My neighbor

[Misslittlecutie1 402]

I have a neighbor that I have realized frequently pees outside, and our houses are right next door to each other. He likes to have a few beers almost every night after work and drinks more heavily on the weekends. He has a door in the back of the garage leading to his backyard where he goes to pee instead of going inside. I’m not at all attracted to him but I do find it kind of hot that he does this. 
 

The first time I saw him peeing outside was when I was in my room and happened to see him right outside my window. It was broad daylight. My bedroom is on the second story and my window directly overlooks his side yard where his back door leads to and where he frequently pees. He was standing there while looking straight into his backyard and taking a massive piss with a big arc that seemed to keep flowing forever. He didn’t notice I could see him. He was in full side profile view so I could see everything. I wanted to keep watching but because I was also so caught off guard I felt really embarrassed. I ended up leaving the room but soon I felt regret as I wish I had watched him finish. Because I felt so embarrassed I didn’t pay too much attention to looking at his dick so I didn’t see it. This whole time I thought it was a fluke for me to catch him doing this until today. He did it again but this time he faced his house. I now realize this is just something he does and at some point I’ll probably see him again and I’m hoping I’ll be able to see his dick. I can’t believe the luck I’ve found myself in. What are the odds?!

[Alfresco 11,627]

You are definitely lucky to have ended up with a neighbour that pees in your view.  He is also lucky that you appreciate it rather than being offended by it.   It would be good if you can somehow let him know that you have seen him but that you are fine with it or even enjoy it, then he won’t have to worry about whether he may get caught and offend you.  He probably works on the principle that he will only be there for less than a minute and the chances of you looking out at exactly that time are pretty slim.

It is probably more common than most people would expect - as you say, he is likely doing it to save going inside (although may enjoy it as well).  I am sure many men have a shed or garage where they spend time and don’t go back into the house to pee.  There are probably a few reasons - firstly, simple convenience.  Secondly, if he goes in, his wife might want him to sty in, but he really wants to get on with whatever h is doing.  Third, depending what he is doing, he may get dirty and not want to clean up to go to the house.  Fourth, he may enjoy the freedom or the feeling.

I have a workshop attached to the house and a garage at the bottom of the garden.   I often pee outside when working in either of those spaces.   I wouldn’t mind betting my neighbours have seen me sometimes, but if they have then they haven’t said.  I definitely work on the principle of hoping nobody that would mind is looking at that time.  

[TylerHasFun 1,096]

I guess I would be that neighbor that everyone else sees pissing, lol.  Bro I wish id seen more of neighbors pissing.  I love doing it but i really love to watch

[Misslittlecutie1 402]

On 10/29/2024 at 12:42 AM, Alfresco said:

You are definitely lucky to have ended up with a neighbour that pees in your view.  He is also lucky that you appreciate it rather than being offended by it.   It would be good if you can somehow let him know that you have seen him but that you are fine with it or even enjoy it, then he won’t have to worry about whether he may get caught and offend you.  He probably works on the principle that he will only be there for less than a minute and the chances of you looking out at exactly that time are pretty slim.

It is probably more common than most people would expect - as you say, he is likely doing it to save going inside (although may enjoy it as well).  I am sure many men have a shed or garage where they spend time and don’t go back into the house to pee.  There are probably a few reasons - firstly, simple convenience.  Secondly, if he goes in, his wife might want him to sty in, but he really wants to get on with whatever h is doing.  Third, depending what he is doing, he may get dirty and not want to clean up to go to the house.  Fourth, he may enjoy the freedom or the feeling.

I have a workshop attached to the house and a garage at the bottom of the garden.   I often pee outside when working in either of those spaces.   I wouldn’t mind betting my neighbours have seen me sometimes, but if they have then they haven’t said.  I definitely work on the principle of hoping nobody that would mind is looking at that time.  

I am pretty lucky! I’ve noticed between yesterday and today he pretty much does it every hour or two while outside. I’ve been watching a movie in my room and have heard him out there twice already just to take a piss. It’s too dark to see anything and I surely don’t want him catching me taking a peek, but it is quite a turn on knowing he’s constantly taking a piss right outside my bedroom window. One day I’ll be lucky again to see him in plain view spraying a high arc across his walkway. I won’t be telling him I know though. I don’t want to ruin my perfect view or to embarrass myself or him. 
 

I like how you also do something similar. I completely understand avoiding going inside to then be stuck inside. Plus, peeing outside is exhilarating. Have any of your neighbors seen you?

[Alfresco 11,627]

10 hours ago, Misslittlecutie1 said:

I am pretty lucky! I’ve noticed between yesterday and today he pretty much does it every hour or two while outside. I’ve been watching a movie in my room and have heard him out there twice already just to take a piss. It’s too dark to see anything and I surely don’t want him catching me taking a peek, but it is quite a turn on knowing he’s constantly taking a piss right outside my bedroom window. One day I’ll be lucky again to see him in plain view spraying a high arc across his walkway. I won’t be telling him I know though. I don’t want to ruin my perfect view or to embarrass myself or him. 
 

I like how you also do something similar. I completely understand avoiding going inside to then be stuck inside. Plus, peeing outside is exhilarating. Have any of your neighbors seen you?

I am not aware that any of my neighbours have seen me, but I've done it enough times that the chances are high that someone in one of the four houses that have visibility of my garden have seen me at some point.

I totally get why you wouldn't want to let the guy know that you have seen him.  If he was to be embarrassed by that then it could be a problem.   For me, personally, if the lady next door said that she had seen me and that she enjoyed it, then I'd make more of a show for her because I would know that she wasn't going to be offended, whereas at the moment I try to be at least a little discreet so that if she caught me and said something negative I could simply apologise and talk my way out of it.   But that is me as a pee fan.   If the guy next door to you is not a pee fan then he might stop doing it if you mention that you've seen him.   Having said that, if he is peeing there and he knows you have a window on that side, then he can't be that bothered about the possibility of being seen and if you were to give him positive feedback then even if he is not a peefan he would probably take the view that it was all ok and he might enjoy the attention.

This is the problem with a lot of our interest - conversations are difficult because you just don't know what the other party will think or how they will react.

[gregor1 129]

That's awesome situation! when you know it's gone, try to take a photo

[Misslittlecutie1 402]

On 10/31/2024 at 10:21 AM, Alfresco said:

I am not aware that any of my neighbours have seen me, but I've done it enough times that the chances are high that someone in one of the four houses that have visibility of my garden have seen me at some point.

I totally get why you wouldn't want to let the guy know that you have seen him.  If he was to be embarrassed by that then it could be a problem.   For me, personally, if the lady next door said that she had seen me and that she enjoyed it, then I'd make more of a show for her because I would know that she wasn't going to be offended, whereas at the moment I try to be at least a little discreet so that if she caught me and said something negative I could simply apologise and talk my way out of it.   But that is me as a pee fan.   If the guy next door to you is not a pee fan then he might stop doing it if you mention that you've seen him.   Having said that, if he is peeing there and he knows you have a window on that side, then he can't be that bothered about the possibility of being seen and if you were to give him positive feedback then even if he is not a peefan he would probably take the view that it was all ok and he might enjoy the attention.

This is the problem with a lot of our interest - conversations are difficult because you just don't know what the other party will think or how they will react.

It’s funny you say that because we were hanging out last night having quite a few beers because it was Halloween and he told me he had to pee so bad. I just laughed because I didn’t know what to say but then said “I have no suggestions for you” because what I else would I say. Then he replied “next time I’m just going to find someplace dark to pee, I can’t hold it anymore”. The whole convo seemed very nonchalant and innocent but also, like, why tell me? I was thrilled but had to hold back my excitement. I don’t want to ruin a good thing lol! 

[gldenwetgoose 21,485]

I think sometimes our pee kink is our own worst enemy - like it sounds like he was testing the waters, exploring whether you're averse to him peeing or maybe even watching (etc).   And there's all manner of 'ok' answers that essentially  say 'go for it', like you want him to.   "I won't tell if you don't",  "Hey we've all been there - better out than in",  "just go for it - I mean, it's only pee, right?"

But at the same time our fear that we'll say too much and give our secret passion away seems to stop us from saying anything at all.   That's how I feel in those sort of situations at least.

[Alfresco 11,627]

@Misslittlecutie1, Great that you had that little conversation, but I agree with @gldenwetgoose - He may have been asking for your permission to pee without having to go inside.   We always are worried about giving away our interest, but in those circumstances, he might have been finding out whether you were repulsed by the possibility of him peeing outside or whether you were OK with it.   He probably wouldn't even be considering that it might be sexy to you (although he may have).   If you just said "Well it's fine by me" or "Carry on, I don't mind" then he would think it was just a natural response and that you weren't bothered by it.   You could have stretched it to "It's OK for you guys, not so easy for me" and see whether he said something to encourage you to pee outside too!  Whether you would be willing to do so is another matter for you to decide.

If he did then proceed to pee outside after you consented to it, then it would have been interesting to see how much effort he went to in order to be discreet or not.   He may have gone somewhere out of sight or he may have gone somewhere where it looked like he was making an effort, but actually he knew you could take a sneaky look if you wanted to do so.  And if you did take that sneaky look and he noticed, then it might open up another avenue of conversation.

All hypothetical now and often easy to say these things afterwards, but might help you consider your position and be ready to respond if the situation ever arises again.

A similar type of conversation has led to me peeing within view of a female friend of mine when we went kayaking and then her going for a pee outside nearby although just out of sight but openly saying what she was going to do.   I think that might develop to us being even more comfortable peeing near each other.

 

[Misslittlecutie1 402]

On 11/1/2024 at 12:26 PM, Alfresco said:

@Misslittlecutie1, Great that you had that little conversation, but I agree with @gldenwetgoose - He may have been asking for your permission to pee without having to go inside.   We always are worried about giving away our interest, but in those circumstances, he might have been finding out whether you were repulsed by the possibility of him peeing outside or whether you were OK with it.   He probably wouldn't even be considering that it might be sexy to you (although he may have).   If you just said "Well it's fine by me" or "Carry on, I don't mind" then he would think it was just a natural response and that you weren't bothered by it.   You could have stretched it to "It's OK for you guys, not so easy for me" and see whether he said something to encourage you to pee outside too!  Whether you would be willing to do so is another matter for you to decide.

If he did then proceed to pee outside after you consented to it, then it would have been interesting to see how much effort he went to in order to be discreet or not.   He may have gone somewhere out of sight or he may have gone somewhere where it looked like he was making an effort, but actually he knew you could take a sneaky look if you wanted to do so.  And if you did take that sneaky look and he noticed, then it might open up another avenue of conversation.

All hypothetical now and often easy to say these things afterwards, but might help you consider your position and be ready to respond if the situation ever arises again.

A similar type of conversation has led to me peeing within view of a female friend of mine when we went kayaking and then her going for a pee outside nearby although just out of sight but openly saying what she was going to do.   I think that might develop to us being even more comfortable peeing near each other.

 

You seem to be pretty spot on with things. Next time it gets brought up, that is if it ever does again, I’ll be responding with one of those lines. I’d be interested to see what would be said next, 

Tonight as we were hanging out, he then starting using the side yard instead of the back where he had more privacy as we were in the front. I’m beginning to wonder if he just doesn’t care or if he might want me or others to maybe see. 

When I got into bed, I could hear him go back into his back yard again which is in view of my window just to pee but since he didn’t have the yard light on you couldn’t see anything. 
 

This seems to be quite a fun and interesting puzzle, and I’m loving it.

[Misslittlecutie1 402]

On 11/1/2024 at 11:32 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

I think sometimes our pee kink is our own worst enemy - like it sounds like he was testing the waters, exploring whether you're averse to him peeing or maybe even watching (etc).   And there's all manner of 'ok' answers that essentially  say 'go for it', like you want him to.   "I won't tell if you don't",  "Hey we've all been there - better out than in",  "just go for it - I mean, it's only pee, right?"

But at the same time our fear that we'll say too much and give our secret passion away seems to stop us from saying anything at all.   That's how I feel in those sort of situations at least.

You’re probably right. It does seem like he may be testing the waters a little with it all. I wouldn’t mind seeing and hope to again one day. I’m just trying to keep things chill as I don’t want to ruin a good neighbor air another opportunity. 

[WetMart 1,128]

It sounds like he may be seeing how interested you are but better to keep it chilled at the moment I would think and see how it goes 

[gldenwetgoose 21,485]

Just a thought @Misslittlecutie1 - as you'll have gathered, I'm all in favour of 'normalising' pee and also when we talk to non-peefans about pee matters in doing it in a way that gives us 'back out' room if our comments aren't well received.

I don't know if yours is the kind of neighbourhood where neighbours stop and chat to each other if they happen to cross paths.   Like perhaps if you arrive home with groceries or from work and he's doing yardwork at the front or something similar.

If that sort of situation occurs, perhaps you could start the pee conversation in an innocent sort of way:

"... anyway it's been lovely chatting, but if you'll excuse me I really must get on.   I'm absolutely bursting for a wee, haven't been all afternoon.  The bathroom better be free otherwise I swear I'm going to be watering the plants in the yard."

(doesn't matter if you don't need the toilet at that moment - a little white lie won't hurt).

And something maybe along those sort of lines.  You could even be super brave with a "... you know what, I'm not waiting - f*** it.  I'm doing that anyway.  Better out than in, right?"

And look for any reaction - of course he may be trying to play down his interest just as much as you've been doing.   But it does open the door for any future chats, like telling him it's not / wouldn't have been the first time you'd peed outdoors and that you kind of like the freedom of going where you need to - even though society doesn't seem to condone it...

[Misslittlecutie1 402]

On 11/3/2024 at 2:28 AM, gldenwetgoose said:

 

That’s exactly the type of neighborhood it is, and it also sounds like something that could work. One day I’ll work up the nerve to do that, and I’ll let you know how that all goes.  I’m still pretty nervous and not too keen on ruining such a good thing, but I’ll do my best to say something. Maybe one day he’ll accidentally see me taking a pee outside. I’m curious what he’d do. But for now I’ll just have to dream about it.