The real test of character

[BadBoy21 656]

Yesterday evening was pretty intense for me.  You all know that I have slowly but surely have been coming out of my shell with pissing in public.  It's been a wonderful journey and I look forward to its further progression.  Friday night at my apartment I had a real test of character, at least it was for me, maybe not for some of you really strong, confident pissers.  So I came back from the bar with my friends, arrived home at around 1:30 AM.  Of course I had to piss, and I thought its late and the place is pretty empty so lets make some fun out of it.  I decided to piss in the stairwell that leads to the levels below the main floor.  I have pissed here many times before, normally I go down the stairs and piss against a wall.  This time, however, I stood at the top of the stairs and took a piss.  So I am pissing, we are 30 seconds into it and as I am finishing up one of my neighbors enters the building.  This woman she knows me well.  She stands there stunned and walks right up to me as I am putting my dick away, I am trying to maintain composure as best as I can.  She says to me how she has seen me doing these sorts of things alot recently.  She asks me why am I doing these things.  I have never been so confronted thus far for pissing in public.  My first instinct was to simply just shrivel up and hope to disappear.  I honestly didn't know what to say.  No one has ever given me such a hard time about pissing.  I zipped and buttoned up, looked at her and just shrugged my shoulder.  I told her, I was just drunk, I had to piss real bad and I didn't think anyone would see me.  She shook her head and simply said that she was just surprised to see this behavior come from me, and then she left.  

I was half mortified but also sort of emboldened.   Lots of my neighbors have witnessed me doing my thing every so often, but this was the first real confrontation that sent me sort of reeling.  But I think I handled myself pretty well.  The next morning, I happened to run into her walking her dog.  We chatted for a bit, and I was a bit confused as to how she was referring to our encounter yesterday night as me being so drunk that I didn't realize I was pissing in the stairwell, as if I had blacked out and wasn't aware.  I thought about how to respond, but I decided to admit to her that I in fact remembered doing that, and that I just didn't care because I thought it was empty and quiet and I really had to go, AND that YES I was drunk.  She seemed surprised a bit again.  But I did say sorry about it and next time I will try to stick to outside the building.  That made her laugh a little, she said what about your place, is that not an option?  Which made me laugh.  But that was basically it, we left it at that.  She said bye, and she joked and said to me just dont piss on her door.  I agreed.  

Now this may seem as very innocuous a story for some of you, but this was huge for me.  This woman tempered her disdain/disgust for what she saw with humor towards the situation and I appreciated that.  The fact I didn't back away, made me so proud of myself, and I would be lying if I didn't tell you that I didn't jack off that night and the morning after our encounter 😜  I am developing a reputation as being the pisser of my building.  Makes me a little worried because I wonder when someone might report me, but so far, nobody has done anything.  I will add that I am not the only pisser around here.  

[Kevin 630]

4 hours ago, BadBoy21 said:

Yesterday evening was pretty intense for me.  You all know that I have slowly but surely have been coming out of my shell with pissing in public.  It's been a wonderful journey and I look forward to its further progression.  Friday night at my apartment I had a real test of character, at least it was for me, maybe not for some of you really strong, confident pissers.  So I came back from the bar with my friends, arrived home at around 1:30 AM.  Of course I had to piss, and I thought its late and the place is pretty empty so lets make some fun out of it.  I decided to piss in the stairwell that leads to the levels below the main floor.  I have pissed here many times before, normally I go down the stairs and piss against a wall.  This time, however, I stood at the top of the stairs and took a piss.  So I am pissing, we are 30 seconds into it and as I am finishing up one of my neighbors enters the building.  This woman she knows me well.  She stands there stunned and walks right up to me as I am putting my dick away, I am trying to maintain composure as best as I can.  She says to me how she has seen me doing these sorts of things alot recently.  She asks me why am I doing these things.  I have never been so confronted thus far for pissing in public.  My first instinct was to simply just shrivel up and hope to disappear.  I honestly didn't know what to say.  No one has ever given me such a hard time about pissing.  I zipped and buttoned up, looked at her and just shrugged my shoulder.  I told her, I was just drunk, I had to piss real bad and I didn't think anyone would see me.  She shook her head and simply said that she was just surprised to see this behavior come from me, and then she left.  

I was half mortified but also sort of emboldened.   Lots of my neighbors have witnessed me doing my thing every so often, but this was the first real confrontation that sent me sort of reeling.  But I think I handled myself pretty well.  The next morning, I happened to run into her walking her dog.  We chatted for a bit, and I was a bit confused as to how she was referring to our encounter yesterday night as me being so drunk that I didn't realize I was pissing in the stairwell, as if I had blacked out and wasn't aware.  I thought about how to respond, but I decided to admit to her that I in fact remembered doing that, and that I just didn't care because I thought it was empty and quiet and I really had to go, AND that YES I was drunk.  She seemed surprised a bit again.  But I did say sorry about it and next time I will try to stick to outside the building.  That made her laugh a little, she said what about your place, is that not an option?  Which made me laugh.  But that was basically it, we left it at that.  She said bye, and she joked and said to me just dont piss on her door.  I agreed.  

Now this may seem as very innocuous a story for some of you, but this was huge for me.  This woman tempered her disdain/disgust for what she saw with humor towards the situation and I appreciated that.  The fact I didn't back away, made me so proud of myself, and I would be lying if I didn't tell you that I didn't jack off that night and the morning after our encounter 😜  I am developing a reputation as being the pisser of my building.  Makes me a little worried because I wonder when someone might report me, but so far, nobody has done anything.  I will add that I am not the only pisser around here.  

Hey bro you handled it like a boss I'm proud of ya !!

 

And  you're not the only pisser in the building? Have you seen anyone else ?

[Bacardi 10,132]

Better you than me cause if it were me I would have cried lol. You go, brave man. I admire you a lot. 

[randomiser 153]

I've always wondered how I'd respond in that situation ... I think you handled it well.

I also think things could have gone quite differently if she'd immediately freaked out and started shouting or screaming.  Well played all around is how I see it.  And maybe you have a new friend ... hmmm

[BadBoy21 656]

2 hours ago, Kevin said:

Hey bro you handled it like a boss I'm proud of ya !!

 

And  you're not the only pisser in the building? Have you seen anyone else ?

At least three other guys who live there.  I don't know if they are new neighbors or maybe I Just never noticed them before.  I usually see them pissing against the side of the building at nighttime when they are smoking.  Once I did see one piss in the stairwell.

[Kevin 630]

5 hours ago, BadBoy21 said:

At least three other guys who live there.  I don't know if they are new neighbors or maybe I Just never noticed them before.  I usually see them pissing against the side of the building at nighttime when they are smoking.  Once I did see one piss in the stairwell.

Cool ! Did you walk pass him when he was pissing ?

[MidoriLemonade85 2,366]

17 hours ago, BadBoy21 said:

Yesterday evening was pretty intense for me.  You all know that I have slowly but surely have been coming out of my shell with pissing in public.  It's been a wonderful journey and I look forward to its further progression.  Friday night at my apartment I had a real test of character, at least it was for me, maybe not for some of you really strong, confident pissers.  So I came back from the bar with my friends, arrived home at around 1:30 AM.  Of course I had to piss, and I thought its late and the place is pretty empty so lets make some fun out of it.  I decided to piss in the stairwell that leads to the levels below the main floor.  I have pissed here many times before, normally I go down the stairs and piss against a wall.  This time, however, I stood at the top of the stairs and took a piss.  So I am pissing, we are 30 seconds into it and as I am finishing up one of my neighbors enters the building.  This woman she knows me well.  She stands there stunned and walks right up to me as I am putting my dick away, I am trying to maintain composure as best as I can.  She says to me how she has seen me doing these sorts of things alot recently.  She asks me why am I doing these things.  I have never been so confronted thus far for pissing in public.  My first instinct was to simply just shrivel up and hope to disappear.  I honestly didn't know what to say.  No one has ever given me such a hard time about pissing.  I zipped and buttoned up, looked at her and just shrugged my shoulder.  I told her, I was just drunk, I had to piss real bad and I didn't think anyone would see me.  She shook her head and simply said that she was just surprised to see this behavior come from me, and then she left.  

I was half mortified but also sort of emboldened.   Lots of my neighbors have witnessed me doing my thing every so often, but this was the first real confrontation that sent me sort of reeling.  But I think I handled myself pretty well.  The next morning, I happened to run into her walking her dog.  We chatted for a bit, and I was a bit confused as to how she was referring to our encounter yesterday night as me being so drunk that I didn't realize I was pissing in the stairwell, as if I had blacked out and wasn't aware.  I thought about how to respond, but I decided to admit to her that I in fact remembered doing that, and that I just didn't care because I thought it was empty and quiet and I really had to go, AND that YES I was drunk.  She seemed surprised a bit again.  But I did say sorry about it and next time I will try to stick to outside the building.  That made her laugh a little, she said what about your place, is that not an option?  Which made me laugh.  But that was basically it, we left it at that.  She said bye, and she joked and said to me just dont piss on her door.  I agreed.  

Now this may seem as very innocuous a story for some of you, but this was huge for me.  This woman tempered her disdain/disgust for what she saw with humor towards the situation and I appreciated that.  The fact I didn't back away, made me so proud of myself, and I would be lying if I didn't tell you that I didn't jack off that night and the morning after our encounter 😜  I am developing a reputation as being the pisser of my building.  Makes me a little worried because I wonder when someone might report me, but so far, nobody has done anything.  I will add that I am not the only pisser around here.  

So are you really a bad boy? You seem far too polite. 😆 Yeah you handled it well in the moment. But you’re not gonna stop, are you? 💚

[Kevin 630]

17 hours ago, BadBoy21 said:

Yesterday evening was pretty intense for me.  You all know that I have slowly but surely have been coming out of my shell with pissing in public.  It's been a wonderful journey and I look forward to its further progression.  Friday night at my apartment I had a real test of character, at least it was for me, maybe not for some of you really strong, confident pissers.  So I came back from the bar with my friends, arrived home at around 1:30 AM.  Of course I had to piss, and I thought its late and the place is pretty empty so lets make some fun out of it.  I decided to piss in the stairwell that leads to the levels below the main floor.  I have pissed here many times before, normally I go down the stairs and piss against a wall.  This time, however, I stood at the top of the stairs and took a piss.  So I am pissing, we are 30 seconds into it and as I am finishing up one of my neighbors enters the building.  This woman she knows me well.  She stands there stunned and walks right up to me as I am putting my dick away, I am trying to maintain composure as best as I can.  She says to me how she has seen me doing these sorts of things alot recently.  She asks me why am I doing these things.  I have never been so confronted thus far for pissing in public.  My first instinct was to simply just shrivel up and hope to disappear.  I honestly didn't know what to say.  No one has ever given me such a hard time about pissing.  I zipped and buttoned up, looked at her and just shrugged my shoulder.  I told her, I was just drunk, I had to piss real bad and I didn't think anyone would see me.  She shook her head and simply said that she was just surprised to see this behavior come from me, and then she left.  

I was half mortified but also sort of emboldened.   Lots of my neighbors have witnessed me doing my thing every so often, but this was the first real confrontation that sent me sort of reeling.  But I think I handled myself pretty well.  The next morning, I happened to run into her walking her dog.  We chatted for a bit, and I was a bit confused as to how she was referring to our encounter yesterday night as me being so drunk that I didn't realize I was pissing in the stairwell, as if I had blacked out and wasn't aware.  I thought about how to respond, but I decided to admit to her that I in fact remembered doing that, and that I just didn't care because I thought it was empty and quiet and I really had to go, AND that YES I was drunk.  She seemed surprised a bit again.  But I did say sorry about it and next time I will try to stick to outside the building.  That made her laugh a little, she said what about your place, is that not an option?  Which made me laugh.  But that was basically it, we left it at that.  She said bye, and she joked and said to me just dont piss on her door.  I agreed.  

Now this may seem as very innocuous a story for some of you, but this was huge for me.  This woman tempered her disdain/disgust for what she saw with humor towards the situation and I appreciated that.  The fact I didn't back away, made me so proud of myself, and I would be lying if I didn't tell you that I didn't jack off that night and the morning after our encounter 😜  I am developing a reputation as being the pisser of my building.  Makes me a little worried because I wonder when someone might report me, but so far, nobody has done anything.  I will add that I am not the only pisser around here.  

That's how you gotta react, if they perceived that you're scared or hesitating you're done. You gotta act like it's the most normal thing in the world and that they're the weirdoes for interrupting you and acting like you're doing something bad (they are), just brush it off as "just wanted a piss" or "so what". 

 

I did it several times when someone tried to bother me while I was pissing. But it might also be due to the fact that I'm pretty big so people don't wanna have problems idk. 😂

But yeah man confidence is the key.

Edited September 23 by Kevin

[BadBoy21 656]

9 hours ago, Kevin said:

Cool ! Did you walk pass him when he was pissing ?

Definitely.   He has also done the same to me.  A couple times he even said hey or what's up.  

[BadBoy21 656]

5 hours ago, MidoriLemonade85 said:

So are you really a bad boy? You seem far too polite. 😆 Yeah you handled it well in the moment. But you’re not gonna stop, are you? 💚

Thanks.  I don't think I'm that bad...😜, but I definitely have my moments.  And I definitely won't stop.  

[TylerHasFun 1,096]

Fuck yeah thats awesome bro.  You got it right, It ain't no big thing to u, stand ur ground and they will back off.