Free/Open Peeing

[Pissyhall 70]

Did anybody here grow up in an open pee family? Were you aloud to pee in the living room or on your bedroom carpet? I love those kinds of stories

[toseepee 768]

No but I should write a story about that.

[Pissyhall 70]

On 4/29/2023 at 1:54 AM, toseepee said:

No but I should write a story about that.

I’d love to read it

[Ilovepeestains 470]

I didn't grow up in this kind of family, but I've read a few stories written by parents who claim to let their kids pee wherever they wanted.

If I were lucky enough to have a pissy girl as my partner, if she's anything like me, we would end up pissing all over our house and never cleaning it up. We would never use the toilet to pee. Piss stains would be everywhere. If we had kids, I'd tell them that the toilet is only necessary for #2, that peeing on the floor is okay, if they want. Our house rules would be: Okay to pee on the carpets, walls, closets, couches, and beds. But no peeing on electronics.

I would occasionally replace mattresses or couches as needed, maybe once a year.

Since I live in a dry climate and my wet spots dry relatively quickly, this is feasible. My house is a single story built on a solid slab foundation, so no worries about ruining floor boards or ceilings. But even so, our bodies don't really produce enough liquid to cause structural damage anyway.

So I'd encourage my whole family to enjoy the freedom of peeing wherever they want and not to worry about it.

[Guest Wetling]

I do not believe those really exist, and I'm almost sure it wouldn't be healthy for the children. Of course it is great if parents are generally open and accepting, and sadly mine were not of that kind, but incorporating them in a sexual fetish is definitely nothing parents should do. It's ok for a fictional story but not in reality.

[A_AShes 525]

16 minutes ago, Wetling said:

I do not believe those really exist, and I'm almost sure it wouldn't be healthy for the children. Of course it is great if parents are generally open and accepting, and sadly mine were not of that kind, but incorporating them in a sexual fetish is definitely nothing parents should do. It's ok for a fictional story but not in reality.

 

On 4/28/2023 at 11:20 PM, Pissyhall said:

Did anybody here grow up in an open pee family? Were you aloud to pee in the living room or on your bedroom carpet? I love those kinds of stories

I know few people here who grown in such a family...

 

I believe practice of parents imprints into kids as normality... so I think nobody restricts each other from what is normal...

I think it is important for kids with incontinence to feel normal and loved in their comfort and be supported in what they might need...

It is delicate issue not to restrict

Edited May 2, 2023 by A_AShes

[Guest Wetling]

If I had kids and found them pissing on something in their room for fun, I think I would be discreet about it. Maybe pretend I didn't know, and definitely not scold or shame them. But I would also not encourage them as if it was normal. I currently piss a lot on my bed and my bedroom carpet, but wouldn't do so in the presence children.

[A_AShes 525]

8 minutes ago, Wetling said:

If I had kids and found them pissing on something in their room for fun, I think I would be discreet about it. Maybe pretend I didn't know, and definitely not scold or shame them. But I would also not encourage them as if it was normal. I currently piss a lot on my bed and my bedroom carpet, but wouldn't do so in the presence children.

Same with me...When you are lucky to find peesoulmate and  form a couple perhaps it is more complex... Yes I would never encourage , teach or stop do it in front of them... But I would never restrict them if they started...Rather I will help to do it reasanoble and comfort...  Difficult matter...

You must talk it with those who grow in open pee family... Unfortunately Abby deleted her  profily whether her family stories are still here...I hardly could find...

[beachmom 1,807]

2 hours ago, MonsterKane46 said:

I personally wouldn't piss on carpet etc with kids around or encourage them to do it. But if they were outside playing around or swimming or whatever I wouldn't have a problem with them going outside if they needed to as long as in own back yard

Same hear, our boys know that anywhere outside is fine as well as a select few inside places, like showers, sinks and even a basement floor drain. But just randomly around the house, no .

[Ms. Tito 2,316]

On 5/2/2023 at 7:00 PM, Wetling said:

If I had kids and found them pissing on something in their room for fun, I think I would be discreet about it. Maybe pretend I didn't know, and definitely not scold or shame them. But I would also not encourage them as if it was normal. I currently piss a lot on my bed and my bedroom carpet, but wouldn't do so in the presence children.

Same tbh. The yard is fair game though.

[beachmom 1,807]

On 5/2/2023 at 6:00 PM, Wetling said:

If I had kids and found them pissing on something in their room for fun, I think I would be discreet about it. Maybe pretend I didn't know, and definitely not scold or shame them. But I would also not encourage them as if it was normal. I currently piss a lot on my bed and my bedroom carpet, but wouldn't do so in the presence children.

It's funny, there are so many young people here in their teens or twenties, still living at home who are terrified of their parents learning where they pee around the house, yet there have been several moms comment that they wouldn't want their kids to catch them!

[GenericUsername 1,105]

On 5/2/2023 at 7:00 PM, Wetling said:

If I had kids and found them pissing on something in their room for fun, I think I would be discreet about it. Maybe pretend I didn't know, and definitely not scold or shame them. But I would also not encourage them as if it was normal. I currently piss a lot on my bed and my bedroom carpet, but wouldn't do so in the presence children.

That’s probably the best way to go about it. Not everyone is destined to be into this. Those who are should have the freedom to enjoy themselves.

[Guest Wetling]

15 hours ago, beachmom said:

It's funny, there are so many young people here in their teens or twenties, still living at home who are terrified of their parents learning where they pee around the house, yet there have been several moms comment that they wouldn't want their kids to catch them!

Of course not. It's a very personal thing. 🙂 It wouldn't be the end of the world, but I also wouldn't want to be caught by my children when having sex. It simply is not for them, even when they know that everyone does it.

Edited May 4, 2023 by Wetling

[TheRichGold 65]

I’ve pee a couple times on the carpet or under the kitchen table my mom has always been open to nudity and peeing since it’s only been me and her. But I mostly pee in the sinks, drains and my basement bed room floor.

[A_AShes 525]

1 hour ago, Wetling said:

Of course not. It's a very personal thing. 🙂 It wouldn't be the end of the world, but I also wouldn't want to be caught by my children when having sex. It simply is not for them, even when they know that everyone does it.

Might be the best you could teach them...  but yes it would be premature end of childhood they might wish and we not...

[hibillymayshear 548]

growing up I had a spot in my room where I would pee against the carpet and wall but only peed there once in a while so i would never get caught. I also liked to pee in bottles. One time i spent the whole night filling up a 2 litre pop bottle with my pee and filled it up by morning, that was fun. My parents weren't supportive of it but i never really got caught. idk if I would support my kids (if I had kids) doing it and i would not involve them in my fetish. Maybe if we were doing renovations or getting new carpets, let them pee freely alone in their bedrooms? If they cleaned up after themselves and did it in moderation I dont see the problem. If they started doing it on their own I wouldnt get mad but just tell them if they are going to make a mess they will have to clean it up. I couldnt get mad at my kids for peeing in their bedrooms since i did the same thing as a kid and the fact that humans arent meant to pee in toilets. Until a few hundred years ago, humans peed where they wanted for thousands of years. I refuse to believe everyone used the outhouses in the middle ages and ancient world just for peeing at all times. People probably peed in their house against the wall or on a pile of hay if the outside weather was bad or it was late at night. Since they didnt shower very often I imagine the smell of pee didn't bother them as much. 

[Ilovepeestains 470]

On 5/4/2023 at 12:23 PM, Wetling said:

Of course not. It's a very personal thing. 🙂 It wouldn't be the end of the world, but I also wouldn't want to be caught by my children when having sex. It simply is not for them, even when they know that everyone does it.

Very good point! This is private and very personal and intimate. You know how vulnerable we are just sharing this with an adult sexual partner.

Acceptance of ourselves and of our children is not the same as pushing our fetishes on others. We don't want to negatively impact or hurt anyone, especially those powerless to protect themselves. I think using children in any way to indulge our fetish is crossing the line.

Edited May 6, 2023 by Ilovepeestains

[GenericUsername 1,105]

Pretty sure my parents caught me peeing in the shower when I was 15. My dad made some offhand comment about how he caught his roommates peeing in the shower in college. I rarely ever peed in their shower again after that.  Took that as a hard no.

[Ilovepeestains 470]

14 hours ago, hibillymayshear said:

If they cleaned up after themselves and did it in moderation I dont see the problem. If they started doing it on their own I wouldnt get mad but just tell them if they are going to make a mess they will have to clean it up. I couldnt get mad at my kids for peeing in their bedrooms since i did the same thing as a kid

I agree with this. I think tolerance and acceptance is the right stance towards this type of exploration. I think shaming kids is terrible. If they want to do it and they like it, then there's no big harm, at least in my world.

[GenericUsername 1,105]

If I ever have kids (which idk if I will) then I can't possibly think why I would shame them for doing the same things I enjoy.  If I caught them peeing excessively in places during the explorative years, maybe I would just write a kind note explaining that it's normal and give them some cleaning supplies. Is this kink genetic at all?

[Guest Wetling]

2 hours ago, GenericUsername said:

Is this kink genetic at all?

Definitely innate but not genetic. 🙂 My parents weren't open and generally very uptight. What sex education I didn't get from school came from PornHub. 😄 When my parents discovered any badly concealed evidence of my pees, I always wished they would have just ignored it, instead of scolding me or forcing me to make up some weird explanation. Had I really grown up thinking it was the norm, I likely would have less fun pissing all over my bedroom today, because it wouldn't feel that naughty.

3 hours ago, GenericUsername said:

I rarely ever peed in their shower again after that.  Took that as a hard no.

But if they don't know? 😈 For me the scolding only served to improve my skills in going unnoticed.

[GenericUsername 1,105]

6 hours ago, Wetling said:

But if they don't know? 😈 For me the scolding only served to improve my skills in going unnoticed.

I was much less confident about my piss kink back then. It was kind of a phase. I grew out of it in my early young adult years and finally accepted that I’m really into piss at around 21.

[Ilovepeestains 470]

10 hours ago, GenericUsername said:

Is this kink genetic at all?

I listened to a podcast once about the "arousal template" (what sexually excites us), and the experts said some of it is genetic, some is how we were raised and what we were exposed to. But it's largely not in our control. I remember getting sexually aroused by peeing at an early age. But it wasn't something anybody had exposed me to, that I'm aware. It seemed to be just ingrained in me. So maybe genetic.

Edited May 6, 2023 by Ilovepeestains

[Ilovepeestains 470]

7 hours ago, Wetling said:

Had I really grown up thinking it was the norm, I likely would have less fun pissing all over my bedroom today, because it wouldn't feel that naughty.

I think you're right. It's exciting because it's extreme behavior. I think if we do it all the time, it becomes normal and the excitement wears off, and we'd have to engage in more and more extreme behavior to get the same excitement. Like drugs. That has happened to me over time. I need to give it a rest sometimes to reset my brain.

[Guest Wetling]

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Edited May 11, 2023 by Wetling
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