Who would you be more comfortable telling about your pee fetish?

[MaxWasTaken 522]

It's really surprising to me that the long term partner is winning with such a huge lead. I feel like there is no risk in telling a "stranger" while you might not want to ruin your long term relationship. I can see why you would choose both sides im just surprised that it is not closer.  

[halmac5488 25]

I'd rather tell my long-term partner. I've yet to find one that I'm comfortable enough telling yet, but definitely vote long-term.

[Phyche 435]

Quick casual hookup, imma tell 'em straight away I got a piss kink/fetish.

Long term partner, imma wait a while before telling 'em.

[likewetting 247]

I have only ever told my long term partner.

She wasn't into it b.t.w., but she found it cute I was a weirdo.

I never been the person for casual hookup.

[avatar 382]

Don't know how much I can provide to this topic, not really being into casual sex and also never having told any of the partners I had previously (single atm). But I guess in my mind the idea of telling some hookup partner brings less baggage with it? There's less fear of judgement then with someone who you wanna potentially spend your life with.

[Horse_water 637]

I'm more open about it now than in the past. It is a disservice to yourself and a potential partner to hid too much about yourself.  I don't explicitly explain everything but I do very openly piss in front of girls I'm seeing to gauge their reaction.

[Fruit_On_The_Bottom 78]

I voted “A casual sexual encounter with someone you're unlikely to see again”. discretion is a must because I’m married to a woman, but I’m a closeted bisexual. Having known only one other man personally who was into drinking urine from other men, I’m curious to hear how other likeminded men broach the topic with hookups. I used to bring up the subject with potential playmates as we’d get to know one another’s likes and dislikes, only to have almost everyone reject me when I confided in them. Eventually I tried another tactic of getting what I wanted by just telling them that I love giving blowjobs with no mention that I wanted to drink their urine. Suddenly I was much more successful at being softly bedded or at least pushed down onto my knees to please them. After the blowjobs and during their afterglow moments, I’d kiss and nuzzle down there while delicately asking them if they needed to pee. If they said they did, I’d sweetly ask them to do so while I suck. For me, these were the most awkward, but anxiously exciting moments! The responses I’d get ranged from immediate obliging to complete surprise and disbelief that I’d ask for such. Though In the end, almost all fulfilled my desire! After they’d finish, I’d thank them and lavish them with kisses making certain to avoid doing so anywhere around their faces. Finding others willing to please me is challenging enough, and I don’t want any relationships outside of just getting what I need. I guess you’d call it hit ‘n’ run, but I love it that way!

Edited June 3 by Fruit_On_The_Bottom

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

My girlfriend and some very very close friends

 

I have in fact ruined going to the bathroom for her because now she thinks about me every time she pees.

Edited June 4 by Ms. Tito

[Fruit_On_The_Bottom 78]

17 hours ago, Ms. Tito said:

My girlfriend and some very very close friends

 

I have in fact ruined going to the bathroom for her because now she thinks about me every time she pees.

Ruined? How so? I would think that having her think of you as she’s doing her business would be a good thing! Please tell us more… 🙂

[Ms. Tito 2,396]

5 hours ago, Fruit_On_The_Bottom said:

Ruined? How so? I would think that having her think of you as she’s doing her business would be a good thing! Please tell us more… 🙂

Ruined as in she literally can't go to the bathroom without thinking of me. I've Pavlov'd her.

[WillAndSarah 197]

Will here,

I've had 4 ladies pee on me in my life.

Only 1 bothered to truly understand and thus, ever fully satisfy me - and that's my wifey, Sarah.

The others - 1 one-night stand + 2 "fuck buddies" - they can't hold a candle to her. They're really, REALLY not even close to being in her league.

 

Like I said, it's just Will talking right now, but I'm 100% certain that Sarah will back me up on everything I'm about to say: we would like to encourage folks to share their fetish with long-term partners. Our story is, in short, that Sarah took up this fetish because it's what Will wanted, and over time, it grew on her and she found her own reasons to love it herself.

We think that it's important to be sexually satisfied! And if you're reading this, and you're someone (like me) for whom pee play is absolutely necessary to being fully satisfied, then I know I can speak for both of us when I say that we want to encourage you to share that early on in the relationship, and find a partner who's willing to explore that (over time, at a pace that feels natural to them). There are some fetishes out there - like exhibitionism for instance - that are dangerous, which could potentially affect nonconsenting parties, and may even lead to illegal activities; others - like coprophilia (poo fetish) - that are hazardous to health; but ours? Peeing fetish? It doesn't have any of these serious problems which could understandably be dealbreakers; the biggest problem with pee is "it makes a mess", which can be dealt with pretty easily, and which is kinda already true of sex in general anyway. And when you consider the amount of guys who are aroused by "squirting" - which is essentially just female peeing during sexual stimulation - it's really more common than most people realize.

Point is, we think it's an essential component of intimacy to share your true desires with your partner. And we think that it's not too much to ask for them to explore that with you - in a way and at a pace that's natural for them.

[Fruit_On_The_Bottom 78]

8 hours ago, Ms. Tito said:

Ruined as in she literally can't go to the bathroom without thinking of me. I've Pavlov'd her.

Ah! I understand now. It’s an interesting expression and I like it! I remember now that I’ve heard it before pronounced as “ruint” and used in a lighthearted and fun way! 

[Moore007 457]

When I was dating I brought pee up before we even went on a date. Some reacted with disgust and gave me a lesson in moral, some ghosted me, some were neutral and fine with it and didn’t mind engaging in pee-play and some were excited to try something new. In my opinion I’d do everything to avoid dogmatic persons with poor understanding for peoples different preferences. I’ve been in relationships with women who shamed me as well and I just want to stay away from stubborn persons unwilling to compromise about important things in a relationship. A relationship will never last if you can’t talk about difficult subjects. My present partner is willing to pee on me but pee is neutral to her. She’d never pee herself or skip wiping for days, she’d never commit to smelling pee and being filthy. It’s her boundaries and I respect them. However she knows about my preferences and she’s willing negotiate about it. She knows I’d die from excitement having sex with a woman who didn’t shower for days and peed herself many times. 

[jayjay85 295]

On 6/4/2024 at 11:06 PM, WillAndSarah said:

Will here,

I've had 4 ladies pee on me in my life.

Only 1 bothered to truly understand and thus, ever fully satisfy me - and that's my wifey, Sarah.

The others - 1 one-night stand + 2 "fuck buddies" - they can't hold a candle to her. They're really, REALLY not even close to being in her league.

 

Like I said, it's just Will talking right now, but I'm 100% certain that Sarah will back me up on everything I'm about to say: we would like to encourage folks to share their fetish with long-term partners. Our story is, in short, that Sarah took up this fetish because it's what Will wanted, and over time, it grew on her and she found her own reasons to love it herself.

We think that it's important to be sexually satisfied! And if you're reading this, and you're someone (like me) for whom pee play is absolutely necessary to being fully satisfied, then I know I can speak for both of us when I say that we want to encourage you to share that early on in the relationship, and find a partner who's willing to explore that (over time, at a pace that feels natural to them). There are some fetishes out there - like exhibitionism for instance - that are dangerous, which could potentially affect nonconsenting parties, and may even lead to illegal activities; others - like coprophilia (poo fetish) - that are hazardous to health; but ours? Peeing fetish? It doesn't have any of these serious problems which could understandably be dealbreakers; the biggest problem with pee is "it makes a mess", which can be dealt with pretty easily, and which is kinda already true of sex in general anyway. And when you consider the amount of guys who are aroused by "squirting" - which is essentially just female peeing during sexual stimulation - it's really more common than most people realize.

Point is, we think it's an essential component of intimacy to share your true desires with your partner. And we think that it's not too much to ask for them to explore that with you - in a way and at a pace that's natural for them.

Hey Will, Just wanted to say Thanks for writing on this topic and I would really love to hear Sarah's in depth perspective too. I might be in a similar place to where you were before you met her.

It's never been a huge problem to get women to entertain my fetish. Really most girls I've ever been very involved with were willing to do whatever I wanted within reason- Letting me watch, peeing where I told them, directing each other's streams, occasional innocent golden showers in the shower, etc. But that just isn't enough for me long term. I always felt a huge disconnect just knowing that deep down they see these acts as silly, weird or just a means to earn my love.

I don't even think I've ever truly been in love because of this. Passion and romance will escalate but then it just plateaus and falls off right before it gets to the most exciting and intimate part.

It's almost like being in a relationship with someone who doesn't like sex. Or isn't the right gender or orientation. Even if they will allow you to have sex with them just to please you, how do you ever truly love someone who doesn't even really share the most fundamental act of intimacy with you?

It would be awesome to hear more, especially from the female perspective about how this fetish really feels when it was introduced to you and grew on you as an adult, and what that sexual relationship is like as a guy who has always had this interest.

[wettingman 571]

I would only tell someone that I was in a long term relationship,  a person I trust deeply and completely.  I have to believe that in the least that she would not judge me or spread gossip that I like to wet my pants and watch women do the same.

I was burned once telling a female that I was in a relationship with for a few months. I definitely wouldn't share my fetish with just a casual hook up, unless she brought it up first.