Would you please answer some questions for a blog post.

[Blackinksoul30 1,246]

HI! I have a blog and I post about cyber bullying, disability, depression etc. I would like to ask people here how do they cope with stress/sadness?

A.) drinking

B.)Drugs

C.)shopping

D.)socializing

E.)listening to music

F.) creating something (writing, art, creating music etc)

G.) Porn 

H.) Other (please explain)

 

Question 2: Has anyone (stranger, family member, friend) insulted you because of how you cope with stress/sadness?

 

I will not post your usernames on my blog, i just want a general idea how what people use to cope with life when it gets difficult and how outside sources have reacted to it.

[Alan-P 2,409]

I start: I

would say - F and see friends to discuss

[spywareonya 37,962]

@Blackinksoul30

 

Meditation, and personal reflection

To a smaller degree, porn and physical training, aggressive stuff like boxing

 

I also exorcise my shadow and my repressed anger by reading memories of very evil humans like serial killers and nazi torturers

 

 

For the second question, I am outcasted even currently by my family for my beliefs

The only loving me are my grandparents

[Alan-P 2,409]

21 minutes ago, spywareonya said:

@ Blackinksoul30

 

Méditation et réflexion personnelle

Dans une moindre mesure, pornographie et entraînement physique, des choses agressives comme la boxe

 

J'exorcise aussi mon ombre et ma colère refoulée en lisant des souvenirs d'humains très pervers, comme des tueurs en série et des bourreaux nazis.

 

 

Pour la deuxième question, ma famille me rejette actuellement pour mes convictions.

Les seuls qui m'aiment sont mes grands-parents

Very sad for your family !!

but boxing .. I would like to see 😎

ps: 'The only loving me are my grandparents' You forget us? we love you too 😍

 

Edited May 13, 2019 by Alan-P

[steve25805 126,156]

In my younger days I coped with stress and sadness by over-indulging in drink and drugs and engaging in self destructive behaviour, a constant rebel always getting into trouble.

I can still occasionally have a few drinks as stress relief but don't make a habit of it. These days I cope much better by confiding in friends.

I find that by being a better person I attract better people around me.

[spywareonya 37,962]

21 minutes ago, Alan-P said:

Very sad for your family !!

but boxing .. I would like to see 😎

ps: 'The only loving me are my grandparents' You forget us? we love you too 😍

 

Shorts, ponytail, top squishing my tits, and BARE FUCKING HANDS

Training with Alex once I made him to bleed, and he survived knife-fights and potential shootouts so believe me he's not a pussy

And yet he was surprised by my strenght

Poor boy, he had that black spot for a week ahahahah

 

 

For you guys loving me... OH GODDESS YOU MADE ME TO CRY!!!

 

Your french translation is correct anyway, I read it, it's fine

[spywareonya 37,962]

12 minutes ago, steve25805 said:

In my younger days I coped with stress and sadness by over-indulging in drink and drugs and engaging in self destructive behaviour, a constant rebel always getting into trouble.

I can still occasionally have a few drinks as stress relief but don't make a habit of it. These days I cope much better by confiding in friends.

I find that by being a better person I attract better people around me.

What a great story

Anyway I would have seen your light even if hidden under a pile of "you"

You are too amazing

[speedy3471 10,655]

When iam feeling a bit down I will go for a ride in my Polaris ranger(its like a quarter sized pickup truck haha). I will just drive around the country side thinking and self reflection. I try and do things that I like. I will grab a couple of rifles or pistols and drive to the range(its a hobbie of mine and helps me relax and destress). A nice long hot bath with my wife helps me relax as well

As for friends or family insulting me, I can honestly say I've never experienced this from any of them 

[speedy3471 10,655]

1 hour ago, spywareonya said:

@Blackinksoul30

 

 

 

 

For the second question, I am outcasted even currently by my family for my beliefs

The only loving me are my grandparents

I know I've told you this before but iam so sorry to hear that you've been outcasted by your family.

Like Allen said, we all love you here 

[Scot_Lover 1,878]

I really don't have a lot of stress in my life, the biggest thing I have to worry about, is what to do with the day.

When sad things happen to those I care about, I offer support and friendship to help them through their tough times.

 

F: I'm a programmer, and love to write and debug programs, wierd I know, but it serves the purpose. I also make music on the PC.

G: I'm a male, it's carved in granite that males look at porn. It's soothing, lol.

[HitEmAll 1,070]

When I'm sad I don't really like porn. I enjoy porn the more the happier I am.. 🙂

When I'm stressed/worried/not happy I tend to have a drink in the evening, like one or two beers, it is crazy (and of course also crazy dangerous) how good small amounts of alcohol are for calming you down.

When I'm angry I like to listen to aggressive music, maybe also have a drink.

When I was really sad / stressed out I luckily had friends that cheered me up and helped me. However it was not that I was socializing, it was rather that they contacted me.

[spywareonya 37,962]

40 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

When iam feeling a bit down I will go for a ride in my Polaris ranger(its like a quarter sized pickup truck haha). I will just drive around the country side thinking and self reflection. I try and do things that I like. I will grab a couple of rifles or pistols and drive to the range(its a hobbie of mine and helps me relax and destress). A nice long hot bath with my wife helps me relax as well

Everything you just wrote was both hot and lovely!!!

40 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

As for friends or family insulting me, I can honestly say I've never experienced this from any of them 

...

I am happy for you

You surely deserve the love you got

I... well… maybe deserved it too… I just had been unlucky somebody would say...

...but I believe in Karma. My inner aggressiveness called on me aggressive people. The problem is that they did NOT master their lot and took it out on me

I am Mastering mine so I won't be like them

[spywareonya 37,962]

31 minutes ago, HitEmAll said:

When I'm sad I don't really like porn. I enjoy porn the more the happier I am.. 🙂

When I'm stressed/worried/not happy I tend to have a drink in the evening, like one or two beers, it is crazy (and of course also crazy dangerous) how good small amounts of alcohol are for calming you down.

When I'm angry I like to listen to aggressive music, maybe also have a drink.

When I was really sad / stressed out I luckily had friends that cheered me up and helped me. However it was not that I was socializing, it was rather that they contacted me.

Touching

Sincerily

 

I can dig the drinking stuff, let's just say I drink 24/7 so it can't be an ADD when I am sad ahahahah

[spywareonya 37,962]

41 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

I know I've told you this before but iam so sorry to hear that you've been outcasted by your family.

Like Allen said, we all love you here 

THANK YOU

[speedy3471 10,655]

2 minutes ago, spywareonya said:

THANK YOU

Your very welcome. You've mastered your inner self and THAT makes you better than them. You are a wonderful person who went thru hell and back. You are a much stronger person now because of that

[spywareonya 37,962]

11 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

Your very welcome. You've mastered your inner self and THAT makes you better than them. You are a wonderful person who went thru hell and back. You are a much stronger person now because of that

Without that hell there would have been not resurrection

I would have been superficial in the use of my violent character, lacking the first-hand perception of how awful it is to SUFFER violence

By now I am more mature and responsible

[speedy3471 10,655]

Its amazing how adversity in our lives can change us, in your case for the better

[spywareonya 37,962]

17 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

Its amazing how adversity in our lives can change us, in your case for the better

It hurt me, I cannot deny that

Without Alex I am not ashamed to admit I would have fallen

[Blackinksoul30 1,246]

58 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

I know I've told you this before but iam so sorry to hear that you've been outcasted by your family.

Like Allen said, we all love you here 

Thank you!  Actually it's more friends/strangers that have bullied the way I cope with stress/sadness. Family is pretty understanding.. i mean some family members not 100% understanding but then again i don't tell all my family members everything. 

But yes people that have claimed to my friends over the years and acquaintances too are very quick to judge.

[speedy3471 10,655]

5 minutes ago, spywareonya said:

It hurt me, I cannot deny that

Without Alex I am not ashamed to admit I would have fallen

No shame in admitting when you need help, we all need someone to help us at diffrent times in our lives 

[spywareonya 37,962]

10 minutes ago, Blackinksoul30 said:

Thank you!  Actually it's more friends/strangers that have bullied the way I cope with stress/sadness. Family is pretty understanding.. i mean some family members not 100% understanding but then again i don't tell all my family members everything. 

But yes people that have claimed to my friends over the years and acquaintances too are very quick to judge.

People judges because they take out unto Others their inner anxieties

I judge nobody

I even pity paedophiles (I had them arrested anyway when I was a vigilante) and even petty criminals (yet some of them deserved the clubbing we gave them)

We can be free not to endorse (for example I do not endorse your lack of self confidence, you are AMAZING and should be more in love with yourself in my opinion) even WITHOUT judgement as ATTITUDE!!! We can simply disagree, yet with love!!!

 

[spywareonya 37,962]

8 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

No shame in admitting when you need help, we all need someone to help us at diffrent times in our lives 

Ok THIS was deep

THANK YOU

[speedy3471 10,655]

5 minutes ago, Blackinksoul30 said:

Thank you!  Actually it's more friends/strangers that have bullied the way I cope with stress/sadness. Family is pretty understanding.. i mean some family members not 100% understanding but then again i don't tell all my family members everything. 

But yes people that have claimed to my friends over the years and acquaintances too are very quick to judge.

If your friends have been bullying you, then hey aren't your friends. A true friend wouldn't do this to you 

[spywareonya 37,962]

7 minutes ago, speedy3471 said:

If your friends have been bullying you, then hey aren't your friends. A true friend wouldn't do this to you 

Holy fuck HERE YOU ARE RIGHT

[speedy3471 10,655]

1 minute ago, spywareonya said:

 

We can be free not to endorse (for example I do not endorse your lack of self confidence, you are AMAZING and should be more in love with yourself in my opinion) even WITHOUT judgement as ATTITUDE!!! We can simply disagree, yet with love!!!

 

This right here makes you a TRUE friend. True friends will have their disagreements but at the end of the day they still love and admire you