Indianapolis Piss

[spike69 0]

Anyone down for piss play in the Indianapolis area? Women preferred but I'm kinky

[gldenwetgoose 20,253]

We’re really not that kind of site @spike69 - at least not until you’ve really, really developed close friendships with people. 

In fact site rules cover not giving away too much personal information which pretty much covers arranging meet ups with random strangers.

Instead enjoy your time browsing around with a whole worldwide community to share fantasies and experiences with. 

[gldenwetgoose 20,253]

7 hours ago, spotremix said:

can i just seriously ask the question of what is the harm in putting out there that your from a specific area and looking for someone to have pee fun with?? 

i mean i would expect the person to contact me in private. not a public message containing their information. 

It's a very valid question and I'm going to tag @Admin, @Scot_Lover & @Sophie so that they can add their response, or can correct my perspective if that's needed.

I'll come to your question of 'what harm' in a moment, but firstly and fundamentally let's be clear we're not a dating site - now we could get into a discussion about what 'dating' means... I guess some would say it's a romantic meeting and perhaps someone meeting as a one-off to share pee fun isn't dating?  But my interpretation of site rules would be that any time you agree a place and time to meet with someone for the purpose of mutual piss play, pee fun or whatever that would count as dating.

The two site rules that come into force here would be Rule 8 & 18:

• 8. Do not post irrelevant, low quality (spam) posts on this site, that do not add to the discussion. This includes treating the forum like it's a dating site (it's NOT) and asking for snapchats/kiks or off-site communication details.
• 18. Be wary of what personal information you give away (how others use this information is outside of our control). Likewise, do not share your password with others.

So we have a whole site here which encourages friendships, and with friendships comes trust and communication.  We accept that once people are close friends they may wish to communicate outside of the site.  But as far as 'quick' or casual meet ups between people who've had very little prior interactions, what you'd be talking about is that you would use the site to ask for contact information, meet location, telephone numbers or whatever from a near stranger. You'd be giving away personal information too to achieve that.

What happens when you turn up if the beautiful lady who wanted to pee play with you turns out to be a vigilante gang?  It happens with other forms of (illegal) sexual activities.  Or how do you know that person's husband / wife hasn't found out an is waiting with a shotgun?  Those are situations which place you in danger and I'm giving you 100% respect here to believe that you are a genuine, honest and gentle man with the utmost respect for the person you'd meet.

All far fetched scenarios, but I suspect @Admin will feel this site has a duty of care to keep it's membership safe - that is, that the site is not going to actively support or encourage physical meet-ups between relative strangers.

As I said, this is my perspective. The rules I've quoted are there in black and white.  Hope it helps and any of the staff are welcome to add or edit as appropriate.

[Sophie 23,065]

You summed it up perfectly @gldenwetgoose. I'd just like to add that the rule also serves the purpose of retaining some standard of quality to the site. The Snapchat/Kik rule was added after the site was flooded with people joining only to ask for Kik details. Thread after thread of pretty much nothing but "Add me @blahdeblah" and no posts elsewhere. It contributes nothing to the community.

If you want to meet up with people after getting to know them, go ahead at your own risk but PeeFans isn't a hookup site, we are a community of people who share the same interest, a place where we can have discussions about our wet kink. 

[pguy2981 930]

I'm more or less new here so my opinion probably doesn't matter much, but that kind of request doesn't really fit the culture of the site. While I would love (seriously) to immediately meet up with people and get straight to business, it doesn't work like that for most if not all the people on this site. It's not like craigslist where you can just put in an ad and someone's gonna answer. The friendships here took alot of time and everyone sort of expects the same amount of effort. Anything less just looks sketchy and feels off-putting. You're chances aren't zero but they are certainly extremely low with that sort of approach. 

[Scot_Lover 1,786]

I have to agree with @Sophie and @gldenwetgoose in that this isn't what this site is about. 

The other issue is that people can hide who they really are, you could chat to someone that you think is a girl for weeks or months only to find out that you've cultivated a friendship with a 300kg male. 

Sorry, but our rules have been built up over a considerable time, there is a reason for each and every rule.

Welcome to the site, take some time to get to know people, be involved. Who know’s what could happen.

[PissOnMyParade 435]

I'd just like to point out that as the member of peefans who has officially been a member for the longest time (Admins and Mods can verify this), I personally just use this site as a let-out for a fetish that I have embraced, and a dating/meet-up site really isn't what I ever understood peefans to be.

Apart from the unforseen danger point, I feel like peefans would completely die a death if it were treated as a dating/meet-up site. It would become like peeingcupid, where people who are genuinely into pee just post their profile without really getting anywhere because no-one's ever interested in responding to 50 profiles that look exactly the same...

Peefans is a really welcoming community where we can openly share, discuss, and enjoy our mutual kink with people we know won't judge us for it. If offending posts get taken down for breaking site rules, it simply means the Mods are active, which is healthy for any website. I firmly believe we should strive to keep it that way, and I greatly appreciate the lengths that those in charge here go to in order to maintain the mutual fun to be had.

Edited October 14, 2021 by PissOnMyParade