Different types of desperation

[Fuzywuzy 73]

Men and women..

is there a difference between being desperate to piss in the morning when you wake up as opposed to a beer desperation piss.

In the morning I’m desperately needing a piss it comes out slower and more controlled. I always have some pee spurts and dribbles at the end.But the piss can go on for a minute. When I’m drinking beer or alcohol, my cock cannot piss it out fast enough. It’s a big thick stream that sprays so hard. Roughly lasts 35 seconds. Just curious if anyone else has different types of desperation 

[nutinfancy 655]

I'm about the same when desperate in the morning,  if I'm drinking and desperate its more often and a fuller stream and the desperation is more intense!

[Coral 634]

8 hours ago, Fuzywuzy said:

is there a difference between being desperate to piss in the morning when you wake up as opposed to a beer desperation piss.

For me it's kinda the same atleast desperation wise. I wake up very very desperate and if my room mate gets to the bathroom first then I literally have to resort to pee dancing infront of the door until she's out or choose to pee somewhere else lol. The same is for beer. 

Both my morning pee and beer pee streams are same ish, expect for the beer, I tend to pee alot more and more forcefully and noisily 

[lineyoga 91]

For me the desperation when I wake up in the morning and from drinking a bunch of soda is such a loud pain compared to any other desperations. I have to have my legs pressed when walking to the toilet to avoid disaster. My beer desperation is not much different from being desperate after drinking other stuff. When desperate I bounce up and down, wiggle my body, and cross my legs switching over and over.

Edited November 9 by lineyoga

[Darlene 573]

On 11/7/2024 at 4:37 PM, Fuzywuzy said:

Men and women..

is there a difference between being desperate to piss in the morning when you wake up as opposed to a beer desperation piss.

In the morning I’m desperately needing a piss it comes out slower and more controlled. I always have some pee spurts and dribbles at the end.But the piss can go on for a minute. When I’m drinking beer or alcohol, my cock cannot piss it out fast enough. It’s a big thick stream that sprays so hard. Roughly lasts 35 seconds. Just curious if anyone else has different types of desperation 

I believe it is. Although it wasn’t my first pee of the day, it sure was a lot that came out, I felt like I’ve been holding back everything since the last UTI I had. So, of course I really had piss then.

Edited November 12 by Darlene
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[arigalo 588]

I do think I feel desperation differently based on what kind of desperation it is. 

To use your example, I feel like my morning pees aren’t usually as desperate. I definitely wake up having to pee, but it’s usually not an “oh my god if I don’t pee right now I’ll wet myself” type of desperation. In fact I’m never worried about an accident in the morning even when I know I’m pretty full. 

When I’m drinking, I still have pretty decent control over my desperation, but sometimes it’s like a switch flips and all of a sudden I’m squirming and trying to find either a toilet or a quiet place to relieve myself. There have been many walks home after drinking where I think I can make it, and then within a moment I’m racing towards the most hidden spot I can find! 

[weequeen 2,001]

they’re different for me. when i wake up my morning pees aren’t urgent. i wake up needing to pee but i could hold it for serval more hours until i am at the bursting needing to go NOW stage. when i have my morning pees it is a normal stream but longer (as long as i am not skipping going in the morning and intending to hold longer)

whereas when i’m drinking it comes on much faster and feels more likely that i could piss myself if i don’t find release soon. 

[Fuzywuzy 73]

On 11/8/2024 at 2:43 AM, Coral said:

For me it's kinda the same atleast desperation wise. I wake up very very desperate and if my room mate gets to the bathroom first then I literally have to resort to pee dancing infront of the door until she's out or choose to pee somewhere else lol. The same is for beer. 

Both my morning pee and beer pee streams are same ish, expect for the beer, I tend to pee alot more and more forcefully and noisily 

Are you able to listen to her piss at the door? Is she desperate as well? 

[amorprohibido 101]

when I wake up needing to pee it’s like I can feel it trying to push it’s way through my peehole, but when I’ve been drinking a lot and I get desperate to pee it’s this delicious ache that stays right above my pussy, it feels good to press on my bladder then

[Horse_water 726]

In the morning or any time I have been holding it back for a long time I get a long consistent stream that is not that powerful. After drinking some water or having a couple beers I can't let out a big fast loud stream. Personally I like the bigger streams as they feel more powerful and they take less time. My favorite times I have been see pissing in public I was letting out the hard fast streams that make a lot of noise.

[Coral 634]

On 11/22/2024 at 11:43 AM, Fuzywuzy said:

Are you able to listen to her piss at the door? Is she desperate as well? 

Nah I can't listen to her pee, out bathroom is quite big actually.

And I don't she is because she wakes up several times at night to pee, unlike me

[Carb0nBased 657]

I never wake up desperate, my bladder wakes me up long before I really HAVE to go, because I'm a relatively light sleeper.

If you compare desperation from being away from a bathroom for a long time (say, at a busy event with long bathroom lines, or in a long class/meeting) with beer desperation, they ARE different. When I'm just away from a bathroom for a long time, it's (oddly enough) as much that I get a headache as that I actually feel the bladder stretched. But even when I'm very uncomfortable, holding it in isn't hard. When I finally do go, the pee is often not particularly "impressive", in that the stream isn't stronger than a regular pee, even if it lasts longer.

When I've had a bunch to drink though, the feeling of needing to go is dulled until I'm really bursting, and also the coordination of the muscles to hold it in is weakened, so it's much easier to get to a point where it's hard to hold in, and once I let go, the flow at least feels more powerful, like it's really rushing to get out.

The one time I actually wet myself as an adult was a result of coffee drinking, back when I wasn't used to drinking coffee. That was almost like a beer pee in that I went from not really needing to go to my bladder suddenly spasming, yet the sensation was more conscious and focused, not being dulled by alcohol.

[Fuzywuzy 73]

On 11/8/2024 at 2:43 AM, Coral said:

For me it's kinda the same atleast desperation wise. I wake up very very desperate and if my room mate gets to the bathroom first then I literally have to resort to pee dancing infront of the door until she's out or choose to pee somewhere else lol. The same is for beer. 

Both my morning pee and beer pee streams are same ish, expect for the beer, I tend to pee alot more and more forcefully and noisily 

Does your roommate ever hear or see  you when you’re desperate? If so does she ever comment how loud of how much you pee? 

[Coral 634]

On 11/26/2024 at 12:29 PM, Fuzywuzy said:

Does your roommate ever hear or see  you when you’re desperate? If so does she ever comment how loud of how much you pee? 

Yeah she can hear me pee since she shares her bedroom wall with the bathroom. 

She does comment sometimes saying how when I pee in the morning before her and I'm desperate af, my stream sounds like a thousand bees buzzing lmaoo

[Fuzywuzy 73]

11 hours ago, Coral said:

Yeah she can hear me pee since she shares her bedroom wall with the bathroom. 

She does comment sometimes saying how when I pee in the morning before her and I'm desperate af, my stream sounds like a thousand bees buzzing lmaoo

Do you ever pee with the door open or is she ever in there with you as you go?

[secretthing 51]

I think for me, needing to pee in the morning after waking up is so much more desperate and urgent than needing to pee after drinking a lot. If I drink a lot of fluids during the day, the urge to pee feels almost deeper? Like I always feel like I could drink more and be okay, even if I feel a pressure on my bladder.

In the morning though, it's urgent. Those are the times I truly feel like I might wet myself, if I don't go immediately. I always keep something to drink with my when I lay down to go to bed, because I know how dehydrated I feel in the morning, so I'm often drinking stuff before I go to bed. That probably adds to it a lot.

[murshymaze 237]

I'm like you. The morning is usually pretty normal, but after even just a bit of alcohol, it's easily the most desperate I get. I went to visit some friends a year ago at a restaurant, and we had some alcoholic drinks. I didn't even drink that much, but it was enough to really need to go after a while. My one friend got up to go pee, so did I. She went into the women's, and I into the men's. When I got up to the urinal and unzipped and pulled my dick out, I immediately started pissing a super fast, strong stream that was thick and intense, much more than a normal piss. I was pissing for quite a while, and at the end I finished with quite a few more spurts than I normally would, and I had to shake my dick off quite a bit to dry it off as it was dripping a lot. Meanwhile my friend was probably pissing like a race horse herself in the other bathroom. This usually happens when I have some alcohol, when I'm very well hydrated, or on the rare occasion I have an energy drink.

[Carb0nBased 657]

23 hours ago, murshymaze said:

I'm like you. The morning is usually pretty normal, but after even just a bit of alcohol, it's easily the most desperate I get. I went to visit some friends a year ago at a restaurant, and we had some alcoholic drinks. I didn't even drink that much, but it was enough to really need to go after a while. My one friend got up to go pee, so did I. She went into the women's, and I into the men's. When I got up to the urinal and unzipped and pulled my dick out, I immediately started pissing a super fast, strong stream that was thick and intense, much more than a normal piss. I was pissing for quite a while, and at the end I finished with quite a few more spurts than I normally would, and I had to shake my dick off quite a bit to dry it off as it was dripping a lot. Meanwhile my friend was probably pissing like a race horse herself in the other bathroom. This usually happens when I have some alcohol, when I'm very well hydrated, or on the rare occasion I have an energy drink.

Have you ever managed to start a conversation about pee with her around one of these instances of drinking together and both needing to go?

[murshymaze 237]

12 hours ago, Carb0nBased said:

Have you ever managed to start a conversation about pee with her around one of these instances of drinking together and both needing to go?

With her in particular, no, but with other women yes, absolutely. I love talking about pee with women who are open about it. I've had a few numerous friends who've told me about their peeing habits. One girl would tell me how much water she'd drink all day and then in her words "go take a 2 minute pee" and she'd also say things to me like "I have to piss so bad." So hot lol.

I had another who was very, very open. She'd go as far as to send me pictures of her sitting on the toilet, and she'd always casually blurt out things like "I'm gonna go take a piss" "I just took the longest piss ever" and so on. She actually held my dick one time while I was pissing, it was a ton of fun.

Then my ex would also tell me about her pee. She told me about some of her longest pee's she's ever taken, such as one after a long movie where she "pissed for so long" and then other things like how in the morning she'd be "pissing forever."

Really hot. I absolutely love talking about it with women, even if I can just get a bit out of them regarding the topic.