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[steve25805 121,988]

There were issues with me repeatedly reposting the same pics - I realised how annoying that was when I went back over some of my threads and kept finding the same pics all the time. Was a damned nuisance, lol. Because it became an issue, with the exception of the calendar thread, I pretty much stopped posting pics here altogether many weeks ago. I have issues going on in my head in recent years and am vulnerable to criticism, deeply insecure, and prone to massive over-reactions, afraid to invest in anything or anyone emotionally with worsening health conditions going on. Which is why I am not the person I used to be around here. I almost left the site completely and asked to be shut out for a week to get my head together. Apologies in particular to @Admin for my inability to support the site in all the ways that I used to. I regret that we no longer really talk anymore.

But going from posting hundreds of pics including multiple reposts to posting nothing at all is kind of going from one extreme to another. So if it is okay with @Admin, @gldenwetgoose, @Sophie, and @Scot_Lover I will start a pic thread where I can just post a limited number of pics, consisting only of pics I am certain I have not posted before. There will only be a few every now and again and possibly nothing these next four days due to long working hours. If a repost nevertheless gets posted I give all admins and mods my approval and indeed wishes for it to be deleted. But I will try to avoid it as much as possible. I will post no more than a maximum of five on any one day.

If anyone likes any of the many pics I have shared in the past, I post under the same name on both Erome and motherless and have put many of my favourite pics in files there. But anyone who has followed my pics on this forum would have seen most of them already I expect.

[Sophie 23,588]

That's fine with me.

[jmatthews1995 3,518]

13 minutes ago, steve25805 said:

I have issues going on in my head in recent years and am vulnerable to criticism, deeply insecure, and prone to massive over-reactions, afraid to invest in anything or anyone emotionally with worsening health conditions going on. Which is why I am not the person I used to be around here.

 

I noticed you had reduced your posting a lot recently. I was getting close to messaging you and asking if things were okay, but as is the case with these types of sites people often just disappear with little warning.

Hopefully your break from it has given you time to get things together a little and deal with your health conditions a bit. I hope things aren't too bad for you!

[Scot_Lover 1,804]

It's also fine with me. Take care @steve25805, look after yourself.

[gldenwetgoose 20,469]

It seems to be shown time and time again, for so many people, with different circumstances and issues that Peefans is so much more than just about porn.   It's about people, and their lives and the issues they have.

Despite that, it's still very easy to get caught up in the being critical of content on the site without thinking about the person behind it.   Their motivations and drivers.   And I'm challenging myself to be more considerate and understanding.

So - we're here for you @steve25805 and for every other user.  There's definitely a happy middle ground I'm sure in posting - but the main thing is that you're here.

[likesToLick 9,952]

Hi @steve25805

I am sorry to hear that you are suffering from poor health and mental stress. I hope you can at least recover your peace of mind soon.  I have always valued your contributions, and recognise you as a thoroughly decent person.

Best wishes for tranquility and good health in future.

[DXR 699]

Well, I for one don't mind reposts.  I can't remember all the pics I've seen anyway, and I'm always glad to see anything you post, repeats or not.  I'm just grateful for all your contributions.