... but... what if this is NOT a typo...?  🤔

Do you rememebr the Columbine-Shooters?

They played DOOM; so thats what turned them into mass murders.

Yeah, right... .

They did not became violent because they played violent video games,

they played violent video games because they were violent.

 

That being said: playing violent video games is not an indicator for a violent personality.

Sometimes you just want to vent of some steam... what better place is there then the virtual world?

 

I think, people mixing up cause and symptom are much worse then people who play violent video games.... .

Well, I think when it comes to "targets" at home I can not help you, since I have no idea what your home looks like and what is availbale to you (and what of those targets are off limit).

Apart from a lot of things that are standard in every household (like, for instance, the toilet and a sink; doors, walls and windows, obviously, too), I have no idea what your household consists of.

Some things that people might think are standard might not be available to you.

For example: I do not own a dish washer, or a radio. Or even a car.

 

Am I right when I assume at home anything is fair game as long as it is easy to clean (so hardwood floor yes, carpet no - sheets yes, mattress no) ?

If for instance the laundry is an option, is the washing machine (and since we are at machines that clean:  the dish washer) also an option?

 

So I can only suggest: just look around with an open mind.

(One odd suggestion I could make though would be... mostly dependent on your ability to pee a narrow and strong stream: try to pee on a (new) roll of toilet paper and see how deep a hole you can... "drill" into it. ) 😉

 

 

--- As for "not at home": I suggest the same. Look around with an open mind. ---

I have no idea where you live; if its a small town or a big city, or even just a farm in the middle of nowhere.

I don't even know which country you live in, so unless it is the same country as I live in, I do not even know what is common where you live.

For instance: most of the trashcan's where I live are half a meter (about two feet) tall and open on top, no lid. Is this true for your place as well? If so, that would be a suggestion. If not, my suggestion is pointless to you. 😉

 

--- May I ask why you did not consider the following targets from Brutus' list: ---

- floor in a store

- couch in a furniture store

- book from a library

- rented car

Is it because of the risk or because of the damage? Be honest! 😉

 

--- Some ideas - based on where I live, and all to be done preferably at night: ---

- in the middle of a street (at night, when there is no traffic)

- one someone elses car

- someone elses garden (where ever)

- telephon booth (we still have like two actual booths left here; all other public phones are just basically a pillar with a phone attached to it).

- a bench

- a fountain

- from a bridge

- and so on...

 

 

--- Also, one thing that just came to my mind: ---

I do not know if you can pee standing up and actually aim your stream - or if this is something you can do, but not WANT to do. If you both can and want to do this, it opens a lot of options to you. Like peeing on a bench, but actually ALL over it, instead of just where you sit. 😉

 

--- Oh, and one question regarding your game: ---

Do you have to come up with targets for _yourself_ to pee on/in/at and the partner picks what you have to pee on/in/at,

or do you have to come up with targets for _your partner_ to pee on/in/at and the partner can pick what s/he wants to pee on/in/at?

If it is the first, try the later version. Could be tricky of cause if all three options are beyond what each of you want to do. But might add some additional thrill, maybe... . 😉

Hard to tell; I think it mostly depends on what you want to see.

Both in regards to quality level as well as the... scenario.

 

I personally am not a fan of actual porn (like, where the actor(s) are filmed by someone else).

I prefer it when the one who filmes is the one who pee's - so it's basically amateur stuff I am after.

 

And also I am into naughty peeing, not so much into golden showers, and also voyeur stuff.

For me, the clips created by TamTamSouth are the best stuff I have seen so far.

 

So for me the answer would be "England".

That question is a bit... vague to me.

Like HitEmAll I'd like to know: at home or somewhere else?

So basically: are items that you do not own possible targets?

If it's only at home or items that you own, just make a list, give each item a number and then role a dice. 😉

If you two are planning on adventures out of your home, the question is:

- in public?

- in public, but secluded?

- somewhere inside a house/building, that is still somewhat public (like a store, for instance, or a public toilet)?

 

Without this kind of info I can't really give any sensible advice; I could give you a list containing literally hundreds of items (I do not have such a list, but as anything can be an "item", I could create such a list, if you give me several hours of time).

What are the limits, both location-wise as well as item-wise?

 

Apart from that: you wrote that "... my husband has been on a kick... " .... so... how do you feel about this?

And "...I have to come up with some items... " ... why only you?

 

 

Sex & Violence at it's best:

GUNSHIP - Dark All Day (feat. Tim Cappello and Indiana) [Official Music Video]

 

All given information considered:

I do not see why there shouldn't be life of all sorts and in all kinds of stages in the universe.

 

How it looks like, I have no idea.

But if it evolved in an environment similar to ours I assume it would look very similar to life on earth (current as well as extinct).

Sorry to hear that.

What about your colleagues - are they involved in any way? Are they on you side?

 

In any case: do not forget to... leave your mark... if you catch my drift... 😉

(Only if you can get away with it, of cause.)

#JustGermanThings:

 

On 5/26/2019 at 3:48 PM, F.W said:

Just for fun,can you think of a phrase in your life you wish you could say,or wish you had?

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"I love you."

On 5/13/2019 at 4:02 PM, Bacardi said:

The only person I have ever told was my now ex boyfriend. We were fresh out of high school, I was a virgin and he was not. When the whole fumbling around, making out in his apartment staircase, and awkward sex in his closet away from his little brother thing just didn't turn me on anymore I finally got up the courage to tell him that my thing was piss. Boy, worst experience of my life. 

He literally laughed at me. He asked me if pissing my pants as a child is what triggered it and called me disgusting. From then until we broke up months later every time we got intimate he would ask if I wanted him to pee inside of me. I never had the nerve to tell him that it was naughty peeing that turned me on, and I just stomached the shame each and every time. 

Now my lips are sealed. No one, not my husband or my super inclusive kinky best friend know about my fetish. Just you guys and you don't even know who I am lol. I kink write from time to time on my fanfiction platform and have written a plethora of kinks, but all the piss ones are labeled "requests" instead of originals. It's a sad life, but when I'm here on this form I don't feel ostracised and "disgusting."

That sounds really bad.

I mean in a relationship you and your partner should know about each others deepest desires, thats why it is one of the first things I am trying to find out about a (at taht point only potential) new partner, before I allow things to become serious.

Hence I am single now for not only years but actually decades. 😉

Haven't you at least tried to probe a bit what you hubby thinks about this fetish, or do you know his deep desires?

Or do you avoid finding out, out of fear that he could be disgusted, too?

 

On 5/13/2019 at 5:39 PM, steamlover6 said:

I have a chat up line, mentioned here a while ago, which I use at a club when the girls and the atmosphere is right, but never anywhere else:

"When you have the feeling of needing to pee, is it a 'nuisance' for you or a 'pleasure' ". Never has a girl answered the former, always after a little thought - its the 'pleasure' and it always leads to a brilliant and exciting conversation for the rest of the evening!

Good idea; though I think that if you meet a lady that thinks about anything pee-related as a nuisance or even disgusting.... well, the mere suggestion that it could be a pleasure must make her think of you as a weirdo.

I have to think about this.

 

ABOUT THE ORIGINAL QUESTION:

On 5/11/2019 at 2:25 PM, Gotah said:

Has some of you ever confessed somebody that you are into this tipe of thing? If yes how did you do it and how was the person's reaction afterwards?

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Yes. Only to ladies, though, and - with one exception - only to ladies that I considered to become intimate with.

Some people on an online dating platform now know about my fetish (not in to much detail though), and the reactions ranged from "what ever floats your boat" to "how funny! LOL!". That later reaction - while not actually hurtful - still felt at least a bit disrespectful.

Another lady I was in a short relationship with also knows about my fetish (and I about hers). It was not a match, though, and we broke up a while later (it was not only due to the mismatching fetishes, but they surely contributed).

 

Also, I talked to a lady I only was friends with about it, and we both now know each others fetishes (also a mismatch, btw, but that did not matter, as she was actually in a relationship at that time).

23 hours ago, spywareonya said:

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Is only for those that can give a human the headlong love it deserve 

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I do not love, never have, never will; no gonna lie here.

 

Only thing I can say is:

If you think you need to shift away your focus from this forum, I will not try to convince you otherwise, just because I would _like_ you to stay.

Do what you feel is right.