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    Where did you find us?

    in Introductions

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    On 11/5/2019 at 4:50 PM, patch said:

    I searched for a pee forum. I came across peesearch at first, but that forum seemed dead and it was atrocious to use on a phone, so I looked further and here I am 🙂

    Nice to see a thriving forum. Social Media and Reddit are good for done things but I miss good forums.

    I'm glad you found us! 😄 

    Not a dating site.

    in PeeFans News, Ideas & Help

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    On 10/30/2019 at 6:22 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

    Firstly are new members going straight to chatbox and asking for photos to be DM'd or participation in other one-to-one comms with members, and the other night one asking repeatedly in German.  Surely our forum is built on open sharing and the exclusive DM facility being for the benefit of online friends?

    Yes, we are an English language only forum and that member was banned after ignoring my message informing him of that. 

    As for people asking for messages, I have stressed several times in several places we are not a dating site, but ultimately most new members don't read all the rules and guidelines and miss all of this information. So please feel free to politely inform members of their mistake, or if it happens again then you can report them.

    We rely on all members letting the moderators know of any issues, as if we know about them we'll deal with them. 🙂 It seems a lot of members don't like reporting things, but if people did it would make such a big difference to pretty much every single issue people have brought forward.

     

    On 10/30/2019 at 6:22 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

    The other thing is, a few times when a new name appears I've looked at their profiles as a means of looking whether they have posted an intro - often there seem to be (males) starting their path here by following lady members - often names who haven't been active for a year or so.

     

    The follow feature just means they'll more easily be able to see posts from that user - I realise the term sounds a little intense but it doesn't make any difference to the user being 'followed'. It's like with Twitter.

    On 10/30/2019 at 6:22 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

     I do wonder if DMs and Chat should be 'locked' until a certain modest points score has been achieved - if that is technically possible?

    That's a good idea. I've set it so you need 5 posts to be able to PM someone, as from those 5 posts we'll get a better idea if they are actually here for the right reasons. Anyone spamming those 5 posts or evidently trying to misuse this site as a dating site will have their account deleted. 🙂 

    I can't stress enough though - anyone getting unwanted PM's, please just use the report button and it will be dealt with every single time. 

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    Message From Spywareonya

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    I know many of you have grown concerned about spywareonya and so I emailed her to check she was ok. Here is the reply:

    I am enormously sorry for this

    And indeed, things happened

    My love for the forum hasn’t weavered in the slightest

    But I knew I wasn’t able to offer a pleasurable me

    The Mob performed infiltrations in my society and Police checked our PCs so I had to stop logging in from work

    At home, my abusive mom went back and started problems which involved police again (she is criminally insane)

    And I felt (more than anything due to what my mother’s return unleashed within me) that it was time for me to go Beyond the girl who saw “happiness as a form of positive retaliation against sadness”. It is, but it’s more than this. It is the driving force of life itself.

    Iwent within myself and stopped working for a while to isolate and really be reborn. Had nervous and mental breakdown. Needed to unelash and remove. Purge.

    Now I’m done.

    I am still numb, happy but terrified, moving my first steps in this new me

    I still ADORE you all but I reached my limit as a force for Good, I needed a new me. Which now I achieved. I am desperately sorry for making you all be scared, I was tempted every day to log in and everyday broke out in tears and avoided. Now I am ready to start again.

    I love you all, this never flickered. You guys are my family, and I’ll be back soon

    No need to shield the forum from any of these truths. You can even copypaste this very mail.

    The Halloween video will come as planned. I would have shot it anyway even if I was still sad, just gathering all my strenght. It would have not be exceedingly cheerful, but I am not the kind of person to cross borders when it comes to business (altough, if I had killed myself two weeks ago, I could have had problems shooting the video, I am here thanks to Alex, and to my actual, neverending belief in Light, but it was a bad moment)

    The Halloween video will come after 3rd Nov weekend, when I will be back myself. I have not many pissing stories, as eveything in my life turned sour and I hadn’t had anything good to tell… but I love you all too much

    You guys are… the most kind, intelligente, gentle and loving humans I ever met. I love YOU all.

    Just to giggle about this new me, I celebrated my (for now cautious, but worthy of celebration) rebirth by pissing down an underpass, from above, squatting on the ledge and peeing through the metal bars which prevented onlookers from accidentally falling down unto the downward underpass itself. I had been distractedly helding it in all the afternoon, and released it just because I really couldn’t wait for a secluded corner. It was a waterfall in the silence of the evening, soooo Yellow and foamy I could actually see its dark colour while it arked out of my pussy, and the foam forming ten feet below on the path, and the steam rising  from the ground… I felt so horny…

    I will focus on my relationship (Alex endured real shit to be by my side) and my personal Halloween celebration this week, to be back the next one, this time for real

    My mom is banished again

    Fuckers had been arrested and the boss are planning a promotion for me due to my hard work

    And I think I finally found myself, conquest is never complete but now I feel my inner Light, it is a kind, warm hug, not simply an heroic moral compass among the emotional world of a never-healed abused child.

    With Love,

    Nancy 

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    A "dislike" icon?

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    This is a flat out no I'm afraid.

    Why would we want to foster a community of negativity like that? We want to encourage people to post and share more, not shame/criticise them because we personally disagree with something or it isn't content that matches our own tastes.

    Now, if it's something that breaks the site rules  then that's different, but Rewdna has already given the correct answer on what to do. It takes literally 5 seconds to click the 'report post' button in the corner of every post - how is that too much work? It is one extra mouse click than pressing a dislike button.

    And finally, the idea that a dislike button would help moderators take notice again makes no sense. It's unlikely we'd notice a post you'd pressed dislike on, but we 100% will all see if you press the report button. There is no negative consequence of reporting something; the only two outcomes are we'll either agree and deal with it, or disagree and things will stay as they are. 

    So if there is a post you dislike there are really two options:
    1) If you dislike it because it's just not your cup of tea - you can just ignore it. Not every post here is going to appeal to every single person, and not every post needs a reaction,
    2) If you dislike it because you feel it might be going against the site rules/guidelines, please just report it and I assure you it will be dealt with. 

    I realise this isn't the answer you want, but there is already a system in place to deal with problematic posts, and it's honestly quick and easy to use. 

     

     

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    Reputation and popularity icons

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    53 minutes ago, Sophie said:

    On a slight tangent, it would be nice if the points system was tweaked. At the moment it's almost impossible to win the day if you are not a big picture poster so it's a feature that doesn't include most members. Heck Spywareonya is still getting the most reputation of the day and she hasn't logged in for weeks. 

    I'm not sure how, but I'd like it changed. It seems unbalanced. 

    I fully agree, but am not sure how it can be tweaked fairly.

    Unfortunately some users just react to every single post, so it simply becomes that more posts = more points. I mean there should be an element of correlation, but the quality should matter more than the quantity. For example, just posting 10 pictures in 10 separate posts will almost always earn more than a story that took hours to write. 

    The thing is though reactions are meant to just be a fun way to show appreciation to someone, and I do wonder whether anything except the current system would just overcomplicate things a little.

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    Don't think I've done one of these.

    in Introductions

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    Hey! Great you decided to introduce yourself here - I think the site's much more enjoyable when you join in with chatting.

    If you ever feel weird about it, just remember there's around 24,000 members who are the same as you on this website alone, so it suddenly doesn't seem quite such an unusual thing to like. You are amongst friends here. 

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    i been thinking about making a pee friends Discord server

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    My general thinking is that the less chats the better. 

    If we have a peefans chatroom, a peefans discord chat, an off-site peefans chat etc it just means less and less people in each one.

    Was there much activity on the one you were trialling @lovestoseepee ? The plan was always to try and integrate that as the main chat of peefans if it proved more popular and more successful.

    Having said all this, obviously nothing to stop you Will from trying to make another, but generally I would think having one big chat is better than several small ones with people split between them. 

    I'll be honest I don't use discord so would have to look into the advantages over our current live chat. 

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    Not a dating site.

    in PeeFans News, Ideas & Help

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    This is stated clearly in the welcome to peefans message and site rules, not sure what more can be done other than us reminding new members. Once told once most people are normally ok. 

     

    7 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

    I’ve just had an unsolicited DM from a newbie new member, with photo...

    Thanks but no thanks sir - not my thing. 

    Sorry to hear that. Please could you report the pm (should be a report button in the corner) - it's the only way we can stop spammers or newbies sending these types of pms (as they likely do it to lots of members) as obviously the mods and me can't see the message otherwise. 

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