The psychology of fetishism

[Moore007 292]

Most of us in here have a fetish for piss. But to what extent does your piss fetish affect your sex-life?

Would you be turned on by being peed on or pee on a nice and hot stranger? 
Do you have to be in love with a person to enjoy piss-play or is it the piss more than the person that turns you on? 

[Kirby23 823]

I am married, and happily committed. So in considering a "hot stranger," it's difficult to assess, because I have no plans to cheat on my wife. But if we're talking purely hypothetically, yes, I would be turned on by partaking in pee acts with a stranger. 

Yes, my fetish definitely affects my sex life. Even though I don't incorporate pee into every sexual encounter with my wife, I am usually thinking about it in at least some regard.

[Bacardi 9,495]

I'm also married so not actively seeking any sexual partners for piss or otherwise. 

Generally speaking tho, when I was single I didn't do hook ups. I've had sex with 3 men and only one I wasn't in a relationship with, but we had been friends all throughout high school. It's just a personal preference that I cannot share a sexual encounter with someone I don't know very well. I wanna know their personalities first, what their sexual preferences are, how they act around other people, etc. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'd take a "friends with benefits" situation over a hook up with a stranger.

My feelings are the same with piss play. I wouldn't meet up with just anyone to be peed on 🤣 but someone that I know personally, whether it be a friend or a lover, sure. My body is yours. 

As far as my sex life, I consider myself to be asexual so sex isn't a huge part of my life to begin with. I'd say the most enjoyable part of sex is masturbation because I'm in complete control and I don't have to share it with anyone else (see: introverted af). However since I was 5 when I learned how to masturbate I've always masturbated to thoughts of pee. After my ex shamed me about my fetish I briefly went through a period where I masturbated to regular porn, but my orgasms were never as good as the ones I have with piss porn. These days I don't get off to anything except piss porn because I accept myself and my fetish now. 

[luv2watch 102]

Piss porn is the only porn I indulge in as well.

But even though all here have some version of a pee fetish, I surmise the subsets of the fetish have different origins.

My pee fetish, as powerful as it is, centers around peeing naturally as an end in itself more than as a part of sex.

I like the visual and audio aspect of watching women pee in toilets, containers or outdoors, much more than peeing on others.

I am actually turned off by pee drinking and wetting.

I also have no interest in anonymous peeing with face not included or blotted out.

Even a gusher will not interest me much if the intimacy factor of a face is missing.

 

 

[wettingman 455]

Pee holding , desperation and wetting is my sex life. I read long well detailed pee  stories,  or watch female desperate and peeing or wetting their pants. I also hold my own pee until I am very desperate and sometimes wet my pants. I either share videos of my desperation and naked peeing or pants wetting with appreciative females..

The question would I participate in pee play in person with a stranger. I have wanted to have pee fun with a female for so long I don't think I would pass up the opportunity.  I don't know if I would chicken out or not. I would regret it if I did. To date this has not happened and the only pee partner I ever had in real life was my now ex'wife.

 I currently don't  have a partner.  So, Either their pee desperation and peeing or them enjoying mine gets me aroused and I masterbate until I cum. I have done this for so long it is the only thing that gets me off. 

Edited Wednesday at 03:49 AM by wettingman

[Takashi96 867]

On 6/25/2024 at 5:40 PM, Bacardi said:

I'm also married so not actively seeking any sexual partners for piss or otherwise. 

Generally speaking tho, when I was single I didn't do hook ups. I've had sex with 3 men and only one I wasn't in a relationship with, but we had been friends all throughout high school. It's just a personal preference that I cannot share a sexual encounter with someone I don't know very well. I wanna know their personalities first, what their sexual preferences are, how they act around other people, etc. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'd take a "friends with benefits" situation over a hook up with a stranger.

My feelings are the same with piss play. I wouldn't meet up with just anyone to be peed on 🤣 but someone that I know personally, whether it be a friend or a lover, sure. My body is yours. 

As far as my sex life, I consider myself to be asexual so sex isn't a huge part of my life to begin with. I'd say the most enjoyable part of sex is masturbation because I'm in complete control and I don't have to share it with anyone else (see: introverted af). However since I was 5 when I learned how to masturbate I've always masturbated to thoughts of pee. After my ex shamed me about my fetish I briefly went through a period where I masturbated to regular porn, but my orgasms were never as good as the ones I have with piss porn. These days I don't get off to anything except piss porn because I accept myself and my fetish now. 

Jeez, how uncomfortably relatable. I once tried to switch to regular porn after a kink shaming. Actually, more than once. The only problem was a I kept hoping someone in the video would pee.

As for your early masturbation experience. I assume you hadn't been exposed to porn. Did you imagine yourself peeing or think about other people?