My first topic & intro :)

[valeriepissloverx 52]

13 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Hi and welcome to this community of friends.   It's worth mentioning that we're not about physical meetups, but it's possible to get to know lots of people in this purely online world.

Also it's worth mantioning that we're not really a 'DM me' kind of place - that's like sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring.  We're a forum, so our basis is on posts that everyone can read and contribute to - and please use the search facility if you can't see what you're looking for.

Welcome - and shout up with any questions.

Thank you for this info! Helps me a lot

[selfpissinglad 206]

20 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Hi and welcome to this community of friends.   It's worth mentioning that we're not about physical meetups, but it's possible to get to know lots of people in this purely online world.

Also it's worth mantioning that we're not really a 'DM me' kind of place - that's like sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring.  We're a forum, so our basis is on posts that everyone can read and contribute to - and please use the search facility if you can't see what you're looking for.

Welcome - and shout up with any questions.

I understand the physical meetups due to possible safety/privacy issues but i dont really understand the issue with dms. In my experience on here, i have developed some very hot and horny convos in the dms as naturally i think most people are more likely to open up to one person rather than everyone. I have found a few people who are into the exact parts of the kink as myself and that has been deeply satisfying to know im not alone in that way. I think dms should be encouraged not discouraged to be honest....

[gldenwetgoose 21,485]

1 hour ago, selfpissinglad said:

I understand the physical meetups due to possible safety/privacy issues but i dont really understand the issue with dms. In my experience on here, i have developed some very hot and horny convos in the dms as naturally i think most people are more likely to open up to one person rather than everyone. I have found a few people who are into the exact parts of the kink as myself and that has been deeply satisfying to know im not alone in that way. I think dms should be encouraged not discouraged to be honest....

Thanks @selfpissinglad and I'll clarify what I meant by the DM comment - reading back it wasn't actually responding to the OP, but to the latest comments from another person.  They're also from a brand new user of the site, who's joined and in their first ever post has used the 'if anyone wants to chat... just message me'.

Now I've got nothing against using DMs as you've described and I'd be incredibly hypocritical if I did.  It's a natural way for established friends to further build that friendship.  I was making the point for the new user though that we are a forum and not a message chat board.  Genuinely there are large numbers of people joining and instantly thinking DMs are what we're about (when there are 100,000s of topics ready to read and interact with).  And presumably thinking their inboxes will be filled instantly with horny girls (or guys) wanting to chat.  If the forums aren't active, ultimately people will stop visiting.  And there's Rule 17 about not messaging other users excessively...

I could digress further - but I'm already leading this topic off track.  I wanted to explain what I meant by a hopefully gentle hint in the right direction.

[selfpissinglad 206]

16 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Thanks @selfpissinglad and I'll clarify what I meant by the DM comment - reading back it wasn't actually responding to the OP, but to the latest comments from another person.  They're also from a brand new user of the site, who's joined and in their first ever post has used the 'if anyone wants to chat... just message me'.

Now I've got nothing against using DMs as you've described and I'd be incredibly hypocritical if I did.  It's a natural way for established friends to further build that friendship.  I was making the point for the new user though that we are a forum and not a message chat board.  Genuinely there are large numbers of people joining and instantly thinking DMs are what we're about (when there are 100,000s of topics ready to read and interact with).  And presumably thinking their inboxes will be filled instantly with horny girls (or guys) wanting to chat.  If the forums aren't active, ultimately people will stop visiting.  And there's Rule 17 about not messaging other users excessively...

I could digress further - but I'm already leading this topic off track.  I wanted to explain what I meant by a hopefully gentle hint in the right direction.

I don't agree that because people are in the dms they wont also use the forums. The dms are what lead me to this site more often than not and while im there I will have a squiz at the forum topics and comment...i would use it as a selling point and not be so heavy handed with the rules and regulations...

[Adyguy6970 876]

Hi and welcome aboard, Valerie.   I hope you have an amazing time.   

[pee01 1,521]

HI and welcome to this site. 

[Pisfetish 57]

Hey Valerie. Nice user/chatname you have chosen 💦. If you want some inspiration for starting with really hot pee games with yourself, you might wanna have a look at my profile descriptions of what turns me on   - maybe you will enjoy that too. Or you might find some hot ideas over here https://peefans.com/topic/31665-honest-confessions-i-am-a-mostly-auto-sexual-piss-addict/

greetings from Belgium!

[PeeingPoshBoy 301]

Welcome to the site! 

[MidoriLemonade85 2,366]

On 11/1/2024 at 5:25 AM, glad1 said:

Welcome, Valerie. I wish you some most wonderful experiences as you explore your newly-acknowledged kink. (Some of us call it a hobby. 😁)

As for where to start, I suggest you just follow your piss, I mean bliss.

You have such a way with the English language. I maintain that you are the most British American on here, Royal Glad1! 

[MidoriLemonade85 2,366]

On 10/31/2024 at 11:19 AM, valeriepissloverx said:

Hi everyone! Im Valerie and I just acknowledged I have a piss kink. It started when I loved watching guys having a wee in public around parties, festivals etc. Especially when they drank much and just have to let go and find a spot. I typed some key words on google and found this website! I have not yet got the chance to experience something personal, nor did I do any pee play myself since I dont really know where to begin/how to explore what I really like.

Any recommendations are welcome!

Val

There are so many friendly people on here, you’re bound to have fun. Start small, read the forums, and broaden your horizons to find out your likes. This site is vast and varied. You’ll be amazed what we talk about here. 

[peebus10 140]

Hi and welcome Valerie from a fellow Dutchie. I hope you will enjoy the site as much as I do 

[gozer1993 116]

Yay! A fellow Dutchie! Welcome to this site