UK pee fans' and people didn't call me racist. 

Let's move on from debating the idea and just let the thread takes its natural course. After all, I'm sure we all have more enjoyable things to be discussing here.

A member map was recently requested to get an idea where members are from, since peefans has members from all over the globe.

This has now been added, and is accessible for logged in members in the navigation bar. 

Please note that if you fill in a location in your profile (a new 'location' field was just added) it will synchronise with the map. As this feature is new it will take a while for people to notice it and add their locations, but hopefully over time we can fill the map up.

I strongly recommend you to not be TOO specific with your location for privacy reasons. Some may want to put the city they're from, some may just want to put the country. You don't have to put anything at all. It's your choice.

The map also shows a night time shadow, so you can get an idea of timezones too.

I can see some people have already added locations which is great, but if you haven't yet, then it's a useful way to see which members are close to you. 

Whilst there are no plans for any official PeeFans meetups (as I imagine most people would not feel comfortable with that), if any groups did want to arrange anything then this feature would certainly aid the process. 

Thanks.

Hi Amanda, I'm really pleased Sephora introduced you to the site. Your English is perfectly fine for us to understand you so don't worry. I hope you enjoy the forum and we all look forward to chatting with you. 🙂 

Excellent news - welcome home! 😄