Yeah I have found that I have to keep bladder fullness/peeing and arousal totally separate. If I try to cum with a full bladder, it kind of weakens the orgasm.

Hi Eazy. You might want to post in the "Introductions" section, that way more people will realize you're here. I'll second the fact that a better way to get started talking to people is to respond to threads that other people have started that you have thoughts on or can relate to. Then once you have posted a few responses in those threads, you can maybe start your own threads about experiences you've had or questions you've always wanted the answer to. People here are generally not too bashful about sharing their experiences "publicly" (of course under the anonymity this forum provides), sometimes quite personal ones. While we have a (group) chat, we aren't mainly a chat site, particularly for one on one. We do have private messaging, but people use that after they already somewhat get to know each other on the public forum--and many of the women's message inboxes are perpetually full, because they aren't big and the some women get lots of attention.

That is very interesting to read. For many of us guys we have difficulty peeing after we've cum (though in my case it only lasts one to a few minutes before going back to normal--nowhere near an hour), but this is because we use the same tubes for both, and the "valve" in the prostate hasn't yet opened back up to allow urine through. There may be a reason for this, to make sure we have pulled out and won't kill the sperm we just released with acidic pee. Obviously none of that holds for women, your urethras have no "fork in the road". The fact that being aroused doesn't make it difficult suggests that it isn't because of the increased blood flow and swelling in the area squeezing the tubes shut. And the fact that it's over an hour is amazing. Maybe it is something that some bodies have to prevent pee from washing out sperm, which can sit there for quite a while waiting to get through the cervix--though I'd imagine a woman would need to have her hips elevated over her stomach for it to have any chance of flowing up the vagina! I'm curious if any other women have the same experience of not being able to pee so long after orgasm like that.

Yes I think there are more of these universal toilets are being built anyway. Even though they can be dirty, my whole family can go into one at the same time, which is great because we hate being separated when out. (2 adults, 2 young kids and 2 of us have disabilities). 

Some of us are shy. Or don’t want to bother people, or put up with judgement and stares. Also it is whole lot easier to feed a baby when you are sitting in a comfortable chair and have a microwave to warm up formula.