How often you go to prostitutes? Specify if you do pee games at her in comments

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How often you go to prostitutes? Specify if you do pee games at her in comments

[steve25805 126,021]

Only once in my life have I ever been to a prostitute. I was way too in the closet to ask for pee fun though, even from a prostitute whom I'd probably never see again.

I was young and drinking heavily and got into an argument with my flatmate and stormed out. I decided in my anger to go somewhere to carry on drinking and get wasted, my immature reaction to my own anger at that time. But those were the days of strict pub licensing laws and because it was past 10.30pm, all the pubs were closed. A nightclub was the only option, since these were allowed to remain open until 2am. Problem is, I was wearing jeans and trainers and most nightclubs have dress codes that disallow them. My only option - the only one without a dress code - was the seediest and most downmarket club in my town at the time, a dive known as the Ace of Clubs.

This was a strip club frequented by various dodgy characters, including lone guys looking for prostitutes, and prostitutes themselves, who'd often go in there, get guys to buy them a drink, and offer their "services". I'd been in the place before with friends - we were young and adventurous and were up for seeing a stripper - and in groups as we were the prostitutes pretty much left us alone. But now for the first and only time I was in this dive drinking alone, already too inebriated for it to have dawned upon me that this would result in lots of attention from the prostitutes who tended to assume that guys alone were there to pick them up.

Various ladies of the night kept approaching me and asking me if I'd like to buy them a drink. With a generosity and naivete born of youth and inebriation, I was happy to do so, not realising that this was giving them a green light. In every case they pretty soon asked me if I was "looking for business", their very non-erotic way of asking if I was looking to pay for sex. I wasn't - I only wanted to get drunk - so kept declining girl after girl. But none of them could envisage why I was there alone if not "looking for business", and saw that just by offering they'd at least get a free drink out of it in all probability. So every 5-10 minutes I'd be fending off a new offer.

Well, in my drunkeness this kind of got me thinking about whether I should take advantage of what was being offered. I was young and had never had a blow job before and my thoughts turned towards the possibility of paying for that. Which is pretty much what happened - back at her place because it was getting very late and by this ploy she got me to pay for a taxi home for her. I must have had "mug" written all over me, lol.

Well I paid my money, got the blow job - which was fun but I was too inebriated to fully appreciate it - and went off on my way.

Of course, all the moral dilemmas involved in buying sex from a street prostitute hadn't entered my mind because - frankly - I was too drunk by the time I began entertaining the idea to even begin to think about such moral questions. Next morning, though, I kind of felt bad. I have no moral qualms with the notion of paying for sex from someone who is willingly selling it - I believe that prostitution should be fully legalised between consenting adults. But I know that many street prostitutes are almost driven to it by force of circumstances, whether it be addiction or debt or whatever. Realising this, in the cold light of day I kind of found myself questioning the morality of what I'd done, and vowed never to buy sex from a street prostitute ever again. And I have in fact never paid for sex again at all. It really was a one off.

I have of course paid for porn and even had videos custom made for me, but never paid for actual physical contact sex with anyone ever again.

I therefore voted "never" in the poll, because with only one sole exception in my entire life, "never" is by far the closest to the truth.

[Admin 14,788]

I think the poll needs some adjusting; there aren't going to be many people here going to prostitutes daily... I would imagine. As Steve implied, options of 'I've been once/twice' etc might give more accurate responses. Obviously people can elaborate in the comments, but I would imagine some people may to wish remain anonymous about it. I've never been with a prostitute and have no intention of ever doing so. I don't really have an issue if that's how people want to spend their money, it's none of my business, but it's just not something I find at all appealing. The idea of pee games you mentioned has come up before - a pee prostitute of sorts - with no actual sex involved. That could be something I'd be interested in, although to be honest I doubt I would pay for it. If I was going to have any sort of pee fun with someone, I'd want them to be up for it and enjoying it too, not doing it for money. Again, I could totally understand if someone wanted to do that though. I'd be interested to know if anyone has brought up the idea of pee games with a prostitute before?

[likesToLick 10,216]

Well, I'm happy to reply in general terms. I've never had any contact with street prostitutes, but have seen several escorts who make formal bookings by phone and work from their own premises. In every case I have found them to be attractive, friendly and delightful ladies. Regarding watersports fun, I have had one yes and one no. The lady who said no immediately offered to refer me to a friend who would be happy to see me instead of her. I didn't take her up on this as I was content to see this particular lady without pee play.

The lady who said yes actually suggested it to me herself. She states in her ads that she provides pee games at no extra charge, and she raised the subject with me on her first visit. I happily arranged another booking to do it a few days later. (You must expect to give a lady some advance notice as she would not normally go to an appointment with a full bladder.) Just to set the scene I can tell you this lady is around forty or so, with long, straight blonde hair, small natural breasts and a beautiful slim figure. She made the whole encounter a lovely, friendly experience. During our one hour session we did everything I wanted, and she certainly looked like she enjoyed it too. I asked her at one point about her liking for watersports and she said it had been something that had always excited her, even in the days before she began having sex.

Having chatted with a few escorts on their online forums, I know there are many who do genuinely enjoy sex with a variety of men and love their work. They can be great fun to be with. Obviously there are clients who they don't like, but this generally revolves around men who are rude, disrespectful or unwashed. Unlike "amateur" women, they don't reject a man because of age, weight or disability issues. I'm happy to see them when I can afford to, and I think they deserve a lot of respect for their work.

[F.W 5,734]

Me too.Sometimes im horny but in this day and age,i feel sex is risky,so other than peeing,i generally end up straddling and coming over the boobs.

Some girls will let you watch pee,a few dont,but you can enjoy them just the same.2 or 3 times a year.

[lugia 228]

I think this topic is interesting enough to be worth reviving. I live on the east coast of America in a place far away from major cities, so I don't even know how to spot a prostitute, much less find contact information for one. It doesn't help that I'm a bloody coward. The posts from 2014 are interesting enough, but I still wonder about stuff like:

How do you access the "prostitute network" of your area?

How much would they expect to be paid just to pee in front of you?

Are you supposed to arrange a mutual location?

When do you need to watch out for jealous/protective men?

How much of your identity do you keep secret?

Do they tend to talk about anything in particular?

And that kind of stuff. It's actually more general questioning than pee-specific, but either way, those with firsthand experience are here.

[likesToLick 10,216]

The posts from 2014 are interesting enough, but I still wonder about stuff like:

How do you access the "prostitute network" of your area?

Where I live, they advertise in the newspaper under "Adult Services." They also advertise on a local web site called "cracker.com.au". There are online forums where people post reviews of escorts and brothels too.

I understand that this stage of the process is much more difficult for you in the USA, because right-wing governments impose heavy restrictions on your personal freedoms compared with those of us who live in the "free world". You may encounter police officers posing as prostitutes in order to entrap and charge you for example. I have never heard of that happening outside of the USA. You would need someone with local knowledge to advise you how to avoid these pitfalls.

How much would they expect to be paid just to pee in front of you?

Mostly (here) they charge an hourly rate - typically around $200 per hour. Some would charge 30-50 dollars extra for peeing, some would include it in the basic rate, and some would not do it at all.

Are you supposed to arrange a mutual location?

Every lady I have seen provided the location herself. A comfortable and private bedroom in a house, every time.

Some ladies will not do home or hotel visits as they feel it exposes them to personal risk. Others will visit your location only after they get to know and trust you from a few visits at their main workplace.

When do you need to watch out for jealous/protective men?

In my case, never. I have never seen a man in a brothel, not even another customer. I have never seen a man when visiting a private escort either.

How much of your identity do you keep secret?

I introduce myself by my first name and pay cash. I use my mobile phone to make bookings, and receive confirmation texts. Nobody has ever asked for anything more than that.

Do they tend to talk about anything in particular?

Just like anyone you meet, they may talk about yesterday's shopping, or their family, or the town where they grew up, or what they're cooking for dinner tonight. They will rely on you to talk about what you like to do sexually, and tell them if there's anything you don't like. It's a lot like being on a first date, except that the sex is guaranteed to happen, and it's all over in an hour (or whatever length of time you booked.)

[lugia 228]

Thanks for getting back to me. I hate to hijack this topic and switch it to a different conversation like this, but I only have a couple more things I want to ask. You've been great; I don't know where else I could ask such things and receive answers rather than horrified remarks and bans. Please bear with me a little longer.

Where I live, they advertise in the newspaper under "Adult Services." They also advertise on a local web site called "cracker.com.au". There are online forums where people post reviews of escorts and brothels too.

You would need someone with local knowledge to advise you how to avoid pitfalls.

You mentioned online forums where escorts are reviewed. At risk of being too specific, let's just say I live in Wheeling, WV. I did a bit of digging, and came up with this:

http://www.find-prostitutes.com/us/west-virginia-hookers/

52 in Wheeling. But if you go trying to click on any of them, you end up having to go through a sign-up. I used a throwaway account and ended up getting signed on for AdultFriendFinder, and when I tried to check into the women advertised, they didn't come up. It feels like a bait-and-switch, and I was wondering if there was a better way. Getting "someone with local knowledge" feels like nothing short of going out there at night, driving around, and happening to encounter a hooker with access to a "network" of them. That's assuming I don't get pulled over by cops or mugged at gunpoint. I know that you can't explore new avenues without some risk involved, but I want to be as smart about it as I can.

[likesToLick 10,216]

... when I tried to check into the women advertised, they didn't come up. It feels like a bait-and-switch, and I was wondering if there was a better way. Getting "someone with local knowledge" feels like nothing short of going out there at night, driving around, and happening to encounter a hooker with access to a "network" of them.

Sorry to say, I really have no knowledge of the U.S. scene. One place that might be able to help you is the Adult DVD Talk forum. This is based in the USA and has mostly American members. They specialize in porn DVD reviews, but are usually friendly about escorts. (Some of the porn performers who are forum members have also worked as escorts.) Check out their "Sex Talk" forum which is about sex advice and questions. Someone there may be able to help you with information. You can read the forum without logging on, but will need to register (free) if you want to post a question. They might be able to refer you to a U.S. forum for punters (sometimes called "hobbyists" in the USA.) The usual cautions about how much you trust anyone on line still apply of course. You can run into crazy people anywhere, and there are plenty of nut jobs posting on ADT, but some very decent and helpful people too.

The following links will not be much use to you other than examples of what I hope you might find - they are escort review sites for Australia and the UK.

UK Punternet

Australia: Punter Planet

[likesToLick 10,216]

Some interesting commentary and galleries by a guy who photographs the street girls of Philadelphia. Street Steve. He seems to have some serious local knowledge, but it sounds like a scary place to go. Each gallery has a description of the encounter in the first image.

[mcdky 93]

Life would be so much easier if prostitution were legal. I have no interest in dating/relationships. Currently I’m trying my luck on Tinder, and haven’t gotten the courage to take the legal risk yet.