Pete2304

Will reply later when I have more time. Had no phone the last ten days (robbed outside my local supermarket, life is just a ruddy bed of roses for me right now haha) but there's so much I have to say on this one. Long and short though I do note the orange one seems to no longer be planning a blanket ban on Muslims entering the US, to abolish Obamacare nor have Hilary imrisoned. Wonder how long until some of his more "passionate" supporters become upset. 

Politicians sometimes lie to get into office, we all know this. However it's one thing to promise to cut interest rates by 2% and then when you get in have to admit you can only manage a 1% cut but a whole different set of lies when you've promised to build a 1900 mile long wall, imprison a former First Lady and rebuild the countries health care system only to then distance yourself from the lot once the votes have been cast. 

On 16 October 2016 at 4:50 AM, steve25805 said:

I was getting Error 22 and Error 24 messages as well when it wouldn't load at all.

And Pete2304 sent me a PM saying that it wasn't working for him either.

Thus far things seem a little more responsive this morning but I have only just got here and it is very early days so far

I couldn't load the site at all around the same time and was just getting a blank screen. Like everyone else, I'm finding it's loading fine now most of the time.

This is what I've been saying all along. I said on here when was officially nominated as the republican candidate that the keys to the White House were now Hilary's. Was talking today about Spitting Image (satirical political based comedy programme, ran in the U.K. For years) and even they couldn't have made up this situation. You just couldn't write it. I'm half convinced I'm going to wake up at some point and tell people about this weird dream I had where a bigoted, narcissistic, alleged perpetrator of a string of sexual assaults with a somewhat questionable state of mental health nearly became president of the United States.

Yeah it's a total waste of time there now. Used to be worthwhile chatting in there but I've logged on once every couple of weeks over he last months and have logged out again pretty quickly because it's either idiots or nobody chatting. 

I very nearly didn't come back for a variety of reasons but an email from Steve was genuinely appreciated and knowing that some of the issues aren't going re occur in afraid you're all stuck with me for the foreseable! Hopefully things can get back to how they were a while ago, ie people feel they are welcome and that no underhand silliness is going on behind the scenes or with certain users. I nailed my colours to the mast in terms of backing Steve when all the crap started and as I was pretty certain at the time, it turned out I had gotten the right impression about who was likely to come out of it looking like an idiot and who was going to be shown to be a decent person. 

My friend has Crohn's disease. It's caused her a few problems but to be honest hasn't really affected her day to day life. I had no idea and she wouldn't have told me were it not for the fact that she was there for me a lot while I was having chemotherapy a couple of years back and we got talking about everything that's happened to us over our lives and she mentioned that. Now I know it's caused her some pain at times, some discomfort and has once in a blue moon stopped her from going to work but other than that she leads a perfectly normal life. The girl works two jobs and works behind a bar 12 hours a night at weekend without a problem so it's not the end of the world. 

Good luck with whatever the end diagnosis is and just put your faith in the docs. I did and I'm bloody glad!!

This did concern me up until about a couple of months back. Then there was the issue with the family of the American soldier, the comments about the second amendment people maybe being able to do something about Hilary. Then there was the amazingly poor performance in the first debate, the somewhat questionable sniffing (I make no accusations, just seems the man has difficulty in getting rid of his cold) and then of course the video not to mention the accusations that surfaced last night. I think he did have a lot of silent voters but did have is not the same as having come Election Day.

It's over now. It's done, finished. Opinion polls typically are less accurate in the States than the UK but it matters not, it's gone too far. 

The first debate was utter car crash TV but that was long enough ago so will leave that where it is. The second one would have been OK for Trump had he not chosen to spend the night playing the random sentence generator game.

Q: Donald have you ever kissed a woman without their consent?

A: ISIS

The oddest thing about this whole sorry  scenario is the total lack of discussion about the details of the manifestos on the table. Frightening actually.

That aside, I've been absent for a while but thought I'd give here another go again so hi (again) all and hope everyone is well and look forward to chatting more regularly. 

Ok, well then if I get working on some way to fix the lotto numbers and you start looking at ways to tunnel into a bank we can split the profits depending on who comes up with a good idea first!

I've seen the bombardment in pee search and at times it was (and no doubt still is) ridiculous. I logged in (with a mods permission) under a female name and I've never seen anything like it.

I enjoy the parts of here that are fetish based obviously, but it seems like there's a group of people here, albeit not huge in numbers but who on the who seem decent enough and we must have other things to chat about. Maybe it's just from a personal point of view but I keep daft hours and am now home alone at night and seems daft that if there's a group of people in we can't all say hello etc and just have a laugh even hopefully without the problems that arose on pee search with the PM's.

It has also seemed at times as if arguments have been almost manufactured by certain people but I think that seems to have been noticed by more than just myself and has changed recently.

I will stick around for a while longer and hopefully things just, well, cheer up a bit!!

Finally cheers Scot Lover, don't know that I'm anything special when it comes to debating, think it was just a case of a couple of topics I feel strongly about, no doubt there's a million and one other things that could come up in conversation that I wouldn't be much use with but thanks anyway.

I can't be the only one on here who has been on pool chat and I can't help but think can we maybe not either amalgamate or if not, those of us here who want to chat just agree to go there?

There's a farcical, almost childish level of falling out that isn't helping anybody and since I received a Luke warm (at best) response toward my attempts to promote the chat here I figured maybe pool could be a better option.

I'm not throwing my toys out of the pram and I'm sure I wouldn't be missed but with the greatest respect, I don't just come here to see pics of women peeing, they aren't exactly hard to find and what I thought was a friendly community is starting to show an ugly side more and more frequently.

If it weren't for Steve and the other mods then there is potential for content way above and beyond what is acceptable to be posted. Certainly not saying that's been the case but there has to be mods, in any walk of life.

As I say, I know I won't be missed but either people start, if nothing else, making an effort to be civil, or I'm done with here and I'm sure I won't be the only one.

The alternative is, we all chat, say hi, have a laugh and the rest will naturally follow.

Last moan I will have, whichever way it works out.

I'm always happy to chat to anyone about anything at all, PM or in forum. I'm not desperate for friends but this is a different part of my life that my "normal" friends if you will, don't know about so I'm happy to chat to anyone and meet new people.

Pete

Since this has resurfaced, I will again apologise for my comments on the issue. Whether or not I felt/feel that the thread as a whole wasn't without merit is irrelevant.

Steve was simply doing what he was obliged to, as a mod, regardless of his feelings one way or another, which he quite rightly never expressed.

I do stand by one of my points that maybe a little more rigorous registration system may help with some of the issues that come up but that seems to be a no go and I understand why.

In some ways, it's a shame this situation even occurred.....if someone (and I'm not saying in this case) feels the need to masquerade as someone else, then deep down, that person would probably not really be getting any enjoyment from that I would guess. I could well be wrong (and frequently am).

Maybe a more active chat as I've motioned before would help create a more open, relaxed atmosphere. This isn't life and death when all said and done.

Rant over, again!

Pete

1) Leah Remini

2) Kate Winslet

3) Katie Price

Last few weeks a few of you have been very kind to me with words of support and it's helped, I can assure you.

That got me me thinking last night though that actually there must be people here with a wide variety of talents and knowledge so figured maybe a new thread could be started that anyone can ask for a helping hand for anything at all. Be it someone having a rough time or someone who has a broken lawnmower or boiler, whatever it may be but if you don't know how to fix it, chances are out of all the members on here somebody probably would.

So if there's enough of a response and if mods agree I propose a new sticky thread in the off topic chat along the lines of "could do with a bit of advice"

I'm not much use with mending or building things but then again If somebody here was looking to get into a media career I would be happy to give some time to share what I know (and what I've done wrong along the way).

I've a fair few other skills that could be of use to people, I've a fair bit of legal knowledge when it comes to the right way to word a letter or email of significance and I know a fair amount about recruitment and how to give yourself a head start when it comes to job interviews because a horrible 12 months working in recruitment taught me a few tricks to get yourself in the door.

That person may in turn be able to tell me how to re wire a plug socket or put a flat pack table and chairs together because I haven't got a sodding clue!

There's been too much bickering on here lately so maybe might get us all chatting a bit more outside of the obvious common reason we all spend time on here, and maybe get to know people a bit better.

Pete

P.s I'm a miserable git by nature so I'm going out on a limb here to try and get the mood a little more positive!!

I am going to chuck my two penneth in because I personally feel that the level of bickering is probably getting a bit much.

This latest argument has come about because MPT has taken an issue with a post that was nothing more than an opinion.

MPT has done me no harm and was in fact one of the people who commented on a recent thread I started.

As some of you realised I was in need of support and reached out here and it has been a comfort to have some very genuine words and comfort.

So, it shows that on the whole, there's a decent bunch here but this is an argument out of nothing. We are all grown ups and if you don't like someone don't speak to them unless you can grasp the concept of people having different opinions.

This is a forum and surely the idea is that people chat and exchange differing opinions or else what's the point?

As long as nobody has posted something unnaceptable or been insulting or abusive then as in any part of our daily lives be it here, work or sat talking in the pub you either join in the conversation amicably or say nothing.

I have been here a relatively short time but I enjoy chatting here but again I feel compelled to say that the nit picking is making the place look rather uninviting.

When your life is in the bloody bin it's pretty easy to spot things that aren't worth arguing about so come on people.

Firstly lili Thankyou and again thank you to everyone else again. I was in dire need to just unload everything I felt tonight and whilst I can assure you all I would never do anything silly or harm myself, I phoned the Samaritans. The lady I spoke to ended up in tears and said that she had never heard anything like what has happened over the last ten years for me. However I am going to stop talking about it but genuinely thanks all.

Steve, I understand where you are coming from. How important it is to different people I suppose is always going to differ but I do know what you mean that it is the one thing that really does it for you. As my ramblings about the situation I'm in have gone on through this thread it's obvious you all I'm broken but that's from a relationship that only very, very rarely involved the slightest hint of pee play. Had it done and we were still together, I dont think I would have ever ended up here and that's probably the same for quite a few members who are still in long term happy relationships. Guilty secret I suppose.

Oh, I should add...car blew head gasket 50 yards after I set off back. Known it hasn't been quite right since yesterday but had no idea that was about to happen. I'm counting down the clock till midnight because I've bloody well had enough of today!! Fully expecting a plane to drop out of the sky and land on my house at some stage in the next 15 minutes!

I went to meet her and her little boy today (who came into the world as a result of an affair she had six years ago but who I have always loved as if he was my own) for what will probably be the last time. We met at the pub and had a last drink together and then on the way out I had to hear from the little man that they were off to meet the family of a man that I've only just found out existed to celebrate his birthday. Two weeks ago she promised me that whilst someone had shown an interest in her, she just wanted to take some time on her own. Needless to say, this latest bit has left me without a single bit of fight in me.

MPT's post another following the trend. Looks like on the whole, majority here have more in common than just the reason we ended up chatting on here in the first place.

Again Thank you as well, I'm starting to come to the conclusion that like me, there are quite a few people on here who have had their hearts broken and whilst some people can pick themselves up instantly, from the replies it's clear I'm not alone in not being thick skinned enough to do that.

It's been a clean sweep as regards to every reply being that of putting what I would feel are the first and truly important things you should look for in a new partner at the top of their list.

So, all I need to do now, is somehow get over an utterly broken heart, meet a nice, kind, faithful Kelly Brook lookalike who just so happens to keep wetting herself! Not much to ask for is it?!

Genuinely though, thanks all

Well firstly, Thank you for your delightfully articulate reply. Secondly, I would suggest that you take more water with whatever you are drinking. Thirdly, I'd suggest you don't continue to make posts in the tone you just have.

This discussion has been ongoing for sometime and whilst there have been many different opinions, there is a level of respect for other people's right to have an opinion which should be kept to in any walk of life as far as I'm concerned. By all means make a reasoned point but you have succeeded in doing little else than making yourself look rather silly. I won't go out of my way to contact the mods about this but I would also hazard a guess that anyone reading this may take a pretty dim view of your character.

Oh and just in case you want to give yourself the correct label, you're a bigot not a racist. Islam is not a race.

Paul,

Whilst I really haven't got the energy, you've decided to be pretty insulting so....on what grounds do you base your comment that "the Islams are TOTALY racists"? Just for the record, it's totally but not important.

I wonder, are all the soldiers who have recently liberated an IS stronghold near the Turkish border all intent on invading the west, as you put it? The men who risked their lives so the women could throw away their burkas and people could freely go about their business are intent on causing us all harm are they?

You are also, by way of your sweeping judgement including friends of mine who are Muslim who despise IS and any other form of terrorism but are all intent on hurting anyone who doesn't follow a very strange and twisted take on Islam according to you.

Unfortunately, you are one of a sadly growing number of people who make ill educated, sweeping statements without actually making the effort to look into some of the real issues at stake.

Whilst you have decided to reply to my post by attempting to insult me with your (helper of these people) comment and others, that just falls flat with me pal. I am not a helper of Islam, that being said I have no issue with Islam, why would I?

I will tell you what I have an issue with....radicalised individuals and organisations who seek to hurt and harm innocent people in the name of a religion they have twisted and lied about in order to suit their own criminal ideology. I couldn't care less if anybody committing a terrorist attack is a Muslim, a Christian or believes they are following the religion of the bloody fairies, anybody who would commit such a heinous crime is an utterly disgraceful person who, if not killed as part of their crime, must be locked up. The point is though, not all people are the same.

I will again suggest we leave this argument here but if you want to continue to make false statements about a subject you appear to know very little about feel free. However, don't attempt to insult me personally, or at least check a dictionary before you do.

Thanks for the nice words people. As I say it will be a bloody long time before I even consider meeting anyone else, as pathetic as t sounds, right now I think just need someone to give me a hug!

People have mentioned peeling Cupid on here in the past and during a seperation in my marriage which lasted 6 months I did have a look around there but firstly my heart wasn't in it and secondly, there was nobody on there who seemed to be decent and nice and worth meeting.

It's quite warming in a way (don't!) that the responses pretty much cover how I feel about how much of a priority it is but I also knew we would all to one degree or another have considered it at some point.

Plus, as I'm sure most of you gathered, it was the middle of the night when I posted that and starting a conversation on here was about all I could think of to provide a brief distraction from thinking about things.

Don't know many people really here but have been posting for maybe six months or so and nice to see that vast majority are a decent, genuine bunch.

Absolutely it isn't make or break. Before I met my wife I had a couple month long relationship with a girl who absolutely loved wetting etc etc but that was about the only attraction and that's certainly not enough long term and I split up with her but I'm guessing most people here have at some point bitten the bullet and brought up the idea probably with some good and no doubt some horribly awkward responses!

It's going to be a long time before I can even think about trying a new relationship and first and foremost I would simply want someone nice in my life but in the back of your mind you maybe always know that you are going to be more turned on in the bedroom if they enjoy this side of things.

Finally, I will say that whilst I'm sat here feeling utterly broken, I could never have any idea of how awful that time must have been for you and no doubt still is and I wish you all the best mate.

So, over the last few months I have clung onto a marriage that I knew was slipping away. We have been living apart for a while and finally, yesterday, she rang with the gut wrenching conversation I had been dreading and she has fallen head over heels for someone else.

I'm not looking for sympathy comments, just that I've figured that at some point, when it stops hurting as much, I will maybe want to meet someone new. That got me wondering just how much people here have valued someone new enjoying wetting etc when thinking about a relationship with a new partner.

I was with my wife for 7 years and it was never really her thing. I still fancied her like mad but I couldn't help trying on a fair few occasions to introduce peeing to our sex life but without much success.

Personally, I think that whilst it wouldn't be vital, if and when I do eventually meet someone new, I would probably put her enjoying peeing and wetting pretty high on the list because I always felt like that little bit of excitement was missing so I just wondered how others felt when they have either thought about or gotten into a new relationship?

Top of the list for me is always a decent, genuine person with a sense of humour but when it comes to the physical side, I'm pretty sure I would want that to be a part of things, if one day I meet someone else.