How To: A Discrete Wetting Guide for Women

[jmatthews1995 3,648]

I've decided to have a go at writing a “How To” style of guide that focusses mainly on the aspect of discrete female wetting. Most of the ideas covered in here are things I've seen in videos of wetting so some might be really helpful, some not so much. It's a bit of a spoof of the “How To” guides I see online quite often, for a topic that is probably extremely niche. It'll be put together in an hour or two so might miss little things here and there.

I'll cover various topics;

• Clothing
• Shoes
• Location
• Body Position
• Weather
• Time

There are various reasons one may want to discretely wet themselves. You could be caught short. You may be stuck in a situation where finding a toilet is not possible. You may be far too busy to trek to the nearest toilet. Or, you could be like most of us here, and just enjoy giving yourself a good soaking for fun!

 

Clothing

The most critical aspect of of a sneaky wetting is the clothing choice! This is the most obvious aspect, and I'll cover some of the best clothing I've seen for a good discrete wetting. Clearly, as little coverage as possible helps a discrete wetting, but it also makes it less fun!

Skirts

The classic skirt. The ultimate wetting friend. The hider of naughty sins! There are various types, but the best of the bunch is the black leather skirt. A panty soaking under a skirt is very difficult to see and has the added benefit of being able to get a breeze of fresh air to aid in drying. It also offers a choice of wetting poses from standing, sitting, squatting etc. All will work in a skirt. Paired with a pair of lacy panties and bare legs it makes for a very convenient, quick drying wetting. Even if that means giving your feet a quick soaking while standing!

 

Lacey Panties

A perfect panty style for discrete wetting is the classic lace style panties. Fast drying, breathable and sexy, they make the perfect panties to enjoy giving a good soaking! The thin fabric and quick drying nature of the material make it perfect for those who want to enjoy a quick “On-the-go” soaking before hurrying off to continue with their day!

Synthetic / Mesh Material Panties

Another style of panties that make for a good discrete soaking are synthetic material fabrics. Mesh style panties, or polyester sports panties wick moisture fast and dry quick, making for a convenient yet still enjoyable wetting.

Dark / Patterned Leggings

Depending on how brave you are, a pair of dark / patterned leggings can do a fantastic job of hiding any wet patches, specially if you're happy to pop a quick squat in them and then pull your skirt back over them!

 

Leather Trousers

Now, if you really want to enjoy a full on soaking, your best bet is a pair of leather trousers. The material does a fantastic job of hiding wet patches and makes it easier to avoid obvious wet patches. This material, however, will take a very long time to dry, so wet with caution!

The image below, shows a pair of leather trousers that have been given a thorough soaking. The only visible sign of the wetting are the temporary droplets escaping from seams of the trousers!

Take note, however, that wetting in a pair of leather trousers guides all of your pee straight down to your ankles, and as such a pair of quick drying shoes such as ballet flats or heels are recommended. (That is unless you really fancy filling up a pair of lovely knee high boots).

 

Next Topic.... Shoes!

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Shoes

The next topic I will be covering are shoes! They can make or break a discrete wetting, and can change the whole feeling / aftermath feeling of a soaking, so picking the right type is critical. I will cover this section of the guide by working through from the most convenient and “wetting friendly” shoes to the more braver choices that give a much higher wetting feeling, but can also be less convenient to deal with!

Flip Flops!

We'll start with the obvious ones! Flip flops make for a fantastic pair of shoes for wetting. They are barely closed meaning that even when fully wetting, they will dry incredibly fast, show no wet stains or marks, and are also super easy to clean (if you even bother).

They do have their down sides as well however! They are very obvious during the actual act of wetting and within the first 2 minutes or so after. If anyone sees your feet glistening, or the very obvious puddle forming, then it can give the game away!

They also don't keep your feet clean at all! In dusty environments having soaked feet in flip flops attracts dirt! Keep that in mind!

Sandals & Open Heels

Sandals and open heels offer all the same benefits of flip flops. They are fast drying, and easier to clean than closed shoes. They also have the added benefit of looking nicer than flip flops as well. The negatives are similar to flip flops. They don't hide fluid at all, and they will not keep your feet clean from dust and dirt that will be attracted to wet feet!

Ballet Flats

Ballet flats make for fantastic discrete wetting shoes. They are a great middle ground for both discreteness, and cleanliness. Plus, they are quick drying. They also do not appear to be visibly wet if leather or faux leather ones are used.

The openness of them allows the wearer to continue about their day with little issue if they are outside. Inside would be a different scenario as the pee would have to be poured out to empty them. Once they have mostly been emptied out (though walking normally, or via tipping them out) they will continue to dry naturally. They also allow the benefit of not allowing dust and dirt to cover the wearers wet feet!

Warning! They will overflow fast and create a large puddle however.

Converse

Finally we move onto more “Full Wetting” biased shoes. These are the most discrete that you can use when attempting to achieve a full “Soaking” where the higher sensation comes above convenience.

Black or patterned Converse do a fantastic job of hiding wetness after the initial glistening has passed. They are also super comfy, and can (If you don't mind) be worn without socks to allow quicker drying of the canvas on sunny, hot days. (They still take quite a long time to dry).

They also allow for longer walking distances in comfort if you fancy going somewhere further away from home. They also have the added benefit of being able to be machine washed. A down side is that they will make noise when wet, so should be worn in louder areas or away from people.

Mesh Sneakers

Mesh sneakers are fantastic for wetting. They are super comfortable, breathable, and quick drying. Wearing the mesh ones without socks will help with quicker drying. They also do a fantastic job of hiding wet patches or glistening due to the material they are made from.

Bright colours help to hide any wet patches.

Sneakers will make obvious wet noises when recently soaked, so again be cautious as to where you wet in them! The picture below is a full soaked pair of mesh style sneakers. The pee flows through the fabric and will splash out as you walk.

 

Leather / PVC Boots!

Finally, for the very brave and the super indulgent, we have the lovely knee high boots! If you are going for the full “Wetting” feeling, then knee high boots are fully indulgent. They also make for extremely convenient hiding of the puddle, and of any wet stains!

The main down side being that once you've wet them, they are staying wet until you can empty them. Washing is also almost impossible, so unless you're willing to just let them dry and re-wet them, or throw them away, do not use them!

They will make noise when you continue wearing them once soaked.

Open toe boots however, would drain and allow continued wearing until convenient to change.

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Positions

The next most important aspect of a discrete wetting is the body position! This can make all the difference as to whether you are spotted, or whether you get away without being even glanced at! There are 4 main discrete wetting positions. Standing, Sitting, Squatting, and in some rare cases laying down (Think sunbathing on a beach or sun lounger).

 

Standing

The most discrete from a physical position point of view, is standing. With the right clothing and a bit of consideration, a standing wetting can be achieved very secretly. Standing wettings can be done when paired with a skirt, and a pair of shoes mentioned above. (Heels or sandals are easiest, but boots do a good job of hiding wetness also.)

The main thing to take into consideration is that there will be a loud splashing noise. Clothing is also a significant issue when standing. Jeans are a definite no, so are pretty much any “Full leg” clothing.

A perfect combination for a wetting such as this would be a pair of sandals or ballet flats, paired with a thin pair of panties and a nice skirt. Much more than this and you risk exposing yourself. Standing on the right floor type, such as grass can make this wetting method very discreet.

Sitting

When done in the right location, a sitting wetting can be very secretive. Various different places can be used. A park bench, a wall, or even an outdoor beer garden can make for an ideal sitting and wetting location. The type of clothing can be more risky when sitting. Tights (pantyhose) and leggings can be paired with a leather skirt and wet under a table very conveniently.

Black leggings, shorts, or jeans could potentially be gotten away with if you are sat low enough that the pee flows straight through the bottom area of them rather than down the insides of the thighs. Make sure to carry a large hoody or jacket that can be wrapped around your waist to hide the wet patch!

The key to a good sitting wetting is finding somewhere that you can sit low enough to make your legs angle upwards away from your private area. This will stop pee flowing down the back of your thighs and keep the wet patch to a minimum! Staying in the same location for long enough after will allow the wet patch to dry as well!

Low Squat

The low squat is the classic position for a pee, but for a wetting it's also convenient. Wearing a skirt it will ensue that the skirt won't get wet and allow you to comfortably piss through your underwear. If you're a little more brave you could even go through a pair of tights or leggings as well!

A squat when wearing pants or leggings will minimise the amount of wet patch and allow easy hiding of the stain by wrapping a jacket or hoody around your waist. This squat position also guarantees that your legs and shoes will be staying dry. Perfect if you don't want to stomp around in pee filled boots or sneakers for example.

High Squat

The high squat is similar to the low squat, however it makes for a much quicker get away if required. The issue with a high squat, is that if loose clothing is worn then the wet patch will be much larger than with a low squat.

So long as tight leggings or pantyhose are worn, and a decent skirt / cover up is available then a high squat may well just about work!

Laying Down

The final position is fantastic for on a beach or a sun lounger! A lay down wetting can be done without even moving or hinting that you're wetting so long as you are above the right flooring. Think sand, grass, or even water.

A bikini or swimsuit is designed to be wet, and in a beach or poolside setting is not suspicious at all when wet! The perfect change for a sneaky wetting.

[Kupar 13,340]

I love the illustrations you've chosen for this series of posts 🙂  You have put a lot of time and care into it, and I'm appreciating the results. Thank you!

[jmatthews1995 3,648]

1 minute ago, Kupar said:

I love the illustrations you've chosen for this series of posts 🙂  You have put a lot of time and care into it, and I'm appreciating the results. Thank you!

Thanks 😄

[Naughts 325]

I love this series and hope there will be a lot more parts!
The pictures really help bring the message across. And while I cannot say that I have learned a lot, I certainly enjoyed the read.

This feels like a very well researched WikiHow 😄

[jmatthews1995 3,648]

1 hour ago, Naughts said:

I love this series and hope there will be a lot more parts!
The pictures really help bring the message across. And while I cannot say that I have learned a lot, I certainly enjoyed the read.

This feels like a very well researched WikiHow 😄

That was the kind of article I was aiming to produce. Thank you!

[Dr.P 1,473]

@jmathews1995, Just for fun, you might want to check out Puddyls' wide variety of excellent wetting photos in the forums "oops, my wet patch!" and "oops, puddyls' wet patches & peeing pix," among others, on this PeeFans site. She demonstrates many types of clothing, positions, and locations for wetting, and the effects of her choices, all sexy, as well as positive, negative, and humorous. 

Dr.P.

[gldenwetgoose 21,492]

15 hours ago, Dr.P said:

@jmathews1995, Just for fun, you might want to check out Puddyls' wide variety of excellent wetting photos in the forums "oops, my wet patch!" and "oops, puddyls' wet patches & peeing pix," among others, on this PeeFans site. She demonstrates many types of clothing, positions, and locations for wetting, and the effects of her choices, all sexy, as well as positive, negative, and humorous. 

Dr.P.

.... whilst remembering that copyright remains with @puddyls as the original creator of the image.

So yes, they are great to look at and enjoy, but not to diminish the glory that is those original images by reproducing them.

[Foobar 786]

I got this flyer and my first thought was she's in the perfect position to discretely pee. 

[jmatthews1995 3,648]

44 minutes ago, Foobar said:

I got this flyer and my first thought was she's in the perfect position to discretely pee. 

That does look absolutely perfect for a sneaky little leak! 😄 

[Dr.P 1,473]

Foobar said: "I got this flyer and my first thought was she's in the perfect position to discretely pee."

It may not be so discrete. The relatively large, yellow-tinted puddle on the floor, beneath her, looks suspicious.

jmathews1995 said:

"That does look absolutely perfect for a sneaky little leak!"

Agreed. But again, it may not be so sneaky, or so little. Careful examination of her right leg, at higher magnification, indicates possible dribbles, on the back of her calf. So she may be finished with actively peeing, at this point. I would love to help her with the cleanup! 

But whether it is discrete, sneaky, or not, it is quite erotic, in my view. So thanks to Foobar for posting! 

[Foobar 786]

3 hours ago, Dr.P said:

Foobar said: "I got this flyer and my first thought was she's in the perfect position to discretely pee."

It may not be so discrete. The relatively large, yellow-tinted puddle on the floor, beneath her, looks suspicious.

I was debating what adjective to use. I don't know the physics of it all, but I'm sure she could relieve herself without being visibly soaked or exposing herself. And since the posture isn't associated with peeing, if she's caught she can just say "oops, I had an accident". As for the adjective... Modest? Nonchalant? Classy?

[Dr.P 1,473]

@Foobar, I agree on the posture, and the adjective, "discretely," which really covers the other choices. I was concentrating on the physics, as usual, rather than the adjectives.

[jmatthews1995 3,648]

I plan to continue this, just haven't got round to it recently!

[jmatthews1995 3,648]

Smell

Now, obviously if you plan to enjoy a wetting or two, the last thing you want is for it to smell strong. You can often cover up the scent of pee (if it's dilute enough) by wearing clothes that enclose your pissy private parts such as leggings and shorts under a long skirt for example. It's also better to stop it from smelling so much in the first place. There are in fact many foods that effect the smell of your pee, and removing a few different ingredients both on the wetting day and the day before will significantly reduce the chance of your pee smelling.

 

Hydration, Hydration, Hydration!

Obviously the best technique is to make sure you are thoroughly hydrated. The diluted pee has much less waste per ml of water which significantly reduces the smell. Make sure to drink plenty. If you get to the point at which your pee is almost clear you are really well hydrated and the smell will be hugely reduced. Not to mention you get to fill your bladder up faster and enjoy more wettings this way!

 

Food Types!

Obviously most people know about asparagus causing strong smelling pee, but the following foods and drinks can as well. Avoiding these for a day or two will likely reduce the scent of your pee dramatically.

• Asparagus
• Cruciferous vegetables (Brussel Sprouts, broccoli, cauliflower)
• Onions
• Curry
• Puffed Wheat
• Fish
• Cumin
• Garlic
• Coffee
• Foods high in vitamin B6
• Vitamin B supplements (If you do take these of your own choice, only stop for a day or two when you know you want to enjoy some wetting fun. If your doctor has told you to take them, don't stop taking them).

Avoiding this selection of foods and drinks will allow you to enjoy your wettings while enjoying a much less noticeable scent! This enables much more risky wettings and reduces the worry of being caught out afterwards!

 

[Paulypeeps 5,287]

Don't forget the wonderous property of fishnet stockings to wick your pee down your legs invisibly, and the utility of open toed platform heels to keep your feet out of any puddle you might make.

You might like to have a section on things to pee on for maximum stealth like dark patterned upholstery and industrial carpet.

...and remembering to tip the pee-laden seat up when leaving the cinema.

[jmatthews1995 3,648]

2 minutes ago, Paulypeeps said:

Don't forget the wonderous property of fishnet stockings to wick your pee down your legs invisibly, and the utility of open toed platform heels to keep your feet out of any puddle you might make.

You might like to have a section on things to pee on for maximum stealth like dark patterned upholstery and industrial carpet.

...and remembering to tip the pee-laden seat up when leaving the cinema.

Those are all good shouts!