Longterm relationship

[P155wet 50]

How important is it to you that your longterm partner shares your interest in all things golden?

[P155wet 50]

To me it would be the icing on the cake but Ive lived with out it before

[P155wet 50]

Interesting thinking - I couldnt agree more

[P155wet 50]

In a sense then I think you have the best of all worlds.

First you have a loving relationship, second is she is accepting of your interest which allows you to visit sites like this openly and lastly, your wife indulges you from time to time to still give you that thrill

[Radarp 2]

I've never had the courage to raise the subject

[P155wet 50]

I've never had the courage to raise the subject

As peeing is such an everyday thing its easy to incorporate into daily talking with out seeming "perverted" and once the subject is there in the open its surprising where it could lead

[ICPN 31]

Honestly it is not a deal breaker for me if they are not interested in "the golden". Honestly I have yet to meet a girl that is, or at least willing to admit to it. I have always said though that if I did find a girl that was I would probably marry her.

[steve25805 121,274]

I have severe difficulty getting off without pee. Vanilla sexual activity without it I always end up losing interest in, and can't really perform at all much of the time without thinking about pee. When I watch porn it is almost exclusively pee porn and such that I view. Blowjobs, anal, vaginal, cunnilingus - on their own without any pee - bore me totally as a viewing spectacle.

I have never had a very long term relationship because I lose interest in the sexual side of things, and have never had a partner interested in peeing. For any long term relationship to work for me, peeing would have to be an integral part of our sex life, and my partner would have to be into it too.

[ogblaah 45]

I had an ex, she kind of got me into peeing, she loved it, but she was bats#it crazy!!! Lol Definitely would be nice to have a partner enjoy it as much as I do...

[ShyOne88 36]

This is a subject I am trying to bring up with my bf. He's hinted at it a few times but kinda takes it back. I might end up just peeing on him in the shower one day. Oops :biggrin:

[Admin 14,352]

This is a subject I am trying to bring up with my bf. He's hinted at it a few times but kinda takes it back. I might end up just peeing on him in the shower one day. Oops :biggrin:

If he's hinted at it before then it definitely sounds like you should go for it - or at least make sure you do bring it up soon. Let us know how you get on, but I'm sure it'll work out well for you. :)

[kennny 6]

My wife made it.clear she had no interest at all when i broached the subject at 15yrs into our marriage.

 

No big deal to me.

[on the porch 324]

I hope Wayne will keep me for as long as possible , I have never been so happy in my life . We have talked about marriage,  Ruth 

[peequed 18]

I'm probably in a minority niche in that I enjoy peeing in naughty places, but I very much don't want to be peed on and it doesn't turn me on to pee on someone else.   So for me, it's not necessarily something I need a partner to be into, but It'd be nice if I could tell them about it without the fear of them thinking I'm a weirdo.

[jorel2012 204]

38 minutes ago, peequed said:

I'm probably in a minority niche in that I enjoy peeing in naughty places, but I very much don't want to be peed on and it doesn't turn me on to pee on someone else.   So for me, it's not necessarily something I need a partner to be into, but It'd be nice if I could tell them about it without the fear of them thinking I'm a weirdo.

You're not alone.
My wife also does not want to be peed on but shares her pee with me (fortunately).

After I told my wife about my fetish, I as well felt like a weirdo but she took it with a mixture between not caring and ignoring it.
She sometimes shook her head when I came home with wet jeans but that was it.
Now I have a well working relationship with lot of sex and peeing.
Couldn't be better.
 

[Quiet V 71]

On 3/19/2024 at 2:58 AM, peequed said:

I'm probably in a minority niche in that I enjoy peeing in naughty places, but I very much don't want to be peed on and it doesn't turn me on to pee on someone else.   So for me, it's not necessarily something I need a partner to be into, but It'd be nice if I could tell them about it without the fear of them thinking I'm a weirdo.

I’m the same though I mostly naughty pee at home so living with someone would make it difficult.

[pguy2981 930]

It's still not important, but this topic was posted before and I responded the same way. Since then, however, I would say my mind has changed a little in the following ways

• I don't want a relationship for years to come, if ever
• If someone were to come along and actually be into the kink, that would be just perfect. I would want to foster some kind of fwb relationship.
• If I were to be into something long term, I would be an asshole for feeling like i need a partner into naughty peeing, but to have a kinky partner who's into other things, is lax about it and willing to let me come to their kinks in my own time, I feel would be a little more important now than it was, say, 4 years ago.

I'm a freak on the inside, and sometimes you gotta let it fly with a willing person, pee or no pee. I'm happily separated from someone whom I wasn't compatible with in almost any form and definitely did not share any kinks (or have any really at all, I corrupted her just a little though). I would very much prefer someone with a freaky side in the future.

[pguy2981 930]

1 hour ago, Quiet V said:

I’m the same though I mostly naughty pee at home so living with someone would make it difficult.

Why would naughty peeing be difficult around someone else if they enjoy it the same as you?

[gldenwetgoose 20,252]

I'm going to speculate a little here, but not wanting to put words into anybody's mouths.

From answers that have been given to similar questions in the past,  having a 'significant other' who's also into the same flavours of pee kink would be absolute heaven.   But how do you find out someone does have the same kink - especially when you've been hiding it and keeping it to yourself for an eternity?

There can be a huge and very real fear of being kink shamed, even by a loving partner - so making it very difficult to 'come out' and discuss the kink with a new partner.   Not everyone has the confidence to take the risk.

[Quiet V 71]

17 hours ago, pguy2981 said:

Why would naughty peeing be difficult around someone else if they enjoy it the same as you?

Because I won’t tell anyone about in real life so meeting some who also enjoys it would be impossible.

[pissmarkingdc 10]

6 hours ago, Quiet V said:

Because I won’t tell anyone about in real life so meeting some who also enjoys it would be impossible.

You should definitely tell any partners!  In my experience they are willing to involve piss.

[nenTyp 488]

6 hours ago, pissmarkingdc said:

You should definitely tell any partners!  In my experience they are willing to involve piss.

Yeah at least in some capacity. When they realise they can do you a favor or have it an instant turn on option. 

[pguy2981 930]

13 hours ago, Quiet V said:

Because I won’t tell anyone about in real life so meeting some who also enjoys it would be impossible.

We've all gotta start somewhere, that is unless you enjoy this being your secret. No judgement in wanting to keep it to yourself because it's better that way. But say per chance you wanted to naturally discover a friend was into the same thing, or do it with a willing partner, ya gotta start talking! I don't mean fully come out with it, but let it progress naturally. Touch on hiking, running, literally any activity that involves not being able to/not wanting to use the bathroom for an extended period of time. I got fairly lucky early on in my friend group where one is into the naughty aspect AND prefers to peeing outside, one liked to play around with the idea, and one just likes peeing outside. Only a couple know, and usually I can tell whether or not I can trust someone with that secret. So yeah, don't go around telling people (i'm sorry @pissmarkingdc I'm gonna disagree with you as this has not been my experience with partners entirely), but do engage in non-kink related conversation. You might gain some juicy information. There are also entire physical spaces dedicated to kink discovery and kink play, you just have to look for it. You might make some good friends but it takes will and initiative. No judgement though if you don't like the idea.

[pguy2981 930]

On 3/22/2024 at 8:35 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

I'm going to speculate a little here, but not wanting to put words into anybody's mouths.

From answers that have been given to similar questions in the past,  having a 'significant other' who's also into the same flavours of pee kink would be absolute heaven.   But how do you find out someone does have the same kink - especially when you've been hiding it and keeping it to yourself for an eternity?

There can be a huge and very real fear of being kink shamed, even by a loving partner - so making it very difficult to 'come out' and discuss the kink with a new partner.   Not everyone has the confidence to take the risk.

Facts. I was kink-shamed for years, but before that it was completely accepted by my previous partner as she had a similar kink (I think). I don't think I would be so blunt with the next person, but I definitely would engage in conversation about it until it reached a natural peak or conclusion.

[Scot_Lover 1,786]

Sometimes, you can meet your life partner, by a total accident. It happened to me in 2005, in a tiny little hotel in the UK, in a quaint little village on the border of Scotland and England. I was jet lagged, tired, still trying to come to grips with the sun in the southern sky, when I said something to the local gentry.

They were laughing over some poor girl who had wet her jeans walking home, I just said she sounded like a fun girl, and got several blank looks and a stony silence so I left them to it. The same girl turned up at the fine establishment that night, and 'the good ole boys' told her what I said. I think they wanted to see an explosion of some kind when she confronted me, but it never happened. We hit it off that night, found our mutual limits (she did everything I dreamed of) and we were married 5 months later. We also 'corrupted' another giddy slip of a girl into our way of life, but she left after 12 years or so.

I've been in hog heaven for nearly 20 years, and while her health is failing, we are still good together. If I had ignored the conversation that was going down in the bar that night, none of this would have happened.

It can happen, just be at the right place right time? There are so many people on this planet, so many different ways that people think and react, you will never know if there is no interaction with them.