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But by what criteria would anyone be here "legitimately"?Anyone could simply decide they dont like the weather in somewhere like Uganda,leave,and then say"Oh if i go back to Uganda ill be prosecuted for marrying an Ostrich"" or something stupid like that.We should not let anyone live here just because they might want to.Even so called "refugees" should have strict criteria for gaining asylum.Maybe is the war they are running from,something WE actually started,or is the "man" of military age,and clearly a deserter of some kind.Just because we arent at war,doesnt mean we should become kind of refuge for deserters.

I don't think anyone is seeking refuge in another country because they don't like the weather. If that were the case there wouldn't be anyone left living in England!

As for deserters, what a ridiculous comment. If ISIS were in control of where I lived I would do everything in my power to get myself and more importantly my family out of there and to safety.

Being from Lancashire, I am obliged to disagree with that! But other than that hi welcome Bulldog.

It's utterly crap mate. I've been in exactly the same boat with a friend I met on a different site. We got to know each other through shared interests (football mainly) before it became apparent that in fact, we were both undergoing chemotherapy at the time.

We spoke and I hope, certainly in my case it helped, that some of the late night chats about nothing at all was a bit of an escape for a while. I got lucky and in the end recovered (touch wood) but after not hearing from my friend for a couple of weeks I got a message to say he had passed away. I was still having treatement at the time and it hit me like a ton of bricks but I couldn't even tell anyone in person because how do you explain that. I had tears in my eyes when I found out but couldn't even tell my other half at the time because she wouldn't have understood that I had been chatting on the site for company in the early hours when things seem at their worst and nothing else.

There is a lot more to everyone than just a fetish and when you get to know someone outside of that, you do see them as a friend even if you will in all likelihood never meet them in person.

What a charming outlook. And yet you're still single somehow?

Number of active profiles are pretty limited and I think there's a fair few mixed in from other sites run by the same company. It seems to be totally unused recently and I personally wouldn't even waste my time or so I've read anyway :-)

I see the Orange one is on the back track again with Ryan. There are some tough jobs out there in this big wide world, but being in charge of PR for his campaign has to be up there with the worst of them.

He hasn't yet seemed to grasp the concept that everything he says in public is recorded and then witnessed by hundreds of millions of people and that he can't then deny having said something a day or two later.

You do of course understand that anyone coming to this country from outside of the EU will have their application assessed in exactly the same way it is now?

Thankfully, since I made the original post, Trump has seemingly shot himself in the foot a couple of times too many. The support he has lost of some major figures within his own party and the issue with the soldiers parents has done for him. His attempt at being an every man by eating KFC fell a little flat too!

I'm glad it's done with but frightening that it even got this far.

I wonder, could the minority of people who feel this way and are tarring hundreds of millions of Muslims with the same brush and are actively encouraging discrimination, be considered a violent, unpleasant, racist cult?

Cold and damp I should imagine

No you could not be declared a Muslim state, stop being ridiculous.

The space bar comment was only light hearted. I will say this now, as personality is difficult to portray when typing a post online but I'm from Lancashire, we are naturally a dry, sarcastic bunch when it comes to humour but I can assure anyone, if I ever post anything taking the mickey a little, it's all meant in good nature, nothing more.

If I really disagree with something somebody says, I would say so in very straight terms, not by having a cheap dig.

Think it's always being the problem with forums, people don't read things the way it sounds in your head as you are typing it.

Maybe we need a voice chat facility!

And try the space bar once in a while, it's that big long button with nothing written on it at the bottom of your keyboard!

If Trump ran here, with those policies, he wouldn't win. He'd get some votes, but not many more than the BNP have managed over the years.

To keep the peace, I've not said anything much about Donald Trump for the last few weeks, if nothing else to let the whole argument die down.

I realise it's a contentious issue that on several occasions has caused a more than heated debate but I can't keep quiet on this one;

For him to respond the way he did to the speech made by a man (a Muslim man but what difference does that make?) who's son was killed in action whilst serving for the United States Army is simply dispicable. Not only did he not thank the soldier and his surviving family for the ultimate price that young man paid, he then took a lazily racist swipe at the speakers wife.

Now I know many on here support Trumo and fully intend to vote for him and of course that is your right. I have never suggested otherwise and have only sparked up conversations simply to hear the other side of the argument as it were. However, how far does he have to go before enough people who were borderline in support of him decide that's enough now, you've gone too far?

Indeed I ask any of you, has any of Trumps recent speeches or policies started to change your outlook?

I know that during the UK/EU campaigns, I learnt a few things I wasn't aware of previously and it did give me some cause to think on whether I had made the right decision.

Would really like to hear some opinions, but please understand this is not a thread started to invoke an argument, I'm genuinely interested that's all.

This is getting silly. Steve is a mod. Any forum needs a couple of people keeping an eye on it especially one such as this which has a lot of sexual content. People are going to write about things that are often nothing but fantasy in their minds and things that even given the chance they wouldn't wish to do in reality.

However, when it gets to the point of people writing about abuse etc there has to be a line drawn somewhere. No mods on a forum like this would end up with at some point people talking about underage, forced sex etc etc and that sort of crap just isn't needed.

Steve made a judgement call as is his right to do so. Personally I'd rather something questionable was picked up on than leaving people to post whatever they want.

This is no different to arguing over a refereeing decision. Everyone will have their views as to what is too much and what isn't but this forum needs to stop falling out with each other when most people are basically singing from the same hymn sheet.

Well maybe a few of us could say ok, let's chat at such a time on a Saturday night and see how it goes. I know that we all found ourselves here because of a mutual fetish for want of a better word but there seems to be plenty enough decent conversations taking place just that they take days at a time!

I understand what you are saying about Sophie and I'm sure plenty of people here would enjoy chatting pee related stuff with other users and why not, hardly averse to that myself but personally, would like to get to know a few people and have some normal conversations as well. As with other places, if people want to have an intimate chat can always pm but as night owl would be good just to be able to chsr about sport, holidays etc etc because there are a lot of active users on here and unlike pool, very few idiots.

I meant internal promotion MPT ie encouraging more members who regularly chat via the forum to use the chat room a bit more. I've had plenty a decent discussion on here about everything from pee stuff to politics but even though a lot of the time the people who have been involved have been online it's been a case of replying via the thread which seems daft if we are all sat there having a conversation.

Totally agree Sophie. I used to chat quite a lot in pool and got to know some people really well and it got to the point where there was a group of really good people logging in every night and chatting till the sun came up half the time. The last couple of years, pool has steadily gone downhill and now all that happens is people log in and before even saying hello they ask who wants to wet themselves etc etc.

I'm hardly averse to having that sort of conversation ( I didn't accidentally end up here after googling how to knit a sweater!) but no doubt like a lot of people in here, I'd sooner get to know people and have a laugh more than anything else. I have found 99% of people here to be worth chatting to but most conversations happen via the forum than in the chat room and I think it's probably part of the site that could be better used with a bit of promotion.

The chat isn't great, I've been on here a few months and I've said a few times that needs improving but the forum is pretty active. Personally, I'm happy enough to chat any old crap not just pee stuff although most here are in the states ( don't know where you're from but I'm guessing uk?) so not much chance of chatting about football etc

It's alright here mate, plenty of decent people about.

Bit of an odd fetish you've got there, it is a bit weird. Not sure this is the place for you :-)

Yeah I thought that and did join a few groups and try and chat a bit but I think one of the main problems is that there are far too many single blokes who are either desperate or just downright disgraceful which doesn't help when someone who is genuinely just looking to get to know a few people etc.

Yeah I found the whole place a bit weird. Most of it seems to be bondage related chat etc which I have no interest in at all and it was not a site I wanted to really get involved in once I'd spent a it of time reading some threads. Hell of a lot of people on there cheating on their other half as well which just isn't something I agree with.

I'm in the North West (Manchester ish) but from what I've seen there aren't too many people about on here from the UK, let alone the North West. Like Pauly said, maybe fetlife your best option if you are just looking for a nsa meet with someone. I had a look on there and seems that most members were couples and that's just not my thing but each to his/her own.