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I’ve been lurking around forums like this for a very long time. I’ve always been too shy to reach out to others in the community. But I recently have felt a strong urge to explore the fetish further. 
 

I have a hard time finding lasting connections. I personally am not into public play and to this day I still won’t even do holds with partners who have held for me. But I love watching and guiding and experimenting on my own. 
 

Anyway the point of this post was meant to ask a question. 
 

What is your holding buddy/partner fantasy in as much or as little detail as you’d like to share. 
 

Mine would definitely be voyeur leaning. I’d love to have a friend who held their pre often and gave me updates and videos or commentary about how their bladder is doing. Especially if they worked in an office or a career where they could easily access privacy often. I’d also love the knowledge that I could hold with them and have them keep me accountable but I don’t have to.  

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On 1/12/2023 at 1:28 PM, peenation said:

I’ve been lurking around forums like this for a very long time. I’ve always been too shy to reach out to others in the community. But I recently have felt a strong urge to explore the fetish further. 
 

I have a hard time finding lasting connections. I personally am not into public play and to this day I still won’t even do holds with partners who have held for me. But I love watching and guiding and experimenting on my own. 
 

Anyway the point of this post was meant to ask a question. 
 

What is your holding buddy/partner fantasy in as much or as little detail as you’d like to share. 
 

Mine would definitely be voyeur leaning. I’d love to have a friend who held their pre often and gave me updates and videos or commentary about how their bladder is doing. Especially if they worked in an office or a career where they could easily access privacy often. I’d also love the knowledge that I could hold with them and have them keep me accountable but I don’t have to.  

Getting back on topic; I’ve not really had many holding buddy opportunities… I’ve read many a topic on the live action thread and gotten quite a thrill out of it! 

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14 hours ago, Chrissy89 said:

God, reading this you sound a lot like me (minus the Italian). I’ve never shared anything to do with my fetish outside of here and I’ve often found myself recording myself having a wee in the toilet for my own pleasure…. 
Many a night though I’ve found myself fantasising about what may happen if I ever met any of my PF friends in person and I could stomach being brave for once in my life 🤣

Ah well back to reality I guess. 🙂 

I wish I was as brave as you. Idk I guess I don't like seeing myself on camera peeing lol. 

Im just not cut out to be a porn star!

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6 hours ago, Bacardi said:

I wish I was as brave as you. Idk I guess I don't like seeing myself on camera peeing lol. 

Im just not cut out to be a porn star!

The first time is the hardest, when I started recording it took me ages to get into it. I’m not a porn star either and I certainly don’t sit on the toilet any fancy way haha 🤣🙈. X

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5 hours ago, MonsterKane46 said:

 ive recorded myself pissing into a hot tub in a motel 

... And this can be found... Where? 😎 Have you masturbated over the footage? 

I've only just started recording myself, having previously thought it wasn't for me. It's fairly surreal. But exciting! 

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Just having a partner for peefun is exciting. Sharing the fun of holding games, clothes wetting self/other, drinking self/other, even just side by side using separate urinals (assuming another male).

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Whilst I've video'd my pee fun many times (and shared publicly, as some here are aware), I've never had the opportunity for any form of direct interaction.  It's on my bucket list ... and has been for years ... but remains elusive.

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On 1/14/2023 at 11:41 AM, Chrissy89 said:

I’ve read many a topic on the live action thread and gotten quite a thrill out of it! 

I've only recently discovered this... its amazing interaction on one of my favourite passions - true holding. It is exciting to share the experience with others live all at the same time, who also indulge and share this passion. There needs to be some efficient way of knowing when someone is on, or alternatively book a time which suits two or more people....

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On 1/18/2023 at 1:41 PM, Styx said:

Just having a partner for peefun is exciting. Sharing the fun of holding games, clothes wetting self/other, drinking self/other, even just side by side using separate urinals (assuming another male).

I agree, I've never had pee partner but peeing side by side can involve males or females - no problem women can pee standing and aim pretty good too if wearing a short skirt and no panties. Notting Hill carnival in 1988 was great for that. Peeing in the men's urinals with the porta-cabin crowded with women waiting for a stall. 

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I can't emphasise enough how wonderful it is to have pee friends - even if they are here in a virtual rather than an everyday real life sense.   Ours is such a misunderstood and taboo kink, that doesn't really lend itself to chats in the pub, staff breakroom or across the coffee shop...  (maybe one day but not in 2024).

And when we talk friendship, something that's really hard to explain is being able to have peefriends of the opposite gender - the gender I'm deeply attracted to - who are happy to chat about the kink that drives me crazy.   Maybe conversations whilst they're holding, wetting or naughty peeing.  All the things which push me over the edge.  Yet they know and I know that there is complete respect.   I'm lusting after the act they're in the middle of, not lusting after them personally.   There's a respect for them as a friend and a mutual ability to arouse each other - whilst still maintaining that respect for them, their extant relationships etc.

I've got a number of friends here where that happens from time to time.  When time online, friskiness and opportunity aligns - so it can be quite a rare moment, but wonderful when it does on so many levels. 

Really hard to explain but hopefully you get it.   It's a world apart from those who join here thinking that any mention from the opposite gender is an invitation for them to leap into any sort of sex act.   Just because someone is willing to discuss themselves peeing doesn't mean they want to have sex with a random stranger.

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9 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

a misunderstood and taboo kink, that doesn't really lend itself to chats in the pub, staff breakroom or across the coffee shop

… do other kinks get talked about in the coffee shop?

 

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2 minutes ago, oliver2 said:

… do other kinks get talked about in the coffee shop?

 

i suspect some do...   it seems like the some other kinks are becoming less taboo and more open.    Maybe not at the pub pool table though.

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7 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

i suspect some do...   it seems like the some other kinks are becoming less taboo and more open.    Maybe not at the pub pool table though.

“Nice work with those balls, bae”

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8 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

i suspect some do...   it seems like the some other kinks are becoming less taboo and more open.    Maybe not at the pub pool table though.

I chatted at a pub with my grown up daughter about BDSM some time ago.

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2 hours ago, Kupar said:

I chatted at a pub with my grown up daughter about BDSM some time ago.

Well, this is out of order. You are naughty and shall be punished…

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