G-spot query

[Mitch11 16]

When I first read about the 'G-spot' there was a lot of discussion going on about whether it really existed, what it was if it did, what it was if it didn't (might have got that confused...) and so on. Many authors agreed that it was somewhere near the urethra and that stimulating it could bring about an urge to urinate. That's where they tended to part company. Some of them reckoned that this meant it was just a feature of the urethra and that continuing to press on it, etc. would bring about just what you'd expect - urination. Others reckoned that continuing to press on it, etc. would result it ejaculation and that you only had to ask the woman involved and she'd tell you that she knew fine well what a pee felt like and this wasn't it.

Neither camp seemed to explore what happened if you got the g-spot aroused to the point where the urge to pee was felt and instead of continuing with masturbation or intercourse went the other route and deliberately emptied the bladder.

There could be very good reasons for this - I can imagine readers' minds boggling at the prospect: "Oh sure, I'm giving it what for with a vibrator, my g spot is doing a victory dance and singing 'Oh yes, at last she's found me' and I stop for a pee." However... on the off-chance that there is a woman out there who has done that very thing, or a man who has mis-timed events to such a catastrophic degree that he knows exactly what happens when a woman is on the verge of a g-spot orgasm and stimulation ceases and she is obliged to go for a pee instead (or not, I suppose. Perhaps the urge to pee just goes away?): can anybody tell me what they think happens. Others might well disagree so I'm going to 'flair' this discussion rather than question in the hope that others join in.

[Hightower 607]

Female ejaculation/squirting is just a brief involuntary release of fluid from the bladder, i.e it's urine. Because it comes (lol) with contractions in the vaginal muscles as well it's also mixed in with released pussy juices but the actual squirt itself is pee. I've even seen my girlfriend's squirt be quite yellowish.

I guess if it got to the point of a squirting orgasm and the girl decided to piss anyway it would just look like the 'squirting' orgasm you see in porn. 

[gldenwetgoose 21,494]

There's lots of discussion already here around Squirting / Female Ejaculation - and as a starting point perhaps the thread: https://peefans.com/topic/20353-female-ejaculation/page/2/?tab=comments#comment-277245

 

 

But I don't believe that's the question here.   If I've understood correctly, what's being asked about is:

When someone is manipulating the G-spot, and instead of an amazing orgasm, it makes the lady feel the desperate need to pee - and hence she loses interest in sex to instead get up and go for a pee.

[gldenwetgoose 21,494]

@Mitch11  - I've had exactly that situation happen to me a long time ago.

I was at college, and a young lady maybe five or six years older than me had for some reason decided to educate me on the ways of manhood.  We were in bed in the middle of the day, I had a couple of fingers inside her and was gently circling her clitoris with my thumb.  I could tell when my fingers were in the right place, right up to the point she said 'that feels amazing, but if you don't stop right now I'm going to wet the bed'.

Back then I hadn't realised my kink in the way I have now, and in fact that may have been a stepping stone on that journey - so instead we lost the moment and she went for a pee(*).    We did discuss it a little later on, she confirmed the closeness between it inducing an amazing orgasm and creating the need to pee.

(*) If it was now I can imagine pee would be a definite mutual plaything.  She was quite open to discussing pee anecdotes, but she was a little pee shy (another time later she'd tried to give me a golden shower but couldn't release).   Back then it wasn't a topic I pursued so much.  Also, peeing the bed wasn't an option - it would have taken far too much explaining to her fiance when he got home from work.  True story. 

[Mitch11 16]

6 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

There's lots of discussion already here around Squirting / Female Ejaculation - and as a starting point perhaps the thread: https://peefans.com/topic/20353-female-ejaculation/page/2/?tab=comments#comment-277245

 

 

But I don't believe that's the question here.   If I've understood correctly, what's being asked about is:

When someone is manipulating the G-spot, and instead of an amazing orgasm, it makes the lady feel the desperate need to pee - and hence she loses interest in sex to instead get up and go for a pee.

 

7 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

There's lots of discussion already here around Squirting / Female Ejaculation - and as a starting point perhaps the thread: https://peefans.com/topic/20353-female-ejaculation/page/2/?tab=comments#comment-277245

 

 

But I don't believe that's the question here.   If I've understood correctly, what's being asked about is:

When someone is manipulating the G-spot, and instead of an amazing orgasm, it makes the lady feel the desperate need to pee - and hence she loses interest in sex to instead get up and go for a pee.

I confess to not having read all the discussion here - I looked for a search string entry box but didn't find it (probably looking in the wrong place ! ) so if there is one please point me in the right direction. The debates I've seen have gone along the lines of the female ejaculate being pee or not. This was largely because there were a lot of people denying that women could ejaculate. I'm not expressing an opinion on that - I don't know. What I really would like to know, though, is whether women who have felt the urge to pee building up and have deliberately responded by peeing have then been able to go on to ejaculate. Can they tell the difference in those circumstances? Does the g-spot 'deflate' or is it still detectable after peeing ?

[Bacardi 10,134]

I dont know much about my g spot other than it's there and it feels good when rubbed the right way, but I do know that my need to pee builds as I'm more turned on. 

I can think of one time I had sex and was full of pee and when I managed to orgasm I lost the need to pee. This also happened once when I was masturbating with a friend from the forum. It took me leas than an hour to get the sensation of being full to pee again back.

[Chrissy89 1,208]

When my G-spot is being played with peeing is the last thing on my mind!

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[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

36 minutes ago, Chrissy89 said:

When my G-spot is being played with peeing is the last thing on my mind!

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I was just waiting for this comment to appear. LOL

[Chrissy89 1,208]

4 minutes ago, DoctorDoctor said:

I was just waiting for this comment to appear. LOL

I was being honest. 😂

[gldenwetgoose 21,494]

5 hours ago, Mitch11 said:

 

I confess to not having read all the discussion here - I looked for a search string entry box but didn't find it (probably looking in the wrong place ! ) so if there is one please point me in the right direction. The debates I've seen have gone along the lines of the female ejaculate being pee or not. This was largely because there were a lot of people denying that women could ejaculate. I'm not expressing an opinion on that - I don't know. What I really would like to know, though, is whether women who have felt the urge to pee building up and have deliberately responded by peeing have then been able to go on to ejaculate. Can they tell the difference in those circumstances? Does the g-spot 'deflate' or is it still detectable after peeing ?

Absolutely @Mitch11 - we're talking on exactly the same lines, and your question was indeed (as far as I'm aware) a question which hasn't been answered before.  A very interesting question, and one worthy of discussion.

As you've said above the 'is it pee or not' is a different debate, and the reason I got involved was because of a comment which was steering off on that tangent.   But the original question is well worth pursuing.

[Dr.P 1,473]

@Mitch11, gldenwetgoose, et al.  One of my first posts on PeeFans was on this subject, based on experiences with a g.f., "Melissa," (or "Michelle" ?) long ago. The post was a short fictional story, based on my own real experiences, when I was licking her. As she neared orgasm, she would occasionally stop me, warning "If you keep on licking that spot, your face might get awfully wet, in a few seconds! I feel like I'm going to pee!"

My usual response was, "Go for it! I'd love it!" which, incidentally, was the truth. (Neither of us would have enjoyed sleeping in a wet bed, so we always placed several layers of towels under us, to absorb any fluids.)

I would always continue licking the exact same spot, most probably the famous G-spot, for her, and she would eventually have her orgasm, but I never tasted a drop of pee, or female ejaculate, etc. She never sprayed my face with pee or other juices, to my mild disappointment, so it is possible that the fluid didn't come out, at all, or went back in her bladder, as suggested by some of the medical literature which I have read, since that time. This happened fairly frequently, for a while, so I came up with a different response which was the basis for the short fictional story, which I posted on 8/30/17, in the Fictional Stories section of Pee Fans. An excerpt is paraphrased here:

"She began moving in response to my tongue, and squeezing my face with her thighs, until she finally stopped me, saying, "I feel like I have to go again, and I'm afraid I might do it all over you, if you keep licking me in that spot."

"Promises, promises!" I replied, with a wicked grin, this time, and we both laughed for a long time, before I licked her to her usual orgasm, with no squirting or ejaculation. So the title of my short story became, "Promises, Promises," (She did squirt in my mouth, in the fictional story, but never, in reality.)

So for my part of this discussion, this phenomenon is apparently real, and does happen, for some women. Since I am into pee, including watching, licking, drinking, and being peed on, it's not a problem, for me, as long as we make preparations, to avoid sleeping in a wet bed. I totally understand the anxiety and reluctance of a woman to "go with the flow," and enjoy a simultaneous orgasm and pee with me, if she doesn't know about and accept my kink, in advance. This situation could present real problems for couples wherein one or both of them is not into pee. As an example, I recently posted the story of "Lisa," another g.f., who accidentally peed on the hand of a previous b.f., during her orgasm, when he was getting her off, manually. His response was to wash his hand, take a shower, and never call her again. This experience caused so much emotional trauma in her, that it took me almost a year before she would allow me to just watch her pee. So the taboos of conventional, "normal" society can lead to serious problems in otherwise satisfactory relationships.

 

[DoctorDoctor 1,391]

On 12/29/2022 at 4:05 PM, Chrissy89 said:

I was being honest. 😂

Some discussions, I don't have much to contribute, but the comments from others are gold (or golden in this case).

[Kirby23 954]

I can contribute to this, only based on my experience with my wife. We'll call her "Mrs. K".

Mrs. K has a pretty pronounced G spot. It's easy to feel and easy to find with my finger. I'd say it's probably only maybe 1/2" in. It might be 1", not exactly sure.

She definitely enjoys when I touch it just right, but I have to work my way up to it. I can't just go in "guns blazing" and expect a favorable result. 

As I work my way up, I use light pressure, circling motions, and the "come hither" gesture that is so often recommended in squirting discussions. I also don't focus all of my attention only in that one spot, I move the finger in and out, and around, while I'm using my tongue on her clit and labia. 

She usually pees before we have sex, so very rarely does the "Stop, I need to pee" conversation happen in the middle of foreplay. Once in a while, however, if I'm too aggressive on the G spot, she'll ask me to stop, saying it's too much, or it doesn't feel good, or I need to ease back.

Once she's close to orgasm though, all bets are off, and she likes it more aggressive. I can push, drag across, and "come hither," and she likes all of it.

She has never squirted, but sometimes there is some clear wetness after she orgasms. In fact, during our most recent session, she orgasmed hard, and I noticed more "glistening" than usual. Although I'm often somewhat aggressive with my tongue, so it could've been my saliva.

I'm still holding out hope that someday she will squirt, but I feel like if she hasn't done it yet in our 15 years together, she's probably not going to. But a man can dream!

[WantonLee 861]

On 1/28/2023 at 6:51 AM, MasterDarcy said:

No. The G-Spot is a myth.

https://nwhn.org/is-the-g-spot-real/

I find myself on a slight disagreement with your black/white - yes/no-argument.

The article you linked seems to be of the same opinion as I, if I am not mistaken; at least I do not interpret it as a hard "no".

 

While not in the possession of the necessary... "hardware", I did read quite a lot about this topic.

I think the most problematic aspect of the g-spot is, that Mr. Gräfenberg (who first described this area) did not call it a spot, but rather a zone.

This of course explains a lot of the resulting confusion. 😄

 

Furthermore, whether or not a lady is getting pleasure from a manipulation of that zone (or area) depends on the individual.

Psychology plays a really big role when it comes to sexuality - as this forum is good proof of - which helps explain why some ladies get pleasure from a stimulation of the g-zone, while others don't.

 

To give a harsh example: when someone manipulates one of your erogenous zones, you do not necessarily will be aroused.

If that someone - as a person - really turns you off, their attempts will most likely not fall on fertile ground. 😉

 

Sooo... would you mind if I rephrase your statement of "The G-Spot is a myth." to "The G-Spot is mysterious." ?  😉

 

(Btw,. the opposite can be true as well. Arousal from stimulating an area which in this case is definitely NOT the g-spot:

https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/tooth-brushing-induced-orgasms-look-ma-no-cavities

I really like the part where it says that she could not reproduce the effect when brushing here teeth, but without tooth-paste.... and the brand of tooth paste did not play a role either.

So.. yeah.... make of that what you want. ^^

 

 

In any case, I think it's up to the ladies to decide this question! 😄

 

Cheers! 🙂

 

I'm of to bed now... but first.... errr... I will report back if something strange happens in the bathroom. 😉

 

 

 

 

[WantonLee 861]

21 hours ago, MasterDarcy said:

Meh. You'll have to pay a charge to rephrase me as I've already patented it. 😛

Oh. It's definitely not a hard yes or no question. As with all things, it's nuanced.

Over the years it's been painted as this mythical and magical portal that transcends earthy orgasmic pleasure and turns it into something other-worldly.

Though, there may be pressure points and such, it's highly dubious that women have been born with a hidden nuclear orgasm button. 😛

The clit has double the amount of nerve endings as does a penis. I suggest we focus on the clit instead of getting all "Indiana Jones and the hunt for the G-Spot". 😛

I almost lost it at "hidden nuclear orgasm button" 😉

Anyway, apart from my thinking that "Indiana Jones and the hunt for the G-Spot" would really have been a better 4th iteration of that beloved franchise, all I have left to say is that what I am going to focus on or hunt for, should be up to what ever floats the boat of the lady in question. 🙂

(Considering that I am currently single, make of my take on this issue what ever you want. 😛 )

 

Cheers! 😄

[PissDude 479]

My understanding is, the G spot is inside the birth canal, not the clitous. Manipulating the clitorus at about the 1 o’clock position provides arosal, bit the G spot is inside the birth canal. I know I hit it on my ex-wife several times with both my finger and my dick. I have no feedback on whether or not it produced a need to piss. She didn’t like when I brought my fetish up. I only mentioned it to my current wife once, but her poor memory protects me from that. 
 

I have read that women can manipulate their own G-spot, but should do it over the toilet in case the need to relive themselves becomes too great. 

[Pifam 394]

Little answer here 🙂