Leaking/Dribbling

[Sammilove 200]

As a girl in her mid 20s, I have definitely leaked before having a full on wetting. It’s NEVER been when I wasn’t planning on having an accident like in public. It’s like my body can sense privacy and even though I’m doing everything I can stop it from escaping, every now and again a pretty decent sized leak will escape. It’s rare and probably doesn’t happen to many people without bladder issues.

(Ive also come to the conclusion I’ve got a weaker pelvic floor than most as well.)

[Sweets 4,522]

I have had leakage problems for years.  I have 2 children.  It started alittle after child birth with sneezing coughing not so much laughing. But it wasn’t to bad. When I turned 40 I had a hysterectomy.  It was a vaginal hysterectomy not Liposcopic.  Any time you have surgery it weakens the muscles.  I started having more problems after the surgery. And I was getting a lot of UTI’s.  A year later I have bladder surgery to help. But it ended up making things worse.   The doctors put  my bladder sling in to tight and I would only empty half my bladder.  So I had to pee all the time. Usually right before I would get my pants down my bladder would start leaking. Just couldn’t hold it.   I suffered with this for 6 years.  I would wear pads. I would stay dehydrated when I was out so I didn’t have accidents. But when you wear  pads all the time or you have damp cloths it can make you sore. I started doing some research there are 2 types of incontinence. Stress incontinence and urge incontinence.  Stress is cough sneezing laughing. Urge is from spasms.  I had both. Spasms are caused from food or drinks. Major one is caffeine.  It is easier to fix. Avoid the things that cause it.  The bladder surgery doesn’t help urge incontinence.  I had surgery again to remove the sling.  So I still have stress incontinence.  But good thing I can get rid of the pad.  I don’t hold it. If I have to go I go.  Or I will leak.  If I’m sick and I’m coughing and sneezing I have to us pads because I will wet myself. It’s can be a pain. As part of my fetish I’m not into wetting. After dealing with it for like 15 years. It’s not really a turn on for me. And as u might figure I don’t like usually like holding and desperation.  I might hold it if I’m going to play around. 

Edited January 16, 2021 by Sweets

[steamlover6 754]

Sweets, that is so lovely of you to share your story here with us, It puts everything about holding pee into true perspective. I feel so sorry that you suffer in the ways you describe. Its still lovely to have you in our community for all that, and I still wish you pleasure from it. Hugs and Kisses

[Sweets 4,522]

On 1/17/2021 at 8:03 AM, steamlover6 said:

Sweets, that is so lovely of you to share your story here with us, It puts everything about holding pee into true perspective. I feel so sorry that you suffer in the ways you describe. Its still lovely to have you in our community for all that, and I still wish you pleasure from it. Hugs and Kisses

Thanks for the kind words.  I don’t mind sharing my story.  I just hope it helps someone else. Either to educate or to help other woman who may have issues feel they aren’t alone. 

[Anna99 223]

When I am really bursting and about to pee myself I always leak for some time before a complete bladder loss. I know some woman tough who never leak. Once it starts they can't stop it and pee all at once. Every woman is different in that regard

[Bigalzinco 10]

Im a male with nerve issues and a prostate problem amd i am constantly dribbling and spurting into my nappy.  When ive been sat for a while, my bladder releases and will make a small puddle about the size of an egg cup.  I have mixed incontinence meaning stress amd urge so i am never dry. 

 

I do have a kink for pee amd i love the smell of an incontinent womans pads/pants and pussy.  Theres something so animalistic about it.  

[Fuzywuzy 73]

17 hours ago, Anna99 said:

When I am really bursting and about to pee myself I always leak for some time before a complete bladder loss. I know some woman tough who never leak. Once it starts they can't stop it and pee all at once. Every woman is different in that regard

Can you feel the dribbles coming on or is it a surprise and you have to clench yourself to try to stop it. 

[Anna99 223]

5 hours ago, Fuzywuzy said:

Can you feel the dribbles coming on or is it a surprise and you have to clench yourself to try to stop it. 

I know that I might dribble when I'm bursting, but I don't feel them before they leak out

[DoctorDoctor 1,434]

On 12/12/2024 at 4:50 PM, Anna99 said:

I know that I might dribble when I'm bursting, but I don't feel them before they leak out

Do you have a clear feeling of when the leaking may start, such as spasms or pain or tingling?

[Anna99 223]

On 12/13/2024 at 11:47 PM, DoctorDoctor said:

Do you have a clear feeling of when the leaking may start, such as spasms or pain or tingling?

Not really. All of the above could make me leak. But it's not like I know that I will leak when experiencing a bladder spasm. I know only that it could make me leak, but I don't always leak just because of that... I don't know how to explain it better

[Fuzywuzy 73]

2 hours ago, Anna99 said:

Not really. All of the above could make me leak. But it's not like I know that I will leak when experiencing a bladder spasm. I know only that it could make me leak, but I don't always leak just because of that... I don't know how to explain it better

How do you react if you dribble? Do you give yourself a squeeze or lock your legs? Also when you have dribbled, have you ever told someone who you were with ?

[Anna99 223]

2 hours ago, Fuzywuzy said:

How do you react if you dribble? Do you give yourself a squeeze or lock your legs? Also when you have dribbled, have you ever told someone who you were with ?

I squeeze my muscles super hard and cross my legs or just put them extra tight together. I have told my boyfriend and i think some female friends too when I have leaked