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"Not I"

Said no one. 

I think we all should have days where we resolve that no urine goes in the toilet bowl.

Better yet, we should try to make this our everyday goal!

5 minutes ago, Wetling said:

When I have to go and the outfit allows it, I never miss a chance get my panties wet. Other than that, when doing sports, I don't think much about peeing then, because I'm not horny and have other things on my mind. When I was mountain biking alone, there had been very few occasions where during a break, I decided to just let go, as its almost invisible on the cycling pants. But usually I'm doing it with friends, and I did never wet myself in front of them.

Did you know it's better from the point of health to mountain bike with a somewhat full bladder? It seems to cushion the shock to the pelvic region. So what if there's a little leaking? Just make sure you're wearing something dark and absorbing.

On 1/30/2022 at 12:13 PM, gldenwetgoose said:

Ok, so not actually wet myself and maybe not ‘playing sports’ but this afternoon I braved the cold and greyness to get out on my bike.  It’s the first time in nearly five months, but felt good.

I set off with a pretty full bladder after hydrating up and knew I was most likely going to need to pee. Whilst cycling I had the weird thing where the immediate desperation feel is hidden and instead I can just feel the heaviness of my bladder. 

Eventually on the home leg I decided to have a quick stop - so standing on an empty county lane I pulled the waist band of my Lycra shorts down and released this splattered puddle.  The result felt amazing!

I'll often set off on a ride with a nearly full bladder. As long as I'm seated, it takes a long time for me to notice my increasing desperation, often a good hour, sometimes two.

But, once I step off the bike, it seems I have only seconds to avoid an accident. More than once I was bit too late pulling the waistband down. Good thing those Lycra shorts are so absorbent! 

On 4/3/2023 at 9:56 PM, bigpeegirl69 said:

Once I really had to pee on a hike with my girlfriend who is into pee, but really shy about doing it outside or in public. I asked her if it was ok if I just peed outside and she said yes. I was surprised she allowed me to, because there was another time I had to go way worse on a hike and she didn’t let me go because she was scared someone would see me. Anyway, I find a crevice between rocks where no one can see for miles, and I squat down on the edge of a rock and pull my pants and underwear to my knees. I lean back so my pussy points away from my body and less pee gets on me. For a while I had a little stage fright having my girlfriend right there, and I almost told her to leave, but then I figured that was ridiculous, I needed someone to keep watch. I eventually started peeing off the rock. When I finish, I don’t have anything to wipe with, so I just keep squatting there for a bit to drip dry. I pull up my pants and we leave. I ask my girlfriend if she was watching. She blushes and says “a little bit”. She also told me that had she known I was going to pee outside, she would have brought a Kleenex so I’d have something to wipe my vagina with.

This sounded like such a fun time. I can only hope you got over your stage fright quickly.

Having gone on literally hundreds of dayhikes with friends, it's rare when at least one of us doesn't haven't to pee. For someone with my kink, it's usually the high point or points of the day.

When we hike as a group, it's pretty much a needs must thing. We do nature's business, then go on our way. But, when I'm in a one on one situation, we tend to be much less inhibited. Depending on how shy my trail partner is, we might take two or twenty steps off the path and I'll often be asked to keep watch. To which I have no problem, though my eyes might not be directed at those passing by. More than once her gaze has met up with mine, but I don't blush easily.

5 minutes ago, Wetling said:

 Come to think of it, a world in which everyone could talk freely of their desires would indeed be a paradise. All it would need were people not taking advantage of others and respect to the "no means no" rule.

Ever since the beginning of time, there have always been a few who've spoiled things for everyone else. I suspect Lavatria would fare the same.

At least there's sites like this where we can talk freely.

There something to be said for being comfortable enough with a friend to pee in front of them, even more so if you find each other attractive. It is, after all, about the most intimate thing you can do with them without touching.

On 3/31/2023 at 4:45 PM, Kupar said:

I think an equivalent for a man is to take a step back from the urinal and arc gracefully over a distance of a metre or so lol ... though I have not been complimented on it yet 

For me, more like a stop along the side of a trail and release a stream that arcs three metres, maybe four if if I'm sufficiently, er, inspired. And yes, I've been complimented on it, in fact on several occasions.

2 minutes ago, epdreamgirl said:

thats very true about a target!! 

Then, you need to go around and find some targets. It's great to do this by yourself, but it's even better played with company. (Or, so I'm told! 😝)

I'm pretty sure I have a more accurate delivery device than you, but I have been proved wrong sometimes.

1 minute ago, epdreamgirl said:

i normally pee outdoors but dont need to aim! i dont wanna ruin anything around my house but like the thrill of it. other than my living room floor and off the side of the couch do you have any ideas??

Then I won't suggest you do anything that would cause damage. Floor and off the side of the couch sound good, especially if it's an easy cleanup.

Still, I'm kinda partial to the outdoors. It might give you that thrill if you could aim at things like stones and leaves and such.

10 minutes ago, epdreamgirl said:

id love to practice again!! probably tomorrow!

I'd highly encourage you to keep practicing. 😁 Maybe a few times every day. It's the only way you're going to get good. 

I might suggest you start off in the shower and try to hit the drain. If you have some good pressure, see how far up the wall you can go. Of course, I'll expect you'll give us full reports. (You will be full, after all.)

When you find you've gotten better, maybe skip the toilet and pee in other places around the house. And then, there's always the great outdoors. 

On 7/20/2022 at 10:42 PM, Lilly bowman said:

I pee behind the shed in my yard all the time

No reason why you shouldn't. It is your shed after all!

At my summer house, I pee outdoors all the time. I tell myself I have near-sighted neighbors.

On 3/1/2023 at 6:04 PM, DoctorDoctor said:

The older chamber pots and bourdaloues probably held enough, but their odd shape makes them seem small.  I doubt that bladders have changed that much in capacity.  Women's bladders may have been even larger back then, because of the lack of women's facilities and the need to hold until a socially acceptable place is found.

I suspect that before the invention of toilet facilities, there was very little expectation of privacy. People, whether male or female would typically pee when the need arose, usually around the level of 5 or 6, rather than the 8 or 9 we often hear about today. Although, I suppose all through history there have always been a few who liked to hold.

In general, people were smaller in general a few centuries ago. I'd imagine the size of their bladder was proportional. And, there was little incentive for them to work on developing their capacity when they could pretty much pee at will, whether at home or in the field.

I think it's mostly for reasons of privacy. Since women usually squat, less of them is exposed when they face forward rather than away, especially if they lean forward enough that their stream falls straight down or even behind them so their shoes and clothing stay dry.

However, I've had the fortune to know several women who frequently pee standing like a man, either for the shock and entertainment value or because they just prefer that way. Usually, like men, they'll face away, unless they want to put on a show for me.

6 hours ago, marking my territory said:

I'm curious how common for the common woman public urination would have been? Certainly it was looked down upon by the middle class, always striving to the sophistication of their "betters". I have to think the odd woman would've ducked into an alley if they could help it but for the most part only the most lost and downtrodden women would've been pissing in the gutters. Don't quote me on it though, just a guess.

I imagine both the lack of facilities and the awkwardness of the clothing would have discouraged most upper class women from travel and exploration. But, surely they're must have been a few whose curiosity got the better of them. I love to read their accounts of how they dealt with those times when they got caught short.

And, there were all those pioneer women who trekked across the country in search of new land. In the days before fast food restaurants, convenience stores and tourist rest areas, one has to wonder how they fared whenever nature called. Somehow, I suspect nature provided the answer.
 

8 hours ago, Chrissy89 said:

I have terrible penis envy, not so much for the toilet but see all the writing names in snow and fountains! 😄

Who said anything about using a toilet? 😝

5 minutes ago, Vassal said:

Collaboration would be ideal since then everyone gets to enjoy the opposite genitalia pissing. 😜

Don't you agree that daylong hiking trips are an ideal way for collaboration? 

2 minutes ago, marking my territory said:

I didn't know about Marie Antoinette peeing before her execution, but I imagine thats fairly common for someone about to be executed.

Did you know that due to lack of bathrooms in Versailles it wasn't uncommon for servants to be seen urinating in the halls? And that some noble women were denied the bathroom while waiting on the queen? There are a few stories of some of the noble ladies having accidents, which I fond strange because of the prevalence of the bourdaloue at the time

Some of the ones I've seen looked like they wouldn't be able to hold all that much. Can you imagine being so desperate that you overflowed one and your stream was still going strong? 

I suppose, back in the days before Big Gulps, Starbucks Trentas and two-liter water bottles, bladders were much smaller.

I'd love to go back to the era of early flight, not much more than a hundred years. There's something very appealing to me in being among the first to soar above the earth and see what's on the ground from a totally new perspective.

Then again, if I could only back fifty or so, I'd want to be one of the astronauts who first stepped on the moon. At least I've been fortunate enough to talk to one of them.

3 minutes ago, marking my territory said:

Not very professional, and I'd certainly be fired if I was caught doing that nonsense in someone's home.

That's why its called a dream job. It never lasts nearly long enough! 🤣

8 minutes ago, marking my territory said:

Absolutely, maids clean up after the whole household, through not every woman pees as shamelessly and unabashedly as a man would.

I certainly hope there are at least a few who do. 😝

7 hours ago, marking my territory said:

Maybe each person pees into a watering can till its full and then use the can to water with discretion...but I think most people prefer to use their own equipment to water plants

It might be fun for a couple to share a watering can. Fill it most of the way up with water. Then, each using their own equipment, top it off.

4 minutes ago, marking my territory said:

  Lately I've been enjoying thinking about the beauty of flora and the human relationship to it, regarding pee. Agricultural is almost as natural to humans as urinating, what we take from the earth we always give back. Each time we squat down and water the earth we are guaranteed to be rewarded for our efforts. Not that I'm ungrateful for modern plumbing but I do grieve that I can't bless my local plant life whenever I feel the urge without being considered a public nuisance.

   I think encouraging men to water their neighborhood veggie gardens and women to water the flowers would be incredibly beneficial, bring bee population back up, help combat public urination in detrimental places, encourage more friendly interaction, less shame around urine.

  Although...this could encourage a bit more feral behaviour in people, particularly men, not that I'd consider that a bad thing, mind you. Urine marking in humans is a bit of a lost art, though we still mark but in a subtle manner. Not that I'd ever complain about men marking around my home, it'd be so primal, watching different males marking in my garden/plant life. Each trying to outdo the other, leaving their scent....but I digress. 

 

Since I'm a big believer in equality of the sexes, I think women should be encouraged to do the same as men. 

On 2/20/2023 at 5:03 PM, pguy2981 said:

You're trying to destroy your inbox on the first day?

It's probably good I didn't see this until today. Hopefully, I'm not too late to the party.

I think for most on here, they consider it an honor that their posts encourage such behavior.