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51 minutes ago, Mary Moon said:

I hiss a little if I'm right on the edge

What do you mean by "right on the edge"? Do you mean just about to leak? or do you mean when sitting on the edge of the toilet?

On 12/12/2023 at 1:12 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

Two on a theme from me...

Chloe Grant (Scotland) - 2023 F1 Academy driver & Jodie Sloss (Scotland) former equestrian and 2022 Formula Women rookie winner.

 

 

That left pic--WOW! The right one... not so much. This really shows how the wrong makeup can "ruin" a woman's face.

On 3/30/2024 at 4:18 PM, ppppppp said:

 

 

Love the first one (and NOT just because of the cleavage)!

16 hours ago, Mary Moon said:

I'm quite ashamed if someone sees me naked, even with girls. In fact, the first time i undressed in front of my girlfriend, i was a little embarrassed. At the same time, however, i find it very exciting. For example, last year my sister invited me to spend mid-August with her and her older friends, to have a bonfire on the beach. In the end, thanks to alcohol, at midnight they stripped naked to swim because no one had a bathing suit and i was practically the only one who didn't do it because even though it was dark, i was very ashamed to let those older boys see me naked. But once i got home, i fantasized about what it would be like to be naked in front of all those boys older than me and i got excited. 😅

I love shy girls like that. It feels extra special to share nakedness with them.

9 hours ago, A_AShes said:

I was 12 when changing on the beach... Girls run into changing cubicle and instinctively went loughing and gigling looking and looking on me...

Since then a lough was a difficult thing...

But when growing up once I was in real finnish sauna running nsketo swim in the snow between steam seccions...

Door got locked and the only way not to die at minus 30℃ was to proudly go naked via main hotel entrance...

Time changes attitude.

What looks so embarassing becoming a moment of self confidence joy and fun...

Just be happy that somebody silently enjoying you with passion and attraction honestly and sincerely...It is such a rear luck to be sincerely loved...

It is great when you're able to be comfortably naked in front of someone, whether it is a romantic/sexual partner or a friend.

Being naked in front of random strangers when you didn't intend to be though, especially if they laugh at you, is not fun. Yes, I know there are instances, for instance at nude beaches, in which you can be naked in front of strangers and have a positive experience.

Did you eventually get OK with your cousin seeing you undressed?

Do you like the smell you get when peeing on certain surfaces when out hiking? Most kinds of ground don't smell particularly like anything when peed on, but I've found that where there are ferns and moss around, they release a scent when wet that is really fresh and for lack of a better word "green".

21 hours ago, vanessa9 said:

In Amsterdam, definitely the "krul" urinal, or "pee curl". Look for it on the internet.

I have in fact seen pictures of those before but didn't know that's what they were called.

21 hours ago, vanessa9 said:

In Netherlands in general, I have no idea. I traveled to Amsterdam a few times for short stays, and apart from a couple of one-day trips into the countryside, I don't know a lot of Netherlands, so can't tell you much...

Oh, I guess I had a mistaken impression--I read one of your pee adventures where you mentioned it was at a festival in Amsterdam and just assumed that ALL your peeing exploits took place there. My bad.

So I guess the right question is, which type of urinals are common in the cities you typically pee in?

17 hours ago, Mary Moon said:

in Italy there are those on the wall, unusable for a woman. However it would be too embarrassing everyone would see my vagina and my butt. But it could also be a little exciting 😅

Maybe you need to find a single occupant ("one room", without stalls) unisex restroom and try it in there.

12 hours ago, vanessa9 said:

I have used a few of this kind, low squatting position facing the urinal. My stream goes forward when I squat, so it is clean and easy.

Ah, so you DO use those too, just not the way you were describing by sitting on it.

Maybe you didn't see my question, what is the most common type of urinal to see in Amsterdam (or in the Netherlands more generally)?

26 minutes ago, SexyPeePeeHottie said:

I'll give a little more details about my scenario. I don't have kids. I have never been married. I have never been a daycare person. I am 36. I live 700 miles away from my parents. I'm visiting my family in about a month. My parents are old. I don't know if they know about my pee fetish. I don't know for what percent of people with the pee fetish it is genetic. If anyone in my family has a pee fetish I don't know about it. I want to ask my mom while we are talking on a park bench with no one around how potty training went when I was little. I want to bring that up casually in the middle of kindly asking questions politely trying to respectfully ask her perspective of what it was like raising me when I was little. I don't want to be full-on out to my family though about my pee fetish and addiction to it. I'm just curious from my mom's perspective how potty training went when I was too young to develop memory, and how that might have later shaped my pee fetish. If she says potty training was one of the hardest things to train you, what do you people on here recommend I respond by saying? If she responds by saying I'm sorry I was abusive when trying to potty train you, what do you people on here recommend I say in response? If she responds by saying I know about your pee fetish because you let it slip when you were in a weird state of mind, what do you recomend I say in response? I am curious what people on here recommend I say and how to go about getting more information from my mom on this topic without full-on giving the information that I have a huge naughty peeing fetish addiction that has had an impact on me and gotten stronger as I have gotten older. What ever honest advice and feedback people on here are willing to give I will be very grateful for!!

It's easy to ask this without raising any fetishy suspicion. Just say that maybe someone at work was talking about potty training his or her kids and you wondered how it had been for you.

If she says it was difficult to train you, then you can maybe ask what age you were when you finally got trained, what method finally worked on you, and whether you had accidents after that.

I doubt she would say she was abusive when training you! Despite what some therapy-oriented TV shows might make it look like, most parents aren't abusive to their kids. And if yours had been in this instance, they would have almost certainly been abusive in other ways you would remember. And few abusive parents would actually admit that they are rather than attempting to justify their behavior somehow.

And I also doubt she knows about your fetish unless you told her. And even if they knew, I think most parents wouldn't say anything to not start a very awkward conversation.

2 hours ago, F0rester said:

I like the dentist idea. You can get the perspectives of the patient, the friend, the dentist, and the assistant. I'm guessing at least one of them gets turned on by it and there's part two.

Well, I like to write at least somewhat realistic stories. If a patient pees herself while somewhat out of it in a dentist's chair, with stuff in her mouth, it's not like the dentist's assistant is going to start making out with and fondling her in front of the other patients, or she's going to start rubbing herself on the edge of the chair and get off while the dentist is watching! That would maybe be the plot of a really bad porno, which is definitely not my taste. It's more like the professionals are going to be embarrassed and awkward and try to help her keep her modesty as much as possible, and maybe several people are secretly turned on inside and get off to it later...

If you want a story with some actual steamy fooling around then the party is a much better idea.

15 hours ago, vanessa9 said:

So many questions !

How does it feel ? Urinals come in various shapes, and are installed at various heights. Some of them, like the ones I wrote about in this report, are super comfortable to sit on, at least if you are beyond modesty... Just sit, spread legs, let go. No need to adjust anything. Really, this is the type of urinals I would like to see in ladies toilets, or unisex toilets... But in some cases, it can become more uncomfortable, or even really acrobatic if urinals are too high and/or or too narrow for example.

Finding the right position to actually pee in the urinal, and not in front of me or on my clothes, can also be easy or more challenging depending on the height of the urinal rim, the width of the bowl, and what I am wearing.

Automatic sensors are fine, as long as the nozzles are correctly adjusted and do not spray water on my ass. That happened to me a couple of times, a bit surprising but it's clean water after all.

I avoid touching the back wall, for obvious hygiene reasons. Guys are usually not so dirty as to pee on the rim, and cleaning is easy with toilet paper or a tissue. I don't need it disinfected, you can't really catch anything nasty just because your skin briefly touches a toilet or urinal bowl.

Splash back happens, yes, and it's annoying. I sometimes hover over the urinal to minimize splash back.

And of course, no matter the size and shape of the fixture, it is always easier wearing a dress or a skirt that I can just lift. Add extra comfort and efficiency points for going commando 🙂

It sounds like the type of urinal would make a huge difference how possible (or not) this is.

Most urinals in the US (and it seems in Canada as well) are the "vertical box" type, as this picture from the wonderful urinal.net shows: https://urinal.net/clarkson_community_centre/

To me it seems that a woman could not hope to use these with her back to the wall unless she does a high squat sitting against the back AND has a straight downward stream. The same goes for "down to the floor" urinals like these, which used to be common in old buildings but have mostly been replaced: https://urinal.net/north_peace_arena/

These look like kinds that would be possible to use how you're describing, although some women with really forward streams might still miss:

https://urinal.net/karavan/

https://urinal.net/berlin_tegel_airpt/


The best type for that kind of use would be these pedestal type--in fact the female urinals that used to be manufactured were quite like this: https://urinal.net/inn_at_furnace_creek/

What are the most common urinal types in the Netherlands?

Definitely not, I am like GenericUsername in that I've had little experience with women, and my only relationship was between one and two months, and that was in 2019. Though in reality most of the time I'm more interested in a relationship than sex. Like, that woman I was in the relationship with, we never got as far as actually having sex. Though she actually asked for it a few times after we broke up. It didn't feel right to me though--not because I'm opposed to sex outside a relationship on principle but because I didn't feel it was healthy for us to do that at the time. But nearly all the women who have been interested in me were very unattractive in some way, and it feels like there's some sort of wall keeping me away from people I'd actually be interested in sex OR a relationship with.
 

Inspired by the "drunk peeing" thread in the last few weeks and something that was said in chat over the weekend, I have decided to write a pee story featuring laughing gas/nitrous oxide. It seems like something that hasn't been done before.

It was mentioned in chat in connection with dentistry, so my first idea was two girlfriends going to the dentist together and one has to pee while in the chair. However, of course I'm aware that at least for most people (myself included), having to have dental work done is one of the least sexy things in the known universe. And having an accident with a dentist standing there watching is likely to be awful and awkward even if you have your friend there with you (though I suppose some readers might actually like the extra embarrassment factor).

So as an alternative, I also thought of a party where nitrous balloons are being passed around. I remember some college parties where that happened. And that's the kind of environment where people are letting loose anyway. Otherwise it would be the same thing, two friends sitting together inhaling from the balloons.

So what do people think? Which version would you prefer to read?

@Mary Moon It's great it seems like you're starting to feel comfortable around here to share more. Hope you are enjoying the forum.

On 3/6/2024 at 6:51 PM, on the porch said:

Ruth and me were on the boat rear deck , just laying naked looking at billions of stars .

We looked over at each other and started to laugh real hard , then we both couldn't hold it any longer and peed straight in the air . She is so amazing , the best thing is that we boh licked each other dry , well that was after eating her out for 20 minutes 

That sounds like a lovely "innocent" and almost romantic way to pee! I would love to have a partner to do that sort of stuff with.

19 hours ago, Bacardi said:

All of them lol. 

I guess you're quite varied in your likes too.

I tried to send you a message but it seems you aren't accepting them.

I I can be attracted to quite a range of body shapes and proportions as well. The other day some people were having a conversation about this on another forum and I came across some body fat percentage charts with pictures, like the following:
https://www.getmefitter.co.nz/body-fat-comparison-charts

https://ultimateperformance.com/your-goal/fat-loss/female-fat-loss/womens-body-fat-percentage-in-pictures/

From what I saw, anything from roughly 15% to 35% body fat can look attractive if the shape is otherwise right. For instance in the second chart, the 35% woman actually looks better than the 30% woman because her fat conforms to her shape rather than being in a roll around her waist. I don't go much for "apple" shape no matter the weight. And for larger women the curves need to be more dramatic to be seen, so an athletic woman can have much more subtle curves than a larger woman would need to look beautiful.

And the face has a lot to do with it too--very few BBW type women seem to have delicate looking facial features, which are what I like. It's interesting though that some sources claim anything 30% or higher in fat is obese!

On 4/21/2024 at 10:00 AM, Bacardi said:

As a half black girl with brown hair, brown skin, and a bit of a stomach, I feel seen and appreciated Gman lol. Remind me to send you a full body picture and you can tell me if I tick all your boxes or not 

Remember to always do you and be confident in what you're attracted to no matter what people may say. 

I guess the counterpart question is, what body types do you appreciate in guys, Bacardi? 😉



 

30 minutes ago, harry_jones_1975 said:

Only 5 letter answer related here I can think of is Urine. Only anagram I can see is Angel or Angle or Glean and can't link them to pee.

Yeah if you look it's actually in there. And "waste" is the synonym which is usually provided. When I first saw it I assumed that "Not all of it" was the synonym and was thinking along the line of "parts", with a P and "arts" somehow. But actually "Not all of it" is the clue of how to get the answer from the rest.

11 hours ago, Overlord said:

I think I'm the most responsible drunk on the planet. No matter how drunk I am, I do not change my habits of pissing in public. I always piss at the same "safe" places, no matter if sober or drunk.

Yeah I'm the same--it's not that I pee in "unsafe" places out in the open after drinking, it's more that I'm likely to find an earlier hidden spot than wait for an even MORE hidden one.

After drinking I'm a little more daring, but the effects dampen the sensation of peeing itself (which are already dampened, due to some medical issues of mine) and make it harder to pay enough attention to really enjoy it. Though the combination of a large fluid volume in a short time and being a bit out of it does make it easier to get desperate without realizing it, I suppose that and the reduced inhibitions are the only upsides.

As for peeing high, that's a completely different story, as it actually enhances the sensation and the feeling of being in the moment. I haven't smoked in a VERY long time, but I remember it feeling not like an ordinary, everyday occurrence but as almost like a "ride". I imagine that's more like what peeing felt like back when I was very little and not used to the feeling yet.

On 4/20/2024 at 3:42 PM, vanessa9 said:

I have visited Amsterdam several times. If I recall correctly, the first time was a business trip, and I liked the place so I went back regularly, with friends or alone. There are plenty of those curl-shaped urinals scattered all around the city, but they are obviously meant for men only. Other than that, Amsterdam has very few public toilets, and nothing that you can use at night.

When one is out drinking and partying, specially in popular neighborhoods, they have to pee against a building (frowned upon and possibly fined if spotted by police), in the canal or in one of those urinals. I first used them at night (other women also did), but eventually become bold enough to do the same during daytime. How did I use them ? Simple : squatting on the ground. That's why I wrote women are pretty much exposed if they try to use Amsterdam urinals.

I read that they installed some retractable urinals / toilets for men and women, that pop out of the ground at night. Never tried them.

I find it interesting you don't use them standing or in a very high squat with slightly bent knees rather than low to the ground. I guess maybe you don't have enough practice doing that to keep from wetting your clothes without taking them off, which would kind of defeat the purpose anyway?

Hmm... yeah not a girl but I would have imagined that the blood would get on the panties in a quite different spot in the two cases. Also you could wipe your anal and vulva areas separately and see in which case the toilet paper is stained red--but clearly that would only work if blood is actually coming out at the time. When I've had hemorrhoids, they only bleed right after a bowel movement, never just at random times, whereas I was under the impression that period blood leaks in little bits throughout the day (again, not a woman so can't say from my own experience). I can't see why peeing would have anything to do with it, aside from maybe the fact that relaxing the pelvic floor opens up the vagina a bit and lets it come out more easily. 

The "pee part" is just one sentence. The cops say no, so no peeing...

I doubt it's related to normal aging as that shouldn't have any effect that young. I am more than a decade older and have some neuropathy down there that affect sensation but still when I do get hard, I get as hard as I ever have. 

I imagine that "long haul" COVID could cause something like this--that virus has somewhat of a reputation for causing dysautonomia, and erection is a parasympathetic reaction, which requires the nerves of the autonomic system to work properly. If that's what it is, I have no idea how you would treat it. There are drugs to help with changes in heart rate/blood pressure due to dysautonomia, as well as others to treat neuropathic pain (with moderate levels of success--and none treats loss of sensation), but aside from drugs like Viagra and Cialis, which act on the smooth muscle in the penis itself, I'm unaware of anything that could fix this.

Possibly you could try general nerve health supplements like B12, thiamine, etc.? Arginine has a weak Viagra-like effect--but again this wouldn't fix the nerve function if that's the problem. Time might also help, I don't recall reading how long it takes for, e.g., loss of taste and smell to normalize in long-COVID cases, but without any data I'd assume that your issues would likely worsen/improve on a similar timetable to that.