Paulypeeps

43 minutes ago, CON2H4 said:

Not if you are @Paulypeeps

Quite. I always feel strangely empty in my bladder when I exit the cinema.

4 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

This may initially sound a little controversial, but I'd still like pee to be slightly taboo.

What I mean is, if it was just a thing like sneezing or yawning, and everyone just did it everywhere - surely it would lose its magic and fascination.  It'd be amazing for a few days, weeks or even a month or so - but then would be the norm....

I don't think you would enjoy it any less. I suspect that we would not be coming here to talk about it so much though!

I would just look at it being an opportunity to have a bit more colour in my wardrobe...

@amzy90 There is little chance of anyone noticing if she just nonchalantly pees while doing something else. Dress appropriately (above the knee black skirt and nothing but fishnet stockings underneath) and peeing can be done pretty much anywhere such as down her legs while dancing (fishnet stockings will hide the wetness on her legs), straight on to the floor while standing with her legs a little apart at the bar (she will be busy ordering a drink so no one will suspect her of peeing at the same time), through her skirt while seated (black skirt will not show the wetness, and no one will question a wet patch on the seat as being anything other than spilled drink). And perching on the edge of the seat and peeing under a table of course, sliding forward on the seat at the same time as pulling up her skirt if she wants to keep it dry (probably won't bother after a few drinks!)

Overt peeing or performing any action normally associated with peeing will draw attention though, especially if done drunkenly, so don't squat anywhere (unless inspecting a shoe), and never kneel anywhere (it is usually a sign someone is too drunk to stand, and therefore too drunk to control their bladder), and never get desperate and do a pee dance as that will attract all eyes.

Peeing in a club or bar is easy-peasy, especially if you don't mind getting a bit wet. It is very liberating to just go when you feel the tingle so I am sure she will get to enjoy it just as much as you once she becomes confident. Take her to the cinema first, it is a great place to gain confidence wetting in public, then you can go on to a club or bar and she will already have a wet skirt!

PP

I am a no underwear person, but I guess if I had to wear underwear I would choose a pair of fishnet tights.

I would worry a little that they might get a bit smelly though!

Please don't let it be a chore. Just do as much as you want, it will still be more than enough. You can focus on what you really really like!

6 hours ago, MidoriLemonade85 said:

Wetting is what brings many of us introverts here. It is something that you can enjoy privately...

I guess this is quite an attraction. Even though I mostly wet myself in public, I don't do it so that anyone would notice, it is nice to be sitting and peeing through my skirt in to the seat while no one else in the pub knows I am doing it.

So next time I see someone breastfeeding in a library or café I am going to be wondering "Is she peeing now too?"

Most outside areas near buildings have CCTV coverage nowadays, so peeing outside is hard. While there is a lot of coverage indoors, there are usually things such as furniture that you can step behind to be out of view.

At the end of the day the real way to make sure a place is safe is to misdirect by doing something else while you are peeing. If you stand and pee discreetly while checking your phone you are just another person checking their phone - no one is going to suspect you of peeing at the same time. If you stand still facing a dark corner for twenty seconds it is going to be pretty obvious what you are doing, and even if you are not peeing people will think you are.

Dear Mother May I

It would appear that you still have a few hang-ups when it comes to peeing. You need to practice more to get better control of your bladder - not being able to go when you want to can be just as bad as going when you don't want to. You let yourself get desperate so you did not fully appreciate what your daughters are feeling, and left yourself with a much bigger puddle than you wanted. You should practice more before you can properly evaluate what it is like to pee freely.

It looks like you have resolved your relationship with your youngest daughter, and clearly she respects you.

As for your oldest daughter, I feel she is feeling a little ashamed about being caught peeing. Clearly your assertions that it is O.K. to pee as long as she respects to house have not resolved the issue she has of being caught doing something she knows you disprove of. She clearly feels perfectly comfortable peeing full blast on to her bedroom carpet, and cannot see a way forward. I think that the answer in this situation is to try and encourage moderation. I suspect that she has some hang-ups herself and is holding off peeing until the last minute resulting in a very strong stream and a big puddle, and her hang-ups clearly reflect yours.

Now that you have peed on the carpet once, and have seen what the medium term effect is, and appreciate that it was the result of doing such a big pee all in one place rather like your eldest daughter does, you really need to persevere and try to get full control of your bladder. I feel that the only way to fully restore your relationship with your eldest daughter is to show her by demonstration how to pee around the house responsibly, how to just stand and pee little and often, and gently, in different places around the house. This needs to be done sooner rather than later to avoid the rift between you and your eldest daughter getting ever more resentful.

Perhaps something to try is to keep well hydrated, and use the toilet as normal, but a few minutes after you have peed in the toilet try standing somewhere in the house and just relax and see if you can let out a little pee. You won't be able to do much since you recently peed, but will be able to relax more easily knowing you won't be making a flood. Perhaps try doing it first in your eldest daughter's room where you know the carpet has already been peed on. Gradually increase the length of time that you try this after using the toilet, and then try starting and stopping. I am sure that in less than a week you will be able to have full control and will be able to just pee whenever you want to.

Once you have full control just occasionally casually and nonchalantly stand and pee in front of your eldest daughter. I am sure that she will notice even if she does not straight away acknowledge it, and you will probably see a change in her behaviour.

Auntie Paulypeeps.

When I wet my bed I prefer to do it before I go to sleep, but on occasion after a clubbing night when I wake up in bed still fully dressed, and still a little damp from the night before, I have been tempted to pee before I get up so I can lay in a little longer.

I try not to get morning pee in the bed because it is very yellow and really stains the mattress, and smells a bit!

I guess we must be part of a large community now with clothing being made available for us:-

https://www.redbubble.com/shop/wetting+clothing

Not sure that I would wear all of them, but some are rather fun.

Dear Mother May I

I think that the first issue you need to resolve is what it is that you do not approve of. There is quite a lot going on here.

• Do you disapprove of the nakedness? Perhaps you feel that your daughters should pee while fully dressed because there are places where it would not be appropriate for women to be naked.
• Do you disapprove of the noise they are making? Perhaps you feel that your daughters should make a little less noise when they pee to avoid drawing attention to themselves.
• Do you disapprove of the excessive wear and tear on the carpet? Do you feel that your daughters should pee on the carpet a little more gently to avoid spoiling the pile.

I am sure that if you consider these points it will be reasonably easy to have a conversation with each of your daughters to address the relevant issue. Perhaps an occasional demonstration by yourself of how to pee around the house responsibly will help the situation. Clearly your daughters are keen to explore things and are learning, just a little guidance is all they need and soon they will be peeing and wetting themselves just like their mother!

Auntie Paulypeeps