wife not into pee

[Jamezzz3189 32]

I have a great marriage and love my wife.  We have really hot & satisfying sex.  She has mastered multiple orgasms and I can't really complain.

However, she is not into pee.  At all.  Thinks its disgusting, and she looks at me like I'm a pervert (I am, I suppose) when I've asked to watch her pee.  That said, I get my pee fix needs by looking at sites like this, so thanks all.  Also, I've been married 23 years and have seen my wife pee (stream coming out of her) dozens of times, and I treasure each memory.

Some secret things I love, that I cant really tell my wife:

• I love the sound of the hissing when she's peeing on the toilet
• I try to see if I can taste even a drop of pee every time I go down on her
• I love the fact that I know she pees in public pools, as she has mentioned to me one time that she does (and this from a woman not into pee, and definitely not naughty pee!)
• I love going down on her in the morning after her morning pee, and keeping the taste of her with me for hours.

Anyway, I know you fellow pervs would understand.  Thanks for all the pee pics, vids, and stories.

 

 

Edited August 23, 2018 by Jamezzz3189

[spywareonya 37,913]

9 hours ago, Jamezzz3189 said:

At all

How long ago did you started trying to talk her into it?

Because slow but steady pace sometimes works out the miracle

[Jamezzz3189 32]

When we were young in our marriage. Before kids. She would pee for me, but I could tell she was doing it out of “duty” and not because she wanted to.  So I stopped asking her. 

Now that we are older, our sex routine is set, in a way.  And I don’t know how to reintroduce without making her feel funny. I respect her too much to ask her to do something she’s not really in to.  

 

[spywareonya 37,913]

14 hours ago, Jamezzz3189 said:

When we were young in our marriage. Before kids. She would pee for me, but I could tell she was doing it out of “duty” and not because she wanted to.  So I stopped asking her. 

Now that we are older, our sex routine is set, in a way.  And I don’t know how to reintroduce without making her feel funny. I respect her too much to ask her to do something she’s not really in to.  

 

I understand… but you also have to respect yourself

We should never push Others, yet we should never allow us to leave us and our necessities behind

I am sure there is a polite way to reintroduce the subject

 

[Alfresco 11,000]

Always a difficult position when you know the lov of your life doesnt enjoy the thing that you crave.  I have a similar position except that my wife does know that I love pee and she will indulge me once in a while, but like yourself I dont push it because I dnt want her to do things that she doesnt like doing.  

I would still very much recommend that you express at least in part the things you enjoy about peeing.  maybe start small and take small steps.  Does your wife shut you out of the bathroom when she pees?  if not, then ensure you are near her sometimes when she pees and comment on the sounds that you love so much.   Maybe you could offer to wipe for her, preferably offer your tongue to clean her.  She will get great oral and you will get your pee taste.   

You know she pees in pools, so put that to your advantage. When you go swimming, mention that you need to pee or say hat you should have gone before you got in.  See how she reacts.  She might tell you to just pee in the pool, which opens up the conversation.  If you can then get her to admit that she pees in the pool regularly then make sure you tell her that it is sexy.   it is something she is doing already, so she shouldnt have a problem with that.  Maybe ask her if she would tell you when she is going to pee in the water and either ask her to straddle your knee or let you feel her warmth on your hand - or if she is not up for that, maybe you could wear goggles and ask her to tell you when she is going to pee so you can look at the source underwater.   All she has to do is pee as she normally would whilst you swim towards her under water. 

If the above is going too far, you could ask her to tell you when she has peed in the pool or the shower after the pool.   She is probably doing it anyway, so she hopefully wouldnt have a problem sharing. 

[WantonLee 823]

I'm with Alfresco here.

The entire p-in-the-pool thing ~might~ become your ticket into the subject.

But don't force it. If your way is not only long, but also steep, you have to take little steps to get there.

You know what she likes, what is sexy to here, wheter it is a gesture, something you say or they way you look at here.

 

Anyway, good luck! 😉

[Jamezzz3189 32]

Thanks for the replies all.  I may try the slow approach and see if I can make any headway.  We used to shower together a lot (not so much anymore), and she would always pee in the shower.  I'll have an opportunity maybe after we finish our bathroom remodel we are working on, and have a brand new large walk-in shower.  Perfect to shower together....

It's a long ways from my ultimate fantasy of her giving me head in a hotel room while squatting and relieving herself on the carpet at the same time, but I'll take what I can get.   :)

 

[spywareonya 37,913]

On ‎8‎/‎25‎/‎2018 at 10:00 PM, Jamezzz3189 said:

Thanks for the replies all.  I may try the slow approach and see if I can make any headway.  We used to shower together a lot (not so much anymore), and she would always pee in the shower.  I'll have an opportunity maybe after we finish our bathroom remodel we are working on, and have a brand new large walk-in shower.  Perfect to shower together....

It's a long ways from my ultimate fantasy of her giving me head in a hotel room while squatting and relieving herself on the carpet at the same time, but I'll take what I can get.   🙂

 

We are all with you!!!

[Brutus 2,110]

I don't know that there is a way to logically explain a fetish to someone not sharing it. One thing to consider is that from her perspective, pee is just body waste like excrement, so admiring pee seems repulsive to her. It's tough for someone to get past that. In your position, I would sit her down and explain slowly how it started, your earliest experience that triggered it and how women peeing recreates that pleasure for you. This way she can get a backstory to how the man she married turned out to have this "disgusting" quirk that doesnt fit her preferred perception of you.

Explain that it's just part of what turns you on about women. How the hiss makes you picture her lips splitting apart, how the naughtiness of pee excites you maybe because of the juxtaposition it represents against the accepted perception among society of women being wholesome and pure, but then taking a big pee, so unladylike and sexy because of the shameless way she pushes it out with no hesitation. Explain that her doing it in a pool is sexy because of how she doesn't care that it will contact others. Then draw comparison between that and how a man that takes charge and asserts himself without caring how others feel is a turn on to women.

To help her with the body waste being gross aspect, remind her that saliva has more bacteria than pee and kissing is perfectly fine with her. Remind her that her juices leak onto your face during oral, and that the vagina is also bursting with bacteria, so the hangups over body fluid are illogical. Ask her to logically explain her desires in plain words and why hers aren't disgusting, and how she would feel if you reacted to her desires with disgust and judgement. And of course reiterate that she doesn't have to indulge, but still make it known that you deserve for her to at least make an effort to understand her husband's desires.

 

Edited August 30, 2018 by Brutus

[Blackinksoul30 1,239]

Me and my hubby have been married over 11 years now. He knows and we've talked about the fact that i'm into it. he lets me watch him pee, for fun. cause he knows i like to watch him. 

[Ponme 200]

It's not everyone that is into it. I was lucky in a way, which I was in my late teens when i was at school, i got my first golden shower.  After that it took many years before it happened again until i met my girlfriend. Lets say its not part of everyones sexual lives.

[Sephora 2,367]

If i can give advice, now please take this with a grain of salt. When I was approached for the first time to give a golden shower to an ex, it was straight forward, no laughter and no fun. I was not interest and the relatioship was so..so. 

My hubby brings it up, while I was in a happy and tipsy mood while playing truth or dare. His approach was more talking about it and not asking. Guys, its all in the presentation, if you show up with a creepy look and talk about it all the time  its not a way to go. Spark up the lady's mood first, make her feel special. Perhaps that can help.

[spywareonya 37,913]

55 minutes ago, Sephora said:

If i can give advice, now please take this with a grain of salt. When I was approached for the first time to give a golden shower to an ex, it was straight forward, no laughter and no fun. I was not interest and the relatioship was so..so. 

My hubby brings it up, while I was in a happy and tipsy mood while playing truth or dare. His approach was more talking about it and not asking. Guys, its all in the presentation, if you show up with a creepy look and talk about it all the time  its not a way to go. Spark up the lady's mood first, make her feel special. Perhaps that can help.

Wise advice

Personally, now that I know how much I love the world, I would tell on the first date to avoid further problems!!!

[Jamezzz3189 32]

So, an update.  

I accidentally left one of my carpet pee vids up on our home computer (One of Candi Canes Hotel pees), and my wife found it while I was at work. And also the folder that I have 20 or so other carpet pees. 

When I got home, she brought it up, and got pretty upset. She made me sleep in the spare room that night.  I got the silent treatment even into next day.  

Well, I went to work, and when I got home she abruptly said “I’ll do it. The peeing.”  At first I thought she was good with me going to watch her pee right now, but then she said “go ahead and book a hotel.  I’d rather you get off to me instead of some internet whores.”

I was stunned and stammered ok.  I told her she just made me really horny, but she said she was on her period, so no-go. 

So, we are both off in a few days, and I have reserved a nearby hotel.  I just got finished jerking off thinking about it. I am praying she doesn’t change her mind!  Time is ticking soooo slow now...

[ItalianPeeFan 252]

On 8/23/2018 at 5:30 AM, Jamezzz3189 said:

I have a great marriage and love my wife.  We have really hot & satisfying sex.  She has mastered multiple orgasms and I can't really complain.

However, she is not into pee.  At all.  Thinks its disgusting, and she looks at me like I'm a pervert (I am, I suppose) when I've asked to watch her pee.  That said, I get my pee fix needs by looking at sites like this, so thanks all.  Also, I've been married 23 years and have seen my wife pee (stream coming out of her) dozens of times, and I treasure each memory.

Some secret things I love, that I cant really tell my wife:

• I love the sound of the hissing when she's peeing on the toilet
• I try to see if I can taste even a drop of pee every time I go down on her
• I love the fact that I know she pees in public pools, as she has mentioned to me one time that she does (and this from a woman not into pee, and definitely not naughty pee!)
• I love going down on her in the morning after her morning pee, and keeping the taste of her with me for hours.

Anyway, I know you fellow pervs would understand.  Thanks for all the pee pics, vids, and stories.

 

 

I am in the same situation... I can understand you...

[Brutus 2,110]

5 hours ago, Jamezzz3189 said:

So, an update.  

I accidentally left one of my carpet pee vids up on our home computer (One of Candi Canes Hotel pees), and my wife found it while I was at work. And also the folder that I have 20 or so other carpet pees. 

When I got home, she brought it up, and got pretty upset. She made me sleep in the spare room that night.  I got the silent treatment even into next day.  

Well, I went to work, and when I got home she abruptly said “I’ll do it. The peeing.”  At first I thought she was good with me going to watch her pee right now, but then she said “go ahead and book a hotel.  I’d rather you get off to me instead of some internet whores.”

I was stunned and stammered ok.  I told her she just made me really horny, but she said she was on her period, so no-go. 

So, we are both off in a few days, and I have reserved a nearby hotel.  I just got finished jerking off thinking about it. I am praying she doesn’t change her mind!  Time is ticking soooo slow now...

I want to be happy for you that she is willing to fulfill this for you but I don't know that this is necessarily a good thing based on her reluctance. Obviously she hates the idea and seems to only be doing it due to not wanting you to watch other women pee. I would be worried that she will grow resentful at doing something that she is not comfortable doing. 

Hoping that she finds it surprisingly fun and "sees the light" and wants to keep indulging.

Do keep us updated. Can't wait to hear how this turns out.

[gottago 21]

Dude...my wife knows I'm seriously into peeing. I remember one day, years ago..I accidentally left my PC unlocked and wetset.net (old-timing it right?) was up. She was fucking livid. If her reaction had been "I'll do it" I would have been elated. Instead I slept on the couch for literally like a week. To this day (and this is 10+ years ago) she doesn't trust me and assumes if I'm using a computer it's to watch porn.

[MrTickle 56]

On 10/2/2018 at 3:41 AM, gottago said:

Dude...my wife knows I'm seriously into peeing. I remember one day, years ago..I accidentally left my PC unlocked and wetset.net (old-timing it right?) was up. She was fucking livid. If her reaction had been "I'll do it" I would have been elated. Instead I slept on the couch for literally like a week. To this day (and this is 10+ years ago) she doesn't trust me and assumes if I'm using a computer it's to watch porn.

 

Was she livid because you were watching porn, or because it was watersports-related specifically?

I'm surprised that in this day and age, some women can be so naive as to expect that men are *never* going look at porn.

 

Edited October 4, 2018 by MrTickle

[Jamezzz3189 32]

Well it didn’t go exactly as planned. We did stay at a hotel in town.  When we got there, she actually needed to pee, but she went straight to the toilet.  So, then we went to the hotel bar, and drank beer and watched a game on tv. She went to the bathroom once, and we drank some more. 

We go back to the room, and we are buzzing. She starts undressing and says she was going to try. I’m rock hard sitting on the bed watching. She squats beside the bed but is unable to go. She starts apologizing and says she just can’t. I tell her no worries that I love her.  She then motioned me to follow her in the bathroom, and she let me watch her pee in the toilet.  It had been years since I last saw her go like that, so I was elated. 

We go back to bed and have drunk sex, which is really not the best, but I did get off just on the visual of her squatting on the carpet and trying to go. 

So, a success overall. I did not want to pressure her at all.  Maybe it’s best she didn’t go through with it , and feel guilty about it later. 

 

[Sephora 2,367]

On 9/30/2018 at 5:08 PM, Jamezzz3189 said:

So, an update.  

I accidentally left one of my carpet pee vids up on our home computer (One of Candi Canes Hotel pees), and my wife found it while I was at work. And also the folder that I have 20 or so other carpet pees. 

When I got home, she brought it up, and got pretty upset. She made me sleep in the spare room that night.  I got the silent treatment even into next day.  

Well, I went to work, and when I got home she abruptly said “I’ll do it. The peeing.”  At first I thought she was good with me going to watch her pee right now, but then she said “go ahead and book a hotel.  I’d rather you get off to me instead of some internet whores.”

I was stunned and stammered ok.  I told her she just made me really horny, but she said she was on her period, so no-go. 

So, we are both off in a few days, and I have reserved a nearby hotel.  I just got finished jerking off thinking about it. I am praying she doesn’t change her mind!  Time is ticking soooo slow now...

I agree with Brutus on this, it depends how it's played out. Don't harass her or constantly talk about the subject since she seems to be doing this just so that you give her the attention more than porn.

Try to turn this into fun, make her feel SPECIAL, add some wine and romance before, keep the mood happy, funny and after, perhaps devour her good and show how horny you are while you are down on her.. like something out of the ordinary. And just maybe she will react differently once she see's your reaction. Most women get turned on by the reaction.

Keep us posted

[F.W 5,652]

I once had a g/f that was pretty freaky etc,and many a time while staying with her,i could hear her having a pee before she came to bed,it excited me.One day i asked if i could just once even watch her pee..she wasnt keen on it,and was actually quite annoyed.After that she went off sex and eventually broke up,probably not just for that,but she was most certainly not into any kind of pee games.

[F.W 5,652]

On 9/30/2018 at 10:08 PM, Jamezzz3189 said:

So, an update.  

I accidentally left one of my carpet pee vids up on our home computer (One of Candi Canes Hotel pees), and my wife found it while I was at work. And also the folder that I have 20 or so other carpet pees. 

When I got home, she brought it up, and got pretty upset. She made me sleep in the spare room that night.  I got the silent treatment even into next day.  

Well, I went to work, and when I got home she abruptly said “I’ll do it. The peeing.”  At first I thought she was good with me going to watch her pee right now, but then she said “go ahead and book a hotel.  I’d rather you get off to me instead of some internet whores.”

I was stunned and stammered ok.  I told her she just made me really horny, but she said she was on her period, so no-go. 

So, we are both off in a few days, and I have reserved a nearby hotel.  I just got finished jerking off thinking about it. I am praying she doesn’t change her mind!  Time is ticking soooo slow now...

I would have been more angry she was snooping through my stuff...approach the problem from the high ground.WHY were you snooping?

[Sephora 2,367]

18 minutes ago, fannywatcher said:

I once had a g/f that was pretty freaky etc,and many a time while staying with her,i could hear her having a pee before she came to bed,it excited me.One day i asked if i could just once even watch her pee..she wasn't keen on it,and was actually quite annoyed.After that she went off sex and eventually broke up,probably not just for that,but she was most certainly not into any kind of pee games.

It is a difficult subject for many women or guy, If I may add something to help out, and this is from my point of view. Unless you get this woman who is into hard core sex and is willing to try anything. Most are not and more on into, looking for a nice, funny, respectful and hot looking to her eyes. Please don't say you don't have that, there is a woman out there that will find these qualities in a person. When it comes to ask things, make sure her mood is perky, happy and feeling sexy. And you would be surprised how it can turn out. Asking seems too straight forward, don't say it like your ordering a trio from McDonald's. Women in general, you need to put more effort into it to get a reaction. I know, we are complicated and can be demanding 😞

[Sephora 2,367]

4 minutes ago, fannywatcher said:

I would have been more angry she was snooping through my stuff...approach the problem from the high ground.WHY were you snooping?

He did say he accidentally left that open.

[F.W 5,652]

In my case,i didnt press the issue,but once i let the cat out of the bag,i think she took me for a pervert...which may be right!..We did have problems anyway,but she was a good lay,fairly freaky,yet didnt like the idea of me watching her pee...good for her.