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Chubby I am very sorry to hear you've had to deal with bullying at work. Growing up I had a physically and emotionally abusive older brother. Plus I was bullied daily in school. This went on for years which resulted in... well...still today at 35 my self esteem and self confidence is shaky. I'm a very scared, fragile person. A kid at heart. A gentle heart. Sending you hugs!! I've wrote about some of my bullying experiences in my blog. Let me know if you wanna check it out.
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*swoon* *sigh*
Photo from the show on the 7th. 🙂
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I'm in the process of sending it out to people. 🙂
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Black shirts... black nails... Good Charlotte... Evanescence... suicide attempt at 17...
that was me...
Please know Riley... i'm here for you. From my heart to yours. I'm so grateful for you to be here and alive. One day at a time. We will make it through..
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8 minutes ago, kinkydom said:
Hot and sexy, thanks for sharing.
Aww you're welcome!!! 🙂
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I won't post the link publically in the forum but if you do want the link, reply with 'Please send.'
Please keep the link to yourself. Thank you!!!
This is just an 'audio'. I will not at any point be posting a video of me orgasming.
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my shy lil peehole.
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Great job!!!!
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The first is after I peed into a measuring cup.
The second is pre play clit
Third is 'play'
Fourth is post play clit. (granted i'm gently pulling the hood of the clit back a bit)
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Awww i'm glad you had fun with this!! *hug*
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8 hours ago, Jayne78 said:
That's interesting care to name any celebs?
I've posted some pix of one of the celebs in the 'general chat' link. 'My favorite singer has a show tonight' (or something like that)
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1 hour ago, speedy3471 said:
Well seeing that blackie is above me I would offer to buy her a coffee and sit and visit with her
I'll exchange the coffee for fruit tea if that's okay. *hug* Something light and decafinated.
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1 hour ago, speedy3471 said:
That's awesome, iam glad to hear this. I bet you made your hubby's days as well lol
It did!! as soon as he woke up. 🙂 Told ya this would be a great week with 4 shows going on.
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Spy could be my first girl snuggle. 😄
Men i'd probably just chat with and give a hug.
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I don't really fantasize about my husband peeing since I can see him peeing in the bathroom whenever he's home.
I don't really fantasize about random people peeing.
certain celebs though yes.
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I was so happy last night and this morning about stuff that me and hubby randomly had sex this morning. It didn't hurt.. and i orgasmed which was great!!!
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She was traveling to different colleges to talk about her book and drug addiction. I went to one of her speeches and then afterwards you could meet her if you wanted to. Being a 90's kid I knew I had to meet her. I told her she was so pretty.
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My fav female singer just posted a pic of her and my fav male singer together in the same room getting ready for their show tonight. Not sure if they're singing together or separately but i'm so happy!! Fav female singer looks incredibly beautiful wearing a low cut top and black pants.
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Thank you! I met Jodie Sweetin 2 years ago. She was so sweet!
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Girls...
Jodie Sweetin, Taylor Momsen, alyson hannigan, julianne hough. and one other...
Guys.... ryan reynolds..... and one other..
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headache and stress from a medical insurance issue... at least this was posted today... unwinding with some good music.
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25 minutes ago, steve25805 said:
@Blackinksoul30, I understand where you are coming from on this
But the difference between you and him is in part a political one and mods cannot enforce political stances without losing their impartiality.
As far as I am aware, no member here has been insulted or mocked for anything. And I don't think FW's post is exclusively aimed at LBGT people but is intended to mock what he views as political correctness. I see nothing that is overtly homophobic.
The term "snowflake" is however intentionally insulting to those who object to certain things, so I have edited out this term in his thread title.
Beyond that, I don't think enough has been done by FW to warrant further action on my part, certainly not without consultation. But I will take your concerns seriously enough to link the other mods and Admin in to this thread to alert them, then open a private discussion between us in the mod subforum. @Admin, @Sophie, @Scot_Lover
Finally, though, I would urge you in future to make your concerns known more privately to mods, because you risk generating public discord with FW and between those who back you and those who back him. We don't want unfriendly public flame wars here.
Thank you for removing that word from the title. It is very much appreciated! Thank you to the admins and sophie and scot_lover as well.
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People are offended because people are stereotyping LGBT. Laughing at someones gay, if they didn't do anything funny is offending them. 20 years ago there wasn't a bunch of people in this country trying to make LGBT feel like they didn't belong. They weren't singled out and made fun of like it is today. Granted I was just a teen 20 years ago....but 20 years ago yes there were shows where men where in drag. There was a movie with patrick swazye where he was in drag. Yes they were comedy shows/movies..cause the shows were meant to be funny. They were comedy shows. They were supposed to be laughed at in light hearted laughter. The goal was to make people laugh.
LGBT are being made the focus points of cruel jokes by people that truly don't accept them at all and being told that they are going to go to hell and all that other blah blah blah not true stereotypes that of course people that are singled out and already made to feel like they have no place on this world.... of course they won't like being called 'Insensitive'. The laughter in that post is from people that are against lgbt and the laughter is meant to be judgmental and cruel and stereotypical.
I really don't get the point of the post. It's really just to share narrow minded views of unacceptance and pass it off in a laughing matter.
So if i made a post titled "Some Christians think they follow Gods word." Then post my opinions about Christians with memes about them. would that be funny to you? would that not bother you? I've been to a strict all Christian church.... trust me I have my opinions but i'm not gonna make a whole post devoted to it.
If at the end of F.W's post it said something like, 'This is not to make fun of LGBT and women and i'm sorry if it does so.' But see i don't think the post would have ended like that. Cause the post was indeed intended to poke fun of LGBT and women. That was the whole point of the post.
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I'm sorry but I don't share my stories with people.
in General Chat
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I've seen some comments in the public chat, saying that people want to read my story.
I do apologize but there's kind of a long story as to why I no longer share stories with anyone. Not even close friends.
7 years ago i did have my stories online that I'd share the link with close friends. I actually had some good friends that loved my writing. They begged me to write more. They couldn't stop reading my writing. That lasted a few months. Then eventually they disappeared. I never heard from them again. They no longer asked about my stories nor to see any more of my work. I haven't heard from any of them since. At the same time I was sharing the link with some other writers that had been published and they told me, 'You need to fix this' 'change this' etc. Which always made me feel uncomfortable because i write only for myself, to make myself smile. I don't write for others. It at the time was just for me and my friends. But since people asked to read it i'd send it to them.
Not wanting to have my coping mechanism 'bashed' and 'ripped to shreds' i took all my stories down off the internet. And began my journey into 'Send it!' 'I promise i'll read it' 'you can't not send it!' 'how selfish of you not to send it' 'oh you write romance well you gotta send it' 'send it to me now. i have all weekend free to read it' 'i promise i'll read it as soon as i get home' Each of these people that i sent my story to they either confessed months later that they didn't read it nor do they have any plans to read it or they just deleted me as a friend, cut off all communicate after I sent it. Mostly men did this to me.
So i got to the point where i got extremely protective of my writing. It got to the point where my writing became such a cathartic release that i became too embarrised and ashamed to share it with just strangers. I no longer trusted people... and this unforutantely carried on for the next 6 years... i'd give in and send it to someone and they wouldn't read it. i'd send it to 'best friends' and they'd read a few pages...but that was it... people that i thought would read the whole thing. or some wouldn't even read it at all even though they said they would... even though they knew how hurt i was about past friends not reading it...they tried to assure me they'd read it..but they wouldn't...
Being let down over and over.... from getting bashed from published writers and those that just loved writing... to people that pretty much demanded that i send it.. no matter how personal i tried to explain that it was... they quickly destroyed my trust. and made me whole heartedly regret sending it in the first place. It's something..rather stomach churning... i don't mean to be sexist..but.. to confess to men that i write romance..and then they demand i send it... and i send it..and then they no longer communicate with me..it makes me feel used... and like trash..its like... well i hope you enjoy this 'Smut' i sent.... guess i'm done here.... okay i'll just see myself out.... i guess you're not gonna tell me if you like it...
When i sent it to people... i wasn't really looking for critiques though over the years some would offer me a critique... an extremely critical critique... but i write to self sooth and comfort myself from depression and chronic illness. writing is my escape. it stops the sadness and pain. it's incredibly extremely personal and catered to myself.... it's my heart....and people trampled on it and abused my trust way too much over the last 7...to even 8 or 9 years...
My writing is for myself now... myself alone... Please i hope people respect my decision. As much as anyone here would try to convince me that they would read it... i've been 'promised with all of peoples heart' that they'd read it..it's been lies for years.