Tips for holding it

[Pissygal00 427]

anybody have good tips for distraction and holding it? Trying to wait till I gotta burst 

[Specter 192]

Mm... doing my challenge, I see 🙂. Try watching an episode of a good TV show or listening to music, lol.

[Guest jeanswettingfan]

Yeah I usually try to work on something or watch something I'm really interested in. 

How'd it go? Did you wet yourself?

[Pissygal00 427]

1 hour ago, jeanswettingfan said:

Yeah I usually try to work on something or watch something I'm really interested in. 

How'd it go? Did you wet yourself?

I ended up making a mess 😂 I ran to the bathroom and I realized I wouldn’t make it to the toilet so I just grabbed a cup and squatted with my romper pulled to the side but I mostly missed the cup and it was wayyyy more pee than I realized would be. 
 

i loved it 

[Guest jeanswettingfan]

25 minutes ago, Pissygal00 said:

I ended up making a mess 😂 I ran to the bathroom and I realized I wouldn’t make it to the toilet so I just grabbed a cup and squatted with my romper pulled to the side but I mostly missed the cup and it was wayyyy more pee than I realized would be. 
 

i loved it 

haha thats awesome I bet it felt great

[Pissygal00 427]

29 minutes ago, jeanswettingfan said:

haha thats awesome I bet it felt great

It did! I didn’t realize how good the relief would feel after 

[amack 623]

On 8/9/2020 at 3:51 PM, Pissygal00 said:

I ended up making a mess 😂 I ran to the bathroom and I realized I wouldn’t make it to the toilet so I just grabbed a cup and squatted with my romper pulled to the side but I mostly missed the cup and it was wayyyy more pee than I realized would be. 
 

i loved it 

Sounds superb! 
 

i find that if I want to hold and get really desperate I have to be sitting down. If I’m moving about I get too desperate too soon and it spoils it a bit as I have to pee.  Much better to sit at my computer on this site or watching pee porn and getting more and more turned on while filling up with more and more tea to fill my bladder. Haven’t had a chance for this for ages, can’t wait to get to do it again. 

[gldenwetgoose 21,498]

I know the question was in the distant history of last weekend, but still worth an answer...

Firstly for me personally, my ability to hold depends very much what I've drunk.  Like a lot of people, caffeine triggers a pretty sudden spasm in my bladder so if I drink a good coffee or something like coke, I can guarantee that in maybe an hour I'll go from nothing to bursting.  Also there seems to be a sweetener used in some drinks which has the same effect.

So, choosing what to drink is a good part - I'm not a serial holder, but do like to occasionally.

Other than that, assuming I've drunk something which is allowing me a slow build up to being desperate then a lot of what I feel is psychological.  I could be out on a bike ride for hours or driving home, and just being near home makes the need worse. The same as standing in a supermarket queue feels 10x worse than walking around browsing the shelves. Sometimes as well I find the need comes and goes in waves - if I can get over the worst of a wave then I've got an easier time until the next one.  So distraction is a key part and also convincing my brain that the need it's feeling is in part imagination and will pass.

To do that I might be browsing on here for example, maybe chatting with someone, and feeling the need building.  When it gets more critical, to the jiggly stage then yes, jiggling can help - but that in itself focusses my mind on the need, when I want to focus it away.  Instead then getting up from my chair and walking to the other room and back will usually do the trick and let me settle for another few minutes.  Maybe even grabbing a drink - although of course running a tap isn't always helpful.

Setting a target can also help to hold....   It's 2pm, so I'll let myself go at ten-past.  Then when that time comes, maybe five or ten minutes more. That's a lot easier than telling yourself up front you have to wait 40 minutes.

Finally,  in the real experiences section somewhere is a 'real time holding' thread which doesn't get used often but can be a great place for friends to share in your hold and help you through, maybe even hold online with you.

[Pronto 54]

On 8/13/2020 at 9:40 AM, amack said:

Sounds superb! 
 

i find that if I want to hold and get really desperate I have to be sitting down. If I’m moving about I get too desperate too soon and it spoils it a bit as I have to pee.  Much better to sit at my computer on this site or watching pee porn and getting more and more turned on while filling up with more and more tea to fill my bladder. Haven’t had a chance for this for ages, can’t wait to get to do it again. 

As a guy I can definitely confirm this, not sure how it goes with the ladies though. 

[wettingfan1993 34]

I just keep pushing the limits of my bladder capacity, and I have found that works better and better!