Missed Opportunities

[Kirby23 956]

As I read everyone's stories here, I often think about missed opportunities I've had in my life. They're mostly situations where I could have seen female peeing, (or in one case taken part in pee play), but instead I either get embarrassed, or I try to be a gentleman and "do the right thing."

The main situation I think of was one time with my ex-wife. We were swimming together at night, and out of nowhere she says "Do you want me to pee on you?" I was totally taken aback, and muttered something like "umm... no." Then "Why???"

She said "I saw pee porn on your computer and just wondered if it was something you wanted to do." I honestly don't recall exactly what I said after that - it was a long time ago. But I definitely felt embarrassed about it at the time, ashamed.

Another situation happened at a party when I was in college. I was in the (only) bathroom, about to pee, and two girls came in. They said they couldn't wait and asked if they could pee. I told them I was about to go. One of them said "We don't mind, you can stay and go after us." But my gentlemanly instinct kicked in and I told them it's ok, I'll give them privacy. I left, they peed then left, then I went back in and peed (kicking myself the whole time). 

I can think of a few other similar situations like this (at parties, concerts, etc.) where I easily could have seen drunk girls pee, but I always give in to trying to be a gentleman, and I look away.

Who else has similar "missed opportunity" experiences?

[murshymaze 230]

This is an interesting topic to think of for sure. I can't recall too many "missed opportunity" moments, but this one time back in high school we all went to this football game outdoors where we walked there. Before the game, we decided to get some energy drinks and stuff like that, so naturally we had to pee throughout the night, and did so outside. 

I remember being really flirty with some of the girls there. Drinks had been consumed along with some alcohol we snuck in, so our inhibitions were lowered. I remember one of them offering me a blowjob, but she was clearly drunk and there was no where to do it, and also like you, my gentleman instinct kicked in and would've felt bad having followed through considering she was wasted. 

On the way back, I had to pee and was walking with a few girls and some of my guy friends. I was telling the girls I had to go, don't exactly remember what was said but I was able to sneak in a comment without my guy friends hearing (I didn't want them to think I was weird) saying to one of the girls "wanna hold my dick while I piss?" or something along those lines. The few girls that were there heard it and all started to giggle and smile, especially the girl I asked. I don't even remember if she said yes or not, but it seemed like she wanted to because she perked up when I asked and had a big smile on her face, but ultimately nothing came of it because although it was late at night and dark out, I didn't want my guy friends to know what was happening, or to stop the group while this girl held my dick lol. 

Any other times? I can't really think of it, but maybe just being more open with some of my lady friends who were clearly open about pee. Some of them I got to see, but others it felt like I only scratched the surface with them. Oh well, plenty more experiences to hopefully come!

Edited January 25 by murshymaze

[PeeOV330 132]

On 1/24/2024 at 12:05 PM, Kirby23 said:

Another situation happened at a party when I was in college. I was in the (only) bathroom, about to pee, and two girls came in. They said they couldn't wait and asked if they could pee. I told them I was about to go. One of them said "We don't mind, you can stay and go after us." But my gentlemanly instinct kicked in and I told them it's ok, I'll give them privacy. I left, they peed then left, then I went back in and peed (kicking myself the whole time). 

I'm so mad at you about this haha

The first one is more of a missed opportunity and a bigger fuck up but this second one, it just is a mini dream scenario that fell perfectly into your lap, such a waste! I feel that regret with you. 

I think everyone has a few. I think a big thing that happens all the time is times when I'm out at night with other people and a notice a stranger sneaking off to pee, in a way that I could go out of my way to accidentally see them, but, since I'm not alone, I don't have the chance.

Another one on my brain was from back when I was 19. I was at a dive bar with a group of people and this little guy my age was coming on to me and I wasn't really picking up on it at first. I hadn't started being interested in guys at the time. I was pretty drunk and before we left, for some reason I made a joke about filling a pint glass with piss. So, I don't recall how it was prompted but I brought the glass to the bathroom with me and started filling it at the urinal. As I was starting, the guy that was hitting on me comes over and starts pissing in the urinal next to me and watching what I was doing, complementing me.  After filling the glass, I sit it on top of the urinal and continue peeing, he then, unprompted, grabs my cock and starts aiming for me. I was drunk and it took me a while to even realize what has happening. I finished peeing shortly and he tried to jerk me and then suck me off and I told him I wasn't interested. He then kept trying the rest of the night, in a way that was not very consent minded, so honestly not a great guy lol, but I very often think about how that would have gone if I had been more open to sex with men at the time. I probably would've invited him to share my urinal and piss in the glass with me, then we could both take some swigs out of the glass when it was full, and maybe engage in more pee play later in the night. 

Another I can think of is this one time, at a house party. I was chatting with a girl and she noticed that I had a few piss spots on my jeans from being drunk and impatient and not shaking my cock enough. She was joking and commenting on being impressed by the spread, she pointed at the spot, touched my jeans, saying "you got it here" and ran her hands along my jeans to the tip of my dick saying "but your cock is all the way over here!" She kept teasing on it, saying "clearly you need some assistance" or something like that, a perfect opportunity to ask her to hold it for me the next time I had to go but I was actually in a serious relationship at the time so I had to cut this whole conversation short. Funnily I actually did walk in on her peeing later. It was a tiny apartment bathroom so I hit the door on her knees and didn't see much but a bit of her left side, but still!

I probably have a hundred more that I can't think of right now but these are two what ifs that I linger on.

 

Edited January 26 by PeeOV330

[Kirby23 956]

On 1/25/2024 at 10:48 PM, PeeOV330 said:

I'm so mad at you about this haha

The first one is more of a missed opportunity and a bigger fuck up but this second one, it just is a mini dream scenario that fell perfectly into your lap, such a waste! I feel that regret with you.

@PeeOV330 Ha, I know. There's more to the story, I was performing in a band at the party, and we were in-between sets. I was just trying to quickly get in and out of the bathroom before we were set to go back on. So I think I was more in the "gotta be professional" mode than looking for sexy times. If it was after our set was finished, I might've been thinking differently.

The only other thing I can say is that I was only about 21 (maybe 22?) at the time, and pretty inexperiened with dating, relationships, signals, etc.

Things would probably be different now. Although I'm married now, so I'm not going to do anything that would constitute cheating.

[JDG 871]

Multiple times with my girlfriend. I have a massive thing for girls peeing outside out of convenience and I am blessed with a girlfriend who does that frequently. I have seen her squat and pee in so many different places by now. We do love road tripping so then it happens frequently. 

However, she has on more than one occasion been desperate enough that she wanted to pee in places where I was worried about her decency more than I was excited to see her pee, so I always discouraged her in those situation. I often regret my discouragement pretty much immediately as those places would have been very sexy to have witnessed. But as said, I was mostly very worried about her decency. 

I have also discouraged her from peeing in a place I felt was too inappropriate for a piss a couple of times and I had the exact same feeling later. Even though in both of these "discouraged situations" I would usually see her pee somewhere else anyway, but that would always be in a bush or even on a toilet so way less exciting places. Although peeing in bushes also keeps me going I must admit! 

[Kirby23 956]

@JDG  care to elaborate on any examples of places you deemed to be too inappropriate?

[JDG 871]

50 minutes ago, Kirby23 said:

@JDG  care to elaborate on any examples of places you deemed to be too inappropriate?

Ofcourse. 

-A graveyard (not near the actual graves, but in the doorway of the building where they have the ceremonies) 

-A very beautifully arranged botanical garden

-In the middle of the sidewalk in a residential area (mostly worried about her decency here, but also deemed it a bit inappropriate) 

-In the staircase of an observation tower in a busy nature reserve (also more worried about her decency here) 

-One of the rooms in an abandoned castle (it was still furnished though) 

-In someone's front garden

Fun thing is she doesn't have a pee fetish at all, she just goes when she needs to. She does have fun with it though, but in the same sense that you have fun as when you are watching Netflix. No sexual fun. 

[ppppppp 1,499]

I was on a beach once.  It was about five minutes walk back up the cliffs to the nearest toilets.  So I saw quite a few women peeing in the sea.  

There was a really gorgeous girl I noticed.  Tall, slim, blonde curly hair, in her very late teens or early 20s.  She wore a pale blue bikini.  I kept an eye on her, hoping I might see her pee.

I got distracted, then went back to look for her.  She was gone.  I spotted her a minute or two later, walking back up the beach from the sea.  As she got close, I could see that her hair and her bikini were completely dry.  Apart from the material between her legs, which now looked damp, spreading up in a thin line marking her slit.

She must have got up when I wasn't looking, strolled to the water's edge.  And squatted to wet her bikini on the damp sand.  I would have loved to watch her pissing like that.

[weequeen 1,990]

missed opportuni-pees

[ppppppp 1,499]

This is quite a recent one.  I went to three music festivals last summer.  I didn't see a single girl peeing outdoors.  Sometimes it just doesn't happen.

But, at the last one I went to, I was in front of the main stage early in the evening.  There was a band I wanted to see.  So, I got there in good time, to get a good spot.  I was there for the two previous acts.

As always, a lot of people leave and arrive in the 30 minutes or so between acts.  Two girls came in and stood next to me at the start of the changeover.  Both were in their very late teens or early 20s.  The shorter brunette left almost immediately.  She wanted to visit a portaloo.  Her blonde friend waited for her.

It took about 20 minutes or so, and her friend came back.  She managed to squeeze and push through the thickening crowd.  She did well to find her friend again.  They talked, with each other, and those around them, about how difficult it was to get to the toilets.  The blonde girl spoke about the previous day.  Another girl, a stranger, didn't want to leave her place in the crowd.  She had simply pissed where she was.  She had made no attempt to hide what she was doing.  She had just slipped her shorts down, squatted and used the grass as her toilet.

I got the impression that the blonde girl was sort of asking for permission from the rest of us.  She was quite fidgety.  

The next act took the stage.  They finished, and we had another half hour to wait for the one I wanted to see.  It was now later in the evening, and the crowd even thicker.  There was no chance of getting back to that spot if anyone left.  We started talking again.  The blonde girl was now even more fidgety.  She spoke again about yesterday.  She told the same story, about the redhead peeing in front of her.  

I was convinced that she was trying to build up courage herself.  She had been drinking.  She hadn't been for a pee for at least two hours by then.  She had another four hours before the end of the headline show.  It looked like she had decided that she would rather perform her own bodily functions in public, rather that miss the headliner.  Perhaps she was still deciding whether she would squat in front of us, or just hold it until she couldn't stop herself wetting down her legs.

The act I was waiting for now took the stage.  When they finished, I wanted to see another band on a different stage.  So, I pushed my way out of the crowd.  I wonder how much longer that girl waited before she emptied herself.  And I wonder what her final choice was.  Did she piss through her shorts?  Did she drop them to spray her puddle on the ground?  Or did she miss the band she so wanted to see?  I bet she saw the band.

[Likepeefun 33]

Had a few missed opportunities, in particular with a girl when I was in my late teens. We used to go out in a group of friends, and one night walking back from the pub all together, the 2 girls ducked into an alley for a pee. All the lads waited for them but I secretly wanted to go and watch. On quite a few occasions I wanted to see this one girl pee but never had the bottle to tell her even though we had a lovely evening at a party. In the morning of that party I heard her peeing in the toilet for about a minute, really strong stream, I just never plucked up the courage to ever ask her to share the experience 😔 think she would have been up for it too. 

[Carpetpisser 515]

Hindsight is 20/20 and looking back, I've had more than a few missed chances! Here's a couple that stand out-

At a concert with a girl I just met, she mentioned she needed to pee, I told her "Yea me too, wonder if we can find a dark corner somewhere, look at that line for the portable toilets." She replies, I peed beside the car before I came in, but that's a long walk back to the car. (I met her there with her friends), not wanting to mess anything up I simply replied "oh wow! it beats using one of those portajons." Next thing I know one of her friends comes up and says to her "let's go for a walk". They walk off, I walk over to the wall beside the beer stand and start pissing amongst the other guys doing the same thing. My new friend comes back and says "much better, we peed behind the skip" My mind is processing all this and she asks if I peed too. I told her "see that river beside the beer stand?  That's not water, I think half the guys here are pissing there. Me included." Life got in the way and I only saw her a couple times after that. But I like to think what could've been...

Another time involved my neighbor, we were sitting out front of the apartment building having a couple beers. She was new in the building and very good looking. After the third beer she says "If we got to be good friends would you let me watch you pee?" I'm flabbergasted! Here again not wanting to start things off on the wrong foot, I told her "You keep giving me beer who knows what will happen!" We both laughed. A couple weeks later I was outside and saw her coming out the hallway, figured I had nothing to lose, so I waited until she started walking up the steps to the parking area, I pulled my dick out and started pissing on the concrete hoping she'd hear me. She did and commented "nice stream and nice cock!" and watched while I finished up. I thought that was the end of it until a few days later she texts me asking if I can look at her car as it wouldn't start. I told her I'd be right there. I walk over to her car, with her standing by it. She lifts her dress, no underwear! squats down and starts pissing. She asks me if I want to go back to her apartment to hang out, but me being an absolute dumbass said "maybe tomorrow, I gotta run a couple errands. 10 yrs later I'm still kicking myself!