Do you think being allowed or not allowed to pee outside as a kid influenced you?

[wettingman 576]

Absolutely yes it certainly did , although not just that. My parents had strict rules about urination. We could only pee in the toilet  never outside, you must be able to hold it. You must quietly control your bladder, no signs of desperation , pee dancing holding myself etc.  And never ever wet your pants, God help you if you did.

So I grew up not wanting to admit I had to pee well  into adulthood. That resulted in numerous long struggles to hold it in and a few wet pants, which they never knew about.

So today I pee outside as often as I can. I pee in other naughty places, as long as I don't damage somebody's  property .Even as a young kid I was interested in pee, especially desperate girls. Once puberty happened the interest morphed into a full blown sexual fetish.  It continues strongly to this day.

So not only did being forbidden to pee outside, likely develop into the need to pee outside or someplace " ínnapropriate ", combined with the other rules probably significantly contributed to my life long pee holding / wetting fetish, which is highly sexual.   I absolutely love holding .you pee as long as possible until I can't hold it and I wet my pants  I also tthroughly enjoy discussing with like minded women .an reading or watching females desperation and wetting. 

So much for your rules mom and dad

 

Edited June 26 by wettingman

[Hidengo 280]

Yes, in the technical sense. I had a rather shy bladder growing up, and as my parents grew up in rural Jamaica, they were used to peeing outside and thought little of it, so it was basically expected that I pee outside in many situations, especially when we were in Jamaica on a car trip (the highway that allows you to cross the island in a few hours was only recently built. It was a 4+ hour drive between Kingston and St. Elizabeth, the two parishes we spent the most time in). But I could never go in public unless it was the most dire of emergencies. 

So I started “practicing” peeing outside. Whenever we were at someone’s house, I wouldn’t pee in the toilet at all, but would try to sneak out and pee on the house wall or in some bushes or hedges in the yard.

I mentioned before about an experience when I was younger, where my female cousin squatted next to me as I was peeing at the side of a Jamaican road at night. When I was at her house where she had an above-ground inflatable pool, she would get out and pee in the grass, and I would usually go to the side of the house where there was a gutter (I still wanted privacy, sue me).

[BGSB86 848]

On 3/16/2024 at 4:22 AM, MrTinkle said:

Do you think whether or not you were allowed to pee outside has influenced your love of naughty pee? 
 

I grew up with two brothers, a sister and my mom and dad. There were 6 of us. We had one bathroom upstairs, it was hard when dad would come home from work and then my sister would get home from dance and both would need to shower so the bathroom was always busy. I mean regardless of that my parents let us all pee outside but because of that situation, in winter if the bathroom was occupied and you were desperate you could go piss over the drain in their basement. I feel like the fact it was normal to pee outside and in the basement made it a part of my life. I don’t know if it made me into it necessarily I think I was just predisposed to be a bisexual man into men and women pissing 

I was in a similar situation. I grew up with my mother, father, and 3 brothers and only one bathroom. My mom was definitely ok with letting me pee wherever when the toilet was occupied. I remember several occasions where she would pee in the backyard whenever she couldn’t wait for the toilet to free up. In the winter she didn’t mind if I peed in the sink or something if I couldn’t hold it, but I tried to limit that as my brothers would ruthlessly tease me if they ever caught me peeing anywhere but the toilet. 

[Coral 541]

Yeah definitely ! My first memory of peeing outside is when I was barely a toddler and I also remember being weened out of diapers before going to pre school at around 2 yrs of age? But yeah peeing outside as a child was normal for me. Like going for picnics literally meant peeing in the middle of the pasture behind some tree or shrub, that also not too far from our spot. 

[Pissfriend 7]

On 3/16/2024 at 9:22 AM, MrTinkle said:

I grew up with two brothers, a sister and my mom and dad. There were 6 of us. We had one bathroom upstairs, it was hard when dad would come home from work and then my sister would get home from dance and both would need to shower so the bathroom was always busy. I mean regardless of that my parents let us all pee outside but because of that situation, in winter if the bathroom was occupied and you were desperate you could go piss over the drain in their basement.

Nice Story.

I'm interested in whether your sister or mom also went into the garden, or whether they just peed in the basement. And was it normal back then for you to be able to watch them?

 

And since I come from a very rural area, it was always normal for us to go outside when we had to. Unfortunately, I very rarely had the chance to see girls doing this.

[Peesfully 237]

I was brought up to pee anywhere outside, but not if someone other than mom or dad could see me. We had a summer place in the country and my father and I often peed outside, but I never saw my mother do it. I had fun taking "pee anywhere" to the limit as I've posted before: from way up climbing trees, from rooftops, into rain gutters, into loose pipes, etc. My mother's diary even mentioned that I peed off of a little climbing structure I had when I was aged 3-4. Nothing was considered "naughty", just fun, so if my childhood influenced me as an adult, it was to instill in me the idea that peeing didn't have to be boring -- it could be fun. Discovering naughty peeing (restaurants, hotels, restroom floors etc.) added excitement to the fun, so now peeing outdoors or into sinks is "boring" and naughty peeing is "fun".

[Mojovo 48]

I was allowed to pee outside in some cases (usually on a tree or smth), like if I really had to go or I would wet myself, but I was usually expected to use the bathroom. which from a parenting perspective is probably the best move if you want to make sure they understand where it's appropriate to pee but also not have a lot of accidents. 

so I had some prior experience peeing but at the same time, I wasn't some kind of free pisser who would just go wherever, and I'm still not. 

[jim fisher 29]

On 6/19/2024 at 6:02 PM, jacob_puddleman said:

Absolutely, but from the opposite side. Peeing outside growing up would have been considered dramatic or perverted in my family growing up, and some of my earliest pee memories are related to holding it until we were somewhere more acceptable. I’ve found that this awareness of social norms vs. physical desperation dynamic is where most of my pee fantasies live.

did you have to hold it a lot growing up as a result??? have you had a lot of pop or water to drink then had to hold it for a long time? did you get really good at holding it even when your bladder contracts so hard that your abs tense up and suck in hard with each round   of bladder contractions? It gets to be an awesome feeling. 

[random name 45]

as a kid, my mum actually encouraged me to pee outside if there was no alternative, but it was me who didn't want to. i think that may have been a sort of trauma and that's where my kink stems from?

[Havelock 1,528]

2 hours ago, random name said:

as a kid, my mum actually encouraged me to pee outside if there was no alternative, but it was me who didn't want to. i think that may have been a sort of trauma and that's where my kink stems from?

@random name where and in what contexts did she encourage you to pee outside?

[Library_Lady 141]

Growing up on a farm we'd usually go into the horse barn and pee in one of the vacant stall. Even to this day teens in the 4H do this at horse events or when camping during a fair or show.  In Amish country it's customary for men to use the barn for peeing and not the house to keep the main bathroom cleaner.
 

[Havelock 1,528]

4 hours ago, Library_Lady said:

Growing up on a farm we'd usually go into the horse barn and pee in one of the vacant stall. Even to this day teens in the 4H do this at horse events or when camping during a fair or show.  In Amish country it's customary for men to use the barn for peeing and not the house to keep the main bathroom cleaner.
 

@Library_Lady there is a whole thread on peeing in horse barns. I'd love to read about any memories you have of peeing in barns and around horses.