gldenwetgoose 21,500 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 7 minutes ago, Sweets said: I guess I’m the first woman to give her point of View why we like to wear heels and boots. Both make us feel sexy. We walk differently in heels. Depends on what we are wearing they make you legs look sexier. I find it pretty damn hot for a woman in heels to squat down left her skirt and pee. It gives a different do view point. And as far as sex. They don’t call them fuck me shoes for no reason. Some men find them sexy some don’t. To each their own. Just like some guys like anal and some don’t. I usually don’t wear heel to bed. Only on special Occasions with a special outfit. And I'm glad you did give the ladies' point of view, or at least your own female perspective. I know I'm sometimes guilty of imposing a man's outlook and most of the posts above seem to be quite critical. I wouldn't say I had a heel fetish by any stretch, but the difference in posture when a lady walks in heels compared to say in flat pumps is incredible - not just in the calves either. In pumps each step can be a careless thud of foot onto floor, just plodding about, whereas in heels almost any lady seems to take on a catwalk like sassy swaying elegance and purpose. (Ok so it may be led by the concentration needed to not topple and break an ankle, but that's beside the point). I'm not going to get into any in-depth psychology, but in the bedroom and the porn movie - Well, high stiletto points always seem to go hand in hand with the whips, leather, studs and equipment of the dominatrix don't they? So when a model wears the heels in a shoot, are they perhaps doing it to reinforce the message: 'I'm special, I deserve your attention - you may think as a man you can just use me as an object, as a plaything - but actually I hold the upper hand. I captivate you here. I'm not the vulnerable one.' And to be perfectly honest, that attitude if there's any truth in it, is absolutely fine - I'm more than happy to accept that seat of power. 2 Link to post
Sweets 4,517 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 2 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said: And I'm glad you did give the ladies' point of view, or at least your own female perspective. I know I'm sometimes guilty of imposing a man's outlook and most of the posts above seem to be quite critical. I wouldn't say I had a heel fetish by any stretch, but the difference in posture when a lady walks in heels compared to say in flat pumps is incredible - not just in the calves either. In pumps each step can be a careless thud of foot onto floor, just plodding about, whereas in heels almost any lady seems to take on a catwalk like sassy swaying elegance and purpose. (Ok so it may be led by the concentration needed to not topple and break an ankle, but that's beside the point). I'm not going to get into any in-depth psychology, but in the bedroom and the porn movie - Well, high stiletto points always seem to go hand in hand with the whips, leather, studs and equipment of the dominatrix don't they? So when a model wears the heels in a shoot, are they perhaps doing it to reinforce the message: 'I'm special, I deserve your attention - you may think as a man you can just use me as an object, as a plaything - but actually I hold the upper hand. I captivate you here. I'm not the vulnerable one.' And to be perfectly honest, that attitude if there's any truth in it, is absolutely fine - I'm more than happy to accept that seat of power. I agree with you. They do give off dominant. I am control tonight. 1 1 1 Link to post
Sweets 4,517 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 (edited) 9 minutes ago, p1ssputz said: Revisiting this....women in heels, whatever. Each to her own, I'm not really one to notice or care about shoes. A nude woman with high heels - again, I don't really care that much, but I realize - it does look a little goofy if you really think about it. 😂 It's a bit like a naked guy wearing a belt. (Bet there's a fetish for that.) But I stick to my former post. It's now a symbol, some people find it sexy, some don't. I wouldn't say that choice of footwear makes things more or less "real", and I don't think that there's inherent beauty in footwear versus no footwear (unless you have a foot fetish). At the end of the day...they're just shoes. I have to disagree that they are just shoes. Let’s change this over to what a man wears. A man wearing a sharp business suit compared to a slacks and polo shirt gives off different vibs. It’s all about mind set. And what your showing off. Edited February 6, 2021 by Sweets 2 1 Link to post
Theo 193 Posted February 6, 2021 Author Share Posted February 6, 2021 (edited) As I've read the posts responding to and following my original, I can't help but notice that the topic has drifted into more of a discussion about whether folks find heels/shoes (on their own) sexy or not. I think my original point and question is getting missed. In my original post, I specifically state that heels can be a worthwhile added component i.e., when worn "with an outfit or lingerie". On a personal level, I find heels/stilettos to be an attractive feature when worn with or for a specific theme or attire. However, my entire premise and what I specifically asked is why wear them when totally nude? Not, whether they have any merit. I even compared it to old-time vintage porn where you see guys totally naked except for wearing black socks lol! Some posters have given cogent accounts of why they find it sexy in that scenario. That is what I was looking for. Somehow though, the topic direction has drifted to whether or not the act itself of wearing of heels/stilettos are sexy. I'm sorry if my words were somehow misconstrued- that was never my intent. My intent was to learn about what the appeal was/is of when viewing a totally NAKED female posing (engaged in sex, peeing, or...) while wearing said stilettos/heels. (SEE IMAGE BELOW) This is almost an exclusively professional porn model type of situation. Rarely (if ever) have I seen a true amateur gal (again TOTALLY nude) wearing foot attire- especially stilettos while totally nude. Again, I get it. If sexy scenes/activites are taking place outside or in other public places or locations, I can see why foot attire would be needed and wanted- be it professional or amateur. But too much is getting read into my original question. Rarely are you totally nude at any other place other than home. And when I see models wearing heels/stilettos while posing on the bed, couch, or toilet (totally naked), I ask myself, what is the appeal of wearing footwear then? That was my original query- seeking understanding of that appeal. I apologize if I've caused a rift. The bottom line line is that I was looking for understanding- not to defend a position 😏 Edited February 6, 2021 by Theo 2 Link to post
oliver2 4,422 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 6 hours ago, Sweets said: A man wearing a sharp business suit compared to a slacks and polo shirt gives off different vibs. It’s all about mind set. And what your showing off. Endowment? Link to post
Jason Basin 40 Posted February 20, 2021 Share Posted February 20, 2021 I love this thread! - It's amazing how a simple comment can generate so much interest and debate! Personally I'm more torn than ever about them. Albeit I still think I prefer naked feet in bed! Link to post
Jason Basin 40 Posted February 20, 2021 Share Posted February 20, 2021 2 minutes ago, Jason Basin said: I love this thread! - It's amazing how a simple comment can generate so much interest and debate! Personally I'm more torn than ever about them. Albeit I still think I prefer naked feet in bed! Even if they are like blocks of ice! Link to post
DrownMeQuick 209 Posted February 20, 2021 Share Posted February 20, 2021 I agree 100% Theo, but then most mainstream porn is a massive turnoff for me. Heels are one of those old tropes made popular by Playboy and Penthouse, and the producers just can't move on from that. Like stockings with suspenders (that just reminds me of my grandma), red lipstick, tizzy jewelry and moaning. It's all just the producer/director/photographer being a philistine with no idea of what erotic means, so they resort to old, really old cliches. For me, I want to see scenarios from real life, even if they are faked - as long as it's done well. 1 Link to post
DrownMeQuick 209 Posted February 20, 2021 Share Posted February 20, 2021 On 2/7/2021 at 2:17 AM, Theo said: My intent was to learn about what the appeal was/is of when viewing a totally NAKED female posing (engaged in sex, peeing, or...) while wearing said stilettos/heels. (SEE IMAGE BELOW) This is almost an exclusively professional porn model type of situation. Rarely (if ever) have I seen a true amateur gal (again TOTALLY nude) wearing foot attire- especially stilettos while totally nude. An exception would be if she was wearing casual shoes, like trainers - for practical reasons, outdoors. Link to post
Cheshire cat 90 Posted August 22, 2021 Share Posted August 22, 2021 Personally I prefer bare feet Link to post
weequeen 1,990 Posted August 25, 2021 Share Posted August 25, 2021 I don't know if it's been mentioned, but other than it being a possibly sexy thing, women wearing heels as a lot to do with how it makes the legs look - with the heel elevated it makes the leg look longer and thinner, plus it makes you have to tighten your ass to be able to walk properly. simply an aesthetics thing to the eye sorry if this was too technical lmao 1 2 1 Link to post
Carthoris 269 Posted September 8, 2021 Share Posted September 8, 2021 @Theo I like that you're bringing this topic up. Back in the days when I went to nudie bars, I noticed that the girls always kept their high-heeled shoes on even when they were totally naked otherwise. I thought it was odd. I think part of the reason for it is sexiness, as some have mentioned above. I think another part may be hygeine (some floors on the way from the stage can be nasty). I'm not a foot fetishist, but I prefer bare feet. I never paid any attention to the girls in Playboy magazine, but now that you made me think of it, I went back and looked at a couple of bathroom pictures from Playboy, and you're right... they're wearing heels in spite of the ridiculousness of it when considered. 2 Link to post
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