Enjoying our kink in mixed company?

[Colormerose 819]

Hey all! I know it's been awhile since I've been around. A lot has gone on. Hubby and I bought a house!!

That being said his mom cosigned for us and is also now living with us. So the question remains... 

When the only shower is upstairs, next to her room... How can we be able to enjoy our kink fully? 

Any advice would be appreciated.

[Kupar 13,351]

Does she go out of the house on her own so that you two have it to yourselves? If not, it might have to be a case of waiting until she's downstairs and isn't likely to move for a while, then finding an excuse to sneak off upstairs together. Or being quiet! I hope you find a way xxxx

[oliver2 4,470]

Well, she’d  probably just assume you were having vanilla non-kinky bathroom sex, but idk if that’s any comfort!

[gldenwetgoose 21,520]

Perhaps as you all get settled into the house the time will come to convince Mom she needs some hobbies and interests to keep her active. 

Something that’ll get her out and socialising with others for a few hours at a time - whether it be crafts, keeping fit, volunteering or whatever. 

Then all you need to do is align ‘being in the mood’ with her schedule….

[Pee_punk 46]

You could always pee proof your bedroom and have garbage bags ready to dispose of the mess. Like puppy pads all over the floor, mattress protector, etc. Depends on what kind of activities planned.

[Colormerose 819]

1 hour ago, Kupar said:

Does she go out of the house on her own so that you two have it to yourselves? If not, it might have to be a case of waiting until she's downstairs and isn't likely to move for a while, then finding an excuse to sneak off upstairs together. Or being quiet! I hope you find a way xxxx

Unfortunately our room is in the basement. she doesn't go down there. But the bathroom with the shower is upstairs, next to her room. 

Eventually we want to get a shower down here by our room. 

[Alfresco 11,667]

A difficult situation for sure.     Like others have said, maybe you will have to take advantages of times when she is out of the house, or improvise other options elsewhere.   I guess it depends a lot on what exactly you want to do, sounds like you enjoy pee play and sex in the shower.   In all reality, she isn't going to think for a minute that you never have sex, so would it be that bad for you both to go in the shower together?  I know it might be a bit embarrassing that your mother in law knows that you are up to something together at that time, but she will probably be OK with it.   If you happen to add pee into the mix, she isn't going to know about that part.

Alternatively depending on what you want to do, you could consider finding other places to indulge yourselves - maybe outdoors somewhere secluded would be an option?  

[Colormerose 819]

53 minutes ago, Alfresco said:

A difficult situation for sure.     Like others have said, maybe you will have to take advantages of times when she is out of the house, or improvise other options elsewhere.   I guess it depends a lot on what exactly you want to do, sounds like you enjoy pee play and sex in the shower.   In all reality, she isn't going to think for a minute that you never have sex, so would it be that bad for you both to go in the shower together?  I know it might be a bit embarrassing that your mother in law knows that you are up to something together at that time, but she will probably be OK with it.   If you happen to add pee into the mix, she isn't going to know about that part.

Alternatively depending on what you want to do, you could consider finding other places to indulge yourselves - maybe outdoors somewhere secluded would be an option?  

I mean all are ok ideas. Other than we tend to enjoy the wetting side of the pee kink. That part makes it kind of difficult. I mean we all like to wet and then shower after. The good thing is at least we have the washing machine down here haha so one benefit right. 

[BlindListener 152]

If your basement has a floor drain, what about connecting a Y-hose connecter to the washing machine hose hookups then connect a hose or handheld shower nozzle head to the washing machine water source. This would allow adjusting of the water temperature.

[Colormerose 819]

34 minutes ago, BlindListener said:

If your basement has a floor drain, what about connecting a Y-hose connecter to the washing machine hose hookups then connect a hose or handheld shower nozzle head to the washing machine water source. This would allow adjusting of the water temperature.

I mean we have a plan to eventually put a shower in there because of the drain in the floor just can't be immediately. You know house payments and all that fun. 

But it's been talked about. He's so handy with things like that