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In general moms are quite perceptive and don't often miss much going on around their house. Being the person who is doing most of the cleaning and picking up around the house, we notice everything. If you think back to being a kid, most guys can recall a time when their moms let them or asked them to pee someplace other than a restroom, especially while outside, in a locker room or out away from facilities. Guys tend to become rather timid and self-conscious as teenagers and moms become hesitant to encourage them as they once did or to even bring up the subject. We just assume that being we've

I'm not speaking solely of my opinions, but that of friends, family and co-workers I've know over the years, as well as what other moms have shared on parenting web sites. The vast majority of moms, some 75% to 85% of us condone boys peeing outdoors in at least some places and around half condone boys using showers, sinks and even floor drains in basements, garages. If you expect she must be aware of something and she hasn't commented, she probably doesn't care.

Moms aren't as naive or closed minded as you young men seem to think we are, their are many places, especially outdoors where moms actually approve of boys peeing.

Same hear, our boys know that anywhere outside is fine as well as a select few inside places, like showers, sinks and even a basement floor drain. But just randomly around the house, no .

It's good that you were able to acquaint her with doing so, women who grow up never having seen men do so tend to be critical of them in years.

teenage boys seem to feel that moms are apt to be offended seeing them pee. It's nothing we haven't seen before guys, no big deal. I can't imagine why teenage boys fear being caught by their parents when what they're doing is quite normal, especially for guys.

So your mom has a times told you it's okay to pee outside on a few occasions, but you're terrified to do so around her because you think she could object? Really all you would have to do is say you urgently needed to go and be in a place where no restroom was near, it would be doing exactly as she's told you to do in the past. Also there are the convenience alibis. such as being working in the yard and not wanting to track dirt in or when shes in a hurry and not wanting to take the time to look for a restroom. You can easily explain that you were doing so for her benefit and being she's told y

Welcome, would love to hear your stories, I find that mothers from places other than America are much more open minded and encouraging.

Wow, I'm honored, I know that over the years I've convinced or reassured a great many teenage boys and young men to be more bold and open minded about where they pee, but I wasn't really aware that I've opened up moms to being more tolerant. In my experience young men seem to become rather quiet and secretive around their moms when they hit their teens, I doubt that many young men would consider sharing my comments with their moms, much less reading them together, that's really nice that you're that open with your mom. Secondly, moms don't tend to need convincing, most of us grew up in a gener

I hear that I lot and my reply is always, "it's quite possible that you have a mom like me." Boys tend to become quite timid and secretive as they enter their teens and into young adulthood, unlike girls and their moms. Teenage boys are often embarrassed when moms bring up personal subjects and thus moms are often hesitant to encourage them to do anything of this nature, even if they think it to be fine. When I speak with young men and they claim their moms would never be okay with such a thing I ask them to think back to when they were little or a time with a brother, cousin ect. had to pee

Perhaps not in a basement closet, but most moms are very open minded about men doing it in many other places, such as showers, drains, sinks and outside. If you've never had the courage to do so around mom, you'll never know. If you test the waters in a more reasonable place or bring up the topic of "a friend" peeing in drains, outside, ect. you may be surprised to hear she's okay with it and may then elaborate on what else she might be okay with.

Much more so, while my husband will do so in very private places, such as our yard or in the woods, he's very hesitant to do so in any semi-public place. As far as I'm concerned, I think that guys should take advantage of the fact that it's physically easier and socially tolerated for them. My husband will often discourage or shame the boys for doing so, while I'm egging them on. He's often criticized me for encouraging the boys in public. I know of several other families where the husbands are critical of mom's guidance.

For a few years when are 3 boys were in their late teens we had a two bedroom house with an unfinished basement. In time the boys set up a bedroom in the basement as there was much more room and a bit more freedom. Also, there was a laundry area in the corner with a floor drain at the bottom of the stairs. Without any conversation I realized the boys were peeing into the laundry sink, but as that was fine with me nothing was said. On an occasion I was doing laundry early one morning and had clothing soaking in the laundry sink. I heard one of my sons wake and moving about for a few minutes. Ev

Really, what's the harm and why shouldn't a guy feel comfortable doing so.

Interesting, I know the Spanish and French are both very casual about nudity, but I didn't realize that they were as open minded about guys peeing as are the Eastern Europeans. They're certainly not alone in that, in India, Japan and Korea it's always been much the same way as I understand.

I wouldn't be so sure about that. Often conservative christian moms tend to be more into traditional roles than more liberal people. In other words, she might expect you to pee outside as traditionally men have always done so, whereas a more liberal thinking mom might think that since women don't do so, men shouldn't be doing so either. In my experience conservative are much more likely to condone doing so. Yes, because I think that men may sometimes be hesitant to encourage boys because they themselves aren't sure as to what their wives or other women might think about them encouragin

It's quite possible, as many nannies and housekeepers working in Western Europe were women who grew up in the Eastern European countries and traveled to the West after the fall of the Soviet Union for better paying work. Not knowing local norms or being able to speak much of the local language, I'm sure it never occurred to them that there was anything wrong with having the kids do so, as it was common back home.

I take it from your age and comment about living by yourself that you. like my boys, are still living at home with parents. Like the vast majority of guys your age, you might be very surprised by just how open minded most moms are about their boys peeing in seemingly inappropriate places, It's a common topic around parenting, mothering chat rooms and forums. A recent poll just this last week revealed that 92% of moms are fine with boys peeing in the showers, 84% don't object to boys peeing in the yard and some 68% presume their boys pee in public occasionally. Most guys seem to be more worried

Agreed, It's not at all intimidating to do so over there, when nearly everyone views it as normal. I'm not sure my boys would have the confidence to do so around others here in America, but over there they were more than comfortable doing so and I wasn't at all uneasy about them doing so, passerby's would just smile and pass by.

Watching the video before reading your comment I thought to myself, "what's he holding back for, let it loose." I suppose if you're still of the opinion that you're doing something "naughty" your body might tense up, but there's really nothing naughty about it, no different than using a urinal.

|Frankly, I think that American men and boys are far to concerned about what someone might think or say, it's really not an admirable quality for men to be that considerate. Women rather expect men to be bold and daring.

Yes, quite common, it's not at all uncommon for moms to take or send boys to do so, When visiting my sister and some old friends, my then teen boys were told multiple times to "just step out into the hall" when someone was in their bathroom and their boys would often do so as we were leaving or arriving. The last video I added was that of a mom suggesting her son pee down the garbage chute, but allowed him to continue simply on the wall.

I suspected as much, everyone working with me at our pool is aware of the fact men piss on the floor, but no one has ever said anything to them about doing so. It's odd though, that many of the boys and young men are fearful of doing so, despite the fact the older guys do without consequence. A coworker, a young mom with pre-teen boys confidentially questioned me, "do your boys (they're in their twenties now) ever pee in the locker room?" I thought perhaps she was being critical of the men who do, but as I'm quite honest and bold I replied, "of course they do, even the senior men do, why would

I try to be observant and avoid trash and puddles of any kind, oil from cars, sticky soda pop, even gum on the sidewalk. I'll give some wide berth to drunks or people I find intimidating, so I don't have a problem taking a couple steps to avoid a puddle of urine or to give a urinating guy a little space to do so.

I'm almost always there with him. The first time I saw him do so we were on a quick long trip with my mother and stopped at a dive motel for a few hours sleep. He was tired and just wanted to sleep, but was also dying to pee. My mom had beat him into the bathroom and was taking a rather long time. Impatient and nearly undressed already he stepped outside, but saw a group of people loitering in the parking lot. He returned complaining to my mom that he was dying to pee, to which she called out, "what's the crisis, guys can pee anywhere." With that he looked around and sat down on the bed beside