DoctorDoctor 1,069 Posted October 11, 2023 Share Posted October 11, 2023 Who here announces their orgasms/climaxes to their partner? Being a guy, I always give some indication of an impending orgasm especially if receiving oral sex. Partly out of courtesy and partly because I feel it is hot. I find it super hot if a woman does the same and announces her start of cumming. I am always paying attention for clues such as my (female) partners flushing face and chest, feet tensing and changes in breathing for an upcoming relase. But, I like it much more if it just straight up announced. Do you like a warning from your partner or announcing to your partner? 1 Quote Link to post
Bacardi 9,132 Posted October 11, 2023 Share Posted October 11, 2023 I tend to do this in my fantasies lol. I'm usually very quiet during sex. 3 1 Quote Link to post
A_AShes 463 Posted October 11, 2023 Share Posted October 11, 2023 1 hour ago, Bacardi said: I tend to do this in my fantasies lol. I'm usually very quiet during sex. We all are different. If you Loved feel you and your orgasm without words... or expressions... Maybe you are happiest Lovers with no need to talk a word Just look it like that.. Why talking...? 1 1 Quote Link to post
gldenwetgoose 20,250 Posted October 11, 2023 Share Posted October 11, 2023 "Brace yourself my darling, for I am about to arrive..." It sort has generally been my own experience, and the experience I've witnessed at very close quarters that orgasms do have something of a build up. A quickening of the heart rate, deeper and quicker breathing, clenches, involuntary movements. In other words - in a lot of cases that onset of orgasm is pretty obvious and actually it'd be harder to hide than to just let it happen. As such, announcing it can be a bit unnecessary? 3 1 Quote Link to post
Popular Post Sophie 23,059 Posted October 11, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 11, 2023 I always have sex with a megaphone! (Wait, not like that!) During sex I usually don't announce I am going to cum, my husband knows me well enough and like Goose says, it's pretty obvious. However... If I am masturbating with my husband watching I will often say I am going to cum just as I begin to lose control. It's still really obvious anyway but I do it because I find it incredibly sexy. 7 2 Quote Link to post
Alfresco 11,002 Posted October 12, 2023 Share Posted October 12, 2023 I don't normally announce it and nor does my wife, but sometimes if I sense that we are doing some mutual masturbation then I might say something so that she can choose where the cum ends up. Also, sometimes if I know that I'm on the edge and she is not yet near then I let her know that she needs to give me a rest if she wants me to last longer. 1 1 2 Quote Link to post
DoctorDoctor 1,069 Posted October 12, 2023 Author Share Posted October 12, 2023 2 hours ago, Alfresco said: . . . . I might say something so that she can choose where the cum ends up. Also, sometimes if I know that I'm on the edge and she is not yet near then I let her know that she needs to give me a rest if she wants me to last longer. ^^^^^^^ This is what I was originally talking about! ^^^^^^ 1 Quote Link to post
Kirby23 777 Posted October 17, 2023 Share Posted October 17, 2023 My wife is usually pretty quiet during sex (our kids are just down the hall). But I can almost always tell when she's getting close, for all the reasons mentioned above. It's definitely a build-up, and when she finally comes, she might say "Ok" as a sort of release. I usually do announce when I'm coming, just out of habit, I guess. Sometimes if I'm trying to "synch up" so my wife and I both come at the same time, I might ask her "are you close?" But usually I try to keep the talking to a minimum because if I talk too much, she might lose it. 2 Quote Link to post
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