Dating sites?

[Mary Moon 1,931]

Guys, I'll give you a piece of advice as a girl. I'll tell you what I, as a woman, would find interesting: if you want to impress on these dating sites, I'll give you some advice: first of all, post photos where you are smiling and cheerful (women don't like "sad guys"), try to post a complete bio that is not obvious and maybe has a slight patina of mystery. When you receive correspondence, try to arouse interest. Women can tell if you are acting like a show-off, if you just want to sleep together, etc. Maybe take a look at the girl's profile and her interests and start talking about those topics.

[Pochaco Pie 29]

I've always found people via reddit from r/peepersonals and r/dirtypeepals. I've only brought up my pee kink to one guy on tinder because I found out he had a pee kink. It's always something I feel shy bringing up to guys.

[weteric 1,364]

On 6/13/2024 at 3:06 PM, Beautifulhiss said:

I completely agree as a female on here I like chatting with people and replying in forums I’ll reply to the odd inbox if it isn’t offensive or creepy and it’s great I like the fact it doesn’t matter where in the world you are or if your married single fat slim it makes no difference as no pictures and no age makes it more enjoyable and no one passes judgement or is made to feel left out.

If this was a dating site I wouldn’t be using it how ever a lot of men on here seem to only want to chat about pee so they can erm get them selfs off and then dispose of you like trash and don’t want to chat again 

That's quite sad. I am truly sorry that this has been your general experience

[gldenwetgoose 21,425]

Reading that last comment from @Beautifulhiss is disappointing.   

As a forum we're proud of the caring, positive and supporting ethos and environment we maintain.   So the thought of our fellow members receiving chats from guys who have zero respect for them, and are treating them as sexual objects until they've cum really angers me.   We're better than that, and the people to behave like that are not welcome here.

If anyone is being messaged and treated that way - please report it to staff and it will be dealt with, just as it is on the site in general.  It is not acceptable.

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