I am a slut, I am not a whore

[spywareonya 37,961]

Recently found fascinating old topic built by @wetmanjf (in whose thread indeed I posted a link to here since it's fitting) moved me to reflect about this, and resurrect a portion of a longer post from another thread

 

What I am? A slut.

I am a woman who wants to play with Others unwithstand any morals. I am a woman who wants to make friendship, and who consider acceptable to enrich friendship with a certain degree of sluttiness. When I'm out with Alex's friends I pee in front of them all like nothing, sometimes I even go pee with them alone if Alex is busy (usually he's giving some occult or couple-related advices to somebody), and they see my pussy, no problem about it. I want to be playful, and to arouse you, and to free myself in every sense. I want to find people who understand me and the reasons why I am the way I am. My thread in the pee talk section "The reasons I love Pissplay" is a good starting point; the other one "Lessons in magick" in the general chat section is another one. But this also is important. Being a Witch is heavy burden: you are trained to the utmost sensitivity, and to the utmost secrecy. Alex is great and I owe him my life, but sometimes I need somebody to share my life with, I mean more than a single person in the universe. He endorse this, and that is the reason why he Always encouraged me to stay on this forum even without him (in the beginning, we registered as actively a couple) and to explore my lesbian half even without threesomes. I do that also with friends but really, the life of a Witch requires secrecy. All the world knows I'm a slut: very few know why.

 

What I am not? A whore.

Not the slightest portion of me or of what I share is available for people who think thay can simply use me without paying the price that must be paid in order to reach me. One can download my pics, jerk off to them, or elsewhere criticizing me for being less beautiful than some world-class pornstar, but it all will slide away like water down my skin. The price for real excitement is to know why somebody is the way she is: to grasp her soul. My price is getting in touch with me. Understand me. Befriend me. Not because, this is very importan, that is what I need or want in Exchange, nothing so blatant: but because I find rude people who do elsewhere. I want nothing in exchage for what I share, because I feel among friends, having friends like you is my fee. But just as much as I would stop a pussy-revealing  lap dance on a bench a friday drunk night if a policeman would pass by, my slutty attitude will be available only as long as I will feel gentleness as the unconscious backspine of anybody who really wants to get in touch with me. Gentleness is not humbleness or servitude: is kindness of mind and of attitude, and respect for me walking an occult Path that many times almost took my life. No Wicca here

 

I want to state that this is by no mean an accusation: more than anything else, is some kind of spiritual heir to my thread "the reasons I love pissplay", some kind of confession, some kind of revelation of my most vulnerable side

[wetmanjf 2,787]

Maybe I had something to do with this but I don't ever remember calling anyone a Slut or a Whore....That's not my style. 

[spywareonya 37,961]

34 minutes ago, wetmanjf said:

Maybe I had something to do with this but I don't ever remember calling anyone a Slut or a Whore....That's not my style. 

???

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I said the opposite!!! You started a marvellous thread about sensitivity, it's bumped in the sex-talk section, and it moved me to update/bump this stuff

[wetmanjf 2,787]

2 minutes ago, spywareonya said:

???

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I said the opposite!!! You started a marvellous thread about sensitivity, it's bumped in the sex-talk section, and it moved me to update/bump this stuff

OK.  I know I never call people names like that 🙂

[spywareonya 37,961]

Just now, wetmanjf said:

OK.  I know I never call people names like that 🙂

I am sure about that!!! Did you found the thead I was talking about?

 

[puddyls 26,253]

love it! a lot of guys seem to think these words are interchangable, but, as a woman, i actually feel like they have differing conotations- and you basically nailed them. 

[spywareonya 37,961]

10 minutes ago, puddyls said:

love it! a lot of guys seem to think these words are interchangable, but, as a woman, i actually feel like they have differing conotations- and you basically nailed them. 

Thank you Puddyls

I Always felt in you a soul-refreshing sensation about a deep, but not shadowy nor feministically-vengeful, respect for what it mean to be a woman

I am happy you replied here, I feel like I can Always share something intimately feminine with you

Thanks again

[Scot_Lover 1,876]

All three of loved this, even though you didn't need to explain who you are, we felt that we 'knew' who you are. Make sense?

Mary can wear the most amazing outfits, she does fishnet stockings, garter belts and all, so well, that it never fails to get either of us going. Her perfectly formed legs, her gorgeously pert little bum, with or without knickers just begs you to follow it around.

Even though she dresses like this, (not often, it's saved for special times) we don't think of her as anything but sexy.

[spywareonya 37,961]

30 minutes ago, Scot_Lover said:

All three of loved this, even though you didn't need to explain who you are, we felt that we 'knew' who you are. Make sense?

Mary can wear the most amazing outfits, she does fishnet stockings, garter belts and all, so well, that it never fails to get either of us going. Her perfectly formed legs, her gorgeously pert little bum, with or without knickers just begs you to follow it around.

Even though she dresses like this, (not often, it's saved for special times) we don't think of her as anything but sexy.

As Puddyls marvellously grasped, the eroticity implicit in a woman who loves herself and is confident with her body, is deeply slutty, but never degrading

 

We could sum this up with this little provocative thought:

 

"I am a plaything, but I'm not an object"

[spywareonya 37,961]

@owlman76

hahahahahahahaha

the ex-girl you described in the last lines is what I will call a "whore", since for me "slut" is a positive word

Your wife on the other hand,I consider her among the "sluttiest" woman I ever read about, incredibly hungry for life

These are not plain kind words: I really have a thing for her

[likesToLick 10,216]

Just for the record,  there is nothing wrong with being a whore either.  The sex workers I have met have been kind and decent people.

[spywareonya 37,961]

6 hours ago, likesToLick said:

Just for the record,  there is nothing wrong with being a whore either.  The sex workers I have met have been kind and decent people.

I used that word to inferr a woman who gave herself away

For sex workers I use the scientifical word prostitutes, which is technical and not offensive