Post peeing/wetting clarity

[Kasslyn_xK 211]

Does one believe that its an actual thing where after peeing yourselves or onto something you get some weird after-feelings to it? It's like it can be dissatisfaction or calmness but I can't quite scratch my head about this.

[gldenwetgoose 21,495]

I used to frequently go through an 'OMG - what am I doing' phase just after.

For example, if I'd been feeling horny for a long while, and maybe holding up to the point of wetting and / or masturbating to climax, then as soon as that moment had passed it was like turning on the lights and seeing the mess I'd made.  Suddenly questioning what manner of freak I was.

And I think being here and being in all of your company has made me realise just how widespread this kink is, and to effectively normalise it.

 

Even now though if I'm masturbating to porn, as some as I've cum I'll switch it off - it suddenly holds no attraction.  Until the next time.

[LovesToWet 3,802]

Yes I get that. For me it's a sense of emptiness because the joy of wetting is over and I didn't want it to be. It's like masterbaing but not climaxing

[Kasslyn_xK 211]

1 hour ago, gldenwetgoose said:

I used to frequently go through an 'OMG - what am I doing' phase just after.

For example, if I'd been feeling horny for a long while, and maybe holding up to the point of wetting and / or masturbating to climax, then as soon as that moment had passed it was like turning on the lights and seeing the mess I'd made.  Suddenly questioning what manner of freak I was.

I get this feeling quite often when I first started and always had to be on the lookout for my mom if she caught me making a mess - over time it mattered less but at times I still have that feeling of 'this mess was not how I hoped to be' or 'maybe I should have done it another day'

[Kupar 13,340]

I think the comparison with orgasm is a good one - emotions do change (at least for me, and I think for many men - I don't know about women) immediately after orgasm. Though I think context can have a strong influence too. For instance, I get a great deal of satisfaction out of really, really needing to have a pee on a long walk in the countryside, then satisfying that need in a happy way - spraying pee around, maybe getting a little wet. And afterwards I still feel really good. But after I have made a huge mess on the the kitchen floor, or in a  hotel bathroom, that's completely different - the "now I have to clean it all up properly; what on earth did I do that for?" feeling follows on quite quickly from the amazing euphoria that preceded it!

[LovesToWet 3,802]

@Kupar same here. I enjoy being desperate on a bike ride. The joy of either having a nice accident while I ride or the relief from only just finding somewhere to stop before I pee myself is great but then realising I have to ride home with a big wet patch is demoralising incase I get caught.

I'm not sure whether demoralising is the right word but I think you know what I mean

[GenericUsername 1,108]

I had that yesterday when I peed on my bed again. The cleanup was a little annoying and the mess didn’t feel as good on my body as it usually does.

[Vassal 1,471]

It definitely has to do with post-orgasm clarity. In our case it usually involves a lot more clean up which doesn't help. And you can double that for wetting since now a shower in needed on top of laundry and clean up.

[Dante_Heart 131]

The main clarity thing I get is that moment when I realize "Fuuuck, I gotta clean all of this up now". Main reason why I mainly do my naughty pissing by peeing all over towels on the floor. 

[Takashi96 1,076]

The feeling you're describing reminds me (and probably most other biological males reading this) of post-ejaculatory clarity/guilt. Could it be that your post-pee "disappointment or calmness" has to do with losing the urgency of a full bladder? 

Do your non-toilet pees involve masturbation? Is your level of stimulation from peeing outside of a toilet similar to that of masturbation? And finally, do you normally experience similar "disappointment or calmness" after orgasm without peeing?

I hope you can forgive my obnoxious, wannabe, clinical questions, but I'll always be a failed sexologist at heart. And your question fascinates me. 

[Kasslyn_xK 211]

3 hours ago, Takashi96 said:

The feeling you're describing reminds me (and probably most other biological males reading this) of post-ejaculatory clarity/guilt. Could it be that your post-pee "disappointment or calmness" has to do with losing the urgency of a full bladder? 

Do your non-toilet pees involve masturbation? Is your level of stimulation from peeing outside of a toilet similar to that of masturbation? And finally, do you normally experience similar "disappointment or calmness" after orgasm without peeing?

I hope you can forgive my obnoxious, wannabe, clinical questions, but I'll always be a failed sexologist at heart. And your question fascinates me. 

Not really just from losing urgency of a full bladder as I see that naughty peeing can happen at any time anywhere and also how much the bladder's got.

Sometimes yes applies to all of those above.

These questions are alright because it helps understand better of what's going on simplified

[Ilovepeestains 482]

Sometimes I get so horny I have to piss on something, and when I pee on my unprotected bed, sometimes I think “I can’t believe I did that.” But it’s a very exciting thought, and once I start, I want to do it more and more. Like a drug, I guess.

Sometimes I make a big mess and only after I get off do I think, “Shit, I have to clean that up now.”