Pee friendship?

[peenation 26]

I’ve been lurking around forums like this for a very long time. I’ve always been too shy to reach out to others in the community. But I recently have felt a strong urge to explore the fetish further. 
 

I have a hard time finding lasting connections. I personally am not into public play and to this day I still won’t even do holds with partners who have held for me. But I love watching and guiding and experimenting on my own. 
 

Anyway the point of this post was meant to ask a question. 
 

What is your holding buddy/partner fantasy in as much or as little detail as you’d like to share. 
 

Mine would definitely be voyeur leaning. I’d love to have a friend who held their pre often and gave me updates and videos or commentary about how their bladder is doing. Especially if they worked in an office or a career where they could easily access privacy often. I’d also love the knowledge that I could hold with them and have them keep me accountable but I don’t have to.  

[steamlover6 740]

My fantasy comprises:

1. Serious drinking in pubs, picnics, festivals etc and enjoying the fact that we are both holding our pee together... heading for desperation stage and loving sharing the sensation

2. Then finding naughty places to pee together anwhere, in beer gardens, under tables, in alleyways, car parks, behind buildings etc

3. After serious drinking, lying on a hotel bed, one on top of the other, wearing only underwear, cuddling and letting our warm pee go on each other's bodies as the need arises

4. Real Ale Rail Trails - stopping for an hour at each station with a pub, then moving on to the next station with a pub, drinking and peeing along the way

5. Beer Festivals

I confess I am lucky enough to enjoy all of these fantasies with a g/f whom I have known for many years, who is as much a lover of these things as myself..!

But if any lovely girl here wants to share this with me at any time....do msg me

 

[gldenwetgoose 20,993]

2 hours ago, peenation said:

I’ve been lurking around forums like this for a very long time. I’ve always been too shy to reach out to others in the community. But I recently have felt a strong urge to explore the fetish further. 
 

I have a hard time finding lasting connections. I personally am not into public play and to this day I still won’t even do holds with partners who have held for me. But I love watching and guiding and experimenting on my own. 
 

Anyway the point of this post was meant to ask a question. 
 

What is your holding buddy/partner fantasy in as much or as little detail as you’d like to share. 
 

Mine would definitely be voyeur leaning. I’d love to have a friend who held their pre often and gave me updates and videos or commentary about how their bladder is doing. Especially if they worked in an office or a career where they could easily access privacy often. I’d also love the knowledge that I could hold with them and have them keep me accountable but I don’t have to.  

Just one thought that may help you @peenation, now you're here with us...    The is a thread in the Real Pee Experiences - the Live Action Thread and what typically happens is exactly what you've described.   Online virtual play with either one or more people all interacting in real time, telling you how their bladder is doing or for that matter helping you.

It should be said that sometimes it's active and other times near dead.   Also if you're solely into experiences with an opposite gender partner that isn't always the case either.  But it can work.

The hottest online experience I've ever had, was interacting live with a lady on there. She was in the USA and me in England, at the time in a student flat (a base for the week) where I didn't care too much about making a mess.  Both of us holding though and describing our experiences, seeing responses become shorter and less accurate, knowing we were both simultaneously about to lose it, but egging each other on to just hold a few more minutes.   Heaven.

[Bacardi 9,881]

I've never done anything with pee with anyone else in person. However, through the connections I've made on here I've had some digital fun. 

Most of the time I take a submissive position and let my friends tell me what to do. This includes but is not limited to drinking as much as I can and then holding it until I'm allowed to pee. A lot of the time those people will take advantage of the fact that I find everything funny and will make me laugh until I pee in my pants a little, or release my whole bladder! But, personally, I don't find that to be as fun. They often send videos of them peeing and/or cumming for me but I am only comfortable sending them audio and pictures of my pees (so long as they happen in the toilet and not in my pants lol). 

Honestly I'm okay with all of this! I'm not very greedy so I don't ask for more or less, although I have been known to beg my Italian friends to speak to me in their native language because nothing turns me on more 😪 but I really wouldn't change anything about any of my pee friends. They are all perfect and I can only hope they think the same of me lol.

In person tho, fantasy wise since I am certain I will never meet any of these people, I don't know what to expect. I'm such a private, introverted person and I haven't done anything pee related with anyone else so I don't really have any wishes to be with anyone else, if that makes sense. All of my fantasies have always only involved me and I can't picture doing anything with anyone else involved 😆

Idk. Maybe if I one day find myself divorced with no kids that will change 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Chrissy89 1,207]

On 1/12/2023 at 7:57 PM, Bacardi said:

I've never done anything with pee with anyone else in person. However, through the connections I've made on here I've had some digital fun. 

Most of the time I take a submissive position and let my friends tell me what to do. This includes but is not limited to drinking as much as I can and then holding it until I'm allowed to pee. A lot of the time those people will take advantage of the fact that I find everything funny and will make me laugh until I pee in my pants a little, or release my whole bladder! But, personally, I don't find that to be as fun. They often send videos of them peeing and/or cumming for me but I am only comfortable sending them audio and pictures of my pees (so long as they happen in the toilet and not in my pants lol). 

Honestly I'm okay with all of this! I'm not very greedy so I don't ask for more or less, although I have been known to beg my Italian friends to speak to me in their native language because nothing turns me on more 😪 but I really wouldn't change anything about any of my pee friends. They are all perfect and I can only hope they think the same of me lol.

In person tho, fantasy wise since I am certain I will never meet any of these people, I don't know what to expect. I'm such a private, introverted person and I haven't done anything pee related with anyone else so I don't really have any wishes to be with anyone else, if that makes sense. All of my fantasies have always only involved me and I can't picture doing anything with anyone else involved 😆

Idk. Maybe if I one day find myself divorced with no kids that will change 🤷🏽‍♀️

God, reading this you sound a lot like me (minus the Italian). I’ve never shared anything to do with my fetish outside of here and I’ve often found myself recording myself having a wee in the toilet for my own pleasure…. 
Many a night though I’ve found myself fantasising about what may happen if I ever met any of my PF friends in person and I could stomach being brave for once in my life 🤣

Ah well back to reality I guess. 🙂 

[Chrissy89 1,207]

On 1/12/2023 at 1:28 PM, peenation said:

I’ve been lurking around forums like this for a very long time. I’ve always been too shy to reach out to others in the community. But I recently have felt a strong urge to explore the fetish further. 
 

I have a hard time finding lasting connections. I personally am not into public play and to this day I still won’t even do holds with partners who have held for me. But I love watching and guiding and experimenting on my own. 
 

Anyway the point of this post was meant to ask a question. 
 

What is your holding buddy/partner fantasy in as much or as little detail as you’d like to share. 
 

Mine would definitely be voyeur leaning. I’d love to have a friend who held their pre often and gave me updates and videos or commentary about how their bladder is doing. Especially if they worked in an office or a career where they could easily access privacy often. I’d also love the knowledge that I could hold with them and have them keep me accountable but I don’t have to.  

Getting back on topic; I’ve not really had many holding buddy opportunities… I’ve read many a topic on the live action thread and gotten quite a thrill out of it! 

[Bacardi 9,881]

14 hours ago, Chrissy89 said:

God, reading this you sound a lot like me (minus the Italian). I’ve never shared anything to do with my fetish outside of here and I’ve often found myself recording myself having a wee in the toilet for my own pleasure…. 
Many a night though I’ve found myself fantasising about what may happen if I ever met any of my PF friends in person and I could stomach being brave for once in my life 🤣

Ah well back to reality I guess. 🙂 

I wish I was as brave as you. Idk I guess I don't like seeing myself on camera peeing lol. 

Im just not cut out to be a porn star!

[Chrissy89 1,207]

6 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I wish I was as brave as you. Idk I guess I don't like seeing myself on camera peeing lol. 

Im just not cut out to be a porn star!

The first time is the hardest, when I started recording it took me ages to get into it. I’m not a porn star either and I certainly don’t sit on the toilet any fancy way haha 🤣🙈. X

[Chrissy89 1,207]

1 minute ago, MonsterKane46 said:

not a porn star here either... but ive recorded myself pissing into a hot tub in a motel before purely for my own enjoyment later

Now that would be worthy of a recording! 

[Let_It_Go 273]

5 hours ago, MonsterKane46 said:

 ive recorded myself pissing into a hot tub in a motel 

... And this can be found... Where? 😎 Have you masturbated over the footage? 

I've only just started recording myself, having previously thought it wasn't for me. It's fairly surreal. But exciting! 

[Styx 23]

Just having a partner for peefun is exciting. Sharing the fun of holding games, clothes wetting self/other, drinking self/other, even just side by side using separate urinals (assuming another male).

[Sexismygod 1,771]

Whilst I've video'd my pee fun many times (and shared publicly, as some here are aware), I've never had the opportunity for any form of direct interaction.  It's on my bucket list ... and has been for years ... but remains elusive.

🤞

[Jar351 436]

Like many others on here I would love an in-person pee friend bit mostly it's been on here and kik messenger.  Kind of jealous of everyone who has had a meaningful per friend so far but it will happen one day. 

[Neha14 0]

Pee frndshp is so exciting 

[steamlover6 740]

On 1/14/2023 at 11:41 AM, Chrissy89 said:

I’ve read many a topic on the live action thread and gotten quite a thrill out of it! 

I've only recently discovered this... its amazing interaction on one of my favourite passions - true holding. It is exciting to share the experience with others live all at the same time, who also indulge and share this passion. There needs to be some efficient way of knowing when someone is on, or alternatively book a time which suits two or more people....

[Rikki Bare 98]

On 1/18/2023 at 1:41 PM, Styx said:

Just having a partner for peefun is exciting. Sharing the fun of holding games, clothes wetting self/other, drinking self/other, even just side by side using separate urinals (assuming another male).

I agree, I've never had pee partner but peeing side by side can involve males or females - no problem women can pee standing and aim pretty good too if wearing a short skirt and no panties. Notting Hill carnival in 1988 was great for that. Peeing in the men's urinals with the porta-cabin crowded with women waiting for a stall. 

[gldenwetgoose 20,993]

I can't emphasise enough how wonderful it is to have pee friends - even if they are here in a virtual rather than an everyday real life sense.   Ours is such a misunderstood and taboo kink, that doesn't really lend itself to chats in the pub, staff breakroom or across the coffee shop...  (maybe one day but not in 2024).

And when we talk friendship, something that's really hard to explain is being able to have peefriends of the opposite gender - the gender I'm deeply attracted to - who are happy to chat about the kink that drives me crazy.   Maybe conversations whilst they're holding, wetting or naughty peeing.  All the things which push me over the edge.  Yet they know and I know that there is complete respect.   I'm lusting after the act they're in the middle of, not lusting after them personally.   There's a respect for them as a friend and a mutual ability to arouse each other - whilst still maintaining that respect for them, their extant relationships etc.

I've got a number of friends here where that happens from time to time.  When time online, friskiness and opportunity aligns - so it can be quite a rare moment, but wonderful when it does on so many levels. 

Really hard to explain but hopefully you get it.   It's a world apart from those who join here thinking that any mention from the opposite gender is an invitation for them to leap into any sort of sex act.   Just because someone is willing to discuss themselves peeing doesn't mean they want to have sex with a random stranger.

[oliver2 4,254]

9 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

a misunderstood and taboo kink, that doesn't really lend itself to chats in the pub, staff breakroom or across the coffee shop

… do other kinks get talked about in the coffee shop?

 

[gldenwetgoose 20,993]

2 minutes ago, oliver2 said:

… do other kinks get talked about in the coffee shop?

 

i suspect some do...   it seems like the some other kinks are becoming less taboo and more open.    Maybe not at the pub pool table though.

[oliver2 4,254]

7 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

i suspect some do...   it seems like the some other kinks are becoming less taboo and more open.    Maybe not at the pub pool table though.

“Nice work with those balls, bae”

[Kupar 13,174]

8 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

i suspect some do...   it seems like the some other kinks are becoming less taboo and more open.    Maybe not at the pub pool table though.

I chatted at a pub with my grown up daughter about BDSM some time ago.

[oliver2 4,254]

2 hours ago, Kupar said:

I chatted at a pub with my grown up daughter about BDSM some time ago.

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